I am 54 and finding a man 73 years old to be very kind, caring and showing loving affection that I have craved all my life. Everyone says we are crazy and we have no future financially, and the evidence indicates that. Fulfillment in life can come in other ways than success. Happiness certainly does not come from $$$...you can't eat it, touch it, feel that it loves you. That is what I get from this man. We both are giving up what others work a lifetime for. Security. Perhaps we can make it somehow.