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I want to start by saying the girl on the left of the 'Maxim' Magazine cover is beautiful, and I can't imagine her even in the mildest to fall for any other guy, but myself or the kind of male in my league (any of which I apparently haven't come across yet, to the best of my knowledge). Yup, you know it - get an idea; with a great appearance comes the full package of Calibre. And I'm only posting here because of her.

In all honesty, we should really discuss a topic like this given we're (at least) around 21 years old, and for folks that are (at least) 21. That is because every thing that happens in the ages less were pretty much folly, solely because we were gaining awareness of ourselves for where we stand with the others. Myself, included.

... No disrespect to anybody, but I don't find a lot of women that are called 'beautiful' beautiful. Pretty works, but not beautiful. *That* girl on the left *is* pretty much beautiful, but the one on the right looks like a dumb bimbo with a less body - even though many of us call her beautiful, too. It's in the eyes, and the eyes really hold someone's calibre - that is linked with the rest of the body, because the better the body, over time the 'knowledge' is in the eyes. Whether you like to accept it, or not, in 'real' cases, people put themselves first, and the rule will always go in that the good looking girl will fall for the good looking guy, and anyone 'less' will fall for someone in their league. I am yet to come across a girl, or guy who is with a partner out of their attractiveness. You also ought to note that a lot of girls wear make-up, and a lot of guys go to the gym - those can greatly affect one's attractiveness to a degree, but hardly sufficient self-confidence. I've seen it.

People also like to get a rise out of others for unknown reasons. So what appears to be flirtatious behavior may be something else. Some people are actually really 'living' life, and wouldn't mind messing with people - making it come out as attraction, or anything. Beautiful people DO hold an advantage with their way through life in that their beauty grants them 'perks' with people that they consider 'less', and they themselves really want to make something out of their lives just like everybody else. I (myself) worked hard, and well through pre-school, school, high school and university. Nowadays, I'm passing time, afford to be lazy (now) and holding up my pedestal because (apparently) I am that ideal man with 'the' life. I get to choose any girl I please when I am to get married in around year or 2, and the best way to avoid attention from 'any' girl is to stay in hiding, although I am sure the one I'll be with is 'that' beautiful desirable girl because little worked with the dozen in my past, and effectively, where I couldn't pay much interest with them, the frustration of even falling for 'less' girls is what I would never repeat. I made it up by changing MY ways, permanently, altogether.

So basically, given my own ways around the 'charade', I would consider the same mindset for any girl, too, particularly the beautiful one. What beautiful girl would even risk being stagnant for some average guy, any way?

You also got to note that beauty on a beautiful girl (or, person) is NO coincidence - it's normally a sign of a lot of potential, and a good future.