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Men in their 50s have more satisfying sex lives than men in their 30s

Men in their fifties are more satisfied with their sex lives than men in their thirties and forties, recording similar levels to 20-29 year-olds, according to a survey published in the February issue of BJU International.

A team of experts from Norway and the USA surveyed 1,185 men aged between 20 and 79, asking them about various aspects of their sex life, including drive, erections and ejaculation.

They found that although there was a strong relationship between a man's advancing age and his declining sex drive and ability to have an erection and ejaculate, there wasn't such a strong link between age and overall sexual satisfaction.

The men who responded to the Norwegian postal questionnaire were asked to rate their satisfaction with various aspects of their sex life on a scale of zero to four, with four representing good sexual function and no problems. Men in their twenties recorded an average overall satisfaction level of 2.79 and the second highest level was among fifty-somethings who recorded an average of 2.77. Men in their 30s only reached 2.55 and men in their forties averaged 2.72.

After the age of 59, overall satisfaction fell significantly to 2.46 for men in their sixties and 2.14 for men in their seventies.

However when it came to sexual function, each of the scores moved steadily downwards toward zero as the respondents got older, indicating lower levels of function and more problems:

* The average score for sexual drive was 2.19 out of four, ranging from 2.79 for men in the twenties to 1.54 for men in their seventies.

* Satisfaction with erections averaged 2.83, dropping sharply once men reached their fifties. Men in their twenties scored 3.63, men in their fifties 3.03 and men in their seventies 1.60.

* Ejaculation averaged 3.28 and showed a more measured decline with age, falling more sharply for men in their sixties and seventies. Men in their twenties averaged 3.85 while men in their seventies averaged 2.32.

Other findings included:

* 86 per cent of the men surveyed were married or in a sexual relationship and 57 per cent had been sexually active in the last 30 days. Six per cent had had a new sexual partner in the last six months.

* 25 per cent were on medication for high blood pressure, five per cent for diabetes, six per cent for anxiety/depression and five per cent for erectile dysfunction.

* Respondents were representative of the Norwegian male population in terms of marital status and education level.

"The survey was carried out using a questionnaire first developed and tested in American in 1995" says co-author Professor Sophie D Fossa from the Rikshospitalet-Radiumhospitalet Trust in Oslo, who carried out the research with colleagues from the University of Oslo, the University of Bergen and Harvard Medical School in the USA.

"The results showed a very strong correlation between men getting older and reduced sexual functioning, but not between age and sexual satisfaction" she points out.

"Age accounted for a 22 per cent variance in sexual drive, a 33 per cent variance in erection issues and a 23 per cent variance in ejaculation issues.

"But age only accounted for a variance of three per cent in overall satisfaction.

"Our results show that although men experience more problems and less sexual function as they get older, it doesn't necessarily follow that they are less satisfied with their sex lives as a result."

Source Blackwell Publishing Ltd.


February 20, 2006

Comments

What to do to make him want sex more

November 23, 2009 by Anonymous, 2 days 10 hours ago
Comment: 46456

You may need another boyfriend. When people decide to give up sex, they aren't thinking of their partner, they're thinking of themselves (personal issues). Trust me, fixing other people doesn't work. Move on.

New experience for Me

November 1, 2009 by Anonymous, 3 weeks 3 days ago
Comment: 45907

Im now talking to a man who just turned 50. He doesnt look, his body is in good shape and his energy level is high!! Ok this is exciting!! Im just afraid I dont know what to do since Ive never been sexually involve with someone in their 50's. Should I expect anything different with foreplay, kissing( do men in their 50's love tongue kissing?), how long should I expect it too last or does it just depend on the stamina of my mate?

Mark P

October 29, 2009 by Anonymous, 3 weeks 6 days ago
Comment: 45855

For all of those who think Male performance Products are just for older guys, please read.

Unfortunately there are prescription drugs out there that say "may cause sexual side effects." I took one of these prescrption drugs and now that has ruined my ability to do the deed without assistance. It sucks that this happens, but not being able to get it up is not the fault of the person nor does it make them less of a man. Many times its because of physiological problems or medical reasons.

I started taking the Dr Max Powers HGH Spray and it had allowed me to carry on a somewhat normal sexual life. It seems to be a very natural way to boost male sex drive and erections without harmful side effects.

My point is people: Go the more natural alternative way like the Dr Max HGH Spray. I sure wish I found it sooner that the prescription stuff I took.

I highly recommend it. Thank you

Fifty Rocks

March 15, 2009 by Anonymous, 36 weeks 3 days ago
Comment: 35349

I am in my fifties and I need sex all the time.My wife has moderate sex life and she rocks when she is willing but the frequency is a bit less. Sex in late age rocks since you become an expert in style, pose, and a lot more. In twenties you may have a rocerection but that last for few minutes. In fifties you may have a painless erection and that lasts for even an hour!!

As a mid-60s dude, I'll say

March 12, 2009 by Anonymous, 36 weeks 6 days ago
Comment: 35304

As a mid-60s dude, I'll say this: I can jump as high as I ever did, I just can't hang as long. Sex is better to me and I have a woman 20 years my junior who would tell you she's never had any better either. Course, I'm a natural born stud, which makes a lot of difference.

Men in there mid 50's

June 27, 2008 by Anonymous, 1 year 21 weeks ago
Comment: 30844

I am 46 year old female and love to have sex all the time ,but my boyfriend is 56 and don't like to have sex. What to do to make him want sex more ?

during sex

March 25, 2008 by Anonymous, 1 year 35 weeks ago
Comment: 28306

Dear,

I am enjoying sex with wife, but my seman come out very fast then my wife. My age 38 yrs. My wife age 28 yrs. Sir I like to know about it, why it happen to me. If you have any suggestion than let me know. If you have medicine than also I like to know about it.

Thanking you.

Sexual Satisfaction

February 22, 2006 by blueashborybass-player@yahoo.com (not verified), 3 years 39 weeks ago
Comment: 1464

I agree with the survey- real life, age, and health all play a big factor in sexual performance, but with my caring partner sexual satisfaction is better than ever for me at 51. She is soon to be 28 and isn't the least bit dissatisfied with our sex life. By 51 you learn lots of different ways to give your partner satisfaction, and you know what they say about which is a person's largest sex organ... it's easy to get excited when you have a partner who stimulates your brain along with the other sex organs and makes things fun.

As a mid-60s dude, I'll say

February 21, 2006 by hornyolddude@horndog.com (not verified), 3 years 39 weeks ago
Comment: 1463

As a mid-60s dude, I'll say this: I can jump as high as I ever did, I just can't hang as long. Sex is better to me and I have a woman 20 years my junior who would tell you she's never had any better either. Course, I'm a natural born stud, which makes a lot of difference.

Question not covered

February 21, 2006 by watersailor44@AOL.COM (not verified), 3 years 39 weeks ago
Comment: 1462

Did the survery query the respondents to the age(s) of their sexual partners? Did an older man with a younger woman have a more satisying sexual experience, vs, a sexual partner the same age or older?

Duh

February 20, 2006 by dwpittelli@rcn.com (not verified), 3 years 39 weeks ago
Comment: 1459

As a sort of reductio ad absurdem to this study, why not look a bit farther?

Men in their twenties have more sexual pleasure than anybody else, but are not "satisfied" because they aren't bagging three different women per weekend.

Men in their 80s are lucky to get it up monthly; they're "satisfied" because they can get more action than they want or need.

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