A new study found that trained sexologists could infer a woman’s history of vaginal orgasm by observing the way she walks. The study is published in the September 2008 issue of The Journal of Sexual Medicine, the official journal of the International Society for Sexual Medicine and the International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health.
Led by Stuart Brody of the University of the West of Scotland in collaboration with colleagues in Belgium, the study involved 16 female Belgian university students. Subjects completed a questionnaire on their sexual behavior and were then videotaped from a distance while walking in a public place. The videotapes were rated by two professors of sexology and two research assistants trained in the functional-sexological approach to sexology, who were not aware of the women’s orgasmic history.
The results showed that the appropriately trained sexologists were able to correctly infer vaginal orgasm through watching the way the women walked over 80 percent of the time. Further analysis revealed that the sum of stride length and vertebral rotation was greater for the vaginally orgasmic women. “This could reflect the free, unblocked energetic flow from the legs through the pelvis to the spine,” the authors note.
There are several plausible explanations for the results shown by this study. One possibility is that a woman’s anatomical features may predispose her to greater or lesser tendency to experience vaginal orgasm. According to Brody, “Blocked pelvic muscles, which might be associated with psychosexual impairments, could both impair vaginal orgasmic response and gait.” In addition, vaginally orgasmic women may feel more confident about their sexuality, which might be reflected in their gait. “Such confidence might also be related to the relationship(s) that a woman has had, given the finding that specifically penile-vaginal orgasm is associated with indices of better relationship quality,” the authors state. Research has linked vaginal orgasm to better mental health.
The study provides some support for assumptions of a link between muscle blocks and sexual function, according to the authors. They conclude that it may lend credibility to the idea of incorporating training in movement, breathing and muscle patterns into the treatment of sexual dysfunction.
“Women with orgasmic dysfunction should be treated in a multi-disciplinary manner” says Irwin Goldstein, Editor-in-Chief of The Journal of Sexual Medicine.”Although small, this study highlights the potential for multiple therapies such as expressive arts therapy incorporating movement and physical therapy focusing on the pelvic floor.”

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Low sex drive in women can be explained by Pavlov’s Classical Conditioning and Skinner’s Operant Conditioning
http://orgasmgirl.blogspot.com/2011/12/low-sex-drive-in-women-can-be-explained.html
you are wrong, female orgasm is as same as male.
this is real model of female orgasm.
A New Female Sexual Response Model
http://orgasmgirl.blogspot.com/2011/11/new-female-sexual-response-model.html
Seems like a lot of people have different ideas about what the female orgasm really is. What I have read is a very technical view of a very passionate subject. However it happens is good. I invite you to my site http://female-orgasmsecrets.com for more information on the orgasm.
The amount of idiocy, misinformation, and just plain lunacy in these comments is mind-blowing. They need to be moderated because they completely destroy the perceived quality of the site.
I have read that men can tell if a women has had orgasms by looking at her top lip. That little track or ditch is the key area. If it has a more defined curve at the bottom then she is more or has had plenty of them. Take A J Putt she is a wild card in many ways.
If a guy only dates a woman because she can have vaginal orgasms (and I can’t believe you’re supposed to be a chick named Geoffrey), then he isn’t worth a woman’s time. I’m with someone who doesn’t care HOW I do anything. He just wants me to be happy and fulfilled. So, no, decent men who care about their lovers won’t prefer anything. And you can’t generalize like that. Some women don’t prefer their vaginal orgasms and prefer clitoral ones. And you can’t say that mine aren’t amazing. Mine can be so good I feel like I will pass out. I’m not calling you a liar. I’m calling you crazy and a total bitch. Get a life. Stop harassing others. You’re probably in some abusive relationship with a tool who will dump you for someone else. Perhaps someone who can have “nipple orgasms” or can orgasm by him just talking to her. Because they’re are women who claim to do that too.
I know this comment was written months ago, but I have to reply. No, not “all men and women know that”. Women can orgasm from their clitoris without any penetration. This is not new information. You just don’t care to accept it. I honestly feel like you and Geoffrey (who says they’re a woman) are on here just to be annoying. I have had probably thousands of orgasms from masturbation while just rubbing the external portion of my clitoris. Don’t believe me? I don’t care. Keep spreading the lies. I wish YOU luck.
I’m at work right now reading this (hope no one finds out lol) and I got up to walk to the trash can and decided to try walking with more of a “vertical rotation”. I may not have done it right since a visual, such as a video, of a woman walking that way would have helped, but I have to say I felt a little something. Maybe doing this will bring more blood/oxygen/energy or whatever to my pelvis and help out. Couldn’t hurt to try. I’m 23 and have only had clitoral orgasms (which despite what some on here say, are real and feel wonderful) and when I experience vaginal penetration with strong gspot pressure and zero external clitoral stimulation, I feel one wave after another. It’s like I involuntarily push out then squeeze down. It’s great! But I don’t think it’s an orgasm and that’s ok. The point is that I love it! I think women shouldn’t worry about how they orgasm. The clitoris is the only thing on a human body that is only for sexual pleasure so why not use it? And don’t worry about it going numb because I have read about women who are scared that using a vibrator or rubbing it will make them lose feeling, but it ends up not happening. Although I will admit that during penetration, my clitoris (the outside portion, anyway) does go temporarily less sensitive along with surrounding areas. I can only assume this is caused by blood being sent elsewhere. Go ahead and attack me and say I’m not a real woman or that I’m missing out by not having real orgasms. I honestly think that those who choose to purposely hurt others are only doing so because they themselves have insecurities. Clitoral orgasms are real and divinely pleasurable. You may say no, but you’re not me and you don’t know what feelings I experience during orgasm. I can tell you they are exquisite. Of course you can claim yours are better, but there is no way to prove it. I don’t care if you don’t believe me. I’m not trying to appease you. Most men (I’m a female and I know men and read about what they have to say) don’t care how a woman orgasms. As long as she enjoys sex, then it doesn’t matter. A lot of guys enjoy giving oral and many women orgasm from that. I even asked on a website what he would do if she couldn’t orgasm at all and about 5 men answered and all said it wasn’t a problem, but they would try to bring her pleasure and help her orgasm if she wanted to learn. So, really, it’s all about the individual. If you enjoy one thing over another, then you do. Don’t push it on other women or claim they are not fully female. And men, please don’t think that you are not good in bed if she doesn’t orgasm the way you want her to (or at all). Don’t pressure her or make her feel bad. Just help her to enjoy sex and ask her what she wants then do your best. You can still enjoy sexual things without having an orgasm. It’s not like that’s the only good thing!
you know what? People do not understand something yet, it does not mean it not exist.
I certainly have enough evidence, but also willing to accept any instrument testing, I come from a totalitarian country, I was looking for help.
I am challenging Barry R. Komisaruk and Beverly Whipple here
Barry and Beverly, Listen, don’t flatter yourselves, you never found the Nobel Prize, if you have Nomination for the Nobel Prize, I will be the first to stand out against it, because you don’t even figure out the essence of the female orgasm. I am not against you, I am against your research, and I really want you know the fact about female orgasm, and don’t waste your any time any longer.
You said you have been witness to more than 200 live- action orgasms in your lab. I doubt how you know they have the orgasm, they told you? You said that the volunteer raises her hand to indicate that she is having an orgasm. You have the machine at your lab, why do you need the volunteer tell you? What about they don’t even know what is the orgasm? What if they fake the orgasm? Why do you need them to tell you? Do you need one man to tell you if he orgasms? The answer is negative. All your research depends on those women who tell you they can orgasm, but who can stand out and tell all people around the world that I can orgasm easily every time I want to? If one woman wants to get orgasm through the dildo, they should dream that in the grave.
You said you believer a woman has the capacity to experience a more intense and complex orgasm than a man. That is bullshit. A woman doesn’t have the more capacity than a man in orgasm, because a woman has the capacity as same as a man neither more nor less. Female orgasm is like shudder of climax like male. After a real orgasm, a woman also has refractory period and her brain releases some hormone what can lead a woman sleepy immediately, so female can’t get multiple orgasms forever.
Sorry for my English, but every word I said is the fact. I can take responsibility for my words.
Clumsygirly, my heart goes out for you, you are a Hermaphrodite, that means, you are neither a woman, nor a man. GET HELP! Women do not have ejaculation systems and do not orgasm throught their so-called clitoris. You have a dick, which means, you are a man. You probably do not have a vagina, that is why you do not have female orgasms.
Females orgasm with their vagina and WOMEN DO NOT HAVE A REFRACTORY PERIOD BUT HAVE MULTIPLE ORGASMS. It happens during intercourse, with their a-spot, g-spot and u-spot.
Go to a doctor and get help.
No need for lunatics to talk about sex.
Women and men have the same ejaculation system and process.
From Freud to Kinsey, and then Shere Hite, people have been trying to unlock the secrets of female orgasm, but always missed the truth, although Shere Hite has been very close to the fact.
Here I make an announcement to the world loudly again, do not struggle the old and wrong views, and the only fact is women and men have the same ejaculation system and process.
Female ejaculation whole process is like this, sex aroused, friction and squeeze the clitoris, shudder of climax (approximately less than 10 seconds), instantaneous release of some kind of hormones from the brain so that female immediately into a refractory period. I know it sounds incredible, and it sounds like a male orgasm, but these are facts. A woman does not have any so-called multiple orgasms, whoever said they had experienced multiple orgasms, what she experiences is not a real orgasm.
If a woman has reached a real orgasm, she would immediately fall into the refractory period, and immediately lose interest in sex, and she can not continue to help a man to get his orgasm. In other words, two orgasms are mutually exclusive, and they cannot occur at the same time.
http://orgasmgirl.blogspot.com/2011/08/women-and-men-have-same-ejaculation.html
i need your attention and help
i am a girl, i can break the mystery of female orgasm, because i really can orgasm every time i want.
I am willing to do any testing to prove that. i write everything on my blog.
http://orgasmgirl.blogspot.com/
Distinguish between orgasm and urination-female incontinence is not orgasm at all
Almost women have the problems about urinary incontinence during sex. “Every time I feel like I want to orgasm, I stop because it feels like I have to pee, I don’t know if I have to pee or if I am really having an orgasm”. It mainly because women don’t even know what a real orgasm is and they can’t even distinguish between orgasm and urination, so they are confused with urinary incontinence and deceived by themselves.
Listen, if you want to urinate, when you are in sex,that is not right. The feeling of urinary incontinence only can illustrate that you get the wrong place to stimulate. This stimulation can’t give you an orgasm; it only can give you urinary incontinence. If you get the right place to stimulate, you will find that you can’t urinate and orgasm at the same time.
One more thing, many women have the feelings of shame and embarrassment after so-called female ejaculation. Why do they have these bad feelings and why do men not have these bad feelings, if both of orgasms are in the same. This problem can’t be explained by current theories so far. Frankly speaking, the answer is the feelings like urinary incontinence that the female experience during so-called orgasm is not a real orgasm. After a real orgasm, women have no time and mood to be shame and embarrassed, and because your brain will immediately release some special hormones to make you sleepy very much, you lose your interest in sex immediately and you can’t get into another sex right now, it called refractory period as same as male.
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Google “The Female Orgasm” and you will find that vaginal and clitoral are both possible and come from the same spot.
girls what is your orgasm record? how many orgasms can you have?
nice comment, only it should have happened when you were 16. It happened to me when I was sleeping with my 5th guy which was my 5th time to sleep with someone.
And why did it happen? Because I wanted it.
It depends on you, girls, if you have vaginal multiorgasms or not!
Don’t get into a relationship before you had one!
Sleep around!
Wish you luck!
G spot is not the most important vaginal erogeneous zone, the A spot and the perineum are more important, but as the G spot is the bladder itself, it is easier to find.
clumsygirl’s name speaks for itself: it is obvious that she had never ever had an orgasm and has no idea what it is.
Women can come by intercourse only, have multiple orgasms and vaginal multiple orgasms last for minutes.
All women and men know it.
clumsygirl, get a little sexual culture. Wish you luck.
History is always going forward,but the women are still living in a lie-G spot. I never never give up, even if no one understands me in the world. I will keep on revealing the mystery of female orgasm, until the truth about the matter has come to light.
http://orgasmgirl.blogspot.com/
Really? I’m 46 years old and for the first time in my life I experienced multiple vaginal orgasms. There is a HUGE difference. My fiancee and I call the vaginal orgasm a “Big girl” orgasm, a woman can rub her clitoris on anything and become stimulated. This takes very little effort. The vaginal orgasm actually creates an ejaculation. The first time I experienced a vaginal orgasm, while we were making love I asked him if he felt it. He said, “Oh my God, yes, it feels like a hot wave”. Because I, too, was curious if the vaginal orgasm existed. He found the G spot. It is very deep in the vagina and he said when he was touching it with the head of his penis it felt spongy. The vaginal orgasm lasts quite awhile compared to clitoral, I might add.
Just speaking from personal experience here.
I am so surprised at all of the negative comments poking fun at each other. If someone, mostly women can’t cum then that means she is not a real woman? And by the way my comment is to the whole group, not necessarily to any individual. I thought people came here for advice from people that may be helpful in some way.
Hi,
I contributed a rather long message to this blog on July 27, 2010, and I have not visited this site until now, mid-december.
I was appalled to see how respectles and near-violent some of the contributions have been, from both female and male participants!
So much intolerance, so much assurance (almost more funny from men than women) about whether either vaginal eller clitoris orgasms exist!
Are insults really necessary?
I miss a moderator who would filter filth out!
Sincerely and keep coming ;+>
Jean-Paul Bardou
Hey, Zoe.. Im a guy and I have a few tips..
(best case scenario) Get to know who you are going to be with.. be comfortable.. make a bond. Make sure there is a connection between you two outside of the bedroom so you can learn to love them, even…and NEVER choose someone you cant ” fuck face-to-face” …
After that… its all about the angle he hits it HAHAHAHA !!! Positions are everything, Im dead serious… I made my GF bust a nut in 30 seconds just to prove it to her.. of course, its got to be on the bigger side for some angles…(Thanks Dad!)
Oh yeah.. if he wont lick it, and lick it RiGHT : he aint a real man !
LMAO !!!
Hey, I love women to death… and I think its awesome that they have a clitoris which only serves the purpose of pleasure… I had a girlfriend for a few years (who I still love very much) and I BLEW THE DOORS off of her sexuality !! She could only get off when a guy went down on her ! That must have sucked !!
Anyways, I always had so much fun just seeing how many times I could take her over the edge.. a lot of the time I never got off, myself.. I was having too much fun !!!
Is that a real man lol ?
I am a male. I have a penus. It is there for procreation therefore I have to respect it!
BUT! For all those Multiple Orgasm fans out there! Yes I’ve had many multiple orgasms! I’ve had it so good that I’ve seen explosions in my eyes and thumps all up and down my spine, tinglings in my fingers and toes. Yes, I’m a male!
To all those other males out there. We have an X and a Y chromosome, so part of us is a female. Therefore, all the hard work we have to put into trying to have a multiple oregasm is equal to that of a female. The answer is love, next after that is empathy and understanding, then after that is letting go! What we get is multiple orgasms for both male and female, you just have to learn how to feel that energy its all in the mind not the penus. like I’ve said already!; I am a male. I have a penus. It is there for procreation therefore I have to respect it!
Oh, wow. Geoffrey here thinks he knows what defines a woman. Let me tell you something: you’re what’s commonly known as a douche bag. You’re so self absorbed and insecure that you can’t actually handle the idea of a woman climaxing from anything other than your cock. You know what a real man is? Someone more grown up than you. You think you know what a real orgasm is? I doubt you’ve ever even experienced one in one of your lovers, with that self absorbed little ego of yours. Get a clue.
Actually, the lack of vaginal orgasm is the lack of sexual culture in a woman. The lack of culture, experience and a sexuality of her own.
The only thing clitoromaniacs are capable of is calling us, women, liars. How dare they? But no matter, how they dare, they just make a fool of themselves.
Men prefer vaginal orgasm- someone wrote. Yes.
So do women. Period.
Talk about jealousy and frigidity, Lois! You obviously don’t know what an orgasm is. Only the vaginal (4 types) can be called orgasms, and they have nothing to do with your pathetic clitoris. Go ahead, Lois, dupe yourself into believing you had an orgasm, but you never did. Men all know that and will always prefer women who come by penetration alone, because only those can be called women. No man will ever stay with you, just use you for what you are: a vessel.
There’s no such thing as a clitoral orgasm. That’s not an orgasm.
Samantha’s right, you must be very boring and probably abandoned for a real woman!
Ha ha ha…wow, what kinda girls have you had in your life. I’m a girl and I’m here to tell you YES girls can cum. I cum everyday with my husband. lol you must be a very boring lover if you girls can’t cum.
what a crock of shit…..there is no such thing as a vaginal orgasm.
the women who say they’ve experienced it are LYING!!!!!!
women can only orgasm through clitoral stimulation.
buncha retards….do the research….it makes sense.
I am from India, married for 29 years, 60 years old. I am telling my true story about sexuality. I had sex with more than 50 girls and women before and after marriage. Out of them I have found only 4 to have the special effect organs(including a prostitute). The G spot organsm is not so pleasurable as compared to the vaginal organism which is possible with women having blessed with a ‘magic box’ in theirf vagina. I have leart from my wife who luckily is one among the 4 that when she has an organs it is from the tip of her toe to the head and before that she feels as if even myself going into her vagina is not enough! That is a real organsm. Now after taking drinks, I can cause upto 3 organsm continuously to her, the first coming a bit late and the following ones coming in shorter periods. When she is excited she hughs me so intensely and moves herself from down (I need not move my dic). Then there is a lot of fluid flow and she is flat. During my young age we used to have only one organs each, but used to have sex many times a week. At sixty even now, we daily have enjoyable sex and she has her way of organs. May be I have practised Yoga for 15 years during my youth, I got the physical and internal strengh. Thank U.
using a vibrator on the clitoris too often damages the nerve endings
Every single word you wrote is true!
Vaginal orgasm equals to womanhood and the lack of it is nothing but ignorance and immaturity.
What a woman feels during masturbation is anything but an orgasm. And yes, A spot is superior to G. But I don’t want to repeat your words: congratulations! We have to take back sex from feminist frigid-makers!
The stupid researchers have it the wrong way around.
Walking or dancing with a long, free stride exercises the muscles that enable the woman to reach orgasm.
If a woman wants to orgasm more easily and more intensely, she just needs to kick off her high heels and stride out regularly.
And get a decent sex toy if your partner lacks talent.
girls tell me your orgasm tips. thanks
Hi,
I searched the net with “Advanced Orgasm”, and I among others stumbled upon this site, and I found this debate very interesting.
It is particularly interesting to see how wide-ranging the “opinions” can be about female orgasm!
I put opinions in quotes because all we have in the end is our own experience, which is none for me, since I am a man!
And yet, luckily enough, I have daily contact with the female orgasmssssss.
I put a lot of ssss after orgasm because I am, again lucky, to get a chance to make love with women (I presently have two girlfriends, who know each other and decide among themselves what our schedule is for their sharing my bed) who have tons of orgasms, so many that we have stopped counting them (last guesstimate was between 50 and 100 in a few hours).
Some of these orgasms, a chosen minority, are beyond the scope of this thread, since they are brought about by other means that intercourse (finger or mouth on clitoris, finger on G-spot, other body parts on clitoris, etc…).
The ones that are produced by intercourse have a variety of among others intensity, and that is by the way the reason for my searching the net for advanced info on the female orgasm: it has become clear for both B, J and myself that now that we have achieved quasi-unlimited quantity, it is time to explore quality a bit more!
It seems to be a matter of drawing it out, not rushing into the pleasure as soon as it indicates that it is beyond the no-return point.
What other factors should be considered, and here I directly ask you women out there who are so lucky as to have the same luxury of freely exploring your pleasure without the all too known usual limitations it encounters through many mens inability to control their dick!
It must be said here that I used to be such a man. In fact, during the first 35 years of my active sex life, intercourse was nemesis for me. I knew that I could not perform long enough, and it was a permanent shame for me. (On the other hand, that was how I learn to give oral sex, so in all bad things there is something good!)
And six years ago, I met a woman who, in the course of a hard 3 years of intense training, cured me from that debilitating ailment.
It was not she was highly qualified about sexuality or techniques, quite to the contrary. Susanne was in fact very humble in her sexuality. The thing that made a difference was that she wanted to be fucked all the time, 100%, with no hesitation. And fucked she got.
In the course of those about three years, I went from being a pathetic premature ejaculator to a man who can control his dick more and more.
Susanne had a very difficult time experiencing orgasm, and although she delighted in feeling my dick inside of her, she could only come by stimulating herself in a very specific position.
The relationship with Susanne went down the drain last year, after 5 years.
That is when I started two relationships, with B and J.
These two women came from relatively ordinary relationships, not too exciting to say the least.
It took them a while to get used to the fact that ejaculation was not a part of my plans for sex.
It seemed to be difficult for them on at leat two accounts:
1. They did not know what “to do for me”!
and moreover
2. They were so used to sex with men where the man’s ejaculation punctuated the end of sex, at a point where they weren’t even close to reaching orgasm.
Neither had had many experiences with multiple orgasms.
B’s experience had been over 20 years with a husband where she considered herself lucky could she achieve one orgasm each time they had sex once a week.
As mentioned above, after 11 months, B’s and J’s sexual landscape has totally changed to an intensely satisfying sex life where orgasms come in unlimited supply.
Because I have learned to totally dedicate my sexuality to theirs, they are in a position to explore what is going on below, as Leonard Cohen writes it in “Halleluyah!”.
Two nights ago with J and last night with B, I have finally been able to find G spots and stimulate them. It was a wonderful experience to be able to experience something I had heard about for such a long time.
Again, my question here is tips on how a woman who is in a position to explore her orgastic potential can deepen her orgasms.
I hope that somebody will respond to this.
If it is ok, I’d like to also be contacted by mail. I am not much of a surfer. jpbjpb2@gmail.com.
Very truly yours,
Jean-Paul Bardou
Sex surveys show that more than 70 % of women frequently orgasm during intercourse (as acknowledged by the leading English sex researchers), and usually a significant minority of 15% or more report orgasming every time they are penetrated. The ones who seldom or never come during coitus are the minority, not the majority, even though the contrary is constantly asserted. The idea that most of these orgasms are derived primarily from clit-rubbing during sex is pretty silly when one considers how renowned most women are for their bashfulness about masturbating in the presence of their man. In the surveys I have seen in which women are more specifically asked whether they experience vaginal orgasms, the majority say yes. This finding is all the more noteworthy considering how much effort has been expended on telling women their vaginas are insensitive and there is no such thing as vaginal orgasm.The g-spot corresponds to the female prostate, not to the internal clitoris, which is stimulated farther down through the introitus. There are 4 other major vaginal hot spots : the wall opposite the g-spot (currently unnamed); the a-spot, generally regarded as superior to the g-spot by those familiar with both; the cervix; and the cul de sac, subject of a Barbara Keesling book in which she stated every woman could experience consistent vaginal orgasm if she was willing to pursue a specified program of exercises. I put a lot more credence in Keesling, one of the best sex experts, than in the anonymous graduate instructor. Feminists messed up sex in the 19th century by spreading the idea that women were unerotic beings whose husbands’ attentions were ungentlemanly ( in order to promote an agenda of smaller family size). Later feminists messed up sex by insisting that women have only one sex organ, the clitoris, rather than two. The data suggests that women in Africa whose culturally benighted mothers amputate their clitorises still manage to orgasm in marriage at a rate comparable to Western women, vaginally, of course. Mindset imposed by culture must bear much of the blame for Western vaginal anorgasmia.
pelvic floor muscles react the same way with any orgasm I’m sure any other women who’ve experienced orgasms would agree!
quote-
“Men only get orgasm in the lower body. WE can (if we practice) get it in our entire body. And remember men (culturally) tend to masterbate at a younger age. We are lucky. We have our little clit to get those similar orgasms. They have to worry about their whole penis.”
Ok upon re-rereading you are female…, but “WE can (if we practice) get it in our entire body.” applies to men as well.
“remember men (culturally) tend to masterbate at a younger age.”
Is wrong as infants both male and female are known to masturbate… it does not lead to ejaculation as that is impossible before puberty, but inants have been observed to stimulate their genitailia as young as 1-3 months, and at around 2-4 years old both girls and boys go through a period of “playing with themselves” it just lasts longer in boys since we have more to play with…
” We are lucky. We have our little clit to get those similar orgasms. They have to worry about their whole penis.”
Really this part means nothing, as from your own words whole body orgasm is better… If you follow the deep breathing techniques, and understand how to stimulate your partner physically, mentally, and spiritually you both can obtain ultimate orgasms… you are right that as a female you have an advantage, because as a male we tend to be done once we ejaculate, altho its a myth that we can’t remain hard or able, its just the “state of mind”
LMFAO! look up Neurosky, its a head set that reads input from brainwaves, while most of the programs only use the meditative and concentration levels the full range of states can be read and obtained, altho its own software is aesthetically censored it can easily give you your readouts, just get 2 goups of women, first group says they dont have orgasms 2nd set says they do then observe brainwaves…
As A man I have to thank you. The g-spot is too easy, as it is easily felt as a rough spot with a finger, but actually before today I didn’t even know there was an A-spot, however trying to look it up comes up with male a-spot.. in the rectum of course, ugh. I know/knew many women prefer doggy-style but your description makes it clear why, as many men have a dick which curves upward whn erect. again thanks.
I like this. But questions do arise.
To begin: Why or how does the article tell women that there is a right or wrong way to achieve orgasm?
From my understanding it is simply saying that women who achieve “vaginal” orgasm, which i know to be one of many and is important to us males, since its where our dicks go, (altho ive known one women who had an oral orgasm… that one hurt) is:
“Further analysis revealed that the sum of stride length and vertebral rotation was greater for the vaginally orgasmic women.”
This is basically what the “sex” experts were able to notice, these come from a greater self confidence as other studies related to confidence have shown. IMHO, this article is simply acknowlodging that women of greater confidence, exhibited by their stride, have a greater tendancy toward orgasm.
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” So men !!!! Please stay out of this one , is great that in the sex your having nothing is missing , so maybe the topic is not for you..”
So Anonymous, I’m already breaking this rule by being a man, but are you really a woman? Cause if you are I truly feel sorry for you. I’m not going to claim that every women I’ve been with has had an orgasm, especially not the first time… but wow, to think just because a man ejaculates he is having a full blown orgasm and “nothing is missing” is just plain ignorant. Most men don’t know they are missing anything, easily I can give you that, but an orgasm is a torrent of pleasure of which the body cannot control its reactions as endorphines are released on a massive scale. Either you don’t want to feel good during sex because you feel or have been taught its dirty, or you have not been able to attain the right “state of mind”, for instance I know many lesbians who talk or claim about inducing orgasm by just talking, no touching involved, and/or recieving the same. As A man I can’t quite relate, I want to touch too much, but I do understand that palcing the woman into a receptive state with words easily can facilitate the goal of getting her to orgasm, in fact im not satisfied and will not come until I know my partner has had at least one real orgasm, whether my coming is a real orgasm or not actually depends upon my own state of mind and whether my partner actually attempts to enhance my own pleasure.
This is probably the best and most intelligent comment I have ever read to an article of this nature. TBH i started this reply thinking you were a women, Abby, but after rereading i realized you weren’t… The name must have just been a refrence to “Dear Abby”, shrug.
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“Men only get orgasm in the lower body. WE can (if we practice) get it in our entire body. And remember men (culturally) tend to masterbate at a younger age. We are lucky. We have our little clit to get those similar orgasms. They have to worry about their whole penis.”
However you still hit upon the core concepts of confidence and trust. When a women has confidence in herself and trust in her partner she will orgasm (and probably have a longer stride to boot). For men this means you need to gain her confidence and trust as a sexual partner. Yes sex is better with love… (it makes confidence and trust easier on both parties, but does not gaurentee it, when it comes to sex), Kundalini is an awesome understanding for both men and women,… mostly due to its deep breathing techniques. Deep breathing, itself, stimulates the pleasure centers of the brain while also allowing better focus, attention span, and living in the moment observation. Its no wonder many religions start with meditative breathing before moving on to more advanced meditative practices.
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“Our current western culture hasn’t an inkling about linking sexual orgasm to Spirit, God-energy, Source or whatever you want to call it.”
Exactly “whatever you want to call it.”, we in the western world need to understand the importance of meditation and its link to a deep understanding of the self. It does not matter your religion for religion is only group of stories or a list of rules to be followed, even if you are an atheist meditation will allow you to at least “know thyself” and give a better understanding of the world around you, which for both men and women will allow oneself to experiance the full range of human experiance… and yes as a man “Full body orgasm” is awesome when it can be obtained, but its actually practice into a state of mind, not just how you cum.
There is no connection with walking for orgasm. It depends on your sex desire and libido. You may try Lovegra for females. You will have wonderful leg shaking orgasm.
10% of women have never had an orgasm
Interested article. Here’s the real secret to getting a great vaginal orgasm….
If you study enough mind body articles this is really nothing knew. That’s it! Quantum physics talks about the observer. These folks are going to add their own perceptions to this study.
Regardless of what conclusion they come up with (forgive me no pun intended) vaginal orgasm for women takes practice. We are just made differently and unfortunately culture plays a role in your own sexual confidence or insecurities.
This may be a stretch for your thinking but if you study esoterics an orgasm is just energy. They you couple that with your experiences, your filters and associations. You label your experience. And your unconscious (Jung) will store the memory.
This is funny study because this is just one more bit of information most people don’t know what to do with. Meaning beautiful Goddess of the world if you want to have a good orgasm go practice. We live in better times. Just find a man (or woman) who will respect where you are at. They can help you achieve whatever sexual goal you set out.
I’ve dating both men and women. And my best orgasm was with someone I loved. And loving communication is key.
If you really believe women get heavy orgasms on porns they don’t (laugh out loud) that’s why it’s call acting.
Men only get orgasm in the lower body. WE can (if we practice) get it in our entire body. And remember men (culturally) tend to masterbate at a younger age. We are lucky. We have our little clit to get those similar orgasms. They have to worry about their whole penis.
If you are wondering about full body, I suggest you begin studying kundalini energy and deep breathing techniques. And esoteric definitions of masculine and feminine energy.
Download the unedited version of “Think and Grow Rich” if will give you a new perspective of why successful people typically have a more active libido.
Our current western culture hasn’t an inkling about linking sexual orgasm to Spirit, God-energy, Source or whatever you want to call it.
Men and women are different but we are the same too. We all want loving sexual experiences. We want to cherished and unfortunately people think great sex = great lover. Actually all my lover’s had a health love for themselve and we had a mutual respect for each other.
Be well. And Goodluck!!!!
some female orgasms only last 3 seconds
Its an interesting study but it reveals very little unfortunately. There are many other ways to study and learn how to achieve orgasm for women.
I don’t see how the “stride” reveals anything at all. I think its more about figuring out the right techniques.
female ejaculation guide
I have never given much thought to how I walk after sex as it varies so much as do the orgasms! All sorts of factors influence my gait and my orgasms. I have read or heard so much about whether there is a vaginal orgasm , a clitoral orgasm, a mixture of both, a nipple orgasm (never experienced one of those but heard about it from a friend) that it becomes confusing as to what the exact truth of the matter is!
Personally as I have experienced a vast variety of orgasms which were affected by all sorts of factors such as mood, the man’s ability to LISTEN to what his partner wants, his skill, the time of the month (hormones), the tempertaure (sunshine and heat appear to make people hornier and therefore also affect their orgasms), what is on a person’s mind, what the person is listening to or hearing, what worries they might have, or not, as the case may be, what they are smelling etc etc…
There are SO many things that have affected me personally, so I can agree with so many people’s very contrasting experiences. So my point is here that EVERYBODY IS DIFFERENT. So everybody perceives their own orgasmic experience from THEIR point of view. Another point I would like to make is that these studies which have been carried out in Scottish and Belgian universities are not taking everything into account and so I believe them to be too superficial.
So to some up : ALL orgasms are real and all orgasms are obviously very different for different people. There is no right or wrong here! There is just a huge variety of different experiences!
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Some woman lose felling in the clitoris, by many resons maybe skin , childhood, rape, or in just in the jeans . Gods work is a mistery sometimes .. N e ways for thoughs women that really can NOt have an orgasum and they never will . All the DR. is suggesting is hipnotis To play with a womans mind , To take them The closest they eill ever get ti The amaizing feeling of an orgasum . Tricking The Body with The mind . So men !!!! Please stay out of this one , is great that in the sex your having nothing is missing , so maybe the topic is not for you..
For all the women that say it is impossible to have a vaginal orgasm you may be telling the truth for yourself if a women doesnt want something and doesnt want it to feel good i promise you it wont. However if your open minded and you have both a healthy body and mind it is possible it might not always work but it can at least happen. My proof for all of this is tantra/hypnotisim/
Also because i know for many women it is hard and you get this peeing feeling that actually means your doing it right and that having a vaginal orgasm is possible with no clitoral stimulation.
I feel sorry for you!!
How on earth could a sensible person who spent years at school come to give such crap. Am a man and my wife does come in all ways. Some one must be a failure somewher and would like to setlle score with the great sex others enjoy.
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In response to the morons who cite “hyperbolic” femininism that supposedly claimed that women cannot have vaginal orgasms, I suggest you get your facts right. I am a graduate instructor of women’s sexuality.
Freud’s frigidigy has long been used to constrain female sexuality and this article is but a recent recurrence in a long line of attempts to tell women that there is a right and wrong way to acheive an orgasm. We should not have to fit our anatomies into an A OR B box. Vaginal orgasms please most men more because they derive their pleasure from vaginal penetration but 50-75 percent of women cannot acheive orgasm from vaginal penetration alone.
Feminists have NOT taught that NO women can acheive vaginal orgasm, but we have illuminated the fact NOT all women can and there is nothing wrong with clitorial orgasms, vaginal orgasms, or what most women actually prefer, the combination orgasm.
And for you women who using your personal experience of a vaginal orgasm to deny the history of women who anatomically cannot acheive a vaginal orgasm being marginalized and oppressed, you seriously need to rethink your stance. We did infibulations in this country until the 70′s to “cure” frigidity but no one wants to talk about or hear about that.
And as for the article above, it simply reeks of sexual repression. It is not women’s anatomies that are at fault. There is nothing psychosexually wrong with sexual variation in the way women’s bodies are formed sexually. Men need to adapt their sexual styles to adapt to a variety of of anatomical differences in women. Not all women get off in the same way. We never have.
hi all.
i just wanted to add my bit to help any women out there who just want to have an orgasm!
i never used to have orgasms and i also was bad at “holding on” when i needed to urinate.. so at home i would drink a few glasses of water and REALLY practice holding on and held and held till i basically… almost wet myself.. but didnt haha. anyway after doing this for a week i noticed that once i had learnt to hold on a few more minutes than normal -i started orgasming when i masturbated (via clitoral stimulation). wow. i could never do that before! it was as thought the very same muscles.. which i suppose are the KEGEL muscles .. needed to be exercised. i would like to note however that you really have to activate the deep deep internal kegels.. i found this very VERY hard to do at first.. but persisted and was definitely rewarded
Also i would like to add that i found it much much easier to orgasm when i relaxed my pelvis and legs and tried to just focus on the enjoyment and forget the task of orgasming…
hope this helps u girls out there! please give it a try
You tell them, girl!
Vaginal orgasm does exist, and yes, G and A spot orgasms are different. An A spot orgasm can last for minutes. For a woman, like I am, orgasm and intercourse are sinonyms. As for millions of women.
It is just sour grapes for those who try to deny it. Who deny it are either worthless, impotent men who cannot make a woman come during sex, or frigid, immature feminists who had at most 2 partners as immature as they were.
Clitoris is an overestimated thing, grown up women don’t pay attention to them. They just cum during intercourse, without forplay. And real men know it.
If you have a penis and never experienced a woman’s vaginal orgasm while being in her, you have never been with a woman, just with a whore.
Hynotic Sour grapes! You’re miserable. I’ll continue to have sex and have several vaginal orgasms every time I do it, as long as I live.
You’re not. Most women( if not all) don’t have vaginal orgasms. They all lie, and they will do this forever. Most women(if not all) can have clitoral orgasms. That is easy, and done best by the woman herself. Men just can’t handle these facts, and will never be able to.
Good luck.
I had read several accounts on the internet today stating a vaginal orgasm is a myth!!. I cannot believe this is up for debate. I can tell you from countless personal experiences it is real. I first had one at 28 years old. It started when one day out of the blue i felt a strong tingle inside my vagina on the right side. I begged my boyfriend at the time for sex to relieve the tingle. When I had my first vaginal orgasm MY GOD THERE IS A GOD. I did not want a clitoral one for a while. I wanted to enjoy my vaginal discovery over and over again. Your uterus contracts and strong tingles like one thousand butterflies are fluttering around on that special spot inside your vagina so so satisfying. For me it’s more than a spot its more like a zone that is about four inches in length. It was not always that long I think at first it was a spot but the more you stimulate and learn how to pleasure it , it expands. I can easily locate it with my finger and it is very sensitive. It extends to the opening of my Vagina so that if the vaginal entrance is rubbed i can orgasm too. Contractions were in my back and down my legs. Those who say vaginal orgasams are not real, are either men that are jealous of a woman’s sexuaity or a woman that has never had one.
I have had combination clit and vag orgasms, strictly vag orgasms and of course strictly clit orgasms. There are also different types of vaginal orgasms. Like the “A” spot orgasm which I discovered at about 30. My God it is FANTASTIC it is located more towards the middle back vaginal wall deep inside–at least for me. A vaginal orgasm is different different different. There is no guessing if you have had one or not. Just lke you know when you have had a clit orgasm well with a vaginal one you know 10X more intensely. As far as the walk that may be true when I get really aroused my g-spot tingles for several days the tingle builds up and travels down my leg and radiates around my back and I feel pulsating in my anus as well. It feels like all these electric shocks are connected in my body. Please ladies discovery your sexuality it is very very empowering and dwarfs that of a man’s
How do you explain the fact that I’m a woman and have had one then?
Note that the participants were asked *first* to fill in a survey on their orgasmic history, following which they were asked to exhibit their walk for the researchers. It can’t be ruled out that the survey boosted the confidence of women who had experienced vaginal orgasm, making them feel more ‘authentically feminine’, and in turn giving their walk a bit of a feminine strut.
Hence, in any decent study, half the participants would have completed the procedure in reverse order.
What about an instrument to measure female orgasms?
Harry
http://www.1stop4femaleorgasms.com/blog
pelvic floor muscles react the same way with any orgasm
I’m sure any other women who’ve experienced orgasms would agree!
Anyone who genuinely believes that there is anything remotely “scientific” about this study, or that it has any place in the realms of science clearly has no idea about the basics of empirical scientific research. I suggest that those of you who believe that this “study” is valid consider going back to GCSE science, because this “research” fails at the most basic of levels.
I’ve never read such a ridiculous article in my life.
A study with 16 participants? How totally unprofessional to spout such nonesense based on 16 people.
As for the guy who “serviced 30 women last year” – women are people you know, not cars.
Yes, hello–
I am a highly regarded scientist from East Angola. My all-women group of scientific cohorts is currently performing a similar experiment. We are videotaping university men, chosen on the basis of broadness in chest, musculature in arms, and high ratings in the attractivity scale of hirsuit growth patterns (for these three traits correspond strongly with testosterone levels). We record these subjects acting in various authoritative roles in public spaces, with according uniforms/resources given them for the purpose of the study.
We are trying to determine if there is, indeed, a correlation between authoritative self-esteem and complete loss of perception as to the scope of reality/ their own fallibility/totally ridiculous and self-serving ideas masked as scientific pusuits. In other words, is it an anomoly or actually quite often that a white lab coat equals “watching girls go walking by”, as Mick Jagger sings, turning into mind-boggingly ridiculous “scientific” discoveries?
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And thank you in advance for your wish to increase woman kind’s knowledge of these important matters!
Walking style has a great geographical, social and religious variability. Authors should know that there are many societies in the world where girl children are being trained for the ‘walking etiquette’. A specific design of costume is also a causal factor which can alter the walking style. Moreover, a mathematics student is not necessarily walk in the same manner as the fashion art student.
Kailash Manda
Please, shut up. Your stupid spouting contradicts years and years of scientific study.
I have both and yes, there are such things as vaginal orgasms. And they are really good.
Errr… you guys don’t seriously believe this do you? I assure you: there is no such thing as a vaginal orgasm. There is however such a thing as the clitoral tissue deeper inside (call it the g-spot if you like) being stimulated enough to climax. There is in fact also such a thing as feeling an orgasm both around the g-spot as clitoris when both areas are stimulated – combined orgasm. But at the end of the day, no matter where you feel it, it’s all the same thing. In essense clitoral, so to speak. I can’t believe people are still so ignorant. By the way, purely “clitoral” orgasms are more intense, most women will agree on that one.
you are too funny…
So we can see the “orgasmic gait”?
I’ve also noticed that frigid women are that way for a reason. They don’t have vaginal orgasms and they probably don’t have clitoral ones as well.
Does any one know of a cheap device that can show “orgasmic brainwaves”. I’m learning to give women orgasms by hypnosis and what to prove that I’m actually giving them orgasms.
Harry Mete
Upon reflecting I do believe that to be true. After servicing more than 30 women last year and having observed their gait before and after copulation, I do believe there is some truth to this study. However on occassion, some of the women I serviced could barely walk and for some this condition lasted more than a week. But I attribute that to vigorous and violent penetration lasting for a substantial amount of time. Interesting observation though.
Vaginal orgasm is very real. spare me the feminist hyperbole.
where are the tapes?
It is not a scientific study, by opportunist sexologists! Vaginal orgasm and G-spot don’t exist: Sexologists should spread certainties for all women not hypotheses without scientific bases and it is possible stimulate the clitoris during the vaginal intercourse with fingers always (also during first time). See video in it.youtube.com/ newsexology
Sounds more like gait is an indicator of confidence, which is obviously going to be more strongly associated with orgasm experience. And doesn’t that logically make the most sense?!
The obsevation that there is a relationship between a womans vaginal orgasmic ability and her walk is not too surprising.
The importance of pelvic muscle development and female orgasmic ability has been demonstrated numerous times ever since Dr. Kegel first recognized it.
Pelvic muscle strength and training has a direct effect on a woman’s posture and back health. Good pelvic muscle strength would naturally effect how a woman carries herself as she walks.
A chiropracter friend of mine routinely prescribes pelvic muscle strengthening for his female patients to address their chronic back pain. He tells me for those women who follow his recommendations not only improve their back posture and eliminate back pain, they also report improved sexual enjoyment. Not a surprize.
One woman openly shared how she went from barely tolerating sex for the sake of her marriage to developing the ability to spontaneously vaginally orgasm at will through the development of her pelvic muscles and changes in her diet. She then enjoyed sex so much her husband had to ask her for breaks as the daily sex and her desire for mutliple orgasms was too much for him keep up with.
David Christian Solomon
http://www.EasyOrgasmDiet.com
I’ve seen it plenty of times: single woman isn’t getting any for a while, she gets lucky one night, comes into work the next morning, and someone will inevitably say “well someone got lucky last night! I can tell by the way you walk!”
I think vaginal orgasm may loosen up the muscles in the pelvic region, leading to a more “feminine walk”. I’m a male, but similarly, I know that after an orgasm, I definitely have more “spring in my step”.
As a woman who can orgasm regularly and easily, I have to say that orgasming makes all the muscles in the pelvis loosen, and you certainly feel much more confident and sexy having regular orgasm, so a more confident and ‘sexual’ stride makes some sense. However, I find it hard to believe that this is measurable, not to mention the fact that a ‘sexy’ walk can easily be adopted, without the orgasm.
That is the current number of reads for this article. The previous and next article have 957 and 361 respectively.
It’s just interesting to know that, even in geek circles, sex sells.
Now, excuse me while I study how to figure out a womans sexual experience by watching her walk.
This info is picked from Times of India newspaper
Interesting. The study found not only a relationship between gait and vaginal orgasms but it also happens that the ‘orgasm gait’ is the kind of gait that expresses sexual confidence.
I assume that in this study a gait that expresses sexual confidence means walking in a stereotypical female fashion. I somehow suspect, that women who walk in a way that is very stereotypical female might also tend to feel that it would be inept for a women to not have vaginal orgasms – and hence might be slightly more likely to misrepresent their sexual history when completing a questionnaire.
What I am trying to say, is that I think the study found that women who walk in a more sexy way are also more likely to say they have vaginal orgasms.
Actually, the article says orgasmic history, not ability to have vaginal orgasms.
This implies they can determine if the woman have actually had vaginal orgasms by watching them walk.
Does this mean that the first vaginal orgasm permanetly changes a woman walk?
Apart from that i’d think that a sample size of 16 is rather small to state that there is a causal relationship. But if sexology experts can infer the ability to experience vaginal orgasms with an 80% accuracy i’m not surprised that there is a correlation with some external factor such as gait.
of course the scotts and belgiums are doing this study…
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