One in 50 teenagers still wet the bed


May 17, 2006
Blog Entry, Health

One in 50 teenagers still wet the bed and almost half of 19 year-olds who have the problem are wetting the bed every night, according to research published in the May issue of the urology journal BJUI International.

Professor Chung K Yeung from the Chinese University of Hong Kong teamed up with colleagues from the Prince of Wales Hospital to analyse the results of more than 16,500 questionnaires surveying children aged from five to 19.

He hopes that his findings will reassure parents of children with mild bed wetting problems, but stress the importance of seeking advice in severe cases, which can often be caused by underlying medical problems and continue into adulthood.

512 children – just over three per cent of those surveyed – reported night-time bedwetting and one in five of those also had daytime incontinence. 302 were boys and 210 were girls.

The researchers found that although bed wetting was less common as children got older, the percentage reporting severe problems increased with age.

Children and adolescents who wet the bed at night also showed a similar pattern when it came to daytime incontinence, with a higher percentage of problems reported in older age groups.

When the researchers looked in detail at the 512 children with bed wetting problems they found that:

* Mild bed wetting was much worse among younger children, with 58 per cent of five to ten year-olds and 18 per cent of 11-19 year-olds wetting the bed less than three times a week.

* But older children reported a higher level of severe problems, with 82 per cent of 11-19 year-olds wetting the bed more than three times a week, compared with 42 per cent of five to ten year-olds.

* Just over 16 per cent of five year-olds wet the bed, with boys (21 per cent) having almost twice as many problems as girls (11 per cent).

* By the age of 19, three per cent of boys and two per cent of girls were still wetting the bed.

* Just under a third of 11-19 year-old boys (32 per cent) also experienced daytime incontinence, almost double the 15 per cent recorded in the under ten age group.

* The figures for girls were lower but showed a similar trend, at 25.5 per cent for 11-19 year-olds and 12 per cent for girls under ten.

* Overall, 29 per cent of children aged 11-19 experienced daytime incontinence, compared with 14 cent of under tens.

“Bed wetting showed a general reduction as children got older” says Professor Yeung, who is also President of the International Children’s Continence Society. “However, this reduction was much greater in those with mild symptoms who wet the bed three or less times a week, compared to those with severe problems who were wetting the bed every night.

“Just over 14 per cent of five year-olds who wet the bed did so seven nights a week. By the age of 19, severe bed wetting accounted for over 48 per cent of teenagers who were still wetting the bed.”

21,000 questionnaires were distributed to 67 schools, with a greater emphasis on children over ten, and just under 79 per cent were returned by parents and children.

The average age of respondents was just under 14 and the largest number of responses were from teenagers aged 16-18. 24 per cent of the questionnaires concerned children under ten.

“Our findings challenge the myth that bedwetting will always get better and disappear as the child gets older” says Professor Yeung.

“In 2004 we published findings of a previous study in BJU International that showed that adults showed no significant decrease in bed wetting problems from the age of 10 to 40.

“These latest findings underline the importance of seeking help for children with severe bed wetting problems, especially if they continue into adolescence. If these individuals are left untreated, the evidence suggests that they will continue to experience ongoing problems when they become adults.”

From Blackwell Publishing


One in 50 teenagers still wet the bed

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635 Responses to One in 50 teenagers still wet the bed

  1. Kirby March 9, 2014 at 2:50 am #

    Ok, I’m Kirby and I’m 14, I haven’t wet the bed for five years until last night. I don’t know why, but I’ve never had the urge to do that while I was asleep. Thing is, I stayed at my grandparents house. Ive almost wet the bed two night before tonight. I used to wet the bed every other night when I was a kid, and now this is scaring me. Once I do it once, I can’t stop for weeks. Help?

  2. JoyLynn February 28, 2014 at 5:37 am #

    hi,i am 14 and a bedwetter also and i too wear a thick cloth diaper snd plastic pants[rubberpants]to bed at night.i was a flower girl in my neices wedding last october and mom made me wear one of my diapers and rubberpants under my white dress for the whole time.she even put them on me in the dressing room in front of my neice and all the othe girls there.I felt embarrassed walking down the aisle with the diaper and rubberpants under my dress.

  3. AnnaBeth January 4, 2014 at 1:54 pm #

    Hello. Im anna im 17 and have been wetting the bed everynight since I was 15 I also wet sometimes during the day.. my mother keeps me in disposable diapers and plastic pants 24/7 even at school.. what do I do?

  4. paige D. October 3, 2013 at 7:16 am #

    Help! I am 15 and a bedwetter and my parents just switched me from disposable diapers at night to cloth diapers and rubber pants(plastic pants) and i dont like them.the diapers are pinned on me with baby diaper pins and the rubber pants are both pastel and baby prints!i feel like a baby at bedtime with them on and the worst part is the rubber pants are adult size and fit me baggy and crinkle under my night gown.mom uses baby powder and baby lotion on me when she puts them on me at bedtime and i smell just like a baby also.what can i do?

  5. leanne November 4, 2012 at 8:24 am #

    hi tina,i am 16 and a bedwetter also and i wear a thick cloth diaper and plastic pants to bed also.my mom bought me all baby print plastic pants to wear over my diaper.i have 2 dozen pairs and they all are babyprint and i dont mind wearing them.i have some that are really cute and very babyish,as long as they work and keep my bed dry,thats all that counts.

  6. tina October 2, 2012 at 8:25 am #

    I am a girl 15 and a bedwetter.i wear a thick cloth diaper and adult plastic pants to bed every night.i have at least 3 dozen pairs of plastic pants in pastel colors and my mom just ordered some new ones for me to replace the ones that are wearing out.she ordered some with baby prints on them,telling me that ‘as long as you have to wear a diaper and rubber pants to bed you may as well look cute’.i told her i dont want the baby print kind but she al ready ordered them.should i wear them or not?

  7. Babs4827 September 19, 2012 at 1:56 pm #

    I’m sorry you all are experiencing this horrible problem. My 19 yr old son still wets the bed. Since he now works We are going to purchase the bedwetting alarm in hopes that this will retrain his brain to wake up at night when he starts wetting. we both have our fingers crossed that this will work. As his parent I know this has been very embarrassing for him, I bought him goodnights up until 16 when they no longer fit, I started buying him the “small” of the adult diapers. they are not plastic and they look like underwear. He still puts on his own underwear over them for more support and no leaks.

  8. kaitlyn September 4, 2012 at 7:15 am #

    I need help! i am 16 and a bedwetter like the rest of the people here.i wear a cloth diaper and plastic pants to bed every night. i am being confirmed on sept.23 and have to wear a white formal dress with a veil,gloves,tights and shoes.my mom told me i am going to wear one of my bedwetting diapers and plastic pants under my tights and is adamant about it.i told her no,but she said i have to. what can i do?

  9. kayla August 1, 2012 at 10:42 am #

    hi,megan,i know how you feel!i am 16 and a bedwetter also and i have to wear cloth diaper and rubber pants to bed every night also.my parents require them for me also.the rubberpants crinkle when i walk and its embarrassing!

  10. megan June 5, 2012 at 3:24 am #

    i am a 16 year old girl and a bedwetter and i have to wear a thick cloth diaper and rubberpants[plastic pants] to bed every night.my diaper is pinned on me with diaper pins.my parents told me that cloth diapers and rubberpants are more appropriate for girls than boys and they wont buy me disposables.i know of three other girls my age in this same situation.why do parents feel this way?

  11. nickf May 14, 2012 at 4:05 pm #

    umm….do you guys have the same dream.You know you are wetting,but a beach scene :))

  12. nickf May 14, 2012 at 3:56 pm #

    Just one of those things :) Every now and then I ‘wet’ :) I am a guy and it is sort of embassing

  13. nickf May 14, 2012 at 3:52 pm #

    I wet the bed,you are not alone :) i am a guy.It is o.k. just one of things :)

  14. nickf May 14, 2012 at 3:07 pm #

    I still wake up ‘wet’.I don’t like it,but you are not alone :)

  15. nickf May 14, 2012 at 3:03 pm #

    You are not alone :) I wet every now and then.

  16. Mom of 3 wetters March 13, 2012 at 9:12 pm #

    Being a mom of bedwetters, I have some thoughts on night diapers and protection that might be of help to you. First we use cloth diapers and plastic pants because using disposables would be cost prohibative with 3 bedwetters. As the child gets older and becomes uncomfortable with parents putting the diapers on you can do a couple of things. 1st have the child position themselves on the diaper and pull it between the legs and then call you and you can go into the room and pin the diapers. 2nd you can fold the diapers together and leave them on the bed, the child can place the diapers inside of their underwear, pull the plastic pants on over and put on their pj’s or nightgown. They can then show you that the plastic pants are completely covering the diapers. Our oldest 2 do this, Our youngest does this most of the time except when she is to tired and then she wants me to do it all. In the warm weather all 3 sleep in just their diapers and plastic pants. It’s up to the parents to set the mood for how bedwetting is to be handled, but no matter how it is handled everyone should be comfortble.

  17. jim February 26, 2012 at 10:43 am #

    i have ben wearing biapers for 22 years now from a car ax .i have no problems with people knowing i have to be diaperd 24/7 no ones ever sead a thing about being able to see that im diaperd i go about life .more people then you think are diaperd so please dont think your alone.i wel chat with anyone about this if you need someone to talt to about bedwetting or weaeing diapers

  18. lainey February 9, 2012 at 7:08 am #

    Hi,i am 16 and a bedwetter for the past two years.my bedwetting is due to weakend bladder muscles from depression i seffered two years ago from the loss of my dad due to a heart attack.I am not afraid to admit that i wear a thick cloth diaper and plastic pants[aka rubberpants] to bed every night.they work for me and keep my bed dry.i tried the disposables and they leaked and gave me rashes.Some people think wearing a cloth diaper and rubberpants for bedwetting is to baby like,but if you accept them as what works for you and they keep your bed dry,then they are ok to wear.i dont feel like a baby wearing them,its what i have to do to manage the bedwetting.

  19. Amanda Ruiz January 29, 2012 at 12:32 am #

    I continue to keep wetting my bed I am a 22 year old female im not sure how much longer i can take this. I dont know how much longer i can take. Please if anyone has any advice please let me know.

  20. kari anne January 28, 2012 at 11:41 am #

    candi, dont feel bad,i am 15 and finially made my first communion last may and i had to wear a cloth diaper and plastic pants under my communion dress.my parents required me to wear them because i was in the class with the little kids and they wanted me to be like the little girls.i had to wear lace socks and patent leather shoes and the plastic pants crinkled under my dress and it was embarrassing walking down the aisle.

  21. Novoline Spiele January 25, 2012 at 6:46 am #

    Thx Great Post, Thx
    Novoline Spiele

  22. tilapiafarmguide January 17, 2012 at 2:48 am #

    Hi Scienceblog,
    Neat Post, Scientific name for night time bed wetting is nocturnal enuresis. It is normal for a baby to bed wet since it has not learnt to control its urges. But when a child above 5 years of age bed wets often, it is time for him to take treatment. 15% of children in the age group of 5 and 3% of teenager’s bed wet at night. The treatment taken for this problem is very effective and does not relapse in the future. Your child may be in the habit of wetting his or her bed, but your treatment will help him get rid of this embarrassing habit.
    Keep up the good work

  23. sorel caribou boots master January 15, 2012 at 12:41 am #

    Ola! Scienceblog,
    This might be off topic, however, Bed wetting happens for a variety of reasons from physical to psychological. While, doctors can help to find the cause and recommend a treatment, there is often a period of time when the bed wetting is going on without recourse.
    Wishes

  24. John December 12, 2011 at 9:08 pm #

    Annalea,I do not know what you have been told,but having a problem such as this,it is hard for many others to not understand that it is not your fault.
    Our society has always had a fear of discussing undergarments of any kind,and rubber/plastic pants the worst,yet they are the ones most used for all ages of people with anything from minor leakage problems to full day and night time wetting.
    look on the bright side Annalea,you only need them at night,many must wear them 24/7.
    As your mom pointed out,they are much more environmental than disposables and much easier to keep hidden.
    I fyou have any questions or just someone to talk to,please feel free to contact me.
    John

  25. nickf December 9, 2011 at 7:15 pm #

    Did I leave a reply?

    Anyhow,like a lot about you.

    Regards,
    NicK

  26. nickf December 9, 2011 at 7:11 pm #

    Very nice chatting to you Roberto…are you ‘gay’ at all? Even if you are not,it was fun chatting:))

  27. nickf December 9, 2011 at 7:06 pm #

    Hi

  28. robert manalo December 1, 2011 at 5:23 am #

    nice

  29. Technics November 17, 2011 at 5:51 am #

    thanks mens…. good idea…

  30. luke November 15, 2011 at 3:58 am #

    i am 19 and i still wet the bed, it happends every night i wear pull ups because i wet about 3 times a night, i have been to the doctors and they have told me that i have a small bladder, i have told my mom and my girlfriend and they understand that it is not my falt, email me if u like lukeh14@hotmail.co.uk

  31. nickf November 6, 2011 at 5:19 am #

    bedwetting is common I do and most guys do….it is just one of those things :))

  32. lindsay November 3, 2011 at 8:10 pm #

    shania,why dont you try wearing pullups or goodnites? iam 15 and a bedwetter and i wear goodnites and alternate with a cloth diaper and plastic pants every other night.they work for me and they should for you.i dont feel like a baby wearing the diaper and plastic pants.

  33. Jd October 25, 2011 at 11:21 pm #

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    Look it up Patty cake.

  34. Jd October 25, 2011 at 11:13 pm #

    You were raped! Seek help

  35. shania October 17, 2011 at 10:23 pm #

    I am 14 almost 15 and I still wet the bed….I am afraid the I will grow up and still have these problems….I lose a lot of sleep at night trying to keep from wetting the bed and I’m always really tired at school the next day…the doctors keep telling me that its stress related but I don’t feel stressed out at all..

  36. lil d October 13, 2011 at 8:22 pm #

    hi im 19 and i still wet the bed it dont happen every night cuz i try 2 stay up so it wont happen but when i go to sleep i try not to sleep hard cuz that is when it happen i mean im scared to sleedp with my wife u know cuddleing up with her and then she wkes up wet cuz of me i tried the pull up but i cant pay that much and im not wereing the cloth things and the rubber pants breaks me out what can i do to stop so i can sleep

  37. Vered October 13, 2011 at 8:06 pm #

    I am 38 (I am a mom myself) and I used to wet the bed even through my teenage years. i remember the embarrassment. my advice to you is:
    since your mom does not seem to like the cleaning up afterwords, you will need to help with that so you don’t have to wear plastic pants. one solution is to buy a mattress pad that will protect the mattress, the sheets will still have to be laundered so that is were you come in and help. here is a link to a mattress pad that can do the job of protecting the mattress, its cheap, washer & dryer safe, got good reviews and hopefully will be a good solution for you. copy and paste this link in the address bar.
    http://www.bedwettingstore.com/Bedding/anchorband.htm

    Good Luck…

  38. Jill October 13, 2011 at 7:00 pm #

    Thanks for the very informative post. The numbers were a little bit higher then what i would have thought

    Jill @ http://bedwettingalarms.org

  39. Isabella October 6, 2011 at 3:50 pm #

    I’m a 16 year old female and I still wet the bed most nights. I dont know what I would do without my two bestfriends, they arethe only people outside of my family who know. They understand that I can’t help it. When I first told them I was afraid that they wouldn’t want to be my friend anymore, but they didn’t even care. I have only ever had a sleepover with these two. Everybody needs a friend that they can talk to, and to trust. And I’m just lucky I have these ones :)

  40. Jane September 14, 2011 at 8:23 am #

    My name is Jane and I am 15. Evevery friday and saturday night I am on disco. Mostly I am getting so drunk, that I have to throw up, and I am wetting my pants and my bed several times. And the boys can do with me what they want to. I was 11 when I first time had sex with a man. He was 58, but I didn’t care. I wanted to do that. pis-nosser@online.de

  41. annalea September 1, 2011 at 6:55 am #

    HELP! i am 15 and just started wetting the bed.my mom laid a bombshell on me that i am going to wear cloth diapers and plastic pants to bed every night for as long as i have the problem.i told her no way! that i will wear goodnites or pullups and she said they are too much money and she doesnt to have them in the trash and the the cloth diapers and plastic pants are washable and eco friendly.she then told me its either the cloth diapers and ‘rubberpants’ or nothing and that i have to change my own sheets and wake up in a smelly bed.i am beside my self and dont know what to do.i dread having to wear the cloth diapers and plastic pants,but dont want to have to change my sheets! any advice?

  42. natural August 23, 2011 at 1:35 am #

    neurobion tablet is good for nerves. Dried fig fruit can be taken daily. soak 4 or 5 in water before sleeping and have it in the morning alongwith the water in which the figs are soaked. Soup of vegetables with pepper powder is good. pepper can remove the weakness of nerves. Pomegranate juice mixed with honey is also good. Food full of vitamin-B should be taken.

  43. natural August 23, 2011 at 1:28 am #

    At night before sleeping take 1 walnut seeds and 5 gram of raisin daily…after one week the effect can be seen. Try this out.

  44. Brittany August 22, 2011 at 6:15 am #

    Hey Erin,

    I’m 18 almost 19, and I still wet the bed.. It is very embarrasssing. Iv had sleepiness and it’s happened in their bed which is the most embarrassing thing I can think of. They say it’s okay, but I’m so old. I want it to stop, I can have a night where I wet the bed a tiny bit, it just stays in my pjs, and some nights where I wake up in a massive puddle. And I’m scared for when my boyfriend finds out, I know he’s very understanding.. And I know he hopefully won’t leave me for it.. But I hope he finds out once we are dating for a loooooong time. But for now, I just use the washroom every day before I go to bed. And I make sure I go to sleep right after I go pee. Cause if I wait an hour or more I’ll wet the bed. But feel free to email me. Britt.Juell@gmail.com

  45. natural August 19, 2011 at 9:52 pm #

    daily take 1 dried date fruit before sleeping and have water. It will remove the problem of spoiling the bed. Fresh date fruit would not help but the “dried” one only.

    Date fruit

    Perichampazham in tamizh

    chuara in hindi.

  46. natural August 19, 2011 at 9:45 pm #

    To stop frequent urination, there are so many ways, one natural way..

    take 150 gram of jaggary, put little water into it keep the vessel on fire boil it, filt the water boil again make it little bit thicker, sticky and into it 100 gram of crushed black sesame seeds, mix it thoroughly and make small balls like small lemon sized, have it one in the morning and one in the evening. Children can take one ball in a day. It will reduce the problem of frequent urination.

    For bed wetting, take daily at night before sleeping two black raisin dried. It would reduce the heat of the body. Continue taking this dried black raisin, remove the seeds inside. Best of luck.

  47. Jennifer Arellano August 19, 2011 at 7:12 am #

    Hey Jess!

    Listen- I know you don’t want mom and dad to know of your bed wetting- but….They may be able to help you find out why you do it and get some medicine and alarm to wake you in the night to remind you to Go, or just let you know that all will be OK down the road. You are not the only one with this problem, some people have this their whole life. A suggestion I will mak is not to drink anything after 6:30 pm and to go try to pee before bed. Set an alarm clock to wake you 1-2 times during the night to go to the bathroom and at least try to pee. I think once you train your body and are not drinking alot before bed- it could help. Good Luck Hun! and PLEASE- talk to mom or dad about this. Ok? God Bless! :)

  48. hopeful August 15, 2011 at 3:55 pm #

    i’m 17 and still bedwetting….the thought of it fils me with shame…..i hate that this happens to me i wish i could stop, i’m always very cautious about everything because of this its really very embarrasing….please i would like advice on how to stop

  49. MaKenzie August 9, 2011 at 6:13 pm #

    My best friend Ayden is 14 now. He’s wet the bed his whole life, once he was 8 his mom abused him horribly when he wet, once he was twelve and still wet she abused him worse and humiliated him. My family took him in and adopted him. I’ve comforted him whenever he has an accident(which is day and night) but he calls himself a baby and beats himself up whenever he wets the diapers my mother bought for him. Does anyone know what I can do to let him know we all love him and don’t care that he still wets?

  50. candi August 8, 2011 at 7:10 am #

    i desparetly need help! i am 15 and a bedwetter.i am going to be in my cousins wedding in september as her junior bride.my mom told me in no uncertain terms that i AM going to wear one of my bedwetting diapers and plastic pants under my dress for the entire time.when i asked her why she told me its in case i get nervous or something happens that causes me to wet.i told her i dont want to wear them but she is adamant about it.i dread walking down the aisle with a diaper and plastic pants on under my dress! can any one give me some advice?

  51. jess August 8, 2011 at 5:29 am #

    hi im a 14 year oold girl and i am still wetting the bed i feel so embarrased when it happens i just want it to all stop, but how do i make it stop? my parents dont know and i want it to stay like that but my yonger sister does know and she makes fun of me making me feel worse HELP!!!!!

  52. bridget July 27, 2011 at 8:52 am #

    hi, im 17 and i still have problems with bed wetting. ive been trying to find out ways to stop, but nothing seems to work. i wetted the bed jus last night, and i could feel but shame for myself. i felt like its my fault for why it keeps happening. i get nightmares and thoughts of my laife being destroyed just from this problem alone. I WANT IT TO STOP!!!! i want to tell my mom or my doctor about it, but i dont know how they will respond to it( well my mom that is). i want some answers as to why im still bedwetting, and if there is any help that i can get i would love to know. besides i dont want to grow up with this problem, i want to enjoy and like my life without the stress or worries that this problem will re occur. i think part of the reason is because i dream that im in the bathroom or something. is my mind the reason why i wet the bed? or is it simply because i have bladder issues?

  53. Matthew July 19, 2011 at 12:10 pm #

    I experience the same thing you do. Im 16 Male, and i have the same issue, im a deep sleeper, and every month or so, i’ll Piss the bed. I just want to let you know your not the only one out there. Someday, someone will have the answer for people like us.;

  54. mindy July 2, 2011 at 6:40 am #

    hi, i just started wetting the bed due to some emotional problems two weeks ago and i am wearing cloth diapers and plastic pants to bed every night.my parents told me thats what i had to wear.can anyone tell me how i can get over feeling like a baby with them on ot bedtime?

  55. MaKenzie June 26, 2011 at 7:38 pm #

    My best friend Ayden is 14 now. He’s wet the bed his whole life, once he was 8 his mom abused him horribly when he wet, once he was twelve and still wet she abused him worse and humiliated him. My family took him in and adopted him. I’ve comforted him whenever he has an accident(which is day and night) but he calls himself a baby and beats himself up whenever he wets the diapers my mother bought for him. Does anyone know what I can do to let him know we all love him and don’t care that he still wets?

  56. Kyle June 11, 2011 at 7:49 am #

    I’m 17 and I still wet the bed. It is an occasional problem though, but when it happens, I still get pissed. Sometimes I can go like 3 mo. w/o wetting the bed and then it might happen once every 2-3 weeks. I am a very deep sleeper and I have been realizing that I be having dreams of people taking a piss and that is when it usually happens. Luckily it doesn’t happen every night but it would be nice if there is a way I can make it stop on my own. My parents do not know I still wet the bed and I would like to keep it that way. I ALWAYS take a piss right before I go to bed, but no matter how dry I might be when I go to sleep, I can still have that problem, like this morning for example. I woke up, it was around 4:30 am to turn off my TV, I was dry then. I finally woke up around 7:50 and realized I was wet. I want to break this about, even though it is an occasional issue. I do not want to go off to college with this issue. Please if anyone has any suggestions, it would go a long way!

  57. jacob aadams June 1, 2011 at 8:10 pm #

    i wet my bed i am 15 and i just don’t worry about it now i do have emotion brake down during school bout like once a week

  58. Rob May 30, 2011 at 5:15 pm #

    Hey Erin,

    I know exactly how you feel! I’m 26 and wet my bed almost every night too! If you’d like to chat email me. robkesack @ gmail . com

  59. bed wetting alarm May 25, 2011 at 12:47 pm #

    In my view, There are several reasons that it happens with the children. first the marriage within the relatives that is found very specially in Sub Continent. Second these children or adults have less confidence than normal adults. they alwasy fear to do anything. they get maturity late mentally.
    I think still we just can use bed wetting alarms that can be beneficial because still no discovery has been made regarding bed wetting specially.

  60. Erin May 17, 2011 at 11:49 pm #

    Im going to be 21 years old. There are weeks where i wet the bed every night, and then there are a few days that i dont. It sucks, and is so embarrassing. I dont eat or drink past a certain time, and i make sure i use the bathroom. Also there are times where i work 4am-11am, then go home and sleep untill maybe 3 and i happen to wet the bed. I really have no idea what to do.

  61. Mya May 15, 2011 at 7:51 pm #

    I am a teenager 15 soon will be 16, and I wet the bed sometimes I can go a long period of time w/o wetting the bed but then it happens again. Alot of times I dont even drink late, I try to stop drinking by a certain time but even then I still wet the bed. It’s really embarassing especially when I have family gatherings and I spend the night and wet the bed. I am not lazy, I actually care and want it to stop. Does anyone know ANYTHING I can possibly do to make this not happen ? Ive even go to bed before I go to sleep, but alot of times when I try to wake myself up I cant do it I really want an answer someone please help me, Im desperate this is extrememly embarassing !

  62. chris April 30, 2011 at 7:45 am #

    my best friend is wetting the bed, and he is 16. he says he can deal with it, but i can tell its hurting him inside. i told him at week 7 that by week 9 he should tell his mom, but hes afraid that his mom will yell at him and disown him. it is currently week 12 for him and it has gotten progressively worse! and is still afraid to tell his mom! i am the only one hes told and i am doing research on whether or not its normal. is there anything i can do to help him in this, or do i just watch and let it happen? someone please contact me on facebook.

    http://www.facebook.com/Parrot#!/profile.php?id=100001624806904

  63. Patty April 25, 2011 at 6:02 am #

    Laziness

  64. Patty April 25, 2011 at 6:01 am #

    I know a girl who is about to be 17 and is still peeing the bed every nite, and during the day!! She doesn’t seem to care at all. She doesn’t go change her clothes, or her sheets, and then wonders why ppl make fun of her! I just don’t understand how she can wake up every day n just be ok with the fact that she just slept in a pissy bed, and then puts on nasty smelling clothes and JUST DOESN”T CARE!!! She doesn’t need diapers as they just condone the problems as far as I’m concerned. I think she needs a WAKE UP call. Her problem is pure LAZINESS. She has been to the doctor and all has been tested and all is fine. What her mother and I have been trying to do is find some kind of program to help, whether it means she has to be sent away or not. If anyone has any useful information on where we can call to get help it would be great.

  65. Jasmine April 12, 2011 at 12:34 pm #

    I am 17 and also wet the bed everynight and I hate it, I never let my friends stay the night at my house because it’s so embarrassing and never go out. I don’t know what to do. I’ve even tried to stop drinking a ew hours before bed but it won’t help. D:

  66. Maria April 6, 2011 at 2:49 pm #

    @Katie & April,
    I’m sorry but I find it utter nonsense to state that it’s better to have to clean up smelly, soaked pyjamas and bed-sheets a couple of times a week. For crying out loud: I’m also a bedwetter and I find adequate protection such as good comfortable diapers and plastic pants a godsend gift.
    The greatest problem here isn’t the bedwetting or whatever we use to manage it; it is the strange ideas that people have about it. It is those ideas that cause untold misery for millions of people like myself who just have a handicap that we’d like to manage in the best possible way, thank you very much. I’m sick of other people telling us that we shouldn’t use diapers because they have this wacky idea that only babies and MS patients should be allowed to wear those. What is the matter with you?
    Some people just have a bladder control problem that is not their own fault. Deal with it!

  67. Trent White March 8, 2011 at 11:08 pm #

    To all out there who have to wear diapers and plastic pants for bedwetting. Your not alone in any of this. I have been an Adult Babysitter for 5 years now.
    If anyone of you would like to talk more about how you fell. Please add me to facebook or msn under white1985@live.com.

  68. kendra February 22, 2011 at 12:07 pm #

    I am writing this on behalf of one of my best friends who is a bedwetter and i want to try and help her.she wears nursery print plastic pants over her bedwetting diaper every night and has at least 2 dozen pairs of them in her drawer all with baby prints on them.i have slept over at her house and seen her many times with the baby print plastic pants on.i asked her why she wears the baby print kind and she told me thats all her mom buys for her.i know she is not happy wearing the baby print plastic pants and told me she wants pastel or white ones to wear.can anyone tell me how i can help her to deal with her mom?

  69. Katie February 21, 2011 at 10:51 pm #

    No, I do not see this as reasonable. You can find plastic sheet kind of things. It requires some cleaning if you wet the bed. It should be put under your mattress pad and if you wet the bed then the next morning you wash your sheets, blankets, and mattress pad and then with a soapy wash cloth you clean off the plastic sheet. When you sleep you should not be able to feel it and in the morning it requires some time for the cleanup but in my opinion it’s far better than cloth diapers and plastic pants. Hope this helps!!!

  70. april February 17, 2011 at 5:46 pm #

    i need an opinion from you other 16 year old girls here.do you feel its ok for parents to require their 16 year old daughters to wear a thick cloth diaper and plastic pants to bed for her bedwetting? i know three girls in this situation and they are not happy.

  71. K February 16, 2011 at 2:05 am #

    Hello- I am 15 going on 16 years of age and I still wet the bed. I have a sister a couple years younger than me, she doesnt but my 9 year old brother does. If you find out any inforataion, let me know. I cant seem to find any answers.!!!! Good luck, to the both of us.

  72. kerry g February 7, 2011 at 10:05 pm #

    Is it really possible that this will never go away? the doctors kee p saying that he will grow out of it!!! When?!!!

  73. kerry g February 7, 2011 at 10:02 pm #

    please tell me what to do!! 16 years old!! and it still happens every nite!!!

  74. Catallina February 5, 2011 at 10:04 am #

    Im 16 and I’m a bedwetter! I don’t know what to do? My mom always is yelling at me for wetting my bed. I don’t wet my bed on purpose! I get so frustrated!! I’m not the only one who has this problem but my little brother who is 10 also wets the bed . What can I do or should do?

  75. George January 29, 2011 at 7:45 pm #

    What worked for me was to put myself in the diaper and then have parent come in and do the pinning. I would then put my own plastic pants on. Be sure all the diaper is tucked in. This was not nearly as embarrassing as everything was covered before a parent entered the room. Just an idea in case diapering yourself doesn’t work.

  76. ashley January 27, 2011 at 6:50 pm #

    May I know all to well how frustrating it can be to be a teen and have a bedwetting problem. I use to be afraid to wear a protection at night but now wear either pullon protection with a pad or a cloth diaper with plastic pants. If you wear a good quality plastic pant you shouldn’t have cracking and noise. They cost a little more but well worth the cost. It is nice to be able to sleep without fear of waking in a wet bed and pajamas.

  77. tina January 27, 2011 at 6:51 am #

    may,why dont you just wear a cloth or disposable diaper and plastic pants like i do.they keep my bed dry and arent that uncomfortable.

  78. tina January 27, 2011 at 6:48 am #

    i need help! i am 16 and a bedwetter.like the rest of the people here.i wear a thick cotton diaper with adult size plastic pants over it every night.the plastic pants fit me baggy and crinkle under my pajamas when i walk around.does anyone know how to soften them up so they dont crinkle? p.s. i am being confirmed in may and per parish requirements have to wear a white floor length formal dress and veil.my mom told me i have to wear one of my bedwetting diapers and plastic pants under the dress,so this is another reason i dont want them to crinkle.

  79. May January 16, 2011 at 4:27 pm #

    I’m 16 years old girl, and yeah I still wet my bed. I use to sleep at 11 pm because I think i only wet in my bed every midnight. I always set my alarm at 2 am, but sometimes i forgot to wake. There’s a time that i won’t wet my bed, and there’s i time that i wet my bed. This Jan. me and my classmate need to go somewhere and sleep there. I’m scared that I will wet my bed there. Help me please.

  80. MomD January 8, 2011 at 7:04 pm #

    My daughter is 18, in college and still wets her bed. I am worried for her psychological well being, Emotionally and physically this drains her. She puts her sheets in a bag and hides them til the coast is clear to go wash them. The dorm room smells strong of pee and the scent won’t come out in the wash. I am concerned about her isolating herself or worse being shunned by her dorm mates.
    She didn’t wet the bed until she was started school. I have taken her to many doctors, but have been unsuccessful. We’ve tried everything but nothing helps. I am concerned that it is more than just a developmental stage. I need to help her!

  81. Joe January 8, 2011 at 10:34 am #

    I’m 19 and wet the bed every so often. I’m a deep sleeper and don’t wake up in time sometimes. The periods when I wet the bed are very sporadic. I’ve gone up to three months at times without wetting. Other times I wet twice a week. At times I’ve dreamed I was standing in front of the toilet, only to be woken up from wetting. I’m tired of dealing with this. I don’t want to use pills, alarms, etc. I need a natural way to stop this. Please help.

  82. jc December 31, 2010 at 9:49 am #

    Sounds like you are having bladder muscle function problems. Go see a doctor for help. This ususually happens after women have given birth because the bladder ges stretched out and women lose control. Now you know why there are so many Depends commericals on TV. I read that 1 in 3 women have continensce problems after giving birth vaginally. If you feel more comfortable, see a female gynocologist. Good luck.

  83. jc December 31, 2010 at 9:47 am #

    Please have a parent or guardian take you to the doctor. If the doctor cannot find anything wrong physically with you, there are pills to help control bladder functions during the night. It is not commom for a girl to have a bed wetting problem at your age but a lot of boys have this problem at age 14. Do not drink anything after 7 pm might also help. Do not drink coffee or softdrinks at night. Also, if you know what kegel exercises are (as a female in your family) that will also help streghten the bladder muscle to hold urine longer. You will eventually stop bed wetting…..

  84. NVM December 31, 2010 at 12:51 am #

    I started wetting the bed at 8 time to time i would wet the bed, but hide it from my mom. I started wearing my little brother’s diapers (he was 4) then i started to leak the pull-ups so i wore more then one. Then my brother got somewhat potty trained so i was out of diapers until i was 11 and i had to buy diapers and has i had accidents i forgot how to poo in the potty, but then i got bad in the middle of the day about late November my mom searched my room for diapers and
    i was totally out so i had to get use to the potty!

    I just wish my mom joined in on me and got and changed my diapers

  85. Wendy December 29, 2010 at 4:54 am #

    I am 14 and still wet the bed, i know it’s something I shouldn’t be embarrased about but I am. How are you suppose to wear night pants on a camp or sleepover without your friends finding out? Cuz idk how to tell them or if they would understand. Does anyone have any tips?

  86. amanda ruiz December 26, 2010 at 4:41 pm #

    i need help i am 19 years old and i wet my bed and i want to stop it. the thing is i dont know what to do to stop it. I have tried everything from the nasal spray to diapers to everything. i even had an accident in my car on the way home from somewhere and now my car smells and cant get rid of the smell is there a way that works best for that, any help would be very much appreciated.

  87. Tony/Mandy December 26, 2010 at 12:15 pm #

    I am now 42 and started bedwetting when I was 7, after my parents brokeup. I also started dressing in girls cloths too at the same time, (not related I think!) I started to wear plastic pants with towles inside for bed, and later was able to buy adult diapers. I have no problems when awake. Although I have gone out in diapers dressed as a teenage girl with the sole intent of wetting them, making sure I drink plenty of water beforehand, and that I.m trapped in a situation where I have to pee myself, I suppose that is more a fetish than a problem. Although I do love going out dressed totally as a normally dressed female, I have always had a love for younger styles, i.e. teenage cloths, but in the last 15 years, I would never go out in them! I also have 2 wedding dresses and 4 bridesmaids dresses( every girl wnats them I think, lol) I have had many girlfriends over the years, and never had many problems with my wetting or my dressing. Sometimes I can go for weeks without wetting, then other times I could wet every night for weeks too. I have over the last 12 years also had a love for adult baby dresses, and now with my diaper and lace frilled plastic pants wear baby girls cloths and bonnet and mitts to match. So although bedwetting is a problem I have never overcome, I do get some enjoyment out of it, by way off being a girl. I know this sounds silly, but is all true! Just try to find a way to enjoy it if you can’t cure it. Lots of Love Mandy x

  88. mac December 22, 2010 at 3:19 pm #

    Sorry Herman,but I will not help destroy the environment nor waist all that money on disposable diapers when thicker cotton underpants covered with plastic pants are better.

  89. mac December 22, 2010 at 2:59 pm #

    Hi Becca,As this is more excitement caused,I would ask your mom if you could wear thicker cotton panties and go along with the plastic panties just in case,You will find they are not uncomfortable at all,and if you are able to let only a small amount at a time out,you can dry yourself and the panties fairly fast,without anyone finding out.
    Hope this helps.

  90. Bobby December 22, 2010 at 6:24 am #

    Hi Misses Jean,
    You are so right just like my mom you know what is best for children. I am Bobby am 5′ 5″ 138 LBS and am18 and still wear diapers every night. Need diapers and baby panties every night. Last Christmas my mom also told me I would wear diapers during the day on the Eve and the day of Christmas and with all the excitement it would less ambarassing for me in diapers. My outfit for Christmas is red valor shorts with straps the go over my shoulders and snap in the back the straps cross in the back they are plastic lined with hidden snaps. White shirt nice dress shirt and red bowtie white socks white saddle shoes and cloth diapers with baby panties that have blocks and all kinds of toys in blue pink and yellow on white background. I was glad my mom was right. cause I have accidents when I fall a sleep during the day (naptime) which I did. The only source of ambarrassment came at my aunties house for dinner. There was no room at the grown up table and I might have fit at the kids table. However she knew I was in diapers and had several wooden high chairs that are larger then baby’s. She wanted me in one of the chairs and I fussed and told her no no. She swatted my bare leg several times and I sat. I was behind my mom’s chair so I was fine. Good mom’s are smart moms that knows what best for the child like you. I will be diapered during the day this year too. It is just to exicting for children last year I was suroprised when mom told me i was wet.
    hugs and kisses
    Bobby

  91. Bobby December 22, 2010 at 5:55 am #

    Dear Miss Jean,
    You are so right. I am eighteen 5′ 5″ and 138 lbs and still need diapers at night. I was sooo glad last year my mom put diapers and baby panties on me on Christmas Eve and Christmas. She was right I needed them. It is very exciting and fun time I was surprised at the times mom checked and I was soaked and did not know it. Moms just know these things. The only embarssing time for me was dinner, Oh I forgot I was in a white nice dress shirt red valour or suede bowtie. Red shorts with shoulder straps that crossed my shoulders and snapped in the back and plastic lined and had hidden snaps in the legs. Cloth diapers and plastic panties with blocks and toys blue and pink on a white background white socks and white shoes. The shorts same material as bowtie. My embarasing moment was there was no room for me at the big table or the kids table. Since my auntie who’s house we were at knew I was in diapers she had a high chair for me to sit in. I did not what to sit there and said no no no. I sat when my auntie swatted my bare leg. My chair was behind my mom so I was happy. Also for people like me I am not dry if I fall sleep during the day. Another reason my mom wanted me in diapers. Because I did fall asleep both days and I would be soo ambarassed waking up in a puddle at someone else’s house. My mom knows when to check me and what will be best for Bobby. You are a good mom too I can tell you know what is best for children.
    Lots of hugs and kisses
    Bobby

  92. Anonymous December 21, 2010 at 2:48 pm #

    you are stupid

  93. Michelle Coleman December 20, 2010 at 2:17 pm #

    hey jordan bed wetting shouldn’t be anything that you should be embarrassed about it just that your bladder probably just can’t hold alot of urine during the night thats all.

    From a personal experience that I’ve had with bed wetting when i was growing up was that i thought that i was going to be stuck with it forever but eventually i got over it and you can to all you have to do is stay positive and keep telling yourself that you can conquer with bed wetting. it might take some time but once you get over with wetting the bed than you will feel 100 percent better knowing that you conquered bed wetting forever.

    Jordan I really hope that this helps.
    JUST REMEBER TO STAY POSTIVE THAT YOU CAN GET OVER THE FEAR OF WETTING THE BED.
    BEST WISHES WITH LOTS OF LUCK
    MICHELLE COLEMAN FROM FLORIDA.

  94. Michelle Coleman December 20, 2010 at 2:03 pm #

    Hey any 18 year olds out there that are still wetting the bed don;t worry you can get over wetting the bed over time but for now just stay positive in your mind that bed wetting is only temporary and that it probably won’t last forever but until it goes away just remeber that you can conquer the problem with wetting the bed it will just take some time. BEST OF LUCK TO ALL OF YOU.

    Sincerly,
    Michelle Coleman from Florida.

  95. Michelle Coleman December 20, 2010 at 1:54 pm #

    Nicole, I think the only thing that I can suggest to you is not to drink any fluids maybe a half hour to an hour before you go to bed. Also with the whole bed wetting situation you will be able to get over it,it may not be right away but you will get over it in time. because i know from a personal experience I didn’t stop wetting the bed until i was i think maybe 8-14 years of age. but nicole as long as you limit your fluids around an hour to a half hour before you go to be at night I believe that should really help you a lot.

    Best of Luck Nicole,
    Sincerly,Michelle Coleman from Florida.

  96. Shahla December 20, 2010 at 6:39 am #

    Hi Brenda

    YES, plastic panties will cause your tights to slide down. I have worn diapers and tights many times. What I have learned is to wear a pair of panties (you say your dress is white, so be sure you wear white panties) over your tights and diaper. This will hold the tights up in place.

    BTW – don’t listen to “Jean”. I’ve seen her post on other sites and she’s borderline psychotic. I doubt it is even female.

  97. nicole December 19, 2010 at 6:21 am #

    ps the wake up every so often just leaves me tired and depressed to know this is what i have to live with

  98. nicole December 19, 2010 at 6:20 am #

    i am 13 and i wet the bed last night…..its usually not frequent but idk how to stop it…….. the whole dont drink past 7 and wake up every so often to go pee doesnt work……also the whole go b4 u sleep doesnt work…idk how to fix it I WANT IT TO GO AWAY SO I CAN LIVE A NORMAL LIFE!!!

  99. Karena December 16, 2010 at 7:21 pm #

    You are nuts, these kids are looking for a mature adult or compassionate person whose experienced this for an answer. Your response is totally innappropriate to the tune of psychotic. You need major mental help, see a psychiatrist and get a life already!

  100. Sammy December 15, 2010 at 6:19 pm #

    Luisa, DONT let this problem control you. It is something that you CANT control. I have been a bedwetter my entire life and I know how much it sucks. Trust me, it gets me down a lot and i hate the fact that I am 21 and need diapers at night but you have to stay positive. For most bedwetters, you will eventually get dry! Just gotta keep living your life and not let it get the best of you. Good Luck!

  101. Sammy December 15, 2010 at 6:16 pm #

    Have you tried talking to him? I’m 21 and I still wet the bed almost 5 times a week still. When i decided to tell my boyfriend I tried to emphasize that it is something that i cant control. He was so understanding and has been so great with accepting it. If he loves you, like you love him, then he should be willing to overlook your bedwetting. Good Luck!

  102. Veronica December 14, 2010 at 7:18 pm #

    Hi my name is Veronica I am also 14 and I to have problems with keeping it in. I have been a bed wetting problems to. I to often use my diaper in public I can’t hold either of them in. But if u wear tights with diapers they’re easly noticible. So wear the platic undies and put something absorbent in them and it will be less noticible. (sorry for spelling errors have a -D in english)

  103. Jaquanda December 14, 2010 at 11:58 am #

    I also have the same problem but you’ll get over it. good luck

  104. Jaquanda December 14, 2010 at 11:54 am #

    I am 12 years old and I am incontinent. I have very little control of my body. I wear diapers everywhere. When I act out my parents give me a pacifier and tell me I am a baby. When they do that I have to wear pants that have snaps on them or little girl dresses or footed sleepers. Something to remind me that I am a baby. People laugh at me in public and it bothers me. If I wasn’t incontinent my parents would respect me. Also when I act out I sleep in a crib and my parents take my temperature anally.

  105. Jaquanda December 14, 2010 at 11:46 am #

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  106. Jean December 12, 2010 at 10:16 pm #

    Brenda, tights are inappropriate for girls who need to wear diapers and rubber panties. Your mother should put nice frilly white ankle socks on you with matching rubber panties for your concert and encourage the other mothers to have their girls to wear socks also. Socks make diaper changes much easier and grownups prefer to see girls your age wearing socks rather than tights.

  107. brenda December 11, 2010 at 2:09 pm #

    i hope some other bedwetting girls here can give me some advice.i am a girl,14 and have been a bedwetter for the last 8 months.due to a skin reaction to disposable diapers,i wear a cloth pin on diaper and plastic pants to bed every night.on christmas eve my sunday school class is singing at 11;00 pm service.all of the girls have to wear a white dress and tights and white shoes for the service.my mom told me that she is going to put my bedwetting diaper and plastic pants on me when i get dressed so she doesnt have to do it when we get home. i have never worn my diaper and plastic pants under tights and want to know if any other girls here have done it and if my tights will slide down over my diaper and plastic pants.can any girls here give me any advice?

  108. morgan December 11, 2010 at 1:11 pm #

    i just turned 15 and i wet the bed. My aunt wetted the bed until she was 15 also. but i want it to stop like everyone who has this problem does. Now, every one tells me, it will stop when it does, dont drink past seven at night, and go to the bathroom before you go to bed. i did all this. i still wet the bed. my doctors even did blood tests to see if something was wrong but nothing is wrong. i dont agree with that though. Now, i am on this medicine that is a nasal spray and it is supposed to help stop the urge to pee at night. But it doesnt work all that good. and i have been on it for a year now. i used to think that when it did work and i wouldnt wet the bed for a week, i thought that i am done wetting the bed. but no, i just do it again. When i ask my mom to take me to the doctors she ignores me. I am angy, depressed and confused by this bed wetting thing. I JUST WANT IT TO GO AWAY. i mean i want a normal life. i want to be able to have sleep overs, go to sleep overs, drink at night, not worry about taking medicine, and when i get older i want to be able to have a boyfriend stay in the same bed as me. You know, i just want to be normal

  109. fed up December 10, 2010 at 12:45 am #

    LUISA i can understand the kind of trouble you have… i just wish someone helps both of us..

  110. fed up December 10, 2010 at 12:44 am #

    I’m 18 year old girl and still into the prob of bed wetting. this is so frustrating. i peed in my bed today. last time it was 26th November when i peed. it really worries me a lot… i just don’t know what to do. I’m fed up with myself. this is my last year in school and i really don’t know what would i do if i have to go out to study. i always had the problem of bed wetting but eventually it stopped an year ago. i was so relaxed. but since October, the problem has cropped up again and i don’t see any ray of hope. I am now afraid if this continues, then I’ll spoil the life of my boyfriend as well, So I’m thinking to have a breakup with him as i love him a lot and don’t want him to get into any sort of trouble. life is really miserable for me…. my parents have tried all sorts of medications but nothing has ever worked with me… is there anyone who can help me…PLZZZ

  111. Luisa December 9, 2010 at 7:32 am #

    Hi, I’m 17 and I have been a bedwetter all my life. This problem sucks, andI hate that. This makes me so frustrated, so mad. I don’t know what to do anymore and I really want it to stop. I mean, if this continues, what am I going to do when I get married or go to college? I’m tired. I don’t have anyone to talk with, and it terrifies me to think what will happen if someone finds out. It sometimes occurs during the day, like not full on pee myself, but I can’t hold it in, I just can’t. And it hurts when I go to pee. It doesn’t happen every night. It happens every now and then, but when it happens it’s terrible. I really just want it to stop. Help?

  112. Anonymous December 7, 2010 at 6:49 pm #

    Please don’t consider suicide, ever. It is never the answer to your problems, which will get better. I think you should see a doctor, both for the bed-wetting and for your thoughts of suicide. If you cannot, then I recommend setting an alarm clock to go off every 1-2 hours at night (adjust the frequency depending on your needs), and using the restroom whenever it wakes you up.

    Best of luck

  113. sunsoul December 5, 2010 at 9:49 am #

    It will be hard to find useable playtex pants, the latex ones. But if you go to myprotex.com there are a lot of similar products. They may have some in small sizes. Another source is kalesenterprises.com. He is a canadian. His site is a little confusing but he is a good guy and much less expensive for the same quality as myprotex. He also make very good custom sized pants and is cheap and reliable. Hope this helps.

  114. sunsoul December 5, 2010 at 9:31 am #

    there is a product out there for fastening diapers without pins. Its called a “snappi fastener” just google it using google images and you’ll see it. Never used it but some say it works well.

  115. jojo December 2, 2010 at 2:21 pm #

    thts tough but i rather have your problem then my own…

  116. jojo December 2, 2010 at 2:19 pm #

    i am 14 years old nd i 2 wet the bed…my cousin is 16 nd she wets the bed 2..when i asked my doctor he sent me to this nocturnal enuresis,she tld me tht it has to do with my family nd tht i got it from my dad’s side, and she also put me on these pills that kept me from wetting the bed for about 3 weeks however i still went the bed on occasions. nd i havent went there for some times now nd i ‘ve been wetting the bed all over again..people just dont get how frustrating it is…i mean my parents think that i do it on purpose!!!!

  117. armand November 30, 2010 at 5:39 pm #

    I was a teen boy bedwetter and I had to wear 12ply thick cotten shorts just made for me covered by playtex rubber pants. On week ends the cotten shorts covered by super size tower plastic pants two pairs 24/7. My plastic pants would be about four center meters above my jeans for a good view to make sure I was wearing the plastic pants. At home a short tee shirt and up town a long tee shirt to cover the view of the plastic pants.Tiger makes the new step-in blue plastic pants with the many ply boys tiger shorts. For boys and men it is about time the old system has come back to life. It has been to long that bedwetter parents could not put their children back into many ply shorts and plastic pants.There are nice pictures of teen boys wearing plastic pants so have a good look you are not the only one. Put them on get on with living I did wear plastic pants and pin on thick cotten diapers at times. My grand boys wear the all in one plastic diaper. I am going to order the tiger blue step-ins plastic pants as covers to wear over their all in one diaper. My girl will be happy for it will be me making the boys wear plastic pants as covers. I did get out the playtex rubber I wore when I was a boy but the pants are too old cracked. Sure would be nice to have playtex on them.

    Bedwetters had to wear plastic pants 24/7 on week ends that was the rule.

  118. Jordan :) November 30, 2010 at 2:36 pm #

    Hey all, I know what you’re goin through. I’m 14 too, go figure, and I wet the bed alot. like.. A LOTTT. Idk what to do about it anymore its just embarassing. any tips maybe? im 15 in 2 months and the whole, dont drink before you go to bed doesnt work :[ please help ! thanks

  119. Anonymous November 28, 2010 at 10:52 pm #

    “my parents are making me feel so bad about it i think about suicide frequently.”

    You need to speak with a counselor at school about learning how to deal with parental guilt trips. Maybe they can get you to a mental health professional who can help. There’s absolutely no need for you to reveal to the counselor that bed wetting is the problem.

    Guilt is an evil emotion which serves no purpose other than to manipulate people. Try not to let your dumbass parents use it against you.

  120. Ben November 22, 2010 at 11:58 pm #

    hey u liam callin these guys dick heads just because they wet the bed makes you worse than wat they feel thay are ok if anythin ur tryin to cover up urself that uv done it so pull up ur non dickhead diapers and think how hard it is for these people

  121. lili November 21, 2010 at 4:22 am #

    WERE NAPPYS EVERY NIGHT THEY COST 1.20 POUNDS IN TESCO

  122. lili November 21, 2010 at 4:20 am #

    hey i stopped when i was nine years old i was not aloud to have a person to sleep round so if you tell your self that you are going to wet the bed YOU ARE GOING TO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!and if you tell your self no to you wont so

    GOOOOOOOD LUCK !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  123. Jean November 20, 2010 at 7:10 pm #

    Yes Becca, you need help at Christmas time which your mother will give you by dressing you in diapers and a rubber panty to keep your bed dry at night and protect your party dress during the day. Lots of children your age still don’t have total control over wetting and need to wear diapers and rubber panties. Your rubber baby panty will be seen under your short little dress so ask your mom if she would be willing to put a frilly rubber panty over your plain baby panty to match your dressy white ankle socks. This will help you feel a little more grown-up without sacrificing the protection of diapers and baby pants. You are still not too old to get a spanking for disobedience, but this shouldn’t be necessary if you lie still and don’t make a fuss while Mom puts on your dressy rubber panty.

  124. Anonymous November 19, 2010 at 2:29 am #

    I am 16 years old and i still wet the bed please help me

  125. Soaking Beds November 17, 2010 at 2:45 pm #

    I have years of experience in bed wetting are you going to use velcro or pins for your cloth diapers. I personally use velcro because of the pins getting rusty from being urinated on frequently.

  126. becca November 17, 2010 at 6:09 am #

    Ineed help! i am 14 and not a bedwetter,but i do get excited easily and either have an accident or come close to it,for the last three years i have come very to wetting my pants on christmas eve and day due to being excited.I was told by my mom that this year i have to wear a cloth diaper and rubber pants under my holiday dress for christmas eve and day and that i also have to wear them to bed on christmas eve.i dont want to wear the diaper and rubber pants,what else can i do?

  127. Nate November 16, 2010 at 6:19 pm #

    im now 14 years old ive been on n off bed wetting ince iwas 9. even when i go to the bathroom every night rite b4 bed it still happens. why is they? because im big, have a small bladder wt help me. my parents are making me feel so bad about it i think about suicide frequently. plz help b4 i go that far!

  128. Soaking Beds November 15, 2010 at 10:12 pm #

    I was invited to a sleepover with 6 other friends. I was so excited that I was invited to my first sleepover I totally forgot that I’m a nightly bed wetter. It was time to go to bed and I had to share the bed with 3 other guys. I totally soaked the bed that night, everyone in the bed with me got soaking wet. I told the guy that slept next to me that he shouldve worn some Depends Diapers in front of everyone at the sleepover. So all my friends think that it was him that wet the bed. Was this the right thing to do? I didnt want my friends to know that it was me. I am 16 if that helps.

  129. anonymouse November 12, 2010 at 3:32 pm #

    i have the same problem as you try this it might help

    http://www.wikihow.com/Stop-Wetting-the-Bed

  130. Don't worry about it November 10, 2010 at 2:04 am #

    WTF I’m 17 and I wet the bed last time it had happen I was 4 why did it happen again?

  131. .........……… November 5, 2010 at 9:48 pm #

    I went like a month or two without wetting the bed and I just did last night even though I go to the bathroom every night and it still happend I don’t know way to do anymore some one help

  132. Anonymous November 5, 2010 at 2:16 am #

    I am 15 and I started wetting my bed right after my 10th birthday.Next year I’ll be 16 and I don’t want to be humiliated in front of my family and friends.I mean somehow the truth will be unfolded and i don’t know how to stop.
    Please help me! I really want to stop.

  133. annie November 3, 2010 at 7:00 am #

    i am 14 and a bedwetter.i wear a thick cloth diaper to bed every night and it is pinned on me with regular diaper pins.i dont like the diaper pins and have asked my mom to get velcro and sew it on all of my diapers to make them fasten on easier and not have to worry about the pins rusting or getting lost.she tells me that the cloth diapers,diaper pins and rubber pants are the standard for bedwetting and that the pins have been used with cloth diapers for many years.i have had pins come unsnapped while i was sleeping and poke thru my rubber pants and cause them to rip.how can i convince my mom to use velcro on my diapers?

  134. chris October 29, 2010 at 4:06 am #

    I never used to wet the bed until i hit 11 now im 13 i have it conntrolled for a week maybe half a week but then i loose control i cant go to sleepovers with my friends and they cant step foot iin my bedroom unless i air for long because i dont want them to smell the wee. I feel like my mum and dad are ashamed of me espescially my dad. Can someone help please!

  135. Wetting Bed Alarm October 25, 2010 at 6:23 pm #

    Wetting Bed Alarms are an excellent aid in helping to wake up dry.

  136. rog October 24, 2010 at 2:39 am #

    I think the only way is not to drink or very little for about 4 hours before you go to bed.

  137. Dan October 19, 2010 at 8:59 am #

    More suggestions and replies are posted on this site. Click on the
    “<< Older Comments" at the bottom of the page.

    Dan – older than dirt…..

  138. Moira October 16, 2010 at 1:01 am #

    I am in the same situation as you do. I am 17 and I ‘ve been wetting the bed since I can remember, (I was about 3-5 years old when it started). It happens at really random occations, sometimes, I could go on for two months without wetting the bed, sometimes it would happen 3 times in a week. I’ve gone to the doctor, I also had a urine test, and they also checked my bladder for any infection but they didn’t find any. My doctor told me that I could go on for the rest of life with this condition which absolutely sucks and upsets me. However, somehow, I figured that it may possibly be stress related, I’ve figured that when I have arguments at home especially with my Dad, I often wet the bed. When I have so much anxiety, it also happens and the more I worry about it, the more it occurs. What I do is make sure I go to the toilet atleast twice before I go to bed, I also try not to drink any beverages an hour before I go to bed unless necessary. And sweetie, try not to worry about it as much. At then end of each day, say to yourself that it won’t happen and next thing you know, thenumber instances might lessen. Honey, you’re not on your own. I share the same problem, remember that.

  139. Emily October 15, 2010 at 1:25 am #

    i am 16 and i still wet the bed but i stopped wetting the bed for almost 3 weeks then i started wetting again
    and when i go to a friends place to stay the night i get worried about wetting the bed and when i do i feel ashamed and depressed

    i really want to stop so i can go to my friens place to stay the night or sleepovers at a party please help me

    P.S i REALLY want to stop

  140. Not to be named October 12, 2010 at 6:06 pm #

    im 13 & i wet the bed 4-6 times a week
    7 now im going with my friends somewhere & i have to sleep with his younger brother what do i do PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

  141. Anonymous October 2, 2010 at 10:55 pm #

    Dont you think you could just wear diapers?

  142. Justin September 29, 2010 at 11:07 am #

    I am 16 and just started wetting the bed at night. For a problem that has never accured befor sure became an everynight problem.
    how long will this continue to happen for.

  143. mitraj September 29, 2010 at 4:20 am #

    hi,i wanna do friendship with u.

  144. Patricia September 28, 2010 at 5:10 pm #

    Girl, I’m in the same situation.I’m 26 years old, from Portugal and I started wet the bed an year ago because of ,y very stressfull job.
    The doctors weren’t able to get me any soluction so, in order to don’t wet the bed itself i just started to wear adult diapers.

    To avoid wetting the sheets is the best solution.

    Best Regards,

    Pedro.

    mail me to patricia_7287@hotmail.com if you read this

  145. Anonymous September 28, 2010 at 4:43 pm #

    i admier almost evry one here

  146. Anonymous September 28, 2010 at 1:31 pm #

    I don’t drink anything after dinner except a little bit of water, and go to the bathroom a few times before bed

  147. Mike M September 25, 2010 at 1:44 am #

    Herman – you are the man ! Thanks for intelligent posts (not just this one).

  148. Reggie September 22, 2010 at 12:09 pm #

    If you do not want to read this, you have the freedom to go to another web site, or better for us turn your computer off, it’s a free country.

  149. lol September 22, 2010 at 5:17 am #

    dont you love it when u dream, your in the toilet peeing and the warmness wakes you the hell up and you quickly realise your peeing in your sleep LOL

  150. Girl September 21, 2010 at 2:43 pm #

    I was four when i started wetting the bed, it was triggered by my mum and dad splitting up then my mum found a new man and he moved in right away. My mum took me to the hospital because it carried on for so long, they gave me a buzzer that didn’t work they gave me a pill that didn’t work and now I’m 17 and still wetting the bed I hate it so much. My family think I don’t care and are starting to get frustrated as it has been going on for so long I just want it to end and don’t know what else to do. I have missed out on so much on my childhood because i was bed wetting and too embrassed to stay anywhere else rather than my own house I’ve also tried setting an alarm in the middle of the night to get me up but that hasn’t worked either:( I just need some advice some help.

  151. ... September 20, 2010 at 2:13 pm #

    katie girls dont get discriminated against many girls are allowed to wear goodnites and underjams but boy cant wear girls cloting but girls can wear boys no that is discrimination.

  152. ooga ooga September 19, 2010 at 7:27 pm #

    I hate wettin the bed its so stressful ecspecily when your a teen. I feel like I’m so alone. I can’t tell any one outside of my family because I’m positive it’ll spread around and ill be shunned at school. And I hate when I wake up and my parents are yelling at me and asking me why I’m still wettin at this age. And I tried everthing to stop but It doesn’t work.i can’t help that I’m a deep sleeper. Any advice.(cry cry)

  153. help!!! September 18, 2010 at 8:27 am #

    hi im 13 and i still wet my bed but im too afraid to tell even my real friends because theres this girl thats always trying to embarress me so i dont want be made fun of. what should i do!

  154. k September 16, 2010 at 11:03 am #

    Where do you get a monitor for it?

  155. k September 16, 2010 at 10:57 am #

    you need to shut your mouth.

  156. Amanda September 15, 2010 at 9:46 pm #

    hi i am 19 years old and still wet the bed every single night i hate it i wish i would grow out of it already i want to know if there is a pill i can take or something i can eat i don’t think stress causes mine.I also use Tena pads not cloth dipers they work well for me, you can buy them at Wal-Mart. well hope this helps?????

  157. huggies September 13, 2010 at 4:38 pm #

    hi i am 19 i still wet the bed i have been to the docs about this what shall i do or where

  158. april September 12, 2010 at 7:43 am #

    for all you bedwetters who wear cloth diapers,velcro works real well to fasten your diaper on with.my mom was using regular diaper pins with my diaper and it was a hassle keeping track of them,and worrying about them comming unsnapped and poking me.she bought velcro and sewed it on my diapers and now it is a lot better.also i agree with katie and jannelle and think its unfair that parents use cloth diapers and plastic pants on their daughters because they feel its more appropriate.

  159. herman September 11, 2010 at 4:38 pm #

    sorry, that above post was from me, not anonymous lol.

  160. Anonymous September 11, 2010 at 4:32 pm #

    that could very well be the problem. it depends on how long this has happened. since you said that you STILL do, im assuming it has for a while. so it could be any number of things. but not telling anyone is not the answer. im assuming you must be using some sort of protection seeing as youve been able to hide it. if so, just tell your friends. like ive said before, anyone who is truly your friend wont be stupid about it. just tell them bluntly. as in “hey, i have a problem at night with wetting the bed and because of that i have to wear ____ to bed.” make sure their fine with it and it wont be a problem. also, tell your parents. it could be any number of harmless things that is causing this, but you should still have it looked into. only because it could also be something as serious as a tumor in your urinary tract.

  161. PAUL September 7, 2010 at 9:28 pm #

    hi im 17 thinking of joing the air force and still wet the bed at least 3 times a week i feel so alone, when my friends ask for me to sleep over thier house im so nervous, i cant even go to a night party at a friends house in fear i would be made fun of. is there anyone who can help me without alerting my parents i am doing this. plus i feel ashamed my grandma asks me once a week if i was dry and i feel so embarrassed. could it be cause i have an overactive bladder?

  162. Dan September 7, 2010 at 8:52 am #

    Well said.

  163. herman September 5, 2010 at 9:37 pm #

    theres actually a rather reasonable way to explain that. while saying that it is because he wet the bed might be a little insensitive, a better wat to put it is that wetting the bed can be a good indicator of two different things. one would be a possible medical condition. but a test would clear that up pretty quick. however, if that was never the case, then your son probly has a lower level of stress tolerance. theres no test for it. but trust me, when you have a group of taliban rebels firing bullets at you and youre being counted on the cover someones back, theres no time for you to go change cuz you didnt realize the stress would cause an accident. and think of that happening while a drill sergeant is yelling in his face. im pretty sure knowing that he offered to serve his country should be good enough. nobody said he HAD to go jump in front of bullets for his country. but he offered up his life for his country. that already makes him a hero.

  164. herman September 5, 2010 at 9:29 pm #

    a good chance as to why you dont at other peoples house is the fear factor. but really, wait it out. wear protection like a normal person would (b/c your not abnormal. you just have something you have to deal with), and wait. your body is still changing. it might stop. if you go through puberty and stop growing, but still wet the bed, then get it checked by a urologist. if they dont find anything, you might have it for life, or you might just have it till a few years later and your body figures it out.

  165. herman September 5, 2010 at 9:26 pm #

    talk to her! she probably thinks she’s doing you a favor. if you talk to her and tell her that you want to do it yourself because you arent comfortable having her do it, she’ll probly let you. either that or, if you want to make her feel less like she has been forcing it on you, ask her to show you how to do it properly. im sure she would appreciate it instead of just feeling like you hate her for helping you…

  166. herman September 5, 2010 at 9:23 pm #

    i hear you man! or lady. could be either from what ive seen on james bond. i would also like to add that neither i nor anyone else on this site is a “baby” or HAS to wear “diaper”. we all CHOOSE to wear PROTECTION. if you were a baby who couldnt make decisions on its own, you wouldnt be talking on this site now would you?

  167. herman September 5, 2010 at 9:21 pm #

    trust me girl, you dont want to be normal. not if you know what todays idea of normal is. try to be as abnormal as possible. and if that doesnt work, try find some people who have your same problem. bets are theres probly another girl in your class at school with it. ;) and honestly, wearing diapers to bed is not the end of the world. if it makes you feel better, every single person in the world has worn them at one point. and the fact that no body has to put you in diapers to get you to use them means that you CHOOSE to put them on. so as far as that is concerned, your as normal as any other 12 year old. you just made a different choice than they did. you decided to wear a different type of pants to bed. not diapers. babies wear diapers. what you wear is many things. “helper pants”, “pull ups”, “protection”, heck, maybe even “padded underwear.” but none of us on here wear diapers. k?

  168. herman September 5, 2010 at 9:15 pm #

    true that! if my mom had done that, which she couldnt cuz she never knew (that i know of), i would have been emberassed beyond belief! i say if they are comfortable with it fine. but if they express that they would rather have goodnites or even for that matter depends, then let them! and dont assume (moms) that you need to put it on them. sometimes its better to let them figure it out on their own. if your worried about stains, let them do the laundry and/or buy new sheets. but emberassing them is not the answer. heck, it might even be the cause.

  169. herman September 5, 2010 at 9:11 pm #

    i feel ya there. i visited my girlfriend in alberta when i went to meet her the second time and asked her to grab something from my bag. needless to say i didnt think her idea of finding was to dump all the contents on the floor. so ya, i had some explaining to do. however, i was lucky to have an understanding girlfriend. i hope for your sake your friends were true friends.

  170. herman September 5, 2010 at 9:09 pm #

    dick heads? honestly little man? you come to a site like this, where people that are emberassed, because people like you make fun of them, come to find help, and you decide to let loose with your little rant? come on. if you really wanted to have them research something like cancer, you would make the first step to show people that were no different. instead, you poke fun at us. so you tell me, whatcha compensating for? or am i dick head cuz yours is too small to find?

  171. herman September 5, 2010 at 9:06 pm #

    not severe buddy. lol. just deal with it the same as you would with a math problem at school. you know that if you have to mulitply something, and you dont know the answer, use a calculator! so, you know you wet the bed. theres your equation. now you tell me what youve got that will help solve the problem. ill give you a hint, one brand would be good nites. and no matter how embarassed you feel, just remind yourself that it doesnt help to be embarassed. if you just learn to deal with it, itll go away sooner or later. and if it doesnt, youll just be all the stronger for it.

  172. herman September 5, 2010 at 9:02 pm #

    darcy, trust me, you dont need as much help as you think. if your friend is actually your friend, then explain it to her whats up. chances are pretty good she may have had the same problem when she was younger. so she will most likely understand. and i know, ive been there. im 20, and it still happens. next time you are going to go for a sleep over, talk to her before hand. explain that you wet the bed sometimes. dont say its a problem, cuz its not. its just a little quirk that your body has to figure out in time. ask her if it would work to go to your place instead, or explain that you have to bring goodnites or underjams, (or if your a bit more grown up than your age, depends,) along. if she treats you like your some stranger freak from mars, then she isnt worth the time to be friends with. and if you ask me, it sounds to me like you dont sleep with any pull ups or “helper pants” (a good term to use with friends. sounds a lot better than diaper). if so, i know it can be hard to transfer into using them, but if you can figure out what things can cause it, then you will only need to use them if you might. thats what i do. i know if i get that same feeling as when youre nervous, you know the one where you have to pee but you actually dont, if i get that before i go to sleep, i need to wear one. if i dont, ill be fine. but either way, explain it to your friend. its always better than trying to cover it up or lie about it.

  173. herman September 5, 2010 at 8:52 pm #

    well, i may not be a girl, and im no expert on plastic pants, but from someone who has been fourteen and wetting the bed, perhaps you should try asking her what she would be more comfortable in. i’m sure she wouldnt want to go to a sleep over or a party and have to bring cloth diapers along. you may want to consider buying goodnites or even depends. i would recommend depends. they work as good or even better than any cloth diaper, are more comfortable, and if your daughter want to go to a sleep over, they are a lot easier to “keep to yourself”.

  174. herman September 5, 2010 at 8:49 pm #

    im 20. all of you guys and girls out there who are complaining because your mom is changing you at night or getting you ready for bed, you should be thankful. i started wetting the bed in grade 8. i went to private school, so leaving an elementary school with a class of 11 and being put into a high school class of 56 was very stressful. i got myself goodnites right away. i new i needed them, but i was so embarassed that i never told anyone. until recently no one knew. not even my own family. i hid it very well but i never had anyone who understood. i beat myself up about it and let myself feel bad for failing at something that in my mind even little kids could do. while it has gotten better over the years and i hope and pray that it’ll stop before i marry my beautiful and understanding girl friend so that i dont have to get into bed with my wife and have to wear a diaper for fear that ill wet the bed, i highly doubt that it will stop that soon. so if you think that having your mom know and want to do something about it is bad, think of what it would be like if you felt you had to hide it from everyone and couldnt talk about it to anyone at all. and as a little side note, if and when you find a boyfriend/girlfriend, tell them! not right off the bat of course, but after a few weeks, if they say they love you, then tell them the first time they say it. if they truly love you, theyll tell you it wont matter like my current girlfriend did when i told her what seems like years ago. not like my ex who turned and ran when she found out. anyone who views you as different in a bad way or as something thats weird, they arent worth the time.
    so, if your 11, 12, 13, or even 18 and your worried that your friends will find out that you wet the bed, dont! because if they are truly your friends, theyll offer to have a sleep over at your house so that your more comfortable. or theyll do something else to make it easier. anyone who makes fun of you has no sense of humility. and has no idea what its like to be afraid to go to sleep at night. and not cuz of monsters, but because of the fact that if you go to sleep, that means you have to wake up…
    and as “M” said above, we’re all brothers and sisters here. so to all of you, you have my complete and total understanding of what youre going thru.

  175. betty August 23, 2010 at 6:00 am #

    can any of you bedwetting girls help me?i am putting my bedwetting 14 year daughter back into cloth diapers and plastic pants at night.i dont know which type of plastic pants to buy for her-pull on or snap on.has any had experience with the snap on kind?

  176. julie August 18, 2010 at 6:24 am #

    Well dont tell the military. My son just got denied entrance to the military because of bed wetting until he was 14. He had high enough test scores to have any job offered but he wont be serving our country.

  177. breanna August 16, 2010 at 8:10 pm #

    dan,i am a girl 19 and had a similiar experience like yours when i was 14.i got asked to be the junior bride in my neices wedding.i was thrilled at the time and a little apprenhsive as i had never been in a wedding.as the day got closer i started getting nervous and a few nights before the wedding i wet the bed a few times.at the rehearsal the friday night before the wedding i flubbed up walking down the aisle and got so nervous i wet my pants there in the church.that morning when we got to the church my neice told my mom to take me to the nursery and put diapers and rubberpants on me to wear under my dress.i reluctantly went there with my mom and she took toddler cloth diapers and pinned them on me then put toddler rubberpants on me then we went back up to the bridal dressing room.i was so embarrassed being seen in the diapers and rubberpants by the other girls and women,i felt really stupid walking down the aisle to the alter with the diaper and rubberpants on under my dress.my mom wouldnt let me take them off for the reception and dance.i was really pissed off at her!

  178. Dan August 15, 2010 at 10:55 pm #

    Most of the time bed wetting will go away. Getting laughed at by family or scolded and threatened by parents is not fun and makes things worse. This site helps. Thanks for maintaining it. When I was 14 or 15 and we were on vacation I wet the bed. I told my mother and she said nothing but angrily stripped the bed. Then she angrily took me to the front office check in and asked if there were special rooms for teen boys who wet the bed and what was she to do with a boy who wet the bed and she was terribly sorry and perhaps baby diapers were the answer and would there be an extra charge, and again does the motel have diapers. I really was embarrassed and shamed. With sites like this parents can read and be more understanding and help the situation. Diapers would have been helpful, but I was so shamed that I never asked. Hurray for Goodnights and sites like this.

  179. Tz0ne August 13, 2010 at 12:04 am #

    Talk to your doctor or urologist about a medication called desmopressin. It’s probably what they’ll prescribe to you anyways if you are concerned enough.

    I’m currently taking it. I’m 17.

  180. martha August 12, 2010 at 8:57 pm #

    hi lucy,i read your post and was happy that another bride wore a diaper and plastic pants also .i was married last june and wore a cloth diaper and white plastic pants under my dress.my dress was very poofy and had crinolines in it so there was no way i was going to use the bathroom.i changed out of the diaper and plastic pants before the reception.

  181. katie August 12, 2010 at 8:45 pm #

    janelle,i totally agree with you.i think parents treat their daughters differently for bedwetting than they do their sons.i am a bedwetter and my parents make me wear cloth diapers and plastic pants to bed.i know two other girls who have to wear them also and they feel its unfair also.i dont like it when bed time approaches as i know i have to put diapers and plastic pants on.

  182. tina August 12, 2010 at 8:38 pm #

    darcy,i am 15 also and wet the bed about 4 to 5 times a week.i wear goodnites with plastic pants over them for extra protection.take my word for it ,it works.they sell girly plastic pants on various websites.i was just confirmed this past may and had to wear a white dress and veil[i am roman catholic].i wore a pair of plain white plastic pants under my tights with my dress.why dont you try goodnites and plastic pants?

  183. Darcy August 12, 2010 at 10:48 am #

    Hi im 15 and i still wet the bed, not everynight but mostly. A few weeks ago i was sleeping over at me bestfriends house and, ive never wet the bed at a friends house before, until that night. I got really nervous, i sprayed perfume all over and i thought it would dry till morning but it didnt. I was afraid to go back to sleep. I ended up telling her it was because i took a sleeping pill. I really want to stop, im tired of waking up and changing and sleeping on the ground…PLEASE HELP ME!!!

  184. Anonymous August 11, 2010 at 10:21 pm #

    Hi..i have a sever problem im 11 years old and i still wet the bed>..<

  185. mac179 August 9, 2010 at 8:45 pm #

    try to get used to the plastic panties,see how they fit if you are wearing a lighter pair of cotton panties under the plastic and see how that is,if she finds you are wearing them all the time,she may try to get you to stop,and isn’t that what you want?

  186. mac179 August 9, 2010 at 8:42 pm #

    You are far better off with the cloth and rubber panties than the boys with disposables.
    If you are going somewhere special,and you know there are washrooms around,you can wear lighter cotton panties with the rubberpanties and they will not show as much,with the boys,the disposables are always big,so they will let everyone know what they are wearing.
    besides,girls with plastic panties look much nicer than with stupid disposables.

  187. Liam August 8, 2010 at 3:15 pm #

    hey dick heads im 14 and even i know that scientists should put their research into something more important like curing cancer!? stop wankin about and make a blog on somthing interesting.

  188. Diaper Girl August 7, 2010 at 6:01 pm #

    yeahh i know the ins and outs of bed wetting i’m twelve and have always wet even when i can’t remember on the photos for my first day of school my pants are wet and on my first birthday anf 2nd and 3rd and 4th and 5th and 6th and so on it’s so embaressing because i went to a camp oout with the schooland all my friends were there and i had spare diapers in my bag and my bag fell on the floor and al the diapers fell out :@

  189. sierra August 7, 2010 at 12:04 pm #

    your mom houldnt get mad at you for doing something that u cannot control. i wear a monitor. its a thing where you clip into your underwear and when u start to go it beeps really loudly. i dont drink anything 2 hours before bed. aftr one week of being dry i reward myself by maybe buying a new pair of jeans i wanted or go to the movies with my friend. after i do tht for one month, i start rewarding myself monthly. im 12, btw.

  190. sierra August 7, 2010 at 11:57 am #

    i use a monitor; it hooks in your underwear and when u start to go it starts beeping loudly. irritating; but does the job. the reason you dont at ur friends is probably because ur brain is saying “hey you!! dont go in someone elses bed!”. im 12, btw.

  191. Sarah August 6, 2010 at 4:25 pm #

    Bobby, what is up with you thinking girls look sexy in diapers??? That has nothing to do with wetting the bed?

  192. bill August 5, 2010 at 6:12 am #

    For you young people i am 60 and i wet the bed till i was 12. i wore diapers.Guess what a couple years ago due to a neurological disorder i started wetting again. day and night. The first thing i did was buy some diapers.; I* would far rather have someone find out i was wearing a diaper then peeing my pants.Oh of the bedwetters out there 50 of them have parents that wet the bed at one time. but few parents will admit to it.

  193. James August 4, 2010 at 7:17 am #

    Catalyn is a placebo. It is a multi-vitamin, has nothing to do with your problem. If it worked, your problems were probably pyschologically motivated.

  194. janelle August 3, 2010 at 6:59 pm #

    what is with parents of bedwetting daughters who require them to wear cloth diapers and plastic pants to bed?i have many bedwetting preteen and teen girls who are required to wear diapers and plastic pants for bedwetting.but yet not many bedwetting boys wear them.why is ther gender discrimination here?girls should be allowed to wear underjams or goodnites.most girls have told me their parents tell girls are more adept at wearing diapers and plastic pants and that girls are more baby like than are boys.this is BS!

  195. ethan July 31, 2010 at 5:43 pm #

    dude when my mom tells me ethan ur 14 years old u gotta stop peaing the bed and every time she tells me that i feel like the only one that has this problem and i feel like shit but i know im not the only one so i just ignore her, so if u have the same problem just ignore them.

  196. ethan July 31, 2010 at 5:28 pm #

    i have the same problem, ur not alone and when im sleeping over my cousins house i feel so embarrised if i pea at there house so i dont know wat to do but all i know dont go to the doctors its a wast of time trust me and they dont do anything at all. just go to the bath room every right before u go to bed , ull have days when ull still pea but ur brain will get used to it, ull start waking ur self up in the middle of the night.ur day will come.

  197. Leah July 27, 2010 at 2:23 pm #

    first off, tell ur parents. im 14 n have the same problem and my parents know about it. it started when i was little too. also i sugest u tell the friends u trust because thats what i do and every things fine. try going to the doctor, i take pills everyday for my problem

  198. Janeia July 26, 2010 at 9:09 pm #

    Bedwetting alarm!DUH!

  199. skate July 26, 2010 at 3:38 pm #

    I am 12 years old and have a big problem. Nothing medical, we have already checked that out, but still a big problem. I am constantly wetting my bed, so much that my mom now makes me wear diapers to sleep. There have been many times where this has been embarassing, such as the time I slept over at my 6 year old cousins house. Before I went to bed that night, my mom changed me, and put me in a diaper. My little cousin came up to me, and screamed, Skarlet I thought all only babies wore diapers, while I was on the fone with my friends. It was very embarassing. Another time I had had a huge sleep over with 13 of my friends. That night I had a huge accident, and they took pictures and posted it on facebook, it was really embarassing. From then on whenever I had a sleepover with my friend Katie (the girl who hosted the party) her mom and her would always offer to change me into a diaper, before I went to bed! It was not fun. This month I have made two different sets of sheets on usable any more, from the pee stains I left, I never used to wet my bed, it all started like 3 years ago, and I am still waiting to go back to being a normal 12 year old who doesnt use diapers when sleeping :(

  200. Jenny Crin July 25, 2010 at 10:17 pm #

    WEAR DIAPERS

  201. Anonymopus July 25, 2010 at 6:43 pm #

    Advice:

    (1) Forget doctors. Except in the unusual case of a very specific physical problem, they are useless. I’ve spent ages searching the scientific literature, and I know: there’s nothing there. They know nothing, because they don’t care.
    (2) It will probably go away one day. That’s what the statistics say. One day may be 15, or 20, or 30. But that day will probably come.
    (3) Consider trying diapers while waiting. It won’t solve the problem, and people may spot them, but it’s better than the alternative.
    (4) Try–impossible thought it may sound–not to feel bad about it. As you can see here, you are not alone. In fact, you’re special. You’re an outsider, and outsiders have always been the best philosophers, artists, poets…
    (4) Some posts point out that some people sublimate it into something sexy. If that works for you, that may be a solution. Still in a minority, but a minority that enjoys itself.

  202. M July 25, 2010 at 6:11 pm #

    To all of you, 10-25, saying you set and need help: the only answer is “FUCK THEM!” Sorry, but that’s how it is. You’ll stop one day–I did by 24. But you’ll never be one of them. Your brothers and sisters are here–and there are thousands, millions of us. You are different, we are different. So fuck them, those who are not different, have no idea, tease us and torment us. That’s their problem. We are us, we are OK, we can–and do–love each other and understand each other and care for each other. To all of you, and us, my love. Not to them.

  203. janeia July 23, 2010 at 9:42 am #

    y not show her u no how 2 do it.

  204. anon July 20, 2010 at 7:05 am #

    help ! iam a bedwetter age 15 and my mom puts my diaper and plastic pants on me every night.i was doing it and didnt make sure my plastic pants covered my diaper so parts of my diaper stuck out from under my plastic pants and there would be wet spots on my sheets.i feel like a baby laying there while my mom puts them on me.how can i convince her to start letting me do it by myself again?

  205. Lea July 17, 2010 at 8:23 pm #

    just wear diapers

  206. Zack July 17, 2010 at 7:26 pm #

    I wet my pets about 5 times in one day! <:O

  207. Lea July 17, 2010 at 4:24 pm #

    Why dont u just wear a diaper?

  208. Lea July 17, 2010 at 4:16 pm #

    My best friend Tyler Kawii is an orphanage orphan.Hes 13 and is a bedwetter.He wets himself everywhere.Including nearly all day at school.He starting wearing diapers all day last week,but his accidents are so big they leak through the diaper.He doeasnt think any one will adopt him because he wets himself all the time.Does any one have any ideas?He doesnt drink anything for like 2 hours before his accident but its still huge.He needs help.Does anyone have an idea how to help him?

  209. Hannah July 16, 2010 at 6:04 pm #

    i wet the bed every night and i am about to be 12.I drink a little before bed.I tried not drinking before bed but that did nothing.The weird thing is is that i never wet the bed at other peoples houses,why?

    Please give me advice

  210. Lea July 13, 2010 at 3:15 pm #

    first of all how much did u drink were you really into what u were doing?Did u drink alot then fall asleep?Maybe it’s not a problem.

  211. Totally distressed pre-teenager July 12, 2010 at 11:46 pm #

    I am 12 years old and i really need help. last night my mom got really mad at me for accidentally wetting the couch. i am so upset. i’m the only one in the family that has this problem. anyone got any answer 4 me????

  212. becca July 12, 2010 at 8:19 am #

    I have never had a bed wetting problem i did wet the bed once but im 16 now and in the past 3 days i have wet my bed 2 times? should i be concerned? I have NEVER had a bed wetting problem. Please help!

  213. Anny July 12, 2010 at 8:15 am #

    I have never had a bed wetting problem before i think i wet the bed once when i was around 5, but right now im 16 and in the past 3 nights i have wet the bed twice? should i be worried. I have NEVER had this problem. Is this serious or am i over reacting. please help!

  214. bobby July 9, 2010 at 1:09 pm #

    find a boyfriend that thinks women in diapers are sexy they are out there

  215. bobby July 9, 2010 at 12:58 pm #

    then wear diapers girls look hot in them anyways

  216. Lea July 8, 2010 at 1:23 pm #

    4 me on lights i go 2 bed early,i dont drink alot past 5.If u stay up late,it will be easier 2 empty youre bladder a little without having 2 change youre underwear pjs sheets and maybe put on a diaper.But this doesnt always work because u mite not stay up late.

  217. Anonymous... July 8, 2010 at 9:54 am #

    hi, i’m an 11 year old girl.
    i wet the bed about twice a week.
    i cant go to many sleepovers or anything :(
    i’m too embarrassed to go to the doctors though…
    anyone got any advice?
    please reply, because i just want it to STOP.
    thanks

  218. chrissy July 7, 2010 at 6:54 am #

    audrena,why dont you wear pull ups if you have a wetting problem.they make them in sizes for teens and work well.i am a wetter and wear them during the day to school,etc.at bedtime its a cloth diaper and plastic pants for me[required by my parents]

  219. lea July 6, 2010 at 10:28 pm #

    Iv alredy given him diapers 4 birthday.He just uses them 4 nite.So 8″{

  220. paul July 3, 2010 at 8:12 am #

    it would be better for you to have a nappy put on you at night,thats all i can say

  221. Miss Me July 2, 2010 at 6:22 pm #

    Ok i admit it. I do day wettings. It’s just like ok done with the bathroom. And after I wipe and flush and pull my pants up the pee just starts flowing again! Im 14 and this is getting out of hand! And it only just started this Year! Im so embarrassed.

  222. sarah July 2, 2010 at 5:51 pm #

    if i were his freind i would ask my parents to adopt him and he can be full potty trained (altho that would be sorta emmbarasing) suprise him with it for like a birthday present or a christmass presant or somthing i think he would realy be happy and i trhink thats verry nice of you to sing to him

  223. g July 2, 2010 at 3:31 pm #

    shutupthishasnothing2dowithbedwettingudiaperedbitch

  224. Audrena July 2, 2010 at 2:40 pm #

    I am 15 years old & I still wet the bed at night. It started just when I was a little kid, but I thought that for sure I would eventually grow out if it but it never happened. It doesn’t happen every night, but almost every week. Whenever it happens I try to hide it and wash my sheets right away so my parents don’t find out. It is really embarassing & even when I spend the night at my friends housse I wet their bed sometimes and I always have to find a way to cover it up. I try not to drink anything at night and I still go to the bathroom every night before I go to sleep but it still happens. I don’t know what to do anymore, I don’t even want to tell a doctor about it or anything because it is just so embarassing.

  225. Dominic June 30, 2010 at 9:47 pm #

    wow. we have 2 things in common. name and problem. i did the same thing when i was 15 but now its not always a problem. i try to say up all night but it just dont work. usually i only spent the night at a friends who had a baby brother or sister or another bed wetter in the house where i could use those secreatly but i dont recament that. just dont drink any thing after 6 and after you go to the bathroom and think you are empty wait for atleat 2 hours and 4 hours at the most and then try to go again and i mean put some force into it just to be sure thats what i did when i didnt have accecc to diapers or pull ups and it worked 99% of the time and when it didnt work i was good at disgising it before any one woke up. or you could just not spend the night but that would look bad on you. if you think your parents would understand then that is the easy way. but not likly. you know your parents better then i do

  226. Dominic June 30, 2010 at 9:34 pm #

    you mother doesnt understand that is true. and i went thru the same thing. i couldnt feel it just woke up after it happens. the problem with parents is that they are not experienced in bed wetting or are experienced in a bad way. im glad (or hope) she doesnt punish you those are the worse kind and can make bed wetting permant and day wettings possible for you in the future

  227. Dominic June 30, 2010 at 9:29 pm #

    your parents minds are in the wrong place. they think they know what they are doing but really they are making it worse. i wish i could put my ideas into words but i just cant. ask them to atleast let you wear under wear over them. thats just wrong to make your kid wear a diaper in public. unless they need it. and you dont. i hope some one can help you good luck : )

  228. Dominic June 30, 2010 at 9:26 pm #

    agreed

  229. Dominic June 30, 2010 at 9:25 pm #

    heck. if i was an adult then i would totally do that for him and help him out. im not a pedifile i just know how he feels and want to let kids and teens like him know its not just him and it cant be helped in his condition. im sure their are others like me who are older and can handle this in a proper way

  230. Lea June 30, 2010 at 1:35 pm #

    Yea i no all about this.My friend Tyler Kawii is 12 nearly 13 and has accidents everywhere.In his bed.Around town.At school.He soaks his pants when he pees himself at school.I’m his only friend.But sadly he has no one 2 help him stop wetting himself.Y?Well he’s an orphan.He doesn’t even have a foster parent 2 help him.He has lived in an orphanage his whole life.He’s sure no one will adopt him because he has wetting accidents everywhere.I’ve suggested he wear diapers 2 school.But he’s scared people will find out and start teasing him like”Oh hear comes the little baby.Do u need your diaper changed?”They’re already teasing him so bad he cries everyday.I take him back 2 the orphanage everyday after school and sing him 2 sleep with songs I write.He wets himself everywhere so he thinks he’ll never have a wife or even get adopted.Does anyone have any ideas?This is a matter of a 13 year old boy getting adopted from an orphanage!Any ideas?

  231. lea June 30, 2010 at 11:57 am #

    Yeah I no all about this.My friend Tyler Kawii is 12 and wets himself everywhere.In his bed.Around town.At school.He soaks his pants when he has accidents at school.I’m his only friend.But sadly he has no one to help him.Y?Well he’s an orphan.He’s sure no 1 will adopt him because he’s nearly 13 and has wetting accidents everywhere.I’ve suggested he wears diapers 2 school.But he is scared people will find out and tell EVERYONE.He’s really embarresed.Does anyone have any suggestions on what he can do.He just can’t hold it.HELP.I’m sick of people teasing him because he wets the bed and wets himself all day at school.Any ideas?HELP!!

  232. Anonymous June 29, 2010 at 1:15 pm #

    I understand. I’m 14 years of age and i still get hit for wetting the bed. My parents just don’t undestand, and they don’t care to listen. idk what to do :(

  233. jordan June 28, 2010 at 4:45 pm #

    i’m 15 and I started wetting when I was thirteen. My parents are very supportive, and the doctors found nothing wrong so I’ve just been wearing diapers at night for two years. I sometimes have day accidents, but not too often. I feel so sorry for people whose parents punish them for wetting, I don’t think I would still be at home if my parents got mad at me for wetting. I almost ended up in the pysch ward already for self injuring, It probably would have been a lot worse if my parents punished me for bedwetting :(

  234. samuel June 26, 2010 at 8:29 am #

    i wet the bed up till 13 i had to wear diaper but still wet aleast 2 times a week

  235. beth June 26, 2010 at 8:26 am #

    i am 14 and a bedwetter.my parents require me to wear one of my bedwetting diapers and plasticpants to church on sundays and for other occasions even tho i dont need them.i have to wear them on easter,thanksgiving,christmas,for weddings,etc.they tell me it makes them feel better when i am wering them.i dont like wearing during the day under a dress as its embarrassing and i always think someone is going to see them on me.sometimes my parents require me to wear just the plastic pants under my dress which i reaaly dont like.how can i get them to stop this?

  236. someone June 25, 2010 at 10:43 pm #

    bed wetting is an illness. It happens because your bladder is too weak too hold your urine so it just flows and you cant have any idea about it. when your bladder is strong, it holds urine until its full so you can feel that you want to pee. but bacause its weak so you cant feel a thing. try my cure: eat pig bladder or whose soever to help yours. its an old asian medication and it works all the time.

  237. someone June 25, 2010 at 10:33 pm #

    well I have a cure for all of you but its a little gross. I used to wet when I was a kid. It went out of control when I turned 6 so my dad did this to me: he boiled the bladder of the pig for me to eat. Its gross but it works because its an old asian medication. Try it and you’ll see. I didnt want to tell you guys about this but you seem depressed so…its worth it right?

  238. daniel June 25, 2010 at 3:53 am #

    i am a 15 year old boy and i stil do it every night , when i go to partys or sleepovers i always have to try and staty up all night and it isnt nicce is there anyhting you can suggest to stop this because its really becoming to much to handle :(

  239. CJ June 19, 2010 at 6:38 am #

    Talk to your doctor s/he can give you a med that helps. I take it and only wet the bed one a month at the most. Don’t drink too much taking the pill or your wet the bed.Hope it helps.

  240. chethan June 16, 2010 at 10:50 pm #

    I am 22 years old, I from India at this age you will be knowing that in India we will be getting married so me too in my family they decided to getting me into the marriage stage so I wanna share with all of you that I still bed wet from my birth, I tried everything to stop but it is been continuing from all the stages of my life so please I request heartly everyone that anyone suggest me how to stop my this bed wetting problem within 3 to 4 months any remedies or tablets anything except (bedwetting alarm). Hence I request everyone to help me out. Any suggestions or answers are always welcomed you can send me to chethan1662@gmail.com

  241. Al June 16, 2010 at 12:01 pm #

    Im 12 and i still wet my bed im sick of my mom telling me to stop doing it but i guess she doesn’t understand that is not my fault.
    And the funny thing is I don’t even feel it when it’s happening.
    It’s very frustrating because i can’t stay in relative’s houses or go to far places.
    PLEASE HELP =(

  242. anon June 14, 2010 at 4:36 pm #

    beth,i have a cousin who is 13 and and wets her pants also like you.she wears pull ups with toddler plastic pants over them when she goes out in public or with friends.she gets the toddler plastic pants at a thrift store.this works for her so you might try it also

  243. Fredllfixit June 14, 2010 at 11:11 am #

    This isn’t the case where a few typed words will “do the trick”. It takes a long time and some work to get to the bottom of it. Contact me via e-mail as I specialize in this subject with a counselling qualification. leedslux@aim.com

  244. MB June 14, 2010 at 10:32 am #

    Are your daughter and husband still not wetting?

  245. Beth June 11, 2010 at 10:38 am #

    Ok, i dont ever wet the bed, but i DO ocassionally wet my pants.. the sad part is that im 13! & its embarressing when i do it in publin places! & its also embarrising when do it, in front of my friends. I cant control it! WHAT DO I DO?!

  246. Anon June 11, 2010 at 7:28 am #

    When I was growing up – we did not have an indoor toilet and so my brother and I had to wear diapers at night and were encouraged to use them. This seemed perfectly normal – but it was all we had ever known.

    When I was about 10, we had a bathroom fitted and it was no longer necessary – but by that time it was so in-grained that we both continued to wear at night until we left home – with our parents blessing.

    Wearing them was only really a convenience – wetting was mostly quite deliberate save for a few accidents. These days I still use them for just that – long car journeys, save having to queue for rest-rooms at the mall, smelly toilets on trains – and just occasionally at night for comfort.

    Al

  247. m June 11, 2010 at 7:08 am #

    taking your life is not the answer ! i wet my bed a lot too im 49 but i dont let it control my life i just live with it and accept that its a dissabillaty that i have to live with it dont make me less of a person! hope you can feel better and not be down so!

  248. Cjoru June 9, 2010 at 12:54 am #

    I Honestly Don’t See Why A Guy Would Dump His GF Because Of A Bedwetting Issue. I Would Try To Help Her, And Make Things Easy. Ach…
    I Have Only Wet My Bed Once, And It Was Because I Got Dead Drunk And Must Have Neglected Using The Toilet.

  249. JohnP June 7, 2010 at 6:02 pm #

    These are very interesting statistics. I have a 4 year old and it is never a problem. He holds his pee pretty well till morning. But now, I am surprise that relatively a large proportion of people even at teenage age can still wet the bed. As long as frequency is not high, not a problem, but maybe there is a market for teenage diapers.

  250. jessy June 7, 2010 at 2:51 pm #

    i use to wet the bed sense i was like 4 untill hmm 14? im 15 and maybe once every 2 or 3 months i do
    i really hated it because it was EVERY SINGLE NIGHT
    i realized i had a bladder infection
    got medicin that didnt help much
    i grew out of it
    but let me tell you it was hard i hid it from my friends i was so embarassed
    so all of you experiencing this just know i feel for you and i know its hard
    hang in there
    lots of love <3 jess

  251. kobda June 5, 2010 at 11:59 am #

    I was 6 years old and still wetted the bed, my parents wonderd about it and when i turned 8, still doing it so i went to a doctor, she told me to stop drinking soda for about 2 hours before bed, didn’t work and so my life went on, until I turned 11, my friends wanted me to come over and sleep over, I had to make something up but at age 13 I had a very truthful friend that I told, and she didn’t make fun of me or nothing but made me feel better about my self, my parents became good friends and now i sleep over with her. But now I’m 14 and want to do somthing about it so i went to this wonderful doctor and told me to take Catalyn and do this exercise Kegel and it WORKSHope this works, it did me!!!

  252. kopda June 5, 2010 at 9:33 am #

    I AM 17 YEARS OLD AND I WET THE BED EVERYDAY, I USE TO CRY BUT NOW I JUST WANT TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT BECAUSE IT BOTHERS ME ALOT AND THE FUNNY PART IS THAT I DONT EVEN FEEL IT WHEN IT HAPPENS. IT HURTS SO MUCH. I GO TO MY DADS HOUSE IN JERSEY AND I FEEL SO EMBARRASED. PEOPLE THERE TELL ME WHY YOU DONT STOP DOING IT, YOU ARE JUST DOING IT CUZ YOU WANT TO!!, BUT YOU KNOW WHAT THEY DONT EVEN KNOW HOW IT REALLY FEELS AND HOW MUCH IT AFFECTS ME IN EACH AND EVERY WAY. ITS SAD BECAUSE I CANT DO THINGS ABOUT IT RIGHT NOW AND I HAVE TAKEN PILLS THAT DEAL WITH BED WETTING BUT ITS NOT ENOUGH AND IT REALLY DOES NOT HELP. ITS FRUSTRATING BECAUSE AS I GROW OLDER I CAN THINK TO MYSELF OUTLOUD AND I SAY TO MYSELF, I DONT WANT TO LIVE MY WHOLE LIFE LIVING WITH THIS, I JUST WANT IT TO STOP AND IM WILLING TO DO ANYTHING SO THAT THIS PROBLEM CAN GO AWAY, I REALLY WISH THERE WAS A CURE, A REAL ONE THAT CAN ASSURE ME THAT, IT WONT EVER HAPPEN EVER AGAIN!!!!

  253. Anonimo June 5, 2010 at 7:54 am #

    pues tengo 18 años y sinquerer hoy maje la cama pero no se por que nunca me habia pasado puede que sea algo malo ?
    o puede ser porque tome demasiada agua de jamaica en todo el dia ??

  254. rusty June 4, 2010 at 9:55 pm #

    hi my little brother still pees the bed i hate it because i always have to change him what should i do he is 16

  255. Sarah June 4, 2010 at 9:54 am #

    hey, I know what you’re going through…it’s so hard. What’s REALLY stressfull is the fear of REJECTION<<that is the main reason. It's so embarassing, this fear of staying the night or having a bf/gf.

    I'm 21 yrs old & will be transferring from community college nxt fall to a UC…I'm just scared of living in a dorm b/c of my issue :( It's only at night (almost every night) and I've heard that I've got primary nocturnal enuresis (based on research)<<<which is where you wet every night since the day you were born.

    I remember going to the doctor as a kid & after some tests they told my mother that everything was completely normal (like my bladder…I remember having to hold my pee for a very long time while they did like an ultra sound<<I guess to test my bladder capacity??).

    It just really sucks to have this & feel like you can never be with someone you'd really like. This issue may be due to me being a deep sleeper when I hit REM; whatever the reason, it's very stressful and I don't want to ever give up finding a solution that won't be hazardous to my health (like the consequences of taking meds your whole life).

  256. ANONwhohatestrolls June 2, 2010 at 1:11 am #

    I can’t believe how many stupid and perverted trolls these sites get. Any story about any one forced into diapers excessively is likely a troll. Anything with the Catholic stories are crazy, it makes no sense at all, they can’t even tell convincing stories.

  257. Jack May 30, 2010 at 10:38 am #

    It’s kind of strange. I see all this talk about teenage girls almost being tortured through their parents making them wear diapers and rubber panties. I don’t know if they’re actually serious, or if they’re just a 13 year old with a diaper or urine fetish, but I promise that this kind of activity does go on. My parents and I were invited to a Christmas party last year by a good friend of our family, a party for the community (I live in a small town). It was held at one of our towns politician’s houses. And when his daughter came down from upstairs (I’m gonna guess she was 16 or 17), she was wearing a short party dress with a diaper and rubber panties underneath. I know because I was 17 at the time and went over to talk to her for a while, not that it wasn’t obvious anyway. But at some point during the party, she actually wet the diaper. She said it was because “she got nervous.” I don’t know about that. In fact, I don’t know what kind of effect stuff like this is having on teens, but it can’t good for them mentally.

  258. Kayla May 30, 2010 at 2:23 am #

    I am a 16 year old girl and all of the sudden one night I just wet the bed for what seems to be no reason what so ever and I can’t think of anything help!

  259. Anonymous October 7, 2009 at 9:36 am #

    Ann Landers said most bed wetting is due to sleep disorders and 90% of the people can be cured in 6-10 weeks. Go to http://www.hargitthousefoundation.com and free yourself. I hope this helps all of you , Jesus who is God in flesh loves you.

  260. Anonymous October 7, 2009 at 8:44 am #

    oh my god the same exact thing happend to me i freaked out to, i havent wet the bed since i was like 4 years old and this morning i woke up and was scared, im scared it will happen again when im sleeping at someones house.

  261. Anonymous October 3, 2009 at 7:30 am #

    I’m a 17 going on 18 year old female and I never had wet the bed for as longest I can remember. This morning was the first time it happen.I freaked out,so I knew I had to google it.My question is still not answer..Why did I wet the bed this morning ? I don’t know what’s going on..like I said before this NEVER happen to me. I’m just not a bed wetter. I’m guessing now I am.This totally sucks…….help me.!!!

  262. Anonymous October 1, 2009 at 6:52 pm #

    I have the same problem and I’m 13 & male and I don’t know what to do I’m going on a school field trip to montreal for three days and no one knows yet but if I don’t stop it they will

  263. Anonymous September 30, 2009 at 12:50 pm #

    i am 17 nearly 18 and i still wet the bed from as far as i can remember i dont know why i do it ive tried desmotabs and desmomelts and sum other thing but they dont work all the time it anoys me i am going to try some sort of anti depressents from the 1950’s that apparantly worked for bed wetting my parents know and family my exes know and my boyfriend and my best friend they have stood by me and tried 2 help me it doesnt happen 7days a week maybe 3,4,5 times i find that sumtimes wen i sleepout i dont as well its frustrating wen i have been told that these are the last tablets i can try i have had ultrasounds and they have all come back fine i dont know what set it off and i dont know why but my doctor said that it could still happen for another 10 years its so embarassing i feel ashamed when i stop out. i got kicked out not so long since and stayed at my best mates house and slept in her and her boyfriends bed with her and i had wet the bed i felt so dirty and ashamed telling her i just wanted to crawl up and die i wish there was sum kind of cure my boyfriend wants me to move in with him when he moves out of his mums but i am scared coz of this problem i find if i stay up till the early hours of the morning i dont i dont know what to do anymore i have to have a plastic sheet on ma matress the ones you get wen u get new ones and everytime i wet the bed i use a clean tea towel and disenfectant and it gets rid of the smell easily if any one has any sugestions please let me no

  264. Anonymous September 22, 2009 at 2:39 pm #

    Hi, i feel your frustration.
    i moved out into a uni flat….it wasnt an issue at 1st but then as i got more comfortable…the bedwetting started up again. i dont get it!
    it doesnt really happen when i stay over at mates or my boyfriend…except for this one time and i was absolutely mortified but he was really cool about it. its like when im in a new environment or bed im fine…but as soon as im comfortable, i let go.

    Im 20 and still wetting the bed. my parents dont know what to do anymore. the only way i try to help myself is to have one of those old fashion alarm clocks with no snooze button. place it on the other side of the room so when it goes off…you have to get up to switch it off and because your up, you might aswell go relieve yourself.
    try that with the usual combination of avoiding late night conversations that make you too tired, staying up too late making you tired also and no liquids after 7.30pm (depends on what time you usually go to bed)

    I also ordered on of those incontinence underlay bedsheets to protect my mattress of a website. they’re really good. they trap all liquids so it wont soak your mattress. traps the smell as well.

    hope that helps

  265. Anonymous September 22, 2009 at 9:31 am #

    i am 19 and a bedwetter also.i dont like it either but have to live with it.i wear cloth diapers and plastic pants to bed every night.this works best for me.

  266. Anonymous September 21, 2009 at 4:02 pm #

    19 year old male. Loves to party. Makes more than enough money to move out and have a good time, yet I’m scared shitless because of this goddamned problem. Seriously, if this continues into adulthood… I’m ripping my bladder out.

    Anyone who’s my age or around it and wants to chit chat, feel free.

  267. Anonymous September 19, 2009 at 6:41 am #

    im 13 i still wet the bed. but i get up at night to use the restroom, and i still wet the bed.
    i stop wetting the bed every other week. but when i start again it just gets worse.
    please help

  268. Anonymous September 18, 2009 at 2:47 am #

    im 19… and i wet the bed for the first time ever just last night…. except i have a boyfriend… so ill be avoiding staying there for a while… i have a feeling it might start happening a bit… how often are you doing it?x

  269. Anonymous September 7, 2009 at 8:43 pm #

    hi im a 19 and yes i still wet the bed and i hate it so much ……………

  270. Anonymous September 4, 2009 at 6:19 pm #

    im going to camp in 5th grade this year and i will emerass my self with my girl frien and friends i need F**KING help

  271. Anonymous September 3, 2009 at 9:29 am #

    13 and such a filthy mouth, bedwetting is not your only problem. If a 13 year old girl wants you to spend the night, she’s just a slut. Where are the parents? Are they aware of this?

  272. Anonymous September 2, 2009 at 10:14 am #

    my girlfriend wants me to spend the night with her and im 13. im so scared ill embaress myself and everyone will know that i wear pullups that ive doged her and all of that stuff. i rarely ever sleepover at friends houses cuz im so afraid of that. Life is so cruel to us to make us to make us like that, ive tried medicines and all there is to try but it just doesnt work. I can go to the bathroom when im up late (like 12-2) and then i dont have to use a pullup but thats during the summer cuz i need my sleep in the schoolyear. FML.

  273. Anonymous August 29, 2009 at 6:55 am #

    i am 18 years old & i have NEVER EVER EVER had a problem with wetting the bed & then all of a sudden this week ive wet the bed two times!!! i am freaking out because i just moved into college & what the heck is my roommate going to think of that?? luckily she has been gone both nights that it’s happened but im really afraid that its going to happen again. i have no idea what has been making it happen all of a sudden. i just wake up & realize that i am peeing. its horrible & i feel really stupid about it because i should be able to stop it from happening…anybody got any advice??

  274. Anonymous August 24, 2009 at 7:30 am #

    my two daughters ages 15 and 12 were baptized at easter vigil also and wore the traditional white poofy baptism dresses with bonnets,lace socks and satin booties.under their dresses they wore the standard white tee shirt,cloth diaper and shiny rubber pants in adult size.they didnt have a problem with the diapers and rubberpants.all the girls be baptized wore the same outfits and looked very cute and pure.

  275. Anonymous August 23, 2009 at 4:46 pm #

    How old is your girlfriend 55? and why would her parents let you stay over if she were still under age. Is it possible that your girlfriend is your sister or is it your wet-dream that you even have a girlfriend??

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  276. Anonymous August 23, 2009 at 5:40 am #

    I’m 27 and I have similar problems. I found the best soloution is to not drink much on nights out, keep the drinks down to small alcopops and small vodka and cokes. If I drink pints I’ll wet the bed.

    Carlo

  277. Anonymous August 20, 2009 at 9:57 pm #

    i’m 13 and i have the problem . it fuckin sucks . my girlfriend keeps wanting me to spend the night with her and i’m scared i’ll embarass myself . what did misfits like us do to deserve this ?

  278. Anonymous August 17, 2009 at 7:40 am #

    wear the diaper and plastic pants.no one will know you have them on and it gives you a secure feeling knowing you are protected against accidents.i was a junior bride when i was 15 and wore a thick cloth diaper with cute plastic pants over it under my dress.i got nervous and had an accident and the diaper saved the day for me.i then wore the diaper and plastic pants under my white confirmation dress a year later,but did not have an accident.

  279. Anonymous August 18, 2009 at 5:42 am #

    hi all iam 18 and yes i still wet the bed if any one need some one to talk to or if u are a female single live in aus wollongong please msn me because iam look for a gf or a gud friends to share our problems iam here to help the teens going threw the same prob message me at ep.18@live.com

  280. Anonymous August 9, 2009 at 10:35 pm #

    hi im 24 and im still in dipers i am been looking for a gf but i can never get one it is that im in dipers so if u like to text me or e-mail me at jerissw@yahoo.com

  281. Anonymous August 10, 2009 at 12:48 pm #

    omg girl im the same..im 12 i have alot of friends they dont knoe…but girl dont trip its no big deal….

  282. Anonymous August 10, 2009 at 8:54 am #

    help! i am 16 and going to be the junior bride in my cousins wedding on aug 22.my mom informed that i WILL wear a diaper and plastic pants under me dress in case i have an accident.i dont want to wear them but she said i have to.what can i do?

  283. Anonymous August 9, 2009 at 11:08 am #

    every night almost i wet the bed and i wish to stop doing this! i try to pee right before i go to bed and i still wet the bed i feel soo embaresed to be the only one to wet the bed in my family! and i dont even want to tell my freinds, they will laugh at me forever! :'{ please help me! soon im gonna try going to the doctor about this i hope i get fixed up

  284. Anonymous August 7, 2009 at 10:00 pm #

    ive been wettin the bed 4 my whole life basically everynite n now at 19 its stil fuckin happenin. Went 2 the doctors n ran sum tests shit like camera thru the urethra 2 chek 4 blockages and bladder size. They didnt find any blockages and that bladder was average size but that dnt sound rite 2 me coz i measured how much piss i culd release on a full bladder 4 my age n gender, male, ive read it like 800ml or roundabouts afta holding it in till it startd 2 hurt i only managed 2 get 250ml so i dnt understand. Then was put on these pill ditropan think they are called n they workd 4 bout a month n then jus stopped workin so even when i take the tablet i stil wet the bed. This shit is really messing with my head it stops me from doing so much like afta a nite out i cnt go bak 2 a chicks place or bring her home also when stayin a mates i pretty much just dnt sleep also im training 2 get ready 4 the army (wanna go far hopefully SASR) my training is going great but coz of the bed wetting going 2 training camps it would b 2 hard 2 hide. I made a deal with myself if by the age of 21 im still wetting the bed and there stil no progress on it ceasing im gunna end it myself maybe whereva i go il b able 2 hav a good nights sleep n wake up in the morning DRY.

  285. Anonymous July 28, 2009 at 6:17 pm #

    im 13 turning 14 soon and high school there alot of sleep overs with ur friends and sometimes you have to share beds with your sister when family comes around and sometimes amlost the time u pee ur bed and then your sister gets mad at you and you bring down your wet sheets and your family is like i see you wet your bed any and they starts to make fun of you and you feel all sad and say why me why does this happen to me of all person its not fair it sucks everytime it gets drak i was like i have to wake up early to clean the shetts again before anyone see me washing it again like always i just wish this never happen to me again and i want this to go away as soon as possible

  286. Anonymous July 28, 2009 at 8:57 am #

    Ok, well see, I am 13 and I still wear pullups to. My parents are tight on the money, so they decided to stop buying them [$14 for a pack of 14!!! :O] Yeah so I am JUST like you! Well I have not tried medicine or anything, but I have tried azn alam clock, parents waking me up, and EVERYTHING else!! I refuse to take pills though, because I am afraid of them. By the way, my name is Kirsti. And mine doesn’t run in the family. So yeah. I even PRAY too hoping that God will answer my prayers….but, I’m still peeing so sometyimes i feel that God is not with me. So I feel hurt and last night when I woke up for the first time….guessw hat? I was wet. So I caught mysefl cussing at God. So I asked for 4givness. But yeah, I know how you feel. Now I am not sure if your a boy or a girl, [I am a girl] but if you would reply and maybe we could start being emailing pals, ya know to update each other on our “problem” then that would be great! But yes, I know how each and everyone of us people feels. And it especially has stopped me from sleeping over at anyones house, for the reason we had to stop buying pull-ups…So yes. I only sleep over at my Best Friends House bc she knows that I am trying to stop. But ok. I am gonna go. Bye person!

  287. Anonymous July 22, 2009 at 1:20 pm #

    i am female and roman catholic.it is a tradition at our parish for the girls up to 17 to wear the full infant type baptism outfit..our parish gives each girl being baptized a pair of white plastic pants to wear over her cloth diaper under her baptism gown.the baptism diaper and plastic pants are then worn under the girls communion dress also.my two teen daughters ages 16 and 13 were baptized in 2008 and each wore the full infant outfit.they made their first communions a month later and i put their baptism diapes and plastic pants on them and they wore them for the day.all of the girls wore a diaper and plastic pants under their dresses.

  288. Anonymous July 22, 2009 at 8:09 am #

    Have you tried Hypnotherapy ?

  289. Anonymous July 22, 2009 at 8:06 am #

    If you were the legal guardian etc; well if you have a son who is 14 I do pity him as if you have a son of 14 Your spelling is terrible you need adult literacy lessons Im sorry I dont believe you I think you are 14 and are fantasizing about nappies lol

  290. Anonymous July 21, 2009 at 1:56 am #

    Hi I don’t know your name or anything but i wet the bed to even sence i was a baby i know how you feel, i don’t know if mine runs in the family but what i do know is that your not alone i wear diapers to and sometimes mine don’t work i am a heavy sleeper to i have tried everything even medicine and nothing works well ill HELP you on this okay dont give up on hope, there is something out there and we will find it okay keep in touch

  291. Anonymous July 21, 2009 at 1:48 am #

    Hi I don’t know your name or anything but i wet the bed to even sence i was a baby i know how you feel, i don’t know if mine runs in the family but what i do know is that your not alone i wear diapers to and sometimes mine don’t work i am a heavy sleeper to i have tried everything even medicine and nothing works well ill HELP you on this okay dont give up on hope, there is something out there and we will find it okay keep in touch

  292. Anonymous July 20, 2009 at 9:14 pm #

    i am a 13 year old girl and my mom doent understand my “problem” my sister stoped wetting the bed at like 4 i dont know if it runs in the family cuz i cant trust wat he says i wear dipers but some times they dont work i am a heavy sleeper and i have a lot of stress ive tryed every thing but medicine my mom thinks ill get “addicted” to pills like my dad how do i confince her thet im not gonna try to get high on bed wetting HELP ive been a bed wetter since i was a baby and i dont know any one that wets the bed to!!!

  293. Anonymous July 19, 2009 at 5:22 pm #

    I’m almost 20 years old, my hope for growing out of this is non-existent, its been 13 years of this bullshit and its still going on. It was ever night for years, then it slowed down to almost nothing maybe once or twice a month, then it was back for the nightly pool party. Its really terrible to let yourself get shit on by your parents about this. They have accused me of everything in the book and basically this is all my fault. My mom made me feel insecure and scared to have normal relationships and it really didn’t help with me forming Sociopathic Antisocial behavior disorder. If you let your family get you down you will end up a depressed, angry, people hating dick like me and you don’t want that. I’ve done every drug in the book minus heroin and meth. Acid, shrooms, smoked weed everyday for 3 years, I’m addicted to ciggarettes, cocaine, anything that is accessible because I truly hate my life and alot of it has to do with 13 years of waking up and realized “Oh shit, here I am again wet, a total loser.”

    Have confidence in yourself and realize that it really doesn’t matter. I have kept my problem underwraps for many years and I never turned down any sleepovers never turned down a trip or an adventure. You just have to realize that this is your thing, it may be with you for a very long time. My dad left us and I started pissing, and here I am today still doing it a time or 2 a week possibly much more possibly a little less really depends. It has nothing to do with your routine, its got nothing to do with anything really. I have changed every thing I do, and I have changed nothing and statistically its been the same results. Pills didn’t ever help me so don’t think its the end all be all because it might not be, realize this might not go away and you will have to live a very painful life, but realize also that there are people out there that are so incredibly good in their hearts and they will love you regardless.

    My fiance is the sweetest person and she’s way out of my league. I’m not ugly but I’m not the hottest guy out there either, she’s amazing. Nobody understands why she is with me but she is and I’ve pissed on her so many times its not even fathomable but SHE DOES NOT CARE!!!! She knows like any logical person would that if it was up to me I would wake up every time. You too will find this person. They’re all around you, you just don’t know it. It isn’t hard for you to get friends either. Most of my friends have no idea. Only 2 people have ever found out about my problem the rest of them have no idea. Out of the dozens of people I have spent time with and stayed at houses with and etc, only 2 people ever found out and they never spoke a word so be fearless when it comes to making friends just make sure you are always prepared to cover your tracks like I always do.

    My hardest part about this problem is right now though, with the baby on the way and rough job outlooks I’m attempting to join the military but I fear heavy reprisals from drill instructors and fellow recruits. I know that it will be impossible to hide my problem like I have from my friends. I really need to find a way to at least temporarily stop this problem while I am in bootcamp and job training. I don’t think they will let me stay if they know I mess up the bed up to a few times a week.

    Stay strong people its not that bad.

  294. Anonymous July 19, 2009 at 9:11 am #

    help ! i am 17 and a girl and started wetting the bed due to emotional problems.my parents are threatning me with diapers and rubberpants if i dont stop soon.i dont want the diapers and rubberpantsbut feel i cant stop wetting the bed.what can i do?

  295. Anonymous July 5, 2009 at 8:40 pm #

    Hey im am thirteen year old girl who wet the bed I wet the bed four or three times at nite and I tired changing and washing up. It so annoying I couldn’t take it anymore now I don’t have a mattress now I have to sleep the bed sprung it so uncomfortable it so hard.my mom said if I stop watting in the bed for 6 weeks she going to buy me new mattress back. I need help how I suppouse stop watting in the bed? I need information! Please!

  296. Anonymous July 2, 2009 at 4:45 pm #

    I am 18 and I didn’t start wetting the bed until I was 10. I am in college, and when I lived in my dorm it was never a problem. But when I would come home on weekends and stuff I wet the bed almost every night. I don’t know why I wet the bed but I do. I wear cloth diapers and rubber pants every night. I was too embarrassed to go to the doctor but now that I know there’s plenty of other people in this situation I think I am going to go. Maybe I will get a pill or something to help me.

  297. Anonymous July 2, 2009 at 8:04 pm #

    hey i still do it to

  298. Anonymous June 30, 2009 at 2:14 pm #

    yea im 15 yrs old. and i still wet my bed. yes its super embarrasing. like my mom would scold me and stuff and im soo sick of her telling me. i keep trying to explain to her that i dnt recognize it when it happens i jst wake up and find that im all wet. its really embarrasing. i hav 2 younger sisters and they arent wettign the bed . at first i thought i was the only one that was doing it so i thought of researching about it. ive cross out all the possible cause of my wetting. and ive tried almst all of the precautions. plss help me. i dnt want to do this anymre. im sick of it and im embarrased.

    get at me @ grblisngag_94@yahoo.com

  299. Anonymous June 30, 2009 at 10:25 am #

    HEY IM 13 AND I CANT STOP PEEING IN THE BED I DONT PEE IN MY MOMS BED BUT I DO ALL THE TIME IN MINE I NEED HELP

  300. Anonymous June 28, 2009 at 5:57 am #

    i think your right all you have to do is get a pill it will make you stop bedwetting and it will be so much easy.

  301. Anonymous June 28, 2009 at 5:55 am #

    i never ever wet the bed

  302. Anonymous June 23, 2009 at 11:54 pm #

    hey i’m 18 and still wet the bed what do i do

  303. Anonymous June 22, 2009 at 7:24 pm #

    Hello i have a sister who is 16, She has ADHD and Bad Autism. I am only 18 and my mum died december 17th 2008 :( i also have a younger sister who is 13 nearlly 14 but the thing is that my 16 year old sister has 2 wear nappies all day and night has she dont no when to go! please help i dont no what 2 do because i cant control my sister who is 16 she just rips off her nappy all the time xx Write Back x Thankyou 4 your time x

  304. Anonymous June 20, 2009 at 11:51 pm #

    you can get a pill from your doctor which stops you from bedwetting. speak to your local doctor about it. it works great for me.

  305. Anonymous June 15, 2009 at 10:43 am #

    you should wear cloth diapers and plastic pants for your bedwetting.i am 13 and wear them to bed every night

  306. Anonymous July 10, 2009 at 4:49 am #

    I’m 18 and I’ve been peeing in the bed since I can remember. Durning my Senior year no so much, however for the pass three days straight I’ve been peeing in my bed. I don’t know what is wrong. I tried to figure out what I change in my daily routine, but all my day looking basically the same, except I started back exercising again. I don’t want to worry about this when I go to college in a couple of months and next week I go to orientation. Please I really need some help on fixing this. My parents see it as I’m just being lazy and aren’t trying to help me, they just ignore the whole situation. I don’t know what to do. Please help.

  307. Anonymous August 15, 2009 at 11:55 am #

    im 12 and wet the bed and yes ive talked 2 my mom bout it and we tink it would b good 2 c s doc bout my prob…i hope that i can take some sort ov pill 4 it..i think im the only 1 in my family who has the prob..my mom dad bro and sis r the only 1’s who no bout it…mom thought that once i had my..well u no PMS it would stop comming..but it hasnt worked..i dont have probs during the day its at night when i have probs…mom says its cause im a really heavy sleeper…my sis said dont eat or drink anything after 8:30 that way by the time i go 2 bed at 9 or 9:30 my bladder will b empty and i wont have a prob..im worried bout the prob not going away even as i get older..any suggestions??

  308. Anonymous June 1, 2009 at 10:52 am #

    did you ask your doctor about that wetting problem… and the problem about your boyfriends if they will not accept you as what you are? So move on find another man… THAT’S IT… I want to share this to you… http://www.thankgodforebooks.com/boyfriends-dumped.html a sad story of a woman…

  309. Anonymous July 12, 2009 at 9:25 am #

    why dont you try wearing daipers? i am thirteen and a bedwetter and i wear cloth diapers and plastic pants to bed every night..they keep my bed dry.i dont mind wearing the diapers at all.they make and sell plastic pants in pastel colors as well as prints so you would feel girly while wering them

  310. Anonymous July 8, 2009 at 12:47 am #

    k and if u have a problem with bed wetting and ur beds all messed up and u want to get another one or prevent from messing it up at walmart they sell plastic bed cover up thing it just slips over ur bed ya its annoying buy at least ur not sleeping on a pissy mess or buy an air matress pee wont rewen it everytime i use to wet the bed i always had an air matress or plastic cover up all u do is wipe it up with a dirty towel then get a clean towl and like spray like disenffectent and airsol for the smell i used fantastic and febreez and it was like it never happend hope it helps……

  311. Anonymous July 8, 2009 at 12:36 am #

    im 16 and i have wetted the bed untill the age 14 i know ur people dont understand unless it happens to them my mom use to tell me that i was just lazy and didnt wake up to go okay so im gonna go in my bed no its not that my body didnt wake me up and let me know if i had to go i later then found out i wasnt born with that horemone so ladies its okay ul eventually grow out of it every body has there own cons urs just happens to suck and dont be afraid to have fun all night just tell ur good friends if there good friends theyll under stand and sound serious when u tell them and il i can tell u is just prepare wear diapers when u stay some where its not like people can tell…..
    dont hate ur self for it just think positive and think that ur not the only one with the problem theres someone with the same problome and there by ur side just if people say stuff ignore em cuz it dosent change who u are as a person and one day ul out grow it i promise…..

  312. Anonymous July 7, 2009 at 2:27 am #

    if i was the legal gurdian of her i would hould her down and put the nappies on her and if she rippep of i would punnish her ihave a son whois 14 and his is not potty trained becaused he lived with his mum and i just won custody i dont mind him in nappies i have asked him iwants to use the toilet but he says no dad it just embarrising in public changing him beccuse me or my wife has to take him to the bathroom ttochange

  313. Anonymous May 26, 2009 at 9:01 am #

    at our church the older girls[preteen and teen] wear the traditional white gowns,bonnets ,tights and booties or shoes.they wear a cloth diaper and plastic pants under the tights just like baby girls do.our daughter wore the entire outfit for her baptism at 14 and looked very cute and baby like for the day.

  314. Anonymous May 26, 2009 at 8:55 am #

    you should use regular cloth diapers and rubberpants on her.good nites have to be diaposed of in the trash and dont decay in the landfill for a long time.my husband and i adopted two sisters ages 13 and 10 a year ago and we used the cloth diapers and rubberpants on them for the first few months.they both wet the bed almost every night and the diapers and rubberpants worked out well.they are both out of the diapers now but i keep a diaper and rubberpants in each of their drawers for them to wear for holidays and special occasions.

  315. Anonymous May 25, 2009 at 6:30 am #

    i feel this girl is right in expressing her opinions.i am 20 and was a bedwetter for 3 years from 14 to 17.i wore the cloth diapers and plastic pants to bed every night and my mom put them on me at bed time.i was told the same thing by my parents that cloth diapers and plastic pants were more appropriate for girls than boys.i was not allowed to wear disposables.i had 2 girlfriends who were bedwetters also and they wore cloth diapers and plastic pants also.the three of us would have slumber parties and talk about our experiences.i was confirmed at 16 and had to wear a white dress and veil for the ceremony.my mom brought out one of my diapers and plastic pants and told me i had to wear them under my dress to make me feel more pure and baby like.i did not like wearing them under my dress and felt weird!

  316. Anonymous May 24, 2009 at 3:17 am #

    I’m 19 and I’ve been wetting the bed since I could realize it when I woke up. When I was little it used to be every other day. Same routine. .all they way until I was 13. .my parents were linient about it then, because they figured I would grow out of it. At 14, I was still wetting in the bed and my father started whooping me for it then. .saying I could get up and use the rest room if I wanted to. .they were terrible. .because I wanted to avoid the whoopings so badly but I couldn’t. He had me wearing depends at the age of 15 for 6 months. .didn’t help at all. I’ve ruined many beds. .even some sheets. He stopped the beatings at age 16, because I wrote a suicide letter saying I would kill myself if I had the nerve to. When I spent the night with my grandmother it seems she was the only person I could spill my heart out to about the situation. Sometimes I cried for hours. .because no one understood what it felt like to be a yound adult and still wetting the bed. Now I’m 19, and I wet the bed about 4 maybe 6 times a month. .never wore plastic pants. .but was always traumatized about it. .and I know its depressing. .but I’ve done it for so long. .I just don’t care anymore. How am I supposed to teach my niece to stop wetting in the bed if I can’t? It’s crazy. .

  317. Anonymous May 20, 2009 at 10:38 am #

    Well hello there “Tiffany”. Seems I have stumbled into you and your lies again, doesn’t it?

    People, please don’t listen to this person. He, or she, or whatever (likely he) has a diaper fetish and likes to lie about it to other people. He gets his jollies by pretending to be a teenage girl who was put in diapers for a catholic baptism.

    I can tell you with authority that no Catholic Church or diocese has ever required young girls to be diapered for baptism or confirmation. This is a sexual fantasy this guy tries to push on other people via boards where there are real people with real problems. It’s sick, really.

  318. Anonymous May 19, 2009 at 7:59 am #

    http://www.pivoo.net/blog/parents-can/

  319. Anonymous May 19, 2009 at 7:58 am #

    Wetting the bed is a very common problem that has been studied extensively. There are a lot of misconceptions about wetting the bed. So let’s get you up to speed on the facts.

    – The medical term for bedwetting is enuresis (pronounce: en-yoo-ree-sus).
    – Children do not wet the bed on purpose. It’s not a behavioural problem.

    Let’s start with the good news. Almost all children who wet the bed eventually stop. Learning to control your bladder takes time. So wetting the bed isn’t even an issue before the age of six. It’s a normal part of child development and parents can not do anything to speed up this process.

    It’s hard to tell what exactly causes bed-wetting. It’s usually a combination of factors. Here are some of the factors researchers found:

    – Wetting the bed runs in the family.
    – Children who wet the bed are often very heavy sleepers.
    – Stress.
    – A small bladder.

    Bed-wetting may also be caused by a medical problem. If your child is wetting the bed above the age of six, it is probably a good idea to see your house doctor. Some of the most common medical reasons for wetting the bed are.

    – Urinary tract infections.
    – Problems with the urethral valves in boys or in the ureter in girls or boys.
    – Problems with the spinal cord.
    – Problems with hormones.
    – Slower than normal development of the central nervous system.

    There are a lot of different treatments for bed-wetting. It’s always a good idea to discuss these with your doctor. Here are some of your options.

    – Limit the amount of fluids your child drinks after diner. You still need to make sure he of she drinks enough during the day.
    – Bladder training: Let your child practice holding his or her urine for longer times during the day. This can stretch the bladder so it can hold more urine during the night.
    – An alarm system that goes of when your child starts wetting the bed. It helps children become more aware of bladder sensations.
    – A reward system for dry nights.
    – Having children take more responsibility by changing the bed sheets themselves.

    When your child changes the bed sheets himself, the brain starts to associate wetting the bed with having to change the bed sheets at a subconscious level. Never use ‘changing the bed sheets’ as a punishment. Children have no conscious control over wetting the bed. If you use a reward system for dry nights, also make sure you appreciate your child just for being himself. Make sure that your child understands that he or she is always good enough and loved as a person. And that the reward is only about the behavior of not wetting the bed. These are some of the things parents can do.

    MOST IMPORTANT
    The most important thing any parent can do is to remember to give your child room to vent frustration and talk about shameful feelings if they want to. And to instill the message that they are always worthy and that you do not see them as lazy or untidy. It is much more important that your child feel good about himself than trying to change wetting the bed. Bed-wetting usually goes away but your child’s self-esteem stays for a lifetime and greatly influences the quality of his life. Let’s not lose track of what is really important. You can find more information about allowing your child to talk about feelings and building self-esteem in our ‘Sam and Bear Make Friends’ parents guide. You may comment on this parenting advice below.

  320. BJS May 4, 2009 at 3:20 pm #

    Meditate your way to better bladder health
    http://www.scienceblog.com/cms/meditate-your-way-better-bladder-health-20842.html

  321. Anonymous May 1, 2009 at 12:07 am #

    i wet once, it was so random, I woke up without the need to pee then all of a sudden, golden liquid started to trickle out of me. i jut told mum and it was all fine. I was about 3 when that happened

  322. Anonymous April 30, 2009 at 6:48 pm #

    That is realy scary that your mom is like that i would tell someone at school your mom has a problem she needs help

  323. Anonymous April 24, 2009 at 3:41 pm #

    hi iam spina bifida almost 50 and have to wear nappies 24/7 i hate it but have no option so spare a thout

  324. Anonymous April 19, 2009 at 3:10 pm #

    y do u make your daughter wear a diaper to be bapitized at 14

  325. Anonymous April 15, 2009 at 10:51 am #

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  326. Anonymous July 30, 2009 at 8:26 pm #

    what can we do of our problem? im 15 going on 16 & still wetting my bed at least 2 times a week:-(

  327. Anonymous April 10, 2009 at 2:05 pm #

    Bedwetting is a developmental problem. The best way to cure it is through some type of conditioned response training, probably using an alarm. If this fails, it is time to consult a physician.
    http://www.onbedwetting.com/

  328. Anonymous April 10, 2009 at 6:23 am #

    i am 17 and female.i have been a bedwetter for two years and wear a cloth diaper and plastic pants to bed every night.my parents told me they are more natural for girls to wear than boys.i have talked to other girls,both preteen and teen who wet the bed and the majority of them wear the cloth diapers and plastic pants.their parents as well as mine wont let them wear goodnites or pullups.i have been to bedwetting forums and found this to be true.the bedwetting boys mainly wear the goodnites or disposables and if they wear the cloth diaper and plastic pants they are considered sissies.why is it that parents think their daughters are more baby like and have them wear the cloth diapers and plastic pants yet boys dont wear them as a general rule?have any other bedwetting girls experienced this? i feel it is very unfair!

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    really help to

  330. Anonymous April 6, 2009 at 2:01 am #

    I have never wet my bed ever in my life, but however on saturday night i was babysittin and had the 2 young children at my house, and i only had about 2 hours sleep that night, but during that 2 hours, i must have wet my self, and i woke up to find my bed sopping.

    i felt very ashamed to say the least, as my partner was laid at the side ov me. what could the problem be?

    and before i went to bed, i didn’t even feel the need to have a wee, as i already went.x

  331. Anonymous April 1, 2009 at 7:24 pm #

    My 11 year old wears pampers all the time to bed she likes them and some times she puts on hugges to so one of them Dont get goodnights they leak alot

  332. Anonymous March 31, 2009 at 9:16 am #

    to the mom of the 14 year old daughter being baptized,you should use the regular pull on rubberpants on her and they should fit somewhat baggy.we baptized our 15 year old daughter last easter and i put adult size rubberpants on her over her baptism diaper.they bloused out over the diaper and crinkled under her poofy dress.

  333. Anonymous March 31, 2009 at 9:09 am #

    my husband and i are adopting a 12 year old girl from ireland next month.we are going to have wear a diaper to bed a night fot the first few weeks untill she get adjusted to her new environment..we have been discussing what kind of diaper she should wear.we can do the standard cloth diaper and rubberpants or a goodnites with rubberpants over them.can any one teel us what would be best?

  334. Anonymous March 28, 2009 at 8:38 am #

    use should use baggy fitting pull on rubberpants on your daughter under her dress.the girls at my parish wear them also and they fit baggy over their diapers.

  335. Anonymous April 7, 2009 at 2:13 pm #

    when you fell asleep those kids took luke warm water and put your fingers in it. that makkes you wet the bed

  336. Anonymous April 7, 2009 at 2:05 pm #

    One time i was at a piano guild and i almost wet my pants when i made a mistake. so the next year i wore a diaper just in case and i messed up big timee and peaed my pants. I’m glad i took procaution.

  337. Anonymous March 24, 2009 at 6:22 am #

    heya hun,
    im 16, i hate my life to tbh,
    i wet the bed, and my grandad done ituntil he was 21 so im worried im going to be doing it until then to. but i have got a great boyfriend he is 19 and i have been with him almost a year, but i still havent told him and he still hasnt realised that i do it, even though he is always around my houe or i’m always around his, but i think i should tell him but my mum is a bitch and she says no dont tell him he might dumo you but tbh i think i should still tell him if he dumps me it just proves he isnt as great as i think he is. doesnt care much for people like us.
    i just want to be happy and not have to buy beds and use them like throw away ones. i have done this all my life since i got out of nappies. when i was 3. tbh i didnt realy get out of nappies until i was 7 because i always wore them like to school but not everyday just someonetimes. but when i was 3 i got out of them for everyday use. its hard work dealing with this and i have no confidence. but my nan ( she died f cancer when i was 3 ) and she left a messge for me with my mum and dad to tell me when i got older and when iw as just 12 years old they told me it was … ” don’t let anyone bring you down, don’t let anyone tell you what tod o what to look like or take the piss out of you” from tht day i had not a care in the world. now i just want my nan back, she would be the one that stands by me my mum and dad dont care about me because of wetting the bbed but my other 2 sisters dont do it and they like them. so im singled out because of this even though its practically there falt. i really want a baby aswell, when i have children (hopefiully next year me and my boyfriend lplanned :D wooo ) then i am definately breastfeeding them because it prevents urine infections and other illnesses but then the urine infections shuld stop the bed wetting. so hope everything goes well for you, if you find a cure hand it over :)
    thanks, sarahhhh xx

  338. Anonymous March 24, 2009 at 6:08 am #

    hi, did you find a solution to you bed wetting problem ?
    if you did please help me ..

  339. Anonymous March 23, 2009 at 11:44 pm #

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  340. Anonymous March 22, 2009 at 3:33 pm #

    Well, Im 16 years old, and i have alreay completely RUINED my mattress from peeing in the bed, i mean, its a spring mattress, and its so nasty now, its all ruined, but my parents wont buy me a new one. I went to one of my friends house last night, and the night before that i had peed my own bed, which i pee my bed about 10 times a year, i dont know why, and i was like okay dont pee her bed please, it will be so embarassing, and guess what? i did. ironically. it was a HUUUUGGGEEEE mess. she never found out about it, and while she went to take a shower i just made her bed for her, which she thought i was just being generous, which is really funny, she was like awww thanks! and yeah, i hope she hasnt crawled into her bed anytime soon cause i bet it is still a big we pissy mess! lol, but i thought iwas the only one who still did that, but i guess we all need to go to the doctor and get it checked out.

  341. Anonymous March 20, 2009 at 9:53 am #

    Hello,

    I am 28 and have been dealing with bed wetting since I was 13 years old. For about the last 7 years I have had day time accidents as well as the bed wetting. I did the wash the sheets and dry the mattress thing for a long time till I decided to give diapers a try. Now it’s rare when they leak and I have to throw it all in the wash.

    A little advice here, I highly recommend going to Target or Walmart and in the pillow and blankets section there is a shelf that sells mattress protectors for the bed in all sizes, and if you find the pillow is getting wet, you can even pick up a pillow protector as well. The mattress protectors start at around $10.00-$12.00 each and last about 4-6 months and the ones with the fabric on the top can go in the washer and dry. The ones that are just plastic, can be washed with a damp wash cloth and dried with a paper towel or a dry towel.

    As far as the diapers, you can get a brand called Depends at the pharmacy for about $12.00 for 14 diapers. Most phamacies have a few choices based on the level of protection you need. I typically go for the overnight or heavy incontinence diapers. If you need a extra boost of absorbancy, you can buy a pack of size 6-7 baby diapers and cut 1 inch long cuts along the outer cover and put that in the diaper (Front for boys, in the middle for girls).

    In reguard to a safe and supportive place to chat, I recommend my place located at http://www.bedwettingabdl.com. We have over 1,230 current members. The site has tons of information, links to other sites who deal with bed wetting, bed wetting alarm sites, places that sell diapers and other absorbant products online, a friend finder, chat, message board and more.

    I hope I was of some help.

    -Stanley
    Stanley_19802@yahoo.com

  342. Anonymous March 19, 2009 at 1:56 am #

    why dont you just not do it. if its on purpose it means you are trying to do it right??? so jut dont try to do it

  343. Anonymous March 13, 2009 at 12:06 pm #

    hi,im the mom of a 14 year old daughter whose being baptized on easter sunday.i am dressing her in a white poofy above the knees baptism dress,lace cuff socks,mary jane shoes and a flowered head wreath.i am going to put a cloth diaper and rubber pants on her to wear under her dress.can anyone tell me if the rubberpants should fit baggy or snug and should i use pull on or snap on rubberpants on her?any help would be appreciated

  344. Anonymous March 11, 2009 at 5:28 am #

    If you are bed wetting there is a Cure for this (Follow instructions for sure it will be cured within 1 month). The first step is to take ordinary Onion which we add in meals. Take 1 full onion and some Cow Dung not any other Dung, Only Cow shit. and Cook that Onion in the dung for some time say about 5 to 10 mts. and peel off the 1st and 2nd layer of the onion and eat it. THIS IS A AYURVEDIC MEDECIN EAT IT ONCE IN 3 DAYS MORNING OR AFTERNOON. THIS IS NOT A JOKE IT IS BEEN ADVISED BY MY GURU (TEACHER) TO MY COUSIN. HE IS CURED NOW.

  345. Anonymous March 22, 2009 at 10:37 am #

    don’t commit suicide you psyco person. theres still a whole life to live. who gives a crap if u piss urself i do it all the time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  346. Anonymous March 1, 2009 at 7:03 pm #

    really i’ve tried almost everything you can think of…the alarm desmopressin ect…

    i can’t deal with it anymore i’ve been like this ever since i was little, i wet the bed about 5 times a week i hate it!!

    it hasn’t been like this for anyone else in my family I WANT A BLOODY CURE!!!!

    i’m the only one i bet in my school with this problem, and i really don’t wanna grow up with this, how will i ever get a boyfriend when i’m older?!

  347. Anonymous February 27, 2009 at 2:06 am #

    I am 15 gonna be 16 and I have wet the bed almost every night for A really long time now and don’t let the doctors bull shit you I’ve tried desmopresson it don’t do shit for me so just try watever works for you and hopefully we all get over it cuz idk about you guys but I’m sick of it this shouldnt be happening

  348. Anonymous February 26, 2009 at 9:04 am #

    the thing is i usally go to the toilet once an hour because it’s that weak and i went to the doctors ages ago about it but they didn’t do anything.

    it’s really weak and i don’t know what to do……if i don’t go i’m usally worried about wetting myself it’s that bad.

    i really don’t want to grow up with this problem……and i really want to fix it i really hate it…….i actually started self harming because of it and my family giving me agro about it

    it has ruined my life so far and i worry about it all the time

  349. Anonymous February 24, 2009 at 4:40 pm #

    hi,
    i have that same problem, but my consist of key tones. My fam does the same as yours. only one friend knows and i am afraid that when she gets mad she will tell. what you should do is constatly drink water because it flushes out any bad things in your body. it helps for me. i get lazy at time but tones of water keeps me going to the bathroom during the day, but at night i am completely dry. but set a time to wake up. like when u roll over or when you hear a noise, just wake up and go to the bathroom.

  350. Anonymous February 24, 2009 at 2:03 pm #

    bed wetting sucks. im 18 nearly 19 and i know. i am a girl and it is a problem as i can”t find a solution.
    I have been to the doctor and been to see someone at the hospital that gave me an alarm that when you wet then you should wake as you start but it woke everyone else up but me. i kept sleeping so we stopped that as it was a waste of time. i am now on a spray of the nose that i have before bed but you can’t have it when your sick or have it continuious.

    has anyone else there got any ideas? i would like to know as i get depressed when it happens and it needs to be sorted.

  351. Anonymous February 23, 2009 at 12:58 pm #

    i’m a girl and i’m 14 and i still wet the bed i did take medication and it worked but it stopped after a year.
    i go to sleepovers and i don’t drink all day just so i don’t wet the bed but……

    it happend 3 times, i wet the bed at 3 of my friends house.
    1 at my friends (claire’s) i started crying and her mum came in but i just said i forgot something and my mum is coming to get it. my mum came and told her mum i just couldn’t do it, and i was embarrassed about it i couldn’t even look at claire.
    the 2nd time was at my friend brooke’s house her mum knows but brooke doesn’t so i am so glad about that
    and the 3rd is at joe’s i told joes mum but he doesn’t know, at least i don’t think he does.

    i hate it, my sister tells me that she is going to tell all of my friends so i do WHATEVER she says and i hate it
    my brother laughs at me and i just want to stab him sometimes

    i don’t know what to do anymore my sister hates me for it and i have lost 4 friends because of it :*

    please someone help me and are you allowed to go to the doctors on your own?
    with out your parent???

    please reply x x x
    from
    a girl in need

  352. Anonymous February 7, 2009 at 4:53 pm #

    When I was seven, I stopped wetting the bed. Two years later I was wetting the bed again, So, from 9-13 i have been wetting my bed, I have no idead why this happens. I am not stressed, I dont drink water before bed (or tea) or anything. What I do though is I put a garbage bag Under me and put a blanket over that and wear pajamas. If it goes through the pajamas then the blanket usually stops it. I go to slumber parties almost every week and I have never been caught, I sleep with my back to the bed and if I wet then I have underwear under the sheets with me, You can sneek them if your friend is dozing off a little. But if anyone can tell me of pills you can take or something, that would be Great, MOST PILLS ACTUALLY MAKE IT WORSE THOUGH. Try doing exersizes if nothing works though.

  353. Anonymous March 25, 2009 at 12:18 pm #

    There is help for bedwetters of all ages.
    I work with the Enuresis Treatment Center, which deals only with bedwetting cases, and I know they can help. They have treated thousands of bedwetters including teenagers and adults. Bedwetting, or Enuresis, is actually a problem caused by abnormally deep sleep, which doesn’t allow for the bedwetter’s brain and bladder to connect so they can effectively respond to each other.

    In 99% of all bedwetting cases, the root cause is sleeping so deeply. It is an inherited deep-sleep disorder that results in bedwetting as well as a non-restorative, unhealthy sleep. This compromised sleep can also result in daytime symptoms; difficulty awakening, fatigue, memory difficulty, irritability, difficulty concentrating.

    There is No guaranteed that someone will outgrow bedwetting, in fact after the age of seven, it is less likely. 1 in 50 teenagers, as well as 3.2 million reported cases of adults still wet the bed. More importantly, if a child were to outgrow this problem, they are then left with a sleep disorder, along with possible challenging symptoms that can no longer be treated. Meanwhile, the psychological impact of bedwetting can be devastating.

    Studies indicate that deep sleepers rarely hear smoke detectors and can sleep through fire/burglar alarms. Alarms alone are ineffective as the key component for ending bedwetting. Children/Teenagers report great confusion and frustration when using an alarm, because they cannot hear it in time, or at all, to make any impact on the bedwetting. A majority of the time they simply experience another failed attempt to end their bedwetting. The core of the problem is an inadequate arousal of the brain, a sleep disorder that needs to be changed to permanently end the bedwetting.

    We encourage parents to discontinue the use of diapers since they only keep the bed dry, not the child, as well as prolong the child’s suffering from the bedwetting and sleep disorder. There is a false belief that older children will get discourage by wearing Pull Ups or Good Nights and be able to wake up and go to the bathroom. Our experience with tens of thousands of bedwetting cases indicates this has never occurred. If a child could wake up, they would.

    For 34 years, the Enuresis Treatment Center has been ending bedwetting for children, teenagers, and adults who thought there was no hope. Our research and experience has validated that bedwetting is the result of a genetically-linked sleep disorder that can be treated without drugs or invasive surgery. I would encourage your readers to visit their website and take advantage of their extensive knowledge.

    Sincerely,
    Lyle D. Danuloff, PhD
    http://www.nobedwetting.com

  354. Anonymous July 11, 2009 at 3:59 pm #

    ive been wetting the bed for almost every night since 5 and still doing it ive done every thing from A-Z and it wont work my 2 younger brothers dont and i always do i cant stop its hard to have friends to stay the night and when they do i stay up all day so i dont pee its made me depressed and im now 80 pounds over weight

  355. Anonymous September 14, 2009 at 12:14 pm #

    it sounds like you need diapers

  356. Anonymous February 21, 2009 at 7:44 pm #

    i was a flower girl in my neices wedding when i was 14.my mom made me wear baby plastic pants with ruffles across the back under my dress.i was so embarrassed!

  357. Anonymous April 3, 2009 at 9:01 am #

    i am a catholic mom and my daughter was baptized at 14 also and wore the traditional white gown,bonnet,lace cuff socks and satin booties.i put a pair of light pink baby print rubberpants on her over her cloth diaper and she looked very babyish with them on under her gown.for her first communion a month later,i put her baptism diaper on her with plain whitr rubberpants over it.she wore a poofy little girl style communion dress with the anklets and shoes.she looked very cute and little girlish in her communion outfit.

  358. Anonymous April 2, 2009 at 11:25 pm #

    my two daughters were baptized last easter at 13 and 10 and i put snap on rubberpants on them over their diaper.they were easier for them to take of when they had to pee

  359. Anonymous April 2, 2009 at 11:20 pm #

    buy her youth size plastic pants and have her wear them over her pamper.i have seen other girls her age with plastic pants on over their huggies and pampers.

  360. Anonymous April 2, 2009 at 11:15 pm #

    i would use the cloth diapers and rubberpants on her .they work the best.we adopted an 11 year old daughter and used cloth diapers and rubberpants on her for three years untill she was 14.she is out of the diapers now but still wears the rubberpants once in a whle.

  361. Anonymous February 22, 2009 at 11:54 am #

    i am almost sixteen and i am still wtting the bed. i get so embarrased and even cry sometimes. i want to do something about it, i am sometimes trying to stay awake later cause im afraid i will wet the bed. should i tell the doctor, what should i do.

  362. Anonymous December 10, 2009 at 5:03 am #

    I was recently speaking to a friend of mine who told me that her son now 21 had a bed wetting problem up until he was 10 years old. She took him to the Dr. to find out that is Uretha was too small and at night his bladder would overflow which in turn caused him to wet his bed at night. The Dr. did a very small procedure, prescribed some nasal spray and he never wet himself ever again. I have read alot of you guys testimonies but no one hardly mention if they had been seen by a Dr. or not. I just wanted to share this story and i hope it helps.

  363. Anonymous February 19, 2009 at 5:18 am #

    hi just do what she says but tell her you would rather not wear diapers but if she says no then tell her i dont wsnt to wear cloth diapers i want to wear plastic ones

  364. Anonymous March 3, 2009 at 5:26 am #

    this is so bad *bedwetting* i have tried to commit suicide and im only @ 15, i cant go ANY where and im soo depressed all the time

  365. Anonymous March 3, 2009 at 5:52 am #

    Heya bub,

    Don’t give up. 1) It gets better; 2) you’ll look back and cringe and laugh 10 years from now. But you’ll also be alive and happy; 3) A lot of this is stress-related, so you need to really, really chill the hell out. Or it won’t get better soon. It sucks. It’s wet. It’s embarassing. But what can you do? I’ll tell you this: You won’t have this when you’re all grown up. Unless it’s purely physical. And in that case, no one looks at an adult who wets the bed and thinks “LOSER.” If anything they may think, “BUMMER” but it won’t keep you from getting a mate, job, etc.

    Me

  366. Anonymous July 28, 2009 at 9:14 am #

    HELP!!!!!! I am 13 and I need help! i have been peeing the bed since FOREVER! So has my little brother who is eleven. I dont know what to do! My parents stopped buying pull-ups because now they go up to 14 dollars for a pack of 20! And I am sooooooooo scared to fall asleep because I just KNOW that the instance I doze off, the pee moster will creep up and release my pee! I go pee right before I fall asleep and I fall asleep at 12 and I stop drinking at 9! :( So for all you bedwetter just like me! i know how you feel! I will keep you updated because i am going to do some research!!! But there is this excercise, FOR GIRLS ONLY! It is called the Keigel Excercise. it strenghthens ur…..ya know what. So yeah, ask your doctors about it…My aunt says that it hepls.

  367. Anonymous July 28, 2009 at 9:04 am #

    HeyIma a 13 t=year old girl bed wetter too. Umm well on advice just ask your mom if like you can at least TRY takingthe pills for about a month. After that then see how they are working out. And then you will have shown your mom that you are not a “crack head for pills” Becuase well, you cant actually get high. Ok well to an expence I guess…but…….thre is an excercise to do..it is called the Keigle excercise. umm it helps strengthen ur……….you know what…ask your doctor about it..I havent tried it, but I am sure that it will help :) WEll I am out to help everyone with this pee problem bc I now how it feelxs..well bye bye!

  368. Anonymous September 8, 2009 at 8:18 pm #

    I think you’re being a bit hard on yourself! it sounds like you’ve been through a lot – trying different ways to solve the bedwetting issue…My son is 13 and still occasionally has a wet night and we’ve never gone to a doctor about it – yet.
    I just checked this site out to see what others are saying…sounds like people feel ‘limited’ by this – and you are giving yourself a pretty serious ‘deadline’ – if you don’t have this thing over and done with by the tim you’re 21!! WOW – there is really so much more to life! don’t mean to lecture but, seriously, it’s not a solution. So you may not work out in the military…there’s a million other things you CAN do! think about it!!!

  369. Anonymous February 7, 2009 at 12:21 am #

    i had the same problem.i am 19.i started dating at 14 and my parents were strict with me.i had a curfew and had to let them know where i was going,etci felt like i had no freedom.my best friend was killed in a car crash.i went into a state of depression and started wetting the bed.i was never baptized when i was a baby because i was a premmie so my parents had me baptized a month before i turned 15.we are roman catholic and my parents required me to wear all white for my baptism.they dresed me like a little in a short white dress with a crinoline,head wreath with ribbons down the back,lace socks and white shoes.they me wear plastic baby pants under me dress which fit me tight and gave me a rash and they made me wear them after my baptism when i went out on dates.i totally hated wearing them and felt embarrassed.they even bought me teen size plastic pants to wear to bed at night for my bedwetting.i had to wear them over thick cotton traing pants.i stopped wetting the bed at 16,but still had to wear the plastic pants on dates.finially my parents could trust me and got rid of them was i glad!

  370. Anonymous January 25, 2009 at 5:21 am #

    Don’t run away. That’ll make your problems ten times worse. If you can’t get through to your dad by telling him that you have no control over your bodily functions during sleep, I would suggest you talk to your school social worker or psychologist. Most schools have one or both. Good luck.

  371. Anonymous January 19, 2009 at 7:46 pm #

    I am 18 and male and i have a problem of wetting my pants on purpose i need advice

  372. Anonymous May 17, 2010 at 7:29 am #

    help! i am a girl 16 and a bedwetter and was just put back into cloth diapers and plastic pants at night due to rashes from my goodnites.i want to know if there are any websites that sell girly cloth diapers in pastels and prints.i am wearing just the plain white cloth diapers but would like some girly ones.i have both pastel and print plastic pants already and want the girly diapers to go with my plastic pants.can anyone help me?

  373. Anonymous January 17, 2009 at 9:21 am #

    no drinks after 9PM and pee before you go to bed

  374. Anonymous May 17, 2010 at 4:02 am #

    i tried to email you some info but was unable to cause the email account was wrong, check it please

    lucy

  375. Anonymous January 17, 2009 at 9:19 am #

    keep your mouth shut and figure your helping out your little sister

  376. Anonymous May 11, 2010 at 8:25 pm #

    Please if you have anything that well help i well take it i feel really bad because i cant help it just please

  377. Anonymous December 27, 2008 at 2:50 pm #

    well im 16 and i started wetting the bed about 2 weeks ago and i dont know why i do it and last night was weird b/c i dreamed that i tryed to pee but then i was like no this is a dream and it felt real os i peed and i woke up so fast afterwards and just jumped out the bed and the bed had a small circle of pee but my shorts were all wet. WHY IS IT HAPPENENING im not stressed then WTF and its christmas the only person ive told is my brother but he doesent really know whats wrong and he is the only one that knows. i workout and have a great life THNE WHY THE FUCK! AM I WETTING THE BED!!!

  378. Anonymous May 8, 2010 at 9:34 am #

    Use goodnites and they have adult diapers

  379. Anonymous December 26, 2008 at 8:44 am #

    I’ve had this problem since I can remember, my parents got divorced when I was 2 or so, and my mom got remarried. My mom had a good relationship but my dad was somewhat stress causing. I’m 16 and my family situation is a lot better and I still wet EVERY SINGLE NIGHT unless I didn’t drink ANYTHING or stay up till like 3am. There isn’t anything I can think of that is causing me this daily stress, I mean yesterday was christmas and today I’m going to see my friend, i’m excited not stressed. Now my half sister is 7 and she is getting the same problem, she has divorced parents at a young age too and I’m worried for her. But some of you are saying you have it 4 times a month and you can’t take it, I have it every single night and I’ve tried everything with no luck.

  380. Anonymous May 7, 2010 at 12:51 am #

    wow ! nice blog.

  381. Anonymous December 26, 2008 at 7:21 am #

    i am 16 and was the junior bride in my neices wedding back in october.i am the type of person that gets nervous and starts to shake when i am in front of people or in the center of attention.my parents are divorced and i live with my dad and younger brother.when we got to the parrish,my neice told me i was to be dressed in the nursery,so i was taken into the nursery by my twwo cousins.my neice had cloth diapers and plastic pants there with my outfit.my two cousins put the diapers and plastic pants on me while i laid om the floor.i then put tights onover them.my dress was poofy and floor length so no one knew i was wearing them.i got nervous at the altar and wet in the diapers.after the ceremony my one cousin changed my diapers in the nursery and i didnt wet any more after that.i now keep the diapers and plastic pants in my drawer and wear them when i have to be around groups of people.

  382. Anonymous May 6, 2010 at 4:46 pm #

    im 20 and i wet the bed for some reason? bt my girlfriend told me dont worry just wear protection. i said no of course until she started not sleepn with me until i wear somethn. so she puts a depend on me and its gay but i have my girl still. haha

  383. Anonymous December 20, 2008 at 10:18 pm #

    dear anon. justtell your mom that you are not going to wear the diaper and plastic pants under your holiday dress and thats it.you are 15 and dont need the diaper and plastic pants on christmas eve and day.she can diaper your sister but not you.

  384. Anonymous May 5, 2010 at 7:47 pm #

    Don’t worry to. Go to a freind when u go u will never pee it works with me Hope this helps you

  385. Anonymous December 20, 2008 at 7:45 am #

    Does anyone know how the hell i wet my pants at because i just did and its been like 10 years since i last wet the bed. does anyone know wat could be wrong with me

  386. Anonymous May 4, 2010 at 7:10 am #

    I started bedwetting at 11 and got put in nappies weather I liked it or not. I’m 18 now still wet at night and still get a nappy check at bed time. If my mum does not see me in my protective underwear (thats what my mum calls it) while i get ready for bed she comes in my room and checks i have my disposable on and looks inside to make sure i have a booster pad. I also wear clear plastic pants so she can see how wet i am that morning.

  387. Anonymous December 10, 2008 at 4:59 am #

    hay im 14 year old kid and i wet the bed i never told my mom until today it is a hard thing to do i know that it is a disodor and that u can get surgary for it and it will go away but i just cant find out what it is called so i know how u fell and im sorry for it cuz no matter what i do it does not work

  388. Anonymous May 3, 2010 at 1:58 pm #

    would you please tell me what you find so wrong with plastic panties?
    there are many people of all ages that have bladder problems all their lives and have worn plastic panties the whole time.
    if your daughter finds them comfortable and gives her a sence of security,I would say leave her to it.
    After all,they are just panties of a different material.

  389. Anonymous December 9, 2008 at 10:59 am #

    hi, i need help.i am 15 and have a sister who is 13 and a bedwetter.my sister wear cloth diapers and plastic pants to bed every night and because she has to wear them our mom makes me wear them also even tho i dont need them.she diapers my sister first then does me.she says it is fair this way and that she feels better about me being in diapers also.she just told sis and me thet we have wear the cloth diapers and plastic pants under our holiday dresses on christmas eve and christmas day.i dont want to wear them under my dress.what can i do?

  390. Anonymous May 3, 2010 at 10:56 am #

    I just turned 18 but I still pee the bed. I quit when I was like 10 then it strted again at 15 and quit a few months later but it started again the other night when I was sleeping over at my friends house. It was 2 am and I was laying there sleeping on the same bed with three other girls and I woke up when I felt myself getting wet so I got up and ran to the bathroom but it was too late. My friends laughed at me and told me I should try diapers. I was so embarrassed that I called my Mom to come pick me up and take me home. They told everyone at school and one of them even took a picture with her cell phone to show everyone.

  391. Anonymous November 26, 2008 at 8:21 pm #

    hi im 13 too..when i was 8 some gang broke into my house and my mom stood up to protect our stuff and they shoot her right in front of me and my 4 year old sister’s face. we been going to thearapy since then with our dad. but still almost 4 times a week i wet the bed, and its not only pee, there is a blue-ish green thick liquid that comes out too. we tried going to the docter but they wont take me because we have no insurance or no money(ever since katrina hit us).last week i stopped drinking at 6:00 and i had the dreaam and still wet the bed.i tried diapers, perscription medicine, everything even if i wake up in the middle of the night and go pee i will still wet the bed,our house stinks of urine and we sent the blue-ish green slime to the hospital and they still haven’t got back to us. my dad cant stand doin the laundry 1 more time, he even tried to kill himself one night, but my little sister caught him.maybe i should just take myself for the better of my dad and sister…who knew wetting the bed would cause so much problems

  392. Anonymous May 1, 2010 at 5:26 am #

    I AM 11 YEARS OLD AND I STILL WETTING THE BED I AM TIRED OF IT TODAY I WAS AT MY DADS HOUSE AND I PEED ON HIS BRAND NEW FUTON ND HE HAD TO GO TROUGH ALOT OF PROCESSES TO CLEAN IT I JUST WANT TO STOP AND WHEN PEOPLE FIND OUT THEY DONT WANT TO BE MY FRIEND I AM TRYING SO HARD I AM TIRED OF IT.

  393. Anonymous November 21, 2008 at 6:16 am #

    my mam thinks im bed wettin on purpose seriouslly who would want to have this problem i hate it so much,i cant sleep out or have friends sleep at mine.And i look up to you people who say people found out about it at school and still arnt depressed if people found out id well i dunno what id do only ma mam dad kno i have it secret from ma sisters

  394. Anonymous April 29, 2010 at 6:04 pm #

    Hey. I’m 24 and I would have NOOO problem dating someone who still wet the bed. If you’re for real, let me know if you want to get in touch.

  395. Anonymous November 17, 2008 at 5:30 pm #

    16 adn started wetting again recently during day adn nite, i had a really really bad time up until i was about 13 with bed wetting… can anyone help me, it is so embarrassing making a mess of my self in public, do diapers actually work, i am too scared to try them, i dont want to look all uncomfortable, noisy, bulky and foolish if they are not worth it,

    i am so scared my parents will find out

  396. Anonymous April 23, 2010 at 10:34 pm #

    I recently started wetting in the day, its never happened to me before, i’ve never bed wetted and now im doing it in the day. I dont even realise i need the toilet or that i have gone until its much to late. I am so embarrassed! If this continues long term it will be a mojor problem for me

  397. Anonymous November 10, 2008 at 7:55 am #

    why dont you get some plastic pants to wear over your diaper.that way you wont leak and the bed stays dry.they sell them on the web.i wear plastic pants over my diaper and dont have a problem.

  398. Anonymous April 22, 2010 at 12:01 pm #

    I’m 18 years old. I used to to wet the bed for as long as I can remember. And I would always get punished severely for it. I don’t understand why because my father had the same problem until he was 19 or 20 with me already being 1 and a wife. My little brother even had that problem. But nonetheless it runs in my family. It used to be a huge deal. I’m already overweight and wetting the bed did not help. I’d have to shower 2 to 3 times a day. It stopped though when I was 15 or 16 I can’t remember. But I visited this site because recently I wet the bed. But that night like at 3 am I drank like 32 ounces of a milk based drink horchata before I went to bed along with a burrito. I woke up with my bed all wet and soaking. It was embarrassing because I had my cousin and a friend over but thank god they weren’t in my room. I had to wash the sheets, shower and leave somewhere so they wouldn’t see me. I was that embarrassed. But I have been good without wetting the bed over the last few years it has been 1 or 2 times, versus everyday. Trust me all you bed wetters, I feel your struggle. It’s hard. embarrassing, and depraving. You just have to deal with it like I did. Eventually you will grow out of it. The only advice I can give to you to stop this is: Don’t drink water or anything with liquids after 6. Set up you’re alarm to wake up in the middle of night and don’t go to sleep until you go to the restroom. Or last resort, wear diapers which is what I did for a while. Thank you all for making a blog like this :) It helps to see that a lot of other people are going through the same hardships as me and are dealing with it. :) Good luck to you all!

  399. Anonymous November 2, 2008 at 7:04 pm #

    hi ,im 16 and have the same problem as you.i started at 13 when i made my first holy communion.our parrish is strict and has requirement that must be followed.me and the other girls had to wear the white dress,veil shoes tights.under our tights we had to wear a cloth diaper and plastic pants[to symbolize our purity of when we were baptized].i was really bummed out and upset that i had to wear baby underwear on my special day.a month before my communion i heard my mom on the phone telling a friend of hers that i had to wear a diaper and rubber pants under my tights for my first communion.i ran to my room and cried.i was so mad at my mom.two nights later i went to bed depressed and wet the bed.i wet the bed at least three to four times a week thinking about what my mom said also what would happen if someone found out i was wearing the diaper and plastic pants on my communion day.my day went smoothly then one of my best friend moved away and i wet the bet for three weeks straight.my mom made me wear my communion plastic pants to bed every night with a goodnites under them.now when something happens i wet the bed so i have to wear plastic pants.a girl friend of mine stole a boy i liked and started dating him so i got depressed and wet the bed again.i know how you feel

  400. Anonymous April 14, 2010 at 11:13 am #

    I am a 20 year old female.
    I have this problem too.
    I got drunk at my boyfriends last night and passed out.
    When I woke up I was in his boxers.
    He said I had wet myself during the night and he had to chnage me.
    It’s so embarrassing :(

  401. Anonymous October 19, 2008 at 11:25 pm #

    Hey im 13, and still do it. My friends found out and told the school and now everyone knows and picks on me. I cry at home and almost no one at school likes me. I still am happy though. So anyone who gets picked on just find something to do that you love and then just do that. I play guitar and now play in a band thats popular around my town. Just dont give up on your self.

  402. Anonymous April 12, 2010 at 12:00 am #

    any single girls 20-30 who wet the bed in brisbane? i do to maybe that might b the secret for people like us to have relationships.

  403. Anonymous October 19, 2008 at 11:24 pm #

    Hey im 13, and still do it. My friends found out and told the school and now everyone knows and picks on me. I cry at home and almost no one at school likes me. I still am happy though. So anyone who gets picked on just find something to do that you love and then just do that. I play guitar and now play in a band thats popular around my town. Just dont give up on your self.

  404. Anonymous April 3, 2010 at 12:05 am #

    your story is so identically like mine i can hardly believe it. wow.

  405. Anonymous October 15, 2008 at 4:25 am #

    Stop with the self-harming…

    I am the mother of a 17 year old that still wets the bed. He did it when he was a baby, did it thru puberty, and occasionally STILL does it. It is a non issue in my home. I took him to doctors, ran interference for him at camp time when overnight visits were required (you’d be amazed at how many kids do it and counselors are VERY willing to help without embarrassment to the child), and will continue to keep an eye out for his health. Otherwise, we have an unspoken understanding – I wash the sheets when he leaves for school and it is never mentioned again.

    Im so sorry your parents mock you, that just made me cry. Unfortunately, idiots will always be idiots. But you can get informed, and read that you are entirely – and statistically NORMAL. As a female, get the right tests run, talk to your Gyno about your issue – then live a happy healthy life – your boyfriend, if he’s the “one” will make it a non-issue as well.

    All my best….

    Just a Mom who gets it…

  406. Anonymous March 28, 2010 at 12:14 am #

    im 23 and i still wet the bed yes 23 ive always thought it was a mental thing like through frustration or havin something on ur mind but im a very east goin person stress free, ive always wondered is it ever gonna stop? docs keep tellin me since i was young i will grow out of it 4yrs later i will grow out of it, been single all my life coz im paranoid bout it other people dont quite understand wats its like dont get me wrong not all peoplr but the majority, all my good mates know bout my prob and have been more than good to me bout it i jus hope all can be accepted by having true friends, if anyone got anyways they think will help stop it please post something for me

  407. Anonymous October 4, 2008 at 3:15 pm #

    seventeen still wet the bed sometimes i lay in bed and tell myself in a nice way im going to have a dry night ill go to the toilet ill wake up etc for hours before sleep and most times it works but that means that i cant just sleep everynight i have to sit there for an hour telling myself and pray it works (sometimes it doesnt) but all i want is for the problem to stop ive set 2 alarms for 2 am and 4 am im sick of it id rather chronic fatigue then wet the bed so it will be ….

  408. Anonymous March 22, 2010 at 10:17 am #

    i am 14 and just read the blog about the bride and bridesmaids who were diapered for the wedding.i was just a junior brides maid in my cousins wedding last saturday and because i have come close to having accidents in the past i was taken to the dressing room for baptisms and first communion and my mom and my aunt put a little girls first communion cloth diaper and plastic pants on me and told me i had to wear them the entire time.since the plastic pants were 8 year old size they fit me tight and the elastic leg openings left red marks on my skin.i couldnt enjoy myself at the reception or dance because of the diaper and plastic pants.to make matters worse my mom washed the diaper and plastic pants and returned the diaper to the church and put the plastic pants in my drawer.

  409. Anonymous September 23, 2008 at 1:09 pm #

    The comment below is for the guy who posted with the title Hello.

  410. Anonymous March 19, 2010 at 12:52 am #

    I am a medical doctor; I wish to advise parents: please try to be supportive and understanding to your bed wetting children whatever age they are:

    They get depressed about it,they are frightened to talk about it, they are afraid to see a doctor about it:

    I MUST SAY: NO SCIENCE ,NO RESEARCH TILL NOW KNOWS WHY IT IS HAPPENING ESPECIALLY WHEN THE DOCTOR OR THE UROLOGIST FINDS NOTHING WRONG!!!.

    Help your child by being kind ,understanding and supportive, after all :

    1 in 5 CHILDREN WETS THEIR BED UP TO A BIG AGE BUT NOBODY TALKS ABOUT IT.

    Doctor

  411. Anonymous September 23, 2008 at 1:07 pm #

    Listen to me, life can be VERY cruel but if you are being beat up and your mom says u deserve it your mother sounds like a terrible parent. My parents always help me if i get picked on. NO ONE, I REPEAT NO ONE deserves to be picked on or beat up. NO ONE! Here is what i would do, 1.start to learn Tae Kwon Doe or Karade or any form of self protection. 2. I don’t know what ur mom’s like but you should try to have a nice soft, conversation with her, just be carful you don’t step over the line and make her insane. 3.Tell your princeable or gidence conslor, they can help. 4. Be friendly, try to make lots of friends, maybe even try to be friends with the bullys, try to find something you and the bullys both like. If you have no friends don’t worry, me and a whole bunch of other people understand you and stand with you on this. Be positive, try to get as muchas you can out of life and above all, be proud your you. Good luck, you can contact me at willfarlie@yahoo.com

  412. Anonymous March 16, 2010 at 5:10 pm #

    hey guys.. i just wanted to add my comment. im a 15 year old girl and i stopped wetting the bed when i was 14. YES its soo embarrassing. my parents took me to the doctor but the doctor told me i just had a small bladder and i would just have to grow into it. idk wat made me stop but its deffinetly a good thing. good luck to all of you guys!

  413. Anonymous September 16, 2008 at 9:11 pm #

    my mom exploded at me saying she is tierd of washing I am 13 and enough is enough almost every night it happens my mom sayed that she thinks i dont wear a diaper thingy but I do andit sometimes it leaks ineed help i cry when I wake up cus its SOAKED enough is enough PS it runs in the family

  414. Anonymous March 12, 2010 at 4:58 am #

    hi i have the same problem my dad had it and he grew out ov it wen he was 18 but im 13 so i have 5yrs left b4 i stop so u will 2.

  415. Anonymous September 13, 2008 at 12:42 pm #

    how do youno if you have a water infection
    im 14 coming on 15
    and i use the loo ALOT

    like im always busting
    how often are you men tot go

  416. Anonymous March 11, 2010 at 5:26 pm #

    Have you ever seen the movie “Mother Dearest”….If you haven’t seen it, you need to check it out…The way you are treating your daughter is going to turn out just like the movie….To the daughter of the crazy egg donor….sweetie we are praying for you and I promise you one day things will get better…..God has a plan for you and he loves you and is always there for you.

  417. Anonymous September 10, 2008 at 1:36 pm #

    Pull-ups aren’t very noticeable, and they stop the soaked sheet thing. Just wear Pj’s to bed.

  418. Anonymous March 11, 2010 at 10:15 am #

    i am 19 year old female and still wet the bed i have my whole life not until I moved out of my parents house did i stop i was at college for 3 months and only ended up wetting 2 times. Then i moved to another atate and have been here for 5 months and I have wet the bed 7 times since being here. idk what to do i am on meds i dont drink after 9. I have seen plenty of doctors on this issue but idk what to do anymore i wont spend the night anywere and dont want a boyfriend because of this. when i do have a wet night I wake up all ashamed and beat myself up for hours. i wont tell anyone I did it and I try waking up before anyone else so i can tke care of it if any one has any other suggestions on what to do Im all ears.
    seahsell.young@yahoo.com please email me.

  419. Anonymous September 1, 2008 at 6:45 am #

    I’m seventeen, almost eighteen and I’m fucking sick of wetting the bed. I do it pretty much every other night and it’s making me hugely depressed. I’ve been self-harming for years and I cry all the time. I can’t stand it. My parents mock me for hurting myself and threaten to throw me out if I don’t stop wetting the bed. I have a boyfriend who I love, but when I stay over at his house I don’t go to sleep at all because I’m so frightened of it happening. I want to move out and go to Uni next year after I do my A-Levels, but I obviously won’t be able to if this continues.

    Please help; I’m desperate.

  420. Anonymous March 9, 2010 at 10:42 pm #

    Ugh this prob bothers me and still haunts me since I was 7, now im 18. I took meds which worked but since I ran out, the prob happend again.

  421. Anonymous August 28, 2008 at 11:20 am #

    this is just to get it off my shoulders ok, feel free to tease me.
    I still wet myself all the time, i haven’t had a dry night for years and i wet myself at school and in the day all the time. I’ve been to the doctor but he says i don’t have a problem,my mum says she’s going to put me back in nappies if i dont stop and trust me she means it. I’m 12 so if anyone has any tips please tell me.

  422. Anonymous March 9, 2010 at 6:17 pm #

    Iam now 18 years old and I’ve been having this bedwetting problem for like three years now,and its really been botherig me.
    It doesnt happen everynight or even every week.
    I think Ive even gone months without wetting the bed,then all of a sudden the next morning I wake up wet.

    I’ll be honest,this has left me mental and emotional scars.I LOATH it!I HATE it SO MUCH!Its embarrassing and so annoying never knowing when your gonna wet the bed,or wake up cold and wet.
    Lets not mention the fear of sleeping over at friend’s houses or having a boyfriend.And its kinda funny,cause Ive slept over at peoples houses with no problem what so ever,and Im perfectly fine during the day… which leads to my possible cures/explanation.

    #1. COLD AIR or a Fan:
    When all this first started I slept with the AC on and the fan above me on high.Then one night we had no AC and i forgot to put the fan on.I woke up urine-free on a dry bed.And then everything clicked!THATS IT! The cold is somehow making me wet the bed!
    I know this sounds crazy,but Im serious.Somehow staying warm especially keeping your feet warm is a cure for this whole thing.

    #2.Drinking lots of fluid/Eating before bed:
    BIG no no! I found that I wet the bed more frequently during the Summer.The Summer,when theres no school,so you stay up late stuffing your face eating and drinking soda till you collapse.
    I have found that eating your last meal atleast two hours before you go to bed and limiting or cutting off fluid intake as well is a BIG help.

    I just want to share my little bit of sense(or nonsense) and show some love and support for all the other people out there going through the same thing as me,and for all the guys out there that have a fetish for it,Im a phone call away!

  423. Anonymous July 23, 2008 at 10:51 am #

    People that don’t wet the bed don’t really know how sad it can be.Wetting the bed stops you from doing the things you might want to do like, take trips,slumber partys, ect. Hear some of the stories and you could understand.

  424. Anonymous March 8, 2010 at 1:24 pm #

    wear the cloth diapers and plastic pants.

  425. Anonymous July 23, 2008 at 10:50 am #

    People that don’t wet the bed don’t really know how sad it can be.Wetting the bed stops you from doing the things you might want to do like, take trips,slumber partys, ect. Hear some of the stories and you could understand.

  426. Anonymous March 4, 2010 at 2:08 am #

    hi, i been reading the comments and like too pass on what happen to me on my wedding day

    1st i do wish their was a magic pill that would cure you all and do pray for you all

    now to my wedding day, early that morning me an all my bridemaids (4 in all) where taken to my mother’s house too get ready and undressed and told that we where all to wear diapers the reason given was that it was a special day and they spent alot of time and money on it , and they (my mum and my mother in law) did not want any little accidents too mess up the day

    i was then spanked by both mother’s (a old ritual) and the bridemaid where told if they did not behave they be spanked harder and infront of the whole church, then i was put in cloth diaper with rhumba plastic panties over them (they peach see through with white ribbons on back)o and lotion was apply too my bottom, and the maid bottoms
    we all giggle and then the other bridemaids where put in the diapers same as mine and plastic rhumba panties too, and then dress in our outfits.

    it was great day, and everthing went well, i kept the diaper and plastic panties

    lucy

  427. Anonymous July 23, 2008 at 10:34 am #

    im a 14 year old girl and when ever i am really sad in the day or something tramatic happends iwet the bed. If i have a good day or a fine day i do ont wet the bed, what can this mean?

  428. Anonymous February 28, 2010 at 2:43 am #

    mate its ok im 16 i wet the bed and i were nappies but go to docters thay wont be maen thay mite give you some meds to help if you want to talk email me at zachroberts@y7mail.com

  429. Anonymous July 21, 2008 at 5:12 pm #

    I wet the bed too and i feel like it is subconscince because when i go over to a friends house i don’t wet the bed . I heard that there is some tips to help controll it like, stop drinking anything at 7:00pm, try to hold it during the day so that your bladder gets bigger , say to yourself, ( i WILL NOT wet the bed). before you go to sleep and that should help.

    If your bf/gf dumps you over wetting the bed they most likely love you like they should.

  430. Anonymous February 26, 2010 at 3:43 pm #

    it is ok i wet the bed to and i feel the same way the only thing is that i wet myself in the day time i cant help it it just happens at school home even when im out somwhere i have tried everything 4 the last 5 years hhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmmm mabey its a medical problem i cant wait til i can be a normal kid agatn hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeellllllllllllllllllllppppppppppppppppppppppppppppp

  431. Anonymous July 17, 2008 at 10:52 am #

    I was bed wetting everyday and it suddenly stopped when i was 15 years old.

    I had many problems when i was bed wetting.It couldn’t stay in relatives house or go to far places.

    Now im 20 years old and it suddenly stopped when i was 15.I don’t know how.

  432. Anonymous February 25, 2010 at 4:08 am #

    i just want too say that what you all need is love, care , and attention, not punishment, and parents that are evil.

    reading some of the comments left makes me remeber what my evil aunt did too me when i started bed wetting at age of 9

    i will spare you all the horrible details just to say that am glad she is now rotting in hell.

    and too those that get off on this sort of stuff, or do really punish your sons or daughters for bed wetting you will all one day be rotting in hell, with any justice in wet underwear with the demons laughing at you all

  433. Anonymous June 6, 2008 at 1:24 pm #

    Drynights are for bedwetting
    Pullups are for toilet training kis. Then can pull them down and use the toilet; however, if they don’t make it in time the pullup saves the cloths from being wet.

  434. masini February 24, 2010 at 9:05 pm #

    This is a serious problem. That parents must get involved to solve these problemsdezmembrari auto
    Without help these young parents will have trouble.

  435. Anonymous June 5, 2008 at 6:22 pm #

    Would like to mention that if one is going to need diapers for a long time it is best to use the cloth diapers with plastic pants. It really saves money and helps the landfills.
    There is a product at Sam’e called Odo-Ban that when mixed with water (1.5 oz to a gallon) not only kills organisms but with a 20 min soaking makes them smell good. They can be kept until there is a load to wash wihout having the smell of urine.
    My choice of platic pant is the coud high back which is sold by fetware.com.
    I get the cloth diapers from Angel fluff and they now have them with velcro.

  436. Anonymous February 24, 2010 at 12:59 pm #

    someone please reply!^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

  437. Anonymous June 5, 2008 at 6:13 pm #

    Cloth diapers arre the cheapest way to prevent the bed from being wet. Of course you need to use plastic pants over the cloth diaper.
    Sam’s has a product called Odo-Ban they when one takes off the wet diaper and placed in water (about a gallon with .5 oz odo-ban) and saoked for 20 min there is no smell. Actually they smell good and can be kept until there is a load for the washing machine. This produce also kills bacteria and virus.
    Angel fluff is a good source of cloth diapers and fetware.com for plastic pants. Use the cloud pant with the high back.
    Should have mentioned that Angel fluff has diapers with velcro. If you are a heavy wetter get the heaviest diaper. One can also get inserts from them that increase the amout the diaper holds.
    Cloth is best because of the wick effect. The wet spreads over the entire diaper whereas the diaposable, when soaked, leaks.

  438. Anonymous February 23, 2010 at 1:26 pm #

    in 12 years old and im really embarrased. i only do it a couple of times a month but its still very embarrasing.im too scared about going to the doctors about it incase they say just grow up or that im being stupid and childish. but i really want it to stop happening. so, any cures? x

  439. Anonymous May 27, 2008 at 5:38 am #

    Recently I looked after a 15 year old boy who wet every night, I had told him it wasn’t a problem and tried to make in feel better.I wasn’t told by his family he had a bed wetting problem, but I feel he needs to go to the dr’s just to talk. It must be imbarassing 4 him when his mates mum found him laying in a puddle I cant imagine what he was feeling. I have heard there are clinics he can attend 4 advice hopefully with the websites i have found he can gain some help but drinking all night don’t help………………hopefully he can read the comments you have left and feel hes not alone!!!!!!!!

  440. Anonymous February 22, 2010 at 9:52 am #

    i need help! i am a girl bedwetter age 15 and wear goodnites or depends to bed.i have been breaking out in a rash from them lately.my mom told me the only other alternative i can use is cloth diapers and plastic pants.i dont want to wear them as they are too babyish i feel.i get a rash just about every night and am frustrated.my mom wants me to try the cloth diapers and plastic for a few nights.what do i do?help

  441. Anonymous January 26, 2010 at 2:37 am #

    no your not the only one im 22 and i bedwet, i have aspergers syndrome, epilepsy, Dyscalculia (rubish at maths), dyslexia, traits of OCD, ODD, PDD and psycological issues.
    I wear diapers every night and always have, and in the last 7 years ive actually grown to like depend on them emotionly as well, as they also provide me a sense of security, comfort, warmth, just like my binki. yea i know it sounds odd, but thats me.

    Regressing is just how i cope with things

  442. Anonymous February 22, 2010 at 9:00 am #

    hi, i’m 16 too and in the exact position as you. i have worn pullups for as long as i can remember with trial ‘off’ periods every so often- but they seem to leak every now and then, which is a problem if you are going to sleepovers. Recently i am trying to stop wearing pullups completely. Although it creates lots of washing it atleast gives the body a good chance to stop bed-wetting naturally, with pullups reportably not being effective in helping stop bedwetting due to them not apprently creating a strong motive not to.

  443. Anonymous February 8, 2009 at 8:13 am #

    i was in a wedding when i was 15 and my mom made me wear plastic pants under my dress.i got a rash from them.

  444. Anonymous February 21, 2010 at 8:17 pm #

    Hi.
    I am nearly 18. I do not wet the bed, but my boyfriend does. He is 2 months older than me and we’ve been dating for almost 2 years. He told me about it after we’d been together for 8 months. He really really thought I would dump him for it. In truth, it explained a lot. He has never spent the night at a friend’s, has plastic sheets, and on school trips and stuff, he never sleeps. I think this is sad, and must be very hard on people.
    I don’t know how frequently he has this issue, just that it is not every night, but frequent.
    Sometimes it is hard to keep his secret because I would so like to find a way to help him with this frustration or find someone that could.
    Sometimes he asks me if I would refuse to marry him for it, or if we did get married, how would I handle it… He always brings up how annoying and gross it is. I always just say that I love him and know it is something he wouldn’t do if he could choose. And that we’d have to buy a lot of soap..
    He and I have both wondered if it would effect our sexual life at all, because neither of us really know anything or have any experience there, but even if it does, someday, it won’t affect our love for each other so we’ve never even discussed that besides the one time he asked me what I thought about it. Besides, we won’t find out for many years to come since we’re both going for college before staking down and we do value our abstinence.

    –So, to those of you who think that you’ll never find love because of it, or will never be accepted… Well, for one, God has already accepted you and will lead others to accepting you. 2, if it is real love, they won’t care, and though it’s easy to get down about it, there is always a way up and it could always be worse even if sometimes you’d rather be dead.

  445. Anonymous February 8, 2009 at 8:08 am #

    why dont you just wear diapers and plastic pants to bed at night.alot of kids do for bedwetting

  446. Anonymous February 18, 2010 at 2:47 pm #

    i have to change diapers at school and its so embarassing what if a girl saw my diper even one that i like. if any girls at age 12, 13, 14, or 15 have anything useful please, please tell me. send me an answer at Greenblob27@gmail.com. i’m about to just go to school without a diaper or anything, that how much help i need. send me something too (twelve-in diapers/pull-ups 24/7).Please.!.!

  447. Anonymous April 17, 2008 at 2:06 pm #

    Okay, I am 17 years old and i have never had a problme until the last week or so..i dont even remember wetting the bed when i was a child which is why i dont understand where this is all coming from? Do you think i could have a medical problme?

  448. Anonymous February 18, 2010 at 11:15 am #

    My son is a teen and still wets the bed. I would never think of making him feel worse then he already does. All together i have three kids and all three wet the bed. Yes I have lots of dirty laundry but who cares. When they grow up I rather have them remeber my mountain in the basement then me being a mommy dearest to them. I think you should try your own punishment and let her stand there and make you feel horrible about standing there with pee coming down your leg. To bad I dont know where you live I would call children protective service on you! You should be a shame I tell my teen there are a alot of stupid people in the world and they have children! So I guess you would fall under that there is alot of stupid group in the world.

  449. Anonymous April 15, 2008 at 9:03 pm #

    i am 1199 years old plz help me stop wetting my bed

  450. Anonymous February 17, 2010 at 8:54 pm #

    I have been wetting the bed since I could remember. It is a natural thing but it is very embarassing. It’s the scariest thing when your about to go to bed at a friends house for a sleepover. I wear pull ups everynight and some nights I wet through them. I hope that I grow out of it soon but seeing 19 year olds posting stuff on here saying that they still wet the bed scares the crap outta me. When I’m 19 I do not want to wet the bed still.

  451. Anonymous April 15, 2008 at 9:01 pm #

    i am 58 and wet my bed so what can i get to stop it ppllllllllllllllzzzzzzzzzz

  452. Anonymous February 16, 2010 at 1:30 am #

    Uh yea, to the lady who like TORTURES her daughter like that, um whats the word, oh right; FUCK YOU! YOU PSYCHOPATH PEDEFILE FREAK! THAT IS AN ANCIENT JAPANESE TORTURE METHOD YOU WEIRDO! I HOPE YOUR DAUGHTER RUNS AWAY AND HAS A GOOD NORMAL LIFE,BED WETTER OR NOT.

  453. Anonymous April 12, 2008 at 1:31 pm #

    hi i am 22 and like your brother wett most of the time i only wher nappies at nite or if i am somewer i carnt get to the toilet in time as i have a very week bladder so i pee all the time and wer a nappy every nite your brother sounds like i feal bar that he has a girl friend and i carnt find one that under standst just tell him he is not alond and ther is lots of pepel like him and i get down about it all but just thinck it could be mutch worse

  454. Anonymous February 14, 2010 at 4:41 pm #

    You should shut up. What do you know about this? It’s already emotionally damaging, not to mention lowering their self-esteem, and you’re gonna add to it? That’s real nice…

  455. Anonymous April 12, 2008 at 1:06 pm #

    i am 22 and have had weting problems most of my life and as a result i have used nappies for this and now feal i am a sexual out cast as i have not had a girl friod for a long time as how do u ask a girl out and then when your about to get into bed saying hold on i will have to take my nappy off yes dont thincj that would be mutch of a turn on sorrey i have to ask this but i need some help i dont ont to be alone i have had lots of tests and bin told i have a verey week bladder and not alot can be dun help me ive had it

  456. Anonymous February 11, 2010 at 6:33 pm #

    its it cuz i drink water I Dont , its cuz when i feel cool dammn cold , or whenn i cant handle the coldness , i wet bedd like MAX 4 times a week , its really causing me head aches , i feel un happy with it am trying to stop , well i took some medicines to stop then i stoped taking the medicines vitamins once then wet bedding was back now for like one year ,, ive been wet bedding since i was a child , but now its not leaving me alone i just wanna get rid of this ,, OMG seriously am getting sick like this ><.

  457. BJS April 10, 2008 at 6:21 am #

    You describe a lot of my friends (now grown up, and happy) at your age. Don’t worry about all those physical things (except maybe the bedwetting; and that, only to get some good strategy.) Pimples suck, but they go away. If it’s horrible, horrible, talk to your doctor. But lanky, big feet, etc…. You’re just in a tough period.

    Here’s my advice: Stop thinking about being super beautiful, popular, wonderful today. And take action toward the future. Eat healthy, be friendly and active, treat yourself with respect, study hard at school. These are some things that will pay off big time when you and your body are emerging from this time period, and into young adulthood, when life will be *so* much better.

    As for bedwetting, it’s nothing to be ashamed of! I’m no expert, but there are experts out there. It’s all about finding practical (and affordable) solutions.

    You sound like a good person and smart on top of it. Congrats!

  458. Anonymous February 6, 2010 at 6:29 pm #

    WTF IS YOUR PROBLEM! Child services could take her away if they found out!!!!!!!!

  459. Anonymous April 10, 2008 at 6:15 am #

    I am 14 years old, i i have wetted the bed all of my life, it seems. i thought it was some kind of curse. thats not the only problem that i have. i am also underdeveloped i have no brest i am too lanky my feet is too big, my hair is short i have pimples all on my face and i am very sensitive. i just needed some advice and somebody to talk to and i say thank u! i didn’t know that i wasn’t alone! God Bless you all!

  460. Anonymous February 6, 2010 at 4:32 pm #

    i wet the bed when I was little and stopped when i was about 10 and then i started agsin when i was 14. Now i am 15. But i cant tell anyone; not my parents not my friends no-one. when i first started again I woke up having wet. So while everyone was sleeping i stripped my bed down washed the sheets and dryed them before anyone woke up. but knowing that i was a frequent bed wetter before just incase kind of for comfort i went out and bought some drynites. But science then i jave not stoped i think that i have had 3 dry nights in the last year. so now i buy drynites every week it is soooo imbrassing putting them in the basket in the supermaket and buying them. i always go as soon as the shops open, on a weekend, when there is no-one in there my age.
    It is so awfull again i thought i grew out of this! i just want it to stop!!!

  461. Anonymous April 8, 2008 at 3:10 am #

    im 15 and i am a bedwetter to and got an idea for you try drinking alot than holding it makes your bladder bigger good luck!

  462. Anonymous February 2, 2010 at 8:28 am #

    What you have to do is eat dinner at 6:00-7:00 and stop eating and drinking at 7 but make sure you have a lot of liquids during the day and pee before going to bed.Then as you get into one to two weeks in a row for not peeing then you can start like drinking a little before you go to bed or eating a snack as long as you don’t eat a heavy dinner EVERY night I think this helps. You can have dinner before you go to bed sometimes. I am so exited I have not been wetting my bed for 2 and a half weeks and what I did is marked my calendar with a check mark for every time I peed and mark an x for every time I didn’t. Once you get to a habit of not wetting forlike 30 days you are beginning to stop. Set a goal for tonight and count 30 days and put a little mark where that is and then if you get to 1 week give yourself a treat or just a thumbs up!! and then to week two without peeing do the same it really helps.

    Hope this works for some of you guys and God Bless,

    Sincerely,

    Stacy

  463. Anonymous April 8, 2008 at 3:10 am #

    im 15 and i am a bedwetter to and got an idea for you try drinking alot than holding it makes your bladder bigger good luck!

  464. Anonymous February 2, 2010 at 8:27 am #

    What you have to do is eat dinner at 6:00-7:00 and stop eating and drinking at 7 but make sure you have a lot of liquids during the day and pee before going to bed.Then as you get into one to two weeks in a row for not peeing then you can start like drinking a little before you go to bed or eating a snack as long as you don’t eat a heavy dinner EVERY night I think this helps. You can have dinner before you go to bed sometimes. I am so exited I have not been wetting my bed for 2 and a half weeks and what I did is marked my calendar with a check mark for every time I peed and mark an x for every time I didn’t. Once you get to a habit of not wetting forlike 30 days you are beginning to stop. Set a goal for tonight and count 30 days and put a little mark where that is and then if you get to 1 week give yourself a treat or just a thumbs up!! and then to week two without peeing do the same it really helps.

    Hope this works for some of you guys and God Bless,

    Sincerely,

    Stacy

  465. Anonymous April 8, 2008 at 3:10 am #

    hi we are almost the same i am extremly sensetive about my bedwetting at school i normly dont cry but this kid got all these kids to teas and beat me up after school i normly tell my mom but she says i deserve it i have no freands and i am a 15 year old thank you for your time

  466. Anonymous February 1, 2010 at 2:34 pm #

    i have the same problem as you and if your friends were your ‘ friends’ they wont make fun of you , you say you go to the bathroom before you sleep what i used to do is when my mum or dad was going to bed which was usually about two hours after me they would come into my room , wake me up and i would go to the toilet again. it really worked for me try it. and i also no how it feels to wet at a sleepover. dont make that an excuse not to have fun you could try getting changed in the toilet and wearing those pull up things and also so you cant see them wear baggy trousers. oh and dont have a drink late at night the latest i have z drink at is 7 hope this help xxx

  467. Anonymous April 8, 2008 at 2:56 am #

    YOUR DAD BEATS YOU FOR WETING THE BED TELL HIM TO GO FUCKING DIE AND RUN AWAY I WISH YOU WEAR MY FRIEND MY DADS A COP AND HE WOULD PUT THAT MOTHER FUCKER AWAY IF HE FOUND OUT CALL OR RUN A WAY BECUSE THATS FUCKING NOT RIGHT!

  468. Anonymous January 30, 2010 at 10:27 pm #

    I’m a 13 year old girl who still wets the bed! I’ve been doing it since I was about 6, and it won’t stop. D: I’ve tried going to the bathroom before I sleep, but I usually wet 2-4 times a week. I’m afraid to tell my friends because I know they might make fun of me or think of me differently. I really want it to stop, and once I went to my friends house. I accidentally wet, and the next day I had to make up an excuse about it.. I felt so bad. And now, I try not to sleep over, because of it. I have to wear goodnights or pullups.

  469. Anonymous April 8, 2008 at 2:56 am #

    YOUR DAD BEATS YOU FOR WETING THE BED TELL HIM TO GO FUCKING DIE AND RUN AWAY I WISH YOU WEAR MY FRIEND MY DADS A COP AND HE WOULD PUT THAT MOTHER FUCKER AWAY IF HE FOUND OUT CALL OR RUN A WAY BECUSE THATS FUCKING NOT RIGHT!

  470. Anonymous January 28, 2010 at 11:58 pm #

    No, really, who would have thunk!!
    Some people have baby fetisies with there partner, but to humiliate your 14 year old daughter that is f#@ked right up. Right a Catholic thing, I am sorry for your daughter to even being envolved in a cult, little own having to play dress up for adults entertainment. You guys are messed up in the head!!

  471. Anonymous April 8, 2008 at 2:48 am #

    YOUR DAD BEATS YOU FOR WETING THE BED TELL HIM TO GO FUCKING DIE AND RUN AWAY I WISH YOU WEAR MY FRIEND MY DADS A COP AND HE WOULD PUT THAT MOTHER FUCKER AWAY IF HE FOUND OUT CALL OR RUN A WAY BECUSE THATS FUCKING NOT RIGHT!

  472. Anonymous January 23, 2010 at 3:44 pm #

    I, a male, had the problem of bed wetting into my teen years. Somewhere I heard that I needed to stop peeing while I was peeing to strengthen that muscle. I was skeptical, but tried it, over a few months, because I was desperate. I stopped wetting the bed, but I don’t know if that cured me or just getting older did. I would recommend trying it though, along with not drinking anything for a couple hours before bedtime. Now I drink anytime and don’t have a problem. Hope this helps someone.

  473. Anonymous April 8, 2008 at 2:36 am #

    hi we are almost the same i am extremly sensetive about my bedwetting at school i normly dont cry but this kid got all these kids to teas and beat me up after school i normly tell my mom but she says i deserve it i have no freands and i am a 15 year old thank you for your time

  474. Anonymous January 23, 2010 at 4:17 am #

    Although I could remark on topic, I will not. Instead, I want to urge the people here, to bloody start learning to write. How hard is it to hold down the ‘shift’ button at the start of a sentence. Touch the ‘spacebar’ in between words. Use single quotes where appropriate.
    It would make your comments readable, instead of tiring.
    English is far from my home language. However I seem to be the uttermost master here. It sickens me.

  475. Anonymous April 8, 2008 at 2:36 am #

    i am 15 and i wet the bed at my girl friends four times and i was SOOO embaressed till she comfronted me and said she doseint care so now i wear pull-ups so please do tell him but make suggestins
    good luck

  476. Anonymous January 21, 2010 at 1:54 pm #

    I am an 18 year old Female who wets the bed when Ive been to partys or clubbing and drinking alot.
    When I am really drunk I sleep heavy and wet or if I am awake I just do it – Its usually because I cant get up or too tired to.

  477. Anonymous April 8, 2008 at 2:09 am #

    hi we are almost the same i am extremly sensetive about my bedwetting at school i normly dont cry but this kid got all these kids to teas and beat me up after school i normly tell my mom but she says i deserve it i have no freands and i am a 15 year old thank you for your time

  478. Anonymous January 21, 2010 at 1:43 pm #

    My Daughter wet her bed most nights untill she was 11 during that time she always wore a nappy and plastic pants in bed and wore just the plastic pants under her underware at school during times when she was having tummy ache and constipation etc.
    Although she no longer wets the bed she continues to wear plastic pants on their own in bed every night and during the day when she feels the need.

    I have to say i dont really see any problem – its her choice and it gives her confidence.

  479. Anonymous April 8, 2008 at 1:50 am #

    im 15 and i am a bedwetter to and got an idea for you try drinking alot than holding it makes your bladder bigger good luck!

  480. Anonymous January 20, 2010 at 3:37 pm #

    wtf is wrong with you? how freaking old are you? 15s still too young?! get out of your little bubble of ingnorance and arrogance and open your eyes!!

  481. Anonymous April 3, 2008 at 8:33 am #

    I am 19 years old and I never started wetting the bed until I was 15. I was so ashamed and terribly scared to tell the doctor. The thing is I hate going to the doctor and I fear they may tell me I have to have some sort of surgery. Honestly this is happens to me about 4 times the most a month and I just about had enough of it. I’m in a serious relationship with someone and we would travel a lot to different places and I just want to get that feeling that I am free to sleep anywhere and anytime that I want and not have to wake up to change sheets with an explanation. I feel that I’m older know and this should not be happening to me. I want back my self esteem because I just about had enough of this. I feel that I’m suppose to begoing forward in life and this is holding me back from a lot of this I wish to do freely. My advice to you and myself is, If you feel that something is wrong with you or you say a drastic change when this started happening to you, tell your doctor. If your doctor tells you that there is nothing wrong with you and it still persist go to a urologist and if they really see nothing wrong with you it sometimes may be a problem or something that you fear that is causing your night terror. What ever you do make sure you take care of the problem so you can gain self back. Best wishes to each and everyone of you, and remember your not the only one going through this problem. God Bless

  482. Anonymous January 19, 2010 at 10:28 pm #

    I have a weak bladder so I am required to wear a pull-up to bed and to friends house, everywhere else like school and the store I wear disposible diapers. I absoloutly HATE diapers and pullups. Plus the school won’t even let me change my own diaper. Just here to let you out there know that it is in a way normal ONLY if you have some sort of urinary problem.

  483. Anonymous March 31, 2008 at 10:30 am #

    why would you want to put her name in here– to embarrass her- so not supportive

  484. Anonymous January 14, 2010 at 6:27 pm #

    What the heck is wrong with you. Would you want someone to treat you that way. Have you even thought to take her to a doctor. I mean not bad enough to make her drink the water then you make her take her underwear off that is sick if I was her I would run away.
    Then when the police found me I would make sure you go to jail.
    You need HELP call someone now.
    some people have this problem and they can not help it THANK GOD MY MOM was smart enough to take me to the doctor and ask why.
    If you love your child you should you evil bi%%$ GET HELP THANK GOODNESS THE GIRL IS ALMOST 18 so she can leave you and she will prob not come back. I don’t blam her. I sure as hell wouldn’t

  485. Anonymous March 31, 2008 at 10:24 am #

    you probably shouldnt be sleeping around so much

  486. Anonymous January 14, 2010 at 6:27 pm #

    What the heck is wrong with you. Would you want someone to treat you that way. Have you even thought to take her to a doctor. I mean not bad enough to make her drink the water then you make her take her underwear off that is sick if I was her I would run away.
    Then when the police found me I would make sure you go to jail.
    You need HELP call someone now.
    some people have this problem and they can not help it THANK GOD MY MOM was smart enough to take me to the doctor and ask why.
    If you love your child you should you evil bi%%$ GET HELP THANK GOODNESS THE GIRL IS ALMOST 18 so she can leave you and she will prob not come back. I don’t blam her. I sure as hell wouldn’t

  487. Anonymous March 18, 2008 at 11:59 am #

    Calm down girl. I am the poster up above, look tell your bf because if he is a good one he will understand. You say your social life is ruined, no its not. All you have to do it take action. First off show how its not your fault to your mother, then when she understands go to the doctor. This will be very difficult but if my 12 year old brother could do it with his old family you can do it. If it makes u feel any better see a urologist or something. Look he may say diapers for night but guess this MIND BLOWING question. Why were diapers made? See its for ppl here that have some medical problems. There could be a simple medical solution to this and that is why you have to see a doctor. If you want to talk i will be here for you.

  488. Anonymous January 14, 2010 at 10:28 am #

    my 18 year old girlfriend slept over last night. she says she woke up while she was peeing herself in the morning. this is unlike her but i still find it hilarious. i now have to change all my comforters and tell my parents i spilt apple juice all over it, and she says she will pay me 10 dollarms

  489. Anonymous March 18, 2008 at 12:35 am #

    what is a kegel exercises? Does it work?…I have been wetting the bed since i was 7 and im 17 years old. I mostly wet the bed when i am about to get my period or during my period. I am sick of constantly washing my sheets every other day. One week I may not wet the be, but its constantly a surprise to get it all the sudden when you think you are doing nothing wrong to desrve to wake up wet, smelly and uncomfortable. My lttle sister doesn’t even pee in the bed as much as I. Mom is sick of having to see me wet my bed at this age, she thinks I do this on purpose, but which teenage girl would want to still wet her bed? NOT ME of course! Im afriad to talk to a doctor about my problem. Its getting to the point where I can’t have a social life, can’t invite friends over without having to clean the room head to toe to get the smell out. My boyfriend couldn’t come to my house without a 1hour to 30 minutes notice so I could clean up my room, which meant a clean sheet and lots of air spray. I can’t live in constant fear and stress…PLEASE HELP!!!!

  490. Anonymous January 13, 2010 at 4:06 pm #

    While I don’t disbelieve that someone would be capable of this type of abuse, I myself suspect that the person who posted that comment is just a urine fetishist posting for his or her own gratification. I don’t think someone who was abusing another in this way would be so quick to broadcast it to the world, even anonymously, and certainly not in such detail. It’s not cool for someone to subject everyone else to their sick masturbatory fantasies, but it’s best to take everything you read on the internet with a grain of salt I think!

  491. Anonymous March 17, 2008 at 1:27 pm #

    Hi i am 16 and a girl. my newly adoped baby bro (is aculy 12 i just call him baby) anyways, even before we adoped him he had a damaged bladder a couple months back.He wears diapers 24 7. Luckly this was his home town so all of his friends are still here. He is bi polar and has depression since age 8!!!!!! He gets so depressed about it at times then can turn angry in a flash. Right now he is in the Hospital with TB and i feel so bad for the little guy. I try talking to him and comforting him which hlps him for a bit but, a bit later he could be depressed again. He has a theropist and everything but nothting seems to help. For all of you that say u cant get a girl or guy. He has had a gf for 3 yrs!!! has told her about it, shes fine with it. also some of you say you will never loose your virginity. Hehe he has gotten naughty with her if u know wht i mean……. anyways back to my question. HOW THE HELL DO I KEEP HIM FROM GETTING SO DEPRESSED! i am like the person he can trust mostt right now and i hlp him alot just not enough can anyone plz show him on this forum that he is not alone and wets 24 7??????? right now its looking grim for him and i cant stand to see him so depressed, he is my baby brother after all!
    P.S. if you would like to contact me send a post of your AIM or E-Mail. Sry if this double posts the page keeps getting stuck

  492. Anonymous January 13, 2010 at 3:14 pm #

    MOST IMPORTANT
    The most important thing any parent can do is to remember to give your child room to vent frustration and talk about shameful feelings if they want to. And to instill the message that they are always worthy and that you do not see them as lazy or untidy. It is much more important that your child feel good about himself than trying to change wetting the bed. Bed-wetting usually goes away but your child’s self-esteem stays for a lifetime and greatly influences the quality of his life. Let’s not lose track of what is really important. You can find more information about allowing your child to talk about feelings and building self-esteem in our ‘Sam and Bear Make Friends’ parents guide.

  493. Anonymous March 13, 2008 at 7:40 am #

    Sweet heart,
    when I was 19 now 24,
    I used too wet the bed too. I tried pull-ups and my bed did not smell have stains or anything so I thought “hey, I can go sleep at my friends houses now”
    so when I did they got suspicious because I looked kind of puffy. But I said “what are you talking about” by the way we were in our jammy’s so when it was about 3 in the morning I was asleep and so were they, that was what they wanted me to think. They new that was not my pajamas and not my body but then I guess the pull-ups were not as good as I thought, I wet myself but it was so much that it went all over my pajamas and everything. When I woke up I saw my “friends” emailing a picture of my pant’s soaked, it was horrible!!!!!!!!!

    What I say is it’s just something you grow out of…………………………….. but your step dad has no reason to beat you, and know one should hate you for it either.
    My mother and father were very supportive!!!!!!!!!!!

    You have to try not to drink after 11:00 and go to the bathroom before you go to sleep.

    Good luck

  494. Anonymous January 13, 2010 at 3:07 pm #

    HI TO THE MOTHER THAT MAKES HER DAUGHTER DRINK 2 LITERS AND THEN DO EXERCISES YOU ARE DOWNRIGHT MEAN TO YOUR KID!!! YOU NEED TO STOP IT RIGHT NOW BEFORE SHE HATES YOU FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE AND IF SHE ONLY DOES IT FOR A FEW DRY NIGHTS THIS IS DEFINITELY NOT NOT NOT GONNA CURE YOUR CHILD OF THIS SHE IS PROBABLY SCARED OF YOU AND I FEEL REALLY BAD FOR YOU PLEASE STOP.

  495. Anonymous March 7, 2008 at 9:05 am #

    i am 12 and i wet the bed and have to wear diapers to school i use a diiferent toilet to everyone else and i hate it but it is better than wetting my pants in class or public my mum is very supportive and it is not a medical condition i just cant feel it coming out its good to know that it happens to other people and i was wondering wot to do at sleepovers what to do at gym and how to stop it thank yuu

    xx

  496. Anonymous January 13, 2010 at 12:12 pm #

    hi I am 12 years old and I have to go to boarding school in a couple of years and I do not know how to stop wetting my bed my parents support me a lot and they don’t yell at me about it or punish me and thats cool. just need some advice because its getting annoying. thanks and wondering if plastic pants even work.

  497. BJS March 5, 2008 at 5:32 pm #

    Why not print this out and show it to your mom?

  498. Anonymous January 12, 2010 at 8:33 am #

    god nows wat to do … m 14 n still wet mah bed smtimes.. mah father says dat d doctors say dat i have to get operated 4 dis problem n m damn scared of gettin operated.

  499. Anonymous March 5, 2008 at 4:01 pm #

    STORY OF MY LIFE n i have a niece living with me n im afraid that one day she’ll just tell all of my friends im really popular too especially at Church she ssometimes threatens to tell everyone and i just have to do everything in my pwer to make sure she doesnt say anything to the point where I make sure she is with me at all times it sux :[ I NEED HELP!!!

  500. Anonymous January 12, 2010 at 2:54 am #

    I think that sounds like a good way to increase the girl’s bladder capacity so that she doesn’t wet the bed! When our son wet the bed as a teenager, we taped a plug into his foreskin using surgical tape over night, but obviously girls don’t have the same equipment!

  501. Anonymous March 5, 2008 at 4:19 pm #

    all i gotta say is i get yelled at by mother atleast everyday and she threatens to tell everyone about it. she says that i do it on purpose and im too lazy and all this other stuff and sometimes i just get so mad to the point where i cry myself to sleep its horrible and to those who dont have this problem your blessed lyk my brother who never wet the bed and i mean never since he was done wearin diapers he never did it again on the other hand my sisters stiopped at 12 and my mother at 14 and she hates admitting it infact she wont admit it i ask my grandma and my dad did she really wet the bed and they tell me yeah but when they say somthing to her she gets all upset and says she stopped at 9 and yet she makes a big deal for me. and about the depends or watever theyre called she’ll buy them and say here put these on cuz ur such a little baby and to me that is not incouraging me to stop it just makes me so mad and stressed out which might be another reason y i am wetting. i cant even fall asleep n class bcuz of it once i fell asleep for 2 min. and woke up in a rush and checked to see if i hadnt wet the chair i was soo scared. it feels so much better to finally tell somone outside the family about this problem ioh n a question how do u actually do the Kegel exercises?

  502. Anonymous January 11, 2010 at 5:44 pm #

    I would go out with you! I’m 21 and I have a urine fetish.Your bedwetting wouldn’t bother me at all! We’ll by a vinyl mattress cover online, and I’ll make love to you and you can just let your pee flow whenever you need to!

  503. Anonymous*123* January 24, 2008 at 12:14 pm #

    i have been with my boyfriend just over three months now, and i really do have strong feelings for him. However there is just one problem i find hard to confront him about and that is wetting the bed. when we first started to share the bed, he was fine, never wet the bed at all. it wasnt till about a month into our relationship that he wet the bed whilst staying at mine. i just thought we’d been out drinking and that it was a genuine accident, but he kind of made out that id been sweating loads thats why all the bedding was wet. i kind of felt for him as he may have just been embarrassed. so i didnt say anything.
    On the other hand, it has now happened numerous amount of times, in my bed, his bed even and also when we went to visit my parents he wet the bed there. Iv noticed he dosnt even have to drink alcohol for it to happen. The worst part is, we are both asleep when he does untill one of us wakes up n feels the sheets are wet. He comes up with various reasons for why the bed is wet such as; “i dropped a pint of water in the bed on accident.”
    I’m not sure whether he knows deep down that i know he has wet the bed but he is generally making it much harder for me to confront him about it. i don’t know how to bring it up with out offending him or emmbarrasssing him as their the least things i want to do. All i know is that being a student i cant afford to replace pillows and quilts etc, i have bleached my matress several times and iv had it not even a month and its pretty much ruined. I feel i may have to replace it once i have left the halls of residence, but getting more worried about the smell as i have to air my room quite alot now. but when i stop at his i can always smell it, and find it difficult to sleep because of it. i have even stopped wearing nice night wear when i stop at his, as im afraid that it will get ruined. i am really happy being him, but i really do think i need to talk o him about it and offer him my support. But i just don’t know how to go about it. Therefore if ANYONE has any help or advice for me i would really appreciate it.

  504. Anonymous January 11, 2010 at 12:04 am #

    For the nut job at the top of the page who punishes her child by making her drink lots of water and hold it in until she cries and then do exercises….Child services needs to pay your home a visit. you have no business being a parent. Your child needs to be taken and placed with parents who actually know how to love. You are the true definition of an unfit parent.

  505. so you need help? im here for you January 15, 2008 at 11:49 am #

    i know how hard this situation is. the truth is, motivation is the key. i dont know if it will help for everyone, but it helps for me; make sure you go to the bathroon at least six times a day. even if you dont feel like you have to. for s fresh start, just go on a huge cleaning spree. clean dirty mattresses, wash sheets and dirty clothes. then it will be like nothing ever happened and you can start your new, dry life by using the toilet 6 times a day, and ALWAYS before bed… try setting your alarm to the middle of the night to make sure you can go to the potty then too. =]
    im so sorry that we have you deal with these problems,, but eventually we WILL overcome them!!
    best of luck, and lots of love.

  506. Anonymous January 11, 2010 at 12:00 am #

    Wow, u r an evil person. It’s not her fault! You are a disgusting person! Like that guy said, go to he’ll!

  507. momma January 8, 2008 at 11:33 pm #

    I really would like to thank each and every one of you for sharing your stories. I am the guardian of my oldest and he is 12, still wets the bed. He has been through a lot as a child back and fourth, no stability. And for the past 5 years he has resided in my home. I do get mad sometimes when he wets his bed not just because he wets the bed but because he lies about it. I have grounded him on several occasions for lying because the smell is very strong so if he doesn’t take his sheets to be washed downstairs its smells the house BUT after reading the stories you all have shared I understand he’s embaressed. I use to think he was just too lazy to get up at night but I guess I have been very wrong. Thank You All Again!

  508. Anonymous January 10, 2010 at 11:53 pm #

    WTF?!?!?! WTF is wrong with you?!?!? Right now I want to find you and kill you!!!! You deserve to be put in jail!!!! If you can’t tell by the 300 other teenagers that have posted comments on here, it’s not her f***ing fault!!! You must be mentaly retarded!!! Congratulations on garunteeing that you will never see your daughter again after she moves out!!! Go to he’ll f***er!!!!

  509. Anonymousone January 6, 2008 at 4:29 pm #

    hi i am 12 and i wet my pants about 5 times a day and wet the bed every night! help me!!!

  510. Anonymous January 10, 2010 at 11:46 pm #

    Yah, I’m 15 and wet about twice a week. So I’mnot to worried to spend the night with a friend, but since 1st grade I think Ihave wet 5 or 6 times at friends houses. I have no idea if they have ever told anyone. My parents are jerks about it, and so is my older brother. I wet the couch 2 days ago and my parents made me spend $200 to replace a couple coushins.

  511. han January 1, 2008 at 7:34 am #

    im a 16 yr old female and i sleep at my boyf uni occasionaly i onli wet the bed occasiuonaly but i found a lil trick for those that do wana sleep at someones if its a friends just wear tenna lady pads the extra ones and no one notices. also when im sleeping at my boyf as i onli do it occasionaly i just wear one under my pjs an say i came on, then he wont see :) also i use an alarm sometimes but onli at my time of the month as that when it occours hope tht helps abit xxx

  512. Anonymous January 10, 2010 at 10:25 am #

    and when she does I punish her by making her stay in on saturdays. I make her get up at 8, strip to her underwear and drink 2 liters of water, and I don’t allow her to pee until 2 p.m. By 11am her bladder is visibly hard and swollen up to her belly button, and she is in tears. For the last half hour of her punishment, I make her take her underwear off and do exercises, and she leaks little spurts of pee. She doesn’t enjoy it, but it seems to have increased her bladder capacity and she has many more dry nights.

  513. Anonymous December 16, 2007 at 2:22 pm #

    My question is how often does bed wetting in adults is attributed to just having too much to drink before you go to sleep but not waking up in time to go to the bathroom. Its strange for me because I usually have a dream that I am going to the bathroom and then lo and behold my bed is wet. It does not happen that often only once in a while but its enough time to think oh no! I need to go find some sort of help. I have read that bed wetting can come from a number of reasons and one in particular is sleep disorder or being in such a deep sleep that you don’t receive warnings in time. So I don’t know. I am going to the doctor because I have had other problems but I just was wondering about simply not having too much to drink before you go to sleep.

  514. Anonymous January 9, 2010 at 7:00 pm #

    When i wet the bed, i get a boner then my mom comes in and tells me to stop and i do.

  515. Anonymous December 7, 2007 at 5:36 pm #

    My name is Joe.

    You totally don’t understand how difficult it can be to stop wetting the bed. I wet the bed for a long time when I was younger; several times a week until I was about nine, then progressively less. I do still have accidents now and then, and I’m fifteen years old. My last accident was several months ago, but it always happens right when I think I’m over it, so I won’t say that I’ve stopped until I know for sure.

    Wetting in teenagers is usually caused by stress unless diagnosed as a medical problem. I can understand that because I did not have a real sunny childhood. And even now, it could be alot better.

    Imagine moving into a house with siblings and strict parents who you are not close to. Imagine having a nightly wetting problem. Imagine someone telling you to wear diapers in front of your parents and siblings AND act like it’s no big deal.

    You need to think more rationally about things like that. This is an incredibly embarassing thing that some people are cursed with. Personally, I’d rather deal with the wet sheets than the shame of the diaper, but that’s just me. These other kids, whose parents refuse to let them use a bedliner or refuse to change their sheets, they are absolutely trapped. They have to sleep in a wet bed nomatter what they do, but ontop of that, ask them to wear big poofy diapers that their family will laugh at?! No way, Jose!

    This is what I do.
    If you can get ahold of a bedliner (it’s like a plastic sheet) get one. They aren’t as bad as they sound, and ALOT of people use them. Not necessarily for bedwetting, but to keep their bed clean. You put the bedliner on your mattress, and sheets over that for comfort. If you are not allowed a new sheet, sleep on the bare bedliner and wipe up the puddle afterwards. You will want a wash though.
    If you can’t get a bedliner, do everything the same except you can use a tarp, shower curtains, or even plastic wrap. It keeps the bed clean, and if you can wake yourself up early enough, nobody will even know you had an accident. Just throw it in the hamper or in the trash or even shove it under your bed until later. Desperate times call for desperate measures.

    As far as the smell issue goes, several things work like a charm.
    Even though I’m allowed to change my bedliner and my sheets whenever I need to, I still add scent just incase I miss something. Those of us who are used to the smell are generally less sensitive to it than others.
    Between the sheet and the mattress (somewhere it will not touch your body), you can sprinkle a bit of baking soda and/or baby powder. It absorbs the scent very well. And for use all over the bed and blankets, natural scented oils are wonderful.
    My favorite is lavendar, but some people might hate the smell. Peppermint is wonderful, but it burns like hell if it gets on your face. I still use it on my quilt sometimes though. The mint is especially strong and can cover nearly any odor you can throw at it.
    There are several other scents too. The bottles can be expensive though, so choose wisely. I will tell you now that the mint is the best value with the strongest scent and the lowest price, but some people find the smell overpowering and irritating. Sprinkle it sparingly as needed. It also deters rodents and insects.

    One of the most overlooked causes of bedwetting is intentional bedwetting brought on by a desire for attention. Some people think that this is obsurd and doesn’t actually happen, but they are wrong, wrong, wrong.

    Some people have fetishes of sorts where they may take to thumbsucking or bedwetting to try to get their parents’ attention. This is mostly because of ignorance or neglect the person suffered through during childhood, and is highly uncommon in younger children; happening mostly in older teenagers or younger adults. When confronted, the person may swear to the death that they have these habits completely on accident, when in reality, they are fully capable of coping without it.

    Parents: NEVER punish your child for wetting the bed. EVER. Daytime wetting is different, but bedtime wetting, when the child is alone and nobody knows, is FINE.
    If the laundry load really bothers you so much, teach your child to wash their sheets on their own so that you don’t need to do it. That way, it’s nobody’s business but your child’s. If you really love them, you’ll do what’s best for them. Scarring them emotionally and making them feel humiliated and embarassed is NOT going to make it better. Most likely, they’ll end up with depression or psychological disorders and they’ll amount to nothing in life.

    All of you parents who punish or scold your children for bedwetting,
    FUCK YOU.
    You WILL go to hell for hurting your own flesh and blood.
    And when you do, I’ll piss on your graves.

    Peace.

    Joseph M

  516. Anonymous January 9, 2010 at 3:31 pm #

    im 14 and i wet the bed…i tried telling my dad but he thought i was crazy and thought is was funny

    its been like that for years…i know its nothing surious…i just wish my parents would understand…

    i still sit around thinking “why wouldent they accept me”…if only they would listen and understand…

  517. Anonymous November 29, 2007 at 12:08 am #

    Okay, I can tell you right now that just because you wet the bed it gives your stepfather no right to hit you. That is ILLEGAL. Please verify the police about it, and I can assure you that wearing diapers to bed will make things easier. Diapers arent meant to stop you from accidents at night, but they are meant to keep your bed clean. Diapers will help you, so start wearing them again. Talk to your doctor about it too, and see if it’s truly a medical condition. It worries me greatly that your stepfather beats you for something everyone knows you dont purposefully do. Please call the police immediately, because it’s wrong, and nobody should ever be treated that way. Dont worry about whether or not you’ll be married. If someone truly cares about you, they wont mind, and they may even try to help in any way they can. I can assure you that despite embarrassment, diapers will help. Who cares if they make you feel babyish? Is that so bad to feel young? Elderly often wish to be young again, or at least to feel that way. It doesnt matter what others think of you. It matters of what you think of you. Who gives a flip if your family doesnt like you having accidents! Diapers are the best solution until you can fully control it

  518. Anonymous January 6, 2010 at 6:44 am #

    Hi!! I am a Female, 17 years old i have been betwetting since I was a kid but until now i still wet on my bed.. I tried to lessen the water I take everyday and I always go to the bathroom before I sleep but still I am wetting on my bed.. But sometimes it stops but just for one day then the next day I am wet in bed,, please help me I dont know what to do.. I am shy to tell anyone because I am not a child anymore.. please help me…

  519. Anonymous November 25, 2007 at 4:55 am #

    if you are a teenager just wear drynights they are nappies but for older people they are pullups

  520. Anonymous January 2, 2010 at 1:45 pm #

    omg you mothers who do that to your teenagers are horrible!!! they are not “little girls” and wow id hate my mom if she did that to me. you people sicken me. i feel so bad for your children. wow, at 14 you should be allowed to pick out your own clothes hairstyle etc…no not all decisions but they can deffinetly make their own decisions about what they ant to wear. they are not babies or dolls that you put diapers on! wow id say thats abusive in a way. i feel so bad or your children

  521. Anonymous November 9, 2007 at 9:26 pm #

    It worked for me. Meditation makes you more aware of your body so when you need to pee you’ll know and wake up. I haven’t wet the bed for 7 years. I wake up every night to use the bathroom instead. :)

  522. Anonymous December 30, 2009 at 5:49 pm #

    dude i have the same damn problem i hate it so much!! i want it to stop sooooooooooooooooo bad you dont even know >_> so far 2 people know that i do i think one person forget (im enemys with them now so i really hope they did forget!) and the other person that found out was my best friend joe and i can trust him to keep it a secret ive tryed everything try to keep your self warm i find that whenever i wet the bed im always cool when i fall asleep and wake up wet >_< BUT if i get to warm the same thing happens so i dont know… my mom took me to a doctor when i was 7 or 8 and he said i would grow out of it when i was 13, and now im 14 going on 15 in 3 months x.x and i STILL havent grown out of it if someone knows how to fix this please tell me! im so misrble i can stay at ANY friends house because i know it will ruin my high school life if everyone finds out :[

  523. Anonymous November 4, 2007 at 6:14 am #

    I am 13 it is soo humileating that i still wet the bed. Sometimes my dad tells me we just need to practice not wetting the bed….. i know i need to but it isn’t that easy.Don’t get me wrong my parents are SO suportive but they just don’t understand.I don’t go to sleep-overs or my friends houses because if they found out i would be mortified i wet the bed mostly ever night and i just want to stop so i can have a normal life.
    – A

  524. Anonymous December 28, 2009 at 10:39 pm #

    i hate to let people know.its embarrasing {very} but i try to deal with it the only solution i have is try not to drink liquids at night but sometimes it doesnt help i just cant wait till i grow out of it.

  525. Anonymous November 2, 2007 at 6:26 pm #

    I was 6 years old and still wetted the bed, my parents wonderd about it and when i turned 8, still doing it so i went to a doctor, she told me to stop drinking soda for about 2 hours before bed, didn’t work and so my life went on, until I turned 11, my friends wanted me to come over and sleep over, I had to make something up but at age 13 I had a very truthful friend that I told, and she didn’t make fun of me or nothing but made me feel better about my self, my parents became good friends and now i sleep over with her. But now I’m 14 and want to do somthing about it so i went to this wonderful doctor and told me to take Catalyn and do this exercise Kegel and it WORKS

    Hope this works, it did me!!!

  526. Anonymous December 28, 2009 at 4:48 pm #

    i think that if you are 14, you can choose the clothes witch you want to wear.

  527. Anonymous November 2, 2007 at 6:12 pm #

    there now, there is a cure for bedwetting, I’m 14 and my doctor told me to take Catalyn its suppose to heal me. Catalyn is a Dietary Supplement, Sold through Health care Professionals. Hope this helps!! It helped me!

  528. Anonymous December 28, 2009 at 9:00 am #

    Thank you, that seems like a very good plan..i will try it! ha ha i a female and i am going to be 19 and i am so happy to know that there is a married woman out there…i am always scared that i will never get to be married…

  529. Anonymous October 24, 2007 at 6:10 pm #

    Just go to your drug store and buy some adlult diapers

  530. antgotagun December 24, 2009 at 7:20 am #

    I wet my bed until I was 13. It was traumatic to say the least. I always felt so embarrassed when sleeping over at someones house.

  531. Anonymous October 18, 2007 at 5:40 pm #

    im a 20 year old male and although ive never had any real wetting problems i know a few people who have. im sure your doctor can give you some reasoning as to why you are still wetting and may even be able to give you some medication. as for not being able to have a relationship my advice is dont be scared to tell the truth. if you find the right person for you then they will understand and can also lend you support. if i found out a girl had this problem it would not stop me from having a relationship with them – this is not your fault and you should not be ashamed.

    if you feel the need to someone your own age then you are welocme to talk to me.

  532. Anonymous December 23, 2009 at 4:18 pm #

    Well I am 17 and i am married to her also she is pregnant. It happends on and off but not no more than 3 times a week. We have to wake up and she gets mad at me because she has to get up and she cant move around alot. I really do want to stop and show her i can do it so we can sleep good at night time. What should I do?

  533. Anonymous October 9, 2007 at 12:32 am #

    i am 19 years old man i suffer from this same problem since i was in 5 years i feel ashame of my self so please any one give a normal and homly solution for this problem please………its urgent…..

  534. Anonymous December 23, 2009 at 6:18 am #

    mike,thanks for your opinion.i told her i dont want her to wear the plastic pants any more,that its not healthy and that she is growing up and she just doesnt need them.she replied to me that she likes them and that they make her feel like a little girl.i told her i am going to throw them out and she pleaded with me not to.she will be 13 in a few months.should i let her continue wearing them and hope she decides she doent want them anymore?

  535. Anonymous October 5, 2007 at 4:03 am #

    i dont know who you are but i would be willing to talk to you about it. I’m a young man who would not care if a girl i liked had this problem.

  536. Anonymous December 22, 2009 at 9:30 pm #

    I am 14 and wet the bed almost every night. I can’t help it. I go to the bathroom before bed,and watch my drinking, but it doesn’t seem to be helping. I absolutley hate it! I really truely want to stop, I am so tired of it. I get really nervous when I have sleepovers with my friends because I am afraid of wetting the bed. I wish I was normal,I really do. Awhile ago I stopped wetting the bed for a couple of months,I was thinking I was done for good, until I started wetting the bed constantly again. I am 14 and female. :( Please help me.

  537. Anonymous September 30, 2007 at 3:49 am #

    hey im 17 and i wet my bed.. and ireally need help.. as hard as itry to stop icant… a few months earlier like around 5 or 6 months istopped wetting my bed .. and ifelt soo much better but just a week ago i started wetting it again .. idont know the reason ..i told my mom that started to wet my bed again and she told my dad which is so embaressing .. and they want me to seek medical care but idont feel comfortable telling my doctor about it.. please help me what should ido? … should i tell my doctor or not .. please help me !!!

  538. Anonymous December 18, 2009 at 5:43 am #

    I experienced the same situation as a teen. Unfortunately, the situation turned into a fetish where sexual activity was greatly enjoyed while wearing the pants. Get her out of them now. Be firm and explain your reason.

    Mike

  539. Anonymous September 29, 2007 at 6:25 pm #

    I am realy realy ashamed of my PROBLEM i have been doing it more and more lately. As from i can remember i have been wetting the bed for 14 years now and it has had a amazeing impact on my social life and also mental life.
    I used to get bullied at school because of the smell i tried to wash but exentually people could still smell it on me. i am scared of sleeping over and i canot have any of my friends sleep over because of the smell.
    to make things worse i have a extreemly bad sence of smell so i canot smell it
    i darent go to bed on a night because my bed is allways wet and i dont sleep
    my parents used to wash my sheets but not now
    i hate it and it realy gets to me
    please listen to this advice
    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!TO ALL PARENTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    PLEASE DONT GET ON AT YOUR KIDS OR ANYONE ELSE IN THAT CASE IT IS SO DEGRADEING AND IT DOSENT MAKE THINGS BETTER IT MAKES YOU ALL WORSE. I USED TO GET BULLIED AND HIT AT HOME AND ITS NOT NICE REALY.
    please give me some helpfull tips to stop please
    thank you x cpj x

  540. Anonymous December 15, 2009 at 10:41 pm #

    In my opinion, this is a matter of “who is in charge.” You must insist that she wears diapers and rubber panties for all special occasions. A situation will soon arise where there is a boy present that she likes and she will not want to be seen by him to be wearing diapers and a rubber baby panty. She will say, “no Mom, I don’t want to wear my short party dress with diapers and a rubber panty. You must insist that she is properly dressed in her best, frilly rubber panty with the matching ankle socks. When she is in the same room as the boy she likes, wearing diapers, rubber panty and frilly ankle socks when the other girls are wearing nylon tights, she will gladly give up the baby panties. But until then, you will need to be prepared to give her a hard spanking if she doesn’t cooperate with her diapers and rubber panty.

  541. Anonymous September 16, 2007 at 1:42 pm #

    Dear website, what do I do about my daughter. Her name is Lina Kim age 12 from Colonial Heights and she still WETS her bed. My younger son Joshua who is only 10 has not wetten the bed for several years but my daughter Lina occassionally wets the bed. What should I do because she is 12 and does not know how to use the restroom. She is not embarrassed of what she does but is rather proud. I believe that this is her periodical stage in her teenage life. Please send me some tips on how to controll my teenaged daugher. thank you sincerely song ye jeong aka. her mother

  542. Anonymous December 15, 2009 at 10:22 am #

    i need advice! my daughter is 12 and was a bedwetter for almost a year.she finally stopped four months ago.she wore the cloth diapers and plastic pants to bed every night.i got rid of the diapers but she still wears the plastic pants around the house and to church and on the weekends.she told me she likes wearing them.i want to get out of them.how can i get her to stop wearing them?

  543. Anonymous September 13, 2007 at 11:40 am #

    this is to the girl who is afraid to spend the nite with her boyfriend. the night you go spend the night with him make sure you dont have that much to drink and also try sleeping in the bed with him. when i sleep in the bed with my friends i dont do it at there house because i know its there stuff.

  544. Anonymous December 13, 2009 at 5:55 pm #

    well it doesnt happen as often as it used too, but i wet it last night. i dont wear any special pants or diapers. my parents dont understand that i cant feel anything at night. i falll into a deep sleep i guess, which sucks. im always worried about going to a cousins house or having them over because of this problem. im really tired of this, the smell and feel of it. Best of Wishes to everyone with this problem

  545. Anonymous September 12, 2007 at 7:53 pm #

    I’m almost 16 and I still wet the bed. Like you guys, I’m always terrified of spending the night at other people’s houses, and going away on trips. I wet the bed almost every night, but my grandma doesn’t understand. She says I’m getting to old for it, which I agree with, but she thinks I’m doing it on purpose, which makes no sense at all. She yells at me all the time for it, and it really hurts my feelings. I’d feel so much more confident if I could just stop. It’s nice to know that I’m not the only one my age who still has this problem.

  546. Anonymous December 12, 2009 at 7:55 pm #

    ya im 16 and its really bad. But somehow magically whenever i spend the night at someones house I dont wet.

  547. Anonymous September 4, 2007 at 4:36 pm #

    Hi, I’m 12 and I’m sorry about you guys and I want to help but I don’t know how. So I just give my sympathy.

  548. Anonymous December 5, 2009 at 12:21 am #

    my husband and i just put our 14 year old daughter thru catholic baptism and did the traditional dress,bonnet,lace socks and shoes.we did a pair of baby print rubber pants on her under her dress without a diaper.the rubber pants made her feel babyish all day.

  549. Anonymous August 30, 2007 at 10:31 pm #

    i am only 13 years old and i have wet the bed on and off for as long as i can remember until my mother took me in to the medical clinic. they prescribed a drug called apo-desmopressin. this drug can be very costly but it works. you may also find that some people are covered for it. also it helps to not drink anything about 2 hours before you go to bed.

  550. Anonymous December 3, 2009 at 9:44 am #

    go to the docter and get checked out.if you cant stop bedwetting ,then try adult size training pants with plastic pants over them at night.

  551. Anonymous August 29, 2007 at 6:07 am #

    I’m 19 and I still wet the bed. Diapers are NOT, I repeat are NOT as bad as it seems. In my opinion, there is no cure for bedwetting, just wait it out. Diapers were made for people who need protection in the day/night. Why do you think stores sell youth/adult diapers, just to look good. No, they sell them because they are NEEDED and it makes them money. In my opinion, anyone who bashes someone for wearing a diaper is the one who needs to go to a mental place, it is NOT a sin to wear diapers, it’s a part of how they live, and if it helps the person stay dry at night, then they should wear them. It just sickens me when people say you must be a weirdo or pedophile if you wear diapers. What if you need them to stay dry at night/day? You should think twice about calling someone something that’s not true. Diapers were made to help those who need protection.

  552. Anonymous December 3, 2009 at 9:37 am #

    i am 17 and female and have been a bedwetter for over a year.i also wear cloth diaper and plastic pants to bed every night.they work the best for me also.my plastic pants are adult size and are girly.i have pastel colored pairs as well as some baby print kinds.i figured that since i have to wear them every night i may as well have girly ones.i wear a two peice footed pajama over my diaper and plastic pants.

  553. Anonymous August 25, 2007 at 11:15 am #

    The bedwetting has kind of slowed to maybe a couple times a week. But, at 24 years old, I still wet my pants a lot. I just can’t make it to the bathroom in time all the time. I get like a ten second warning before Niagra Falls. It’s horrible. I’m a grad student. I’ll be taking the rest of my classes for my degree through distance learning because I don’t want to pee in pants in class again.

  554. Anonymous December 1, 2009 at 7:18 pm #

    ivaedocvunf@gmail.com

  555. Anonymous August 22, 2007 at 6:15 am #

    My 12 year old uses heavy duty pads (for periods) or incontinence pads which stick into normal pants. They can be found in the supermarket , choose the most absorbent (super plus etc).

  556. Anonymous December 1, 2009 at 7:18 pm #

    ivaedocvunf@gmail.com

  557. Anonymous August 16, 2007 at 1:07 pm #

    Diapers work so try those ok? they worked for me so try those people out there who still wet the bed!!! :-)

  558. Anonymous December 1, 2009 at 7:18 pm #

    ivaedocvunf@gmail.com

  559. Anonymous August 15, 2007 at 11:36 am #

    I havent tried diapers yet so idk if that’ll help for me lol but the only problem is idk where to find them my size so i wanna try that cause i hate wetting the bed it makes me so mad sometimes!!!!

  560. Anonymous January 3, 2010 at 4:57 pm #

    Panties down? WTF fuckin pedophile. Is THAT why you became a father? Do you have a diaper fetish as well?

  561. Anonymous August 15, 2007 at 11:29 am #

    how am i supposed 2 find a diaper my size since im 13???? where wuld i find them? email me back at josh.jesusfreak@hotmail.com please and tell me!

  562. Anonymous December 1, 2009 at 7:17 pm #

    ivaedocvunf@gmail.com

  563. Anonymous July 26, 2007 at 6:25 am #

    i am 18 years old and will be 19 soon. i have wet my bed since i was born. not every night but about 4-5 times a week. i tried staying up at night. problem is i get tired so i sleep in the day and yet i still wet my bed. my mom hates me for it. she always yells at me for the smell and it costs alot to wash my clothes and sheets everyday. we had to move 5 times cause the smell didnt go away. my brothers and sisters sleep in the same room with me since out family is large. we have a huge house with 15 bed rooms. our relatives live here also since my mom was single and wanted her family to live with her. so the whole family hates me for it. my younger brother and sister go tell my mom they dont want to sleep in the same room. my step dad found out from the smell. he beats me everytime i do it. i dont know if its a medical problem or not. they kick me out and make me sleep in the garage a few times. i cant sleep over my friends house. my friends want to come over but they cant from the smell. i have to buy a new bed every week. for our school “live in chicago” we go alot of field trips to other states. we sleep in hotels but i cannot attend them for i might wet the bed. i tried diapers and pills but those didnt help. i really need help. for my family and for me. i dont want to grow up and not get married for it.

  564. Anonymous December 1, 2009 at 7:17 pm #

    ivaedocvunf@gmail.com

  565. Anonymous July 23, 2007 at 3:08 pm #

    I wet the bed every night. ANY ADVIDCE??????? I have been wett ing the bed since I can’t remember and i dont know when i am wetting my bed or i cant get to the bathroom in time or i just wet the bed HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    I also pee my pants 2-3 times a day in public and at my place. I wee my pants when I cuz i have never made it to the toilets. HELP!!!!!!!!

  566. Anonymous December 1, 2009 at 7:17 pm #

    ivaedocvunf@gmail.com

  567. Anonymous July 18, 2007 at 4:11 pm #

    I feel so badly for all of you….I know how embarrassing it can be. The sad thing is that your families don’t sound like they are handling this like it should be handled. This is a medical condition…no one purposely wets the bed….no one is THAT lazy! There is something wrong in your body that is doing this….it’s not you….please don’t internalize this and think it’s your fault…it’s NOT! You are wonderful people that just have a condition…..would you blame someone for having diabetes or cancer or catching a cold??? No…so don’t blame yourself. Go to see your doctor and if he/she is not respectful, kind and responsive to helping you…..fire them and see a better doctor(they aren’t all good or empathetic! If they are not empathetic…they need to get in a different profession!)

    I come from a family that has the bedwetting gene. My mother used to wet the bed and I did until my teens. My two sons also used to wet the bed. My mother and I had to grow out of it naturally, but I took my sons to their pediatrician and he prescribed a hormone for them to take at night. (They can also test to see if it’s caused by other factors) One of the signals the body uses to decrease the amount of urine production at night is a molecule called ADH (anti-diuretic hormone). Your body is supposed to make this hormone. DDAVP is a synthetic form of this molecule that the body naturally produces. When my sons were 5 or 6 the doctor put them on DDAVP. Their bedwetting was reduced very quickly and they became totally dry within a year or two. We took them off it slowly by reducing their pills from 3 a night to 2 a night and then when they were still dry down to 1 a night. Eventually we took them off the pill and they have been dry since. I don’t know if the pills helped their body decide to make the hormone or if they would’ve quit at that time anyway….but it really doesn’t matter. Staying on the pills and being dry is like a heavenly dream after the nightmare of waking up wet. Read below or copy and paste the link to read the article. I really recommend the hormone as it didn’t seem to have any side effects on my sons and it is just a hormone that replaces one your body is supposed to be making anyway.

    Good luck and God bless! I wish you all success, dry nights and good compassionate people to help you through it!
    Kimberly

    Below is an excerpt from:
    http://www.drgreene.org/body.cfm?id=21&action=detail&ref=791

    It has a long track record of safety. Specifically, studies have shown the side effect profile to be no different from that of a placebo (an ‘empty’ medicine given for comparison). In the mid-1980’s people began using DDAVP to treat bedwetting, with exciting results.

    Unlike the strenuous effort required by some bedwetting therapies, DDAVP is a simple nasal spray administered before bed. It is also now available in tablet form. Results appear within the first week — often the very first night. About 70% of children started on DDAVP will become completely dry. An additional 12% will experience significant improvement in the number of dry nights. These numbers tend to be even higher the older the child is at the time of therapy, and the stronger the family history.

    DDAVP works very well while children are on the medicine; the difficulty comes in keeping them dry when they stop. Unlike alarm systems, which have most children done with bedwetting within 12 weeks, with DDAVP almost no children are able to go completely off the medicine within 12 weeks and stay dry. To stop wetting, it is best to stay on the DDAVP for 12 full weeks, and only then attempt to taper the medicine. At this point about 20% of children will remain dry. For those who do not, resume DDAVP for another 12 weeks before attempting to taper again, and repeat this cycle as necessary. This regimen will get and keep most children’s bodies in the normal rhythm of making less urine at night. If tapering remains unsuccessful, the DDAVP can at least keep him dry until he outgrows the wetting, probably at the same age as his father.

    The other big detriment to using DDAVP is the cost. Therapy usually costs about two dollars per night. Over time this can really add up. On the other hand, many families consider this a real bargain.

    I should also note that DDAVP can be used situationally. Short-term use can be quite effective for keeping children dry for important nights such as sleep-overs, camp, vacations, holidays, etc.

    DDAVP is an important part of our arsenal for treating bedwetting, a miracle cure. DDAVP, however, is by no means the only therapy for bedwetting. Be sure to discuss with your pediatrician which option is best for you.

  568. Anonymous December 1, 2009 at 7:17 pm #

    ivaedocvunf@gmail.com

  569. Anonymous July 18, 2007 at 3:59 am #

    Thanks for your advice.Do u have any more advice for me to cut down or completly stop wetting the bed??? I do also want to keep talking to you. Please reply
    PS: do u have any sites to stop me from wetting the bed???

  570. Anonymous December 1, 2009 at 7:16 pm #

    ivaedocvunf@gmail.com

  571. Anonymous July 12, 2007 at 4:26 am #

    i still wet the bed too. I wet it every night

  572. Anonymous December 1, 2009 at 7:16 pm #

    ivaedocvunf@gmail.com

  573. Anonymous July 8, 2007 at 3:16 pm #

    you will find a guy. you just need to find the right one. a guy that doesnot care about wetting the bed. things happen. it is no big deal. i would like to talk to you about it. see if i can help

  574. Anonymous December 1, 2009 at 7:15 pm #

    ivaedocvunf@gmail.com

  575. Anonymous July 1, 2007 at 4:28 am #

    Don’t worry about them. i still wet the bed. it takes time. Tell them to hold on and if that doesn’t work buy a bed wetting alarm. they will evenually stop wetting the bed. if this an issue put them in diapers. it’s ok

  576. Anonymous December 5, 2009 at 5:37 pm #

    i am a girl and 14.i wear diapers and plastic pants to bed every night.they work .you should wear them also.

  577. Anonymous July 1, 2007 at 2:53 am #

    It’s ok I still wet the bed occasionly. Just try and hold on at night. If it doesn’t work buy an bed wetting alarm. Don’t tell your friends and it might make you feel alot better.

  578. Anonymous November 30, 2009 at 4:24 pm #

    As a father of 3, I can tell you that’s the most rediculous thing I’ve ever heard of. Get out of the stone age. Yeah, at 14 you are too young to make some decisions, but come on! It’s a bit stupid and immature to take a strap to a 14 year old (not to mention it is child abuse), and humiliation has yet to cure any child of a problem. Then again you are an adult telling a 14 year old stranger you would do this, so most likely you haven’t the maturity to grasp the concept of compassion for your own children. Grow up, THEN be a parent. It works better that way.

  579. Anonymous July 1, 2007 at 2:49 am #

    Just upfront her and it will make her feel alot better and same with you. I told my girlfriend. I also helped me with bed wetting because i overcame my fear, but i still occasionly wet the bed and so does my girlfriend.

  580. Anonymous November 29, 2009 at 10:33 pm #

    Patronising? I don’t think so. My daughter is a top student, has a boyfriend now (supervised), and is very thankful for being required to wear diapers and rubber panties. She knows why she was punished for disobedience, and is still strapped for bad behavior. At 14, you are still too young to make decisions about your wardrobe and behavior. If you were my daughter and gave this kind of backtalk you would go across my lap with your panties down for the strap. Your height is irrelevant.

  581. Anonymous June 27, 2007 at 8:10 pm #

    I am a 28 year old female, and I wet the bed (several times a week) until I was 24. I started doing Kegel exercises every time I went to the bathroom and that’s the only way I was able to stop. A few weeks after I started the Kegel exercises I noticed a difference, and after about 6 months I stopped wetting the bed completely. I still do the Kegel exercises every once in a while to keep the strenth in the muscles that hold back the urine. It has completely changed my life – I strongly suggest looking into this method to cure your bedwetting.

  582. Anonymous November 29, 2009 at 10:23 pm #

    Although we are not catholic, I fully agree with your decision to put snap-on rubber panties over your girls’ diapers for special occasions. But they should be required to wet their diapers, not remove them. My daughter was put in diapers and snap-on rubber panties until she was 16. One of her dresser drawers is still full of diapers and rubber baby panties. This tells them they are still little girls and must be dressed accordingly.

  583. Anonymous June 25, 2007 at 3:31 pm #

    im a female and im 18 nearly 19, im starting to get really down and depressed and upset about wetting the bed, ive dun its since i was little and its driving me mad, ive never had a proper boyfriend because of this and im still a virgin and its all because of bed wetting.i never stay at friends house and its not exactly every night i do wet the bed but its strange how evertym im due on my period of wen i come on my period that same nyt i will do it.it smells and im really embarressed and i dnt want to get depressed, i cry about it all the tym and my little brother laffs at me and once told every1 at our bbq party an di was mortified i jus wanted to die im so ashamed of my self i need help surley ther must b a way of stopping it, i dnt no if i can live with it any longer, i think im never gona get a boyfriend or have a sexual relationship =[ help!!

  584. Anonymous November 28, 2009 at 6:09 pm #

    Ok tell ur mom that ur 16 almost an adult but don’t whine while u say it or shel definately say no then just be as stuborne but as politely as possible and refuse to wear the diaper and the tuber pants

  585. Kelly Kane June 20, 2007 at 10:25 am #

    We have worked with and cured thousands of children and adults and infused them with hope at the Enuresis Treatment Center in Farmington, MI. Besides being a deep sleep disorder, research shows that bedwetting is also genetic. If both parents have a history of bedwetting there is a 77% chance the child will also wet the bed. The average length of treatment is 6 months, and we are certain we can correct the sleep disorder and end bedwetting. Go to http://www.freebedwettingguide.com for more info.

  586. Anonymous November 28, 2009 at 6:06 pm #

    First off I’m so sry I’m 11 and I still wet the bed my mom just yelled at me for wetting the bed here’s wat u do(I’m just to lazy to do it)don’t drink anything two hours before u ho to bed drink alot of water during the day and lots of pelvic stetches hopes this works bi!!!!!

  587. Anonymous June 12, 2007 at 9:53 pm #

    I am a 14 year old mail. I wet the bed practically every other night it is terrible, I just want to live a normal life. I’ve tried diapers but that just is such a blow to my dignigty when my dad throws one at me and tells me to put it on. I have never spent the night at a friends house, and it puts so much stress on my family, my mother, sister, little brother are all moving out because of the smell. I just can’t live with it. If any one at my school found out my life would be ruined.

  588. Anonymous November 28, 2009 at 6:06 pm #

    First off I’m so sry I’m 11 and I still wet the bed my mom just yelled at me for wetting the bed here’s wat u do(I’m just to lazy to do it)don’t drink anything two hours before u ho to bed drink alot of water during the day and lots of pelvic stetches hopes this works bi!!!!!

  589. Anonymous June 2, 2007 at 11:16 am #

    i use to be so afraid to stay the night with my friends cause i didnt know where to start with something so embarassing to me!! but they were fine about it but there mom also told me that i might need an extra stich in my bladder so i dont know if its that or if i just need medication but i am goin to the doctor so i can get help

  590. Anonymous November 28, 2009 at 1:30 pm #

    I’m 15 and i still wet the bed. I used to care about it alot but now i just kinda get on with whatever i have to do. Only recently i’ve started getting depressed about it, and reading these i used to think it would magically stop or something when i reached 16 but now im scared it will carry on into my 30’s or something. Although it kind of makes me feel better knowing lots of other people have the same problem as i do. Tbh i’ve never had a problem at sleepovers because i just wear baggy trackies and pull-ups underneath and no-one ever noticed, ive been doing that since i was 8 though and im so sick of it :( I seriously HATE it, FML.

  591. BJS May 23, 2007 at 7:47 am #

    This page has some advice for teens who are dealing with bedwetting. Good, commonsense stuff that you might not think of on your own. I’d love to hear from other teens out there who have gone through this and how they deal with it.

    http://www.med.umich.edu/1libr/pa/pa_tnbedwet_hhg.htm

  592. Anonymous November 28, 2009 at 5:33 am #

    Do you have any idea of how patranising you sound? Thats unbeleivable. i really do feel sorry for your daughter having to have a mother like you. im 14 im 5’10. Do you consider me a little girl?

  593. bedwetter May 20, 2007 at 1:15 pm #

    im 16 years old and i still wet the bed…my mom hates me for it and i hate myself even more for it…i dont kno what to do!! i jus want to be normal….i spen the night at friends house and wont go to sleep in fear of wettin their bed..and in some cases i did wet my friendz bed…but woke up and saved it and had to cover it up somehow…ii have never been caught by my friends…i can never let friends come over cuz my room alwayz smellz…i go thru clean sheets in WEEKZ and sometimes dayz!!!!!!!! please HELP ME

  594. Anonymous November 27, 2009 at 10:39 pm #

    At 15, you are still definitely not too old to be put in diapers and rubber panties. My daughter had to wear them under very short, crinolined dresses until she was 16. Her friends were allowed nylon stockings for special occasions but my rules were that a teen girl who needs diapers must wear dresses short enough to show the rubber panties. She was required to have bare legs between top of ankle socks and rubber pants. As she got older, she often rebelled and was punished by strapping on her bare bum. You must accept the fact that you are still very young and must wear baby panties. Grownups love to see little girls in short dresses with proper rubber panties underneath.

  595. Anonymous May 15, 2007 at 7:18 pm #

    i am a 19 year old female i wet the bed seven times a week and pee mey pant 2-3 times a day. i pee my pants at my house and in public places its really embarrasing. i wet my own bed and even wet my girlfriends bed when i sleep over at her house. i dont have a bladder problem but what should i do to ry and stop

  596. Anonymous November 27, 2009 at 6:14 pm #

    my mom treated me un fairly thanksgiving day.i am 15 and my sister is 12.she has bladder trouble and has to wear diapers and plastic pants 24/7.yester my mom dressed my sister in her holiday dress and then came into my room with one of sisters diaper and plastic pants and ordered me to take off my panties and lay down on my bed so she could diaper me.i protested loudlt but she said there was no argument.i had to lay there while she put the diaper and plastic pants on me.she told me she wanted me in a diaper and rubberpants also under my holiday dress.mom told all the relatives that her two lovely daughters had diapers and rubberpants on under their dresses.i was so humiliated!

  597. Anonymous May 13, 2007 at 6:21 am #

    i am 18 years old and i am so embarrased to say that i still wet my bed.The last 2-3 years it happens rarely, but it still happens!!!i feel i cant live a normal life!I HATE IT ! ! !none of my friends has the same problem..they ask me to go on trips together the weekends and i refuse every time…i’m afraid that it will happen again and they will find it out!!

  598. Anonymous November 27, 2009 at 12:39 am #

    I am 21 years old and have been wetting the bed for 21 years. I am sick of it just like everyone eles and looking for ways to cure it. I have a son that loves to sleep with me and he does not pee at night. I put on the adult pull-up I pee through them. I stop drinkin at night I still pee. I have done the pelvic exercises and that have not worked so I am at the point I don’t know what the heck to do.

  599. chellemi18 May 10, 2007 at 8:57 am #

    We read your article and would like to offer some advice. Self-treatment programs alone are not as effective as combining them with professional help. With self-treatment programs there is no personalized attention to patients and no long-term follow-ups. At the Enuresis Treatment Center we work with every aspect of bedwetting. We eliminate the underlying problem: The deep sleep pattern, and have a 95% success rate. We have developed a guide tailored to people’s individual needs, so they can evaluate which treatment method is best for them. To download this guide for free go to http://www.freebedwettingguide.com

  600. Anonymous November 25, 2009 at 8:31 am #

    I remember when I was 15, thinking “surely it will stop by the time I’m 16. It’s got to, I’m too old.” I’m 20 now, and I used to feel the same as you did. “I believed that no guy will ever want to date a girl that wets the bed.”

    But I’m married, now, and my husband could care less that I wet the bed. I told him when we were engaged, and it didn’t bother him. It’s such a relief to me, because I always wondered how I could get married with my problem!

    But if he loves you, he won’t care. (besides, HE’S not the one getting wet). He doesn’t mention my problem, and, in fact, forgets about it most of the time (unless I mention it). He knows it’s just a bodily function thing, and it’s not my fault. I don’t wake him up when I have an incident (on purpose or otherwise). I simply replace the towel I have on my “bed wetting pad,” and go back to sleep within 5 minutes. I’ve got a very fast and clean system, and it works great.

    It shouldn’t be a problem for you. If the guy loves you, the issue won’t bother him at all. But if it does bother him, a guy who loves you won’t let silly thing like that keep you from him!

  601. Anonymous May 18, 2007 at 7:54 pm #

    i ama 18 year old female and wet the bed twice a night and three times during the day. it always happens with my girlfriend especially when i sleep at her house what should i do

  602. Anonymous November 25, 2009 at 8:18 am #

    I’m a 20 year old married female, and I still wet the bed occasionally. I used to think it corresponding with my monthly cycle… but the truth is that it’s somewhat random, and I can wet the bed 3+ times a month.

    I’ve developed a pretty easy system of rules for me to follow in order to decrease wet problems/clean-up:

    1) Don’t drink water for at least two hours before you go to sleep. Drink tons of water during the day, of course, but avoid it like the devil at night.
    2) The last thing you do at night before you sleep should be using the bathroom. Hopefully, that’ll get rid of all the liquids in you. No liquids-no bed wetting.
    3) Get a liquid resistant pad (“bed wetting pad”) to sleep on top of. This should protect your sheets if you have an incident. I actually use a pad with a folded towel on top of it. Then, if something happens, it’s really easy to exchange the wet towel with dry ones and go straight back to sleep. VERY fast, and very clean. And, also, very concealable. I’ve taken this bad/towel system to various sleepovers and etc., and it hasn’t failed me yet. You can hide it in your sleeping bag, and arrange it properly when no-one is around No one even needs to know!
    4) I’ve also noticed that many times when I wake up to an “incident,” my dream warned me of it ahead of time. My dream will shift towards bathrooms, and using bathrooms. If you notice that you are having a bathroom dream, wake up IMMEDIATELY, and go and use the REAL bathroom (or your dream self will settle for an imaginary one).
    5) There are supposed to be various ways to “train” your bladder, but I haven’t really tried them myself. My best guess, though, would be to drink as many liquids as humanly possible during the day–and none at night. Maybe your bladder will expand?

    So for those of you who are older bed wetters… you’re not alone. It’s a bit odd that we haven’t stopped when everyone else did, but we can still be normal and happy.

  603. Anonymous May 1, 2007 at 6:36 pm #

    I am 17 and still ocasionally wet my bed…. its been my problem forever. Protective under wears do help even tho at 1st I hated them too they were soooooooo babyish. But awaking up in a dry bed is so much better. I Pray it stops soon……. listening to moonpants on youtube kind of helped…. Its N O T just m e …. but it I S sooo sad .

  604. Anonymous November 23, 2009 at 10:00 am #

    Im13 and i wet the bed on purpose 3 times then i started wetting it by accident i dont want to tell anyone and i also pooed my bed by accident but i liked it so i do it on the toilet but in my knickers then empty it im annoyed and want to stop but i dont want to tell anyone

  605. Anonymous April 17, 2007 at 12:42 pm #

    i’m 18 and i occassionally wet the bed. It only happens every now and again. It just happened tonight and this is the first time for about 2 years. I don’t know what to do and I am scared to sleep over at my boyfriend’s house in case it happens again. HELP!

  606. Anonymous November 18, 2009 at 8:39 am #

    Hi I am also 13 and have just stopped bedwetting. When I did used to bedwet I had the same probolem as you do. But one day I just seemed to suddenly grow out of it and ahevrarely done it since. It still ahppens once in a blue moon but not very often now. If there is anyone who wants too talk the email me at simonh997@aol.com

  607. Anonymous April 19, 2007 at 4:22 pm #

    There are lots of resources today that will help with bedwetting. If your very stressed and frightened about sleeping over at a friend or boyfriend’s house your doctor can talk to you about medication that you can take for bedwetting. Talk to your doctor. They can give you the answers you are looking for. Good Luck!

  608. Anonymous November 16, 2009 at 11:47 am #

    just tell her nicely, I would spend the night with you but, I have an embarassing problem that I am afraid you would laugh at me about.

  609. Anonymous July 31, 2006 at 8:27 am #

    My husband stiil wet the bed at 30
    years old. He had high blood pressure so I convinced him to stop drinking caffeine. It lowered his blood pressure, but he also stopped wetting the bed. He has not wet the bed in 2 years. My 13 year old daughter was also wetting the bed. So I told her to stop drinking caffeine and low and behold she quit wetting the bed. It has only been about 2 months for her. She did wet the bed a couple of times but then found out she drank caffeine. She still misses her caffeine but would rather not wet the bed. I hope this helps other bed wetters. Try it you have nothing to lose.

  610. Anonymous November 16, 2009 at 11:42 am #

    just say, mom I don’t want to wear a diaper and plastic pants under my dress, really politely and hopely, she will understand.

  611. Anonymous July 11, 2007 at 5:18 am #

    I’m an 19 year old female and i had 2 boyfriends and they both dumped me because their wet the bed. I wet the bed every night and pee my pants 2-3 times a day. I am sleeping over my boyfriend’s and i feel i am going to wet his bed and he will dump me. Bed wetting is a huge issue for me. Please help me!!! From Anonymous

  612. Anonymous November 16, 2009 at 11:39 am #

    is the camp a choice, or do you have to go? because, if you don’t have to go then don’t and just stay home.

  613. Anonymous July 22, 2007 at 2:31 pm #

    I AM 17 YEARS OLD AND I WET THE BED EVERYDAY, I USE TO CRY BUT NOW I JUST WANT TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT BECAUSE IT BOTHERS ME ALOT AND THE FUNNY PART IS THAT I DONT EVEN FEEL IT WHEN IT HAPPENS. IT HURTS SO MUCH. I GO TO MY DADS HOUSE IN JERSEY AND I FEEL SO EMBARRASED. PEOPLE THERE TELL ME WHY YOU DONT STOP DOING IT, YOU ARE JUST DOING IT CUZ YOU WANT TO!!, BUT YOU KNOW WHAT THEY DONT EVEN KNOW HOW IT REALLY FEELS AND HOW MUCH IT AFFECTS ME IN EACH AND EVERY WAY. ITS SAD BECAUSE I CANT DO THINGS ABOUT IT RIGHT NOW AND I HAVE TAKEN PILLS THAT DEAL WITH BED WETTING BUT ITS NOT ENOUGH AND IT REALLY DOES NOT HELP. ITS FRUSTRATING BECAUSE AS I GROW OLDER I CAN THINK TO MYSELF OUTLOUD AND I SAY TO MYSELF, I DONT WANT TO LIVE MY WHOLE LIFE LIVING WITH THIS,
    I JUST WANT IT TO STOP AND IM WILLING TO DO ANYTHING SO THAT THIS PROBLEM CAN GO AWAY, I REALLY WISH THERE WAS A CURE, A REAL ONE THAT CAN ASSURE ME THAT, IT WONT EVER HAPPEN EVER AGAIN!!!!

  614. Anonymous November 16, 2009 at 11:35 am #

    I wear diapers, and go to the bathroom before bed. and I still usually end wetting the bed.
    my name is Danielle.

  615. Anonymous November 16, 2009 at 11:33 am #

    Hi, I am a 16 year old female that has wet the bed for as long as I can remeber I just turned sixteen, on October 27th of 2009.

  616. Anonymous November 16, 2009 at 11:30 am #

    How old are you? sorry about my typing I don’t know what happened. I am 16 and a girl.

  617. Anonymous November 15, 2009 at 5:11 pm #

    I am 16, and I am sick and tired of bedwetting. my grammy, knows I can’t help it but then, she still gives me heck about it.

  618. Anonymous November 15, 2009 at 5:09 pm #

    I wet the bed too, and I am 16. and a female. the sad thing, is I have the wet bed at a two of my friends’ houses before. I just want to stop! am I the only one with asperger’s sydrome that wets the bed on this site? I know I’m not the only one that wets the bed on this site. I’m a junior highschool! grrrr high school.

  619. Anonymous November 15, 2009 at 5:06 pm #

    I was told, I was going to stop bedding wetting once, I hit 16 and I am 16 now, and still wetting the bed.

  620. Anonymous November 14, 2009 at 10:55 pm #

    I can definitely relate to the frustration a lot of you are expressing! I’m a little beyond my teen years now (early 30s) but have dealt with this problem for pretty much my whole life. Thankfully at least for me it has gotten gradually less and less over the years (especially since I finished college and all the stress and sleep deprivation that go with it!) but it still happens. There are no easy answers for it, but there are certain things I’ve found to be of some help (though not perfect) and I still hold out hope of maybe one day beating this thing.

    Anyway, I’m not selling anything and I don’t have the “miracle cure”, but I’m happy to talk to anyone who is interested as one who has “been there, done that”! You’re welcome to e-mail or IM me at midnightflyer77@yahoo.com . Thanks, I hope I can be of some help to some of you!

  621. Anonymous November 14, 2009 at 7:14 am #

    hi i have been wetting the bed my whole lif ei hate it so much it makes me feal nasty and it makes your room stink i juss hate it dont know what to do so lost i wanna stop when i turn 14 which is on the 19 hope someone can help well bye now

  622. Anonymous November 14, 2009 at 7:14 am #

    hi i have been wetting the bed my whole lif ei hate it so much it makes me feal nasty and it makes your room stink i juss hate it dont know what to do so lost i wanna stop when i turn 14 which is on the 19 hope someone can help well bye now

  623. Anonymous November 13, 2009 at 7:01 pm #

    i wish i could find a girlfriend who wets the bed-
    it turns me on so much..

    sorry if i offend anyone..

  624. Anonymous April 22, 2010 at 12:01 pm #

    I’m 18 years old. I used to to wet the bed for as long as I can remember. And I would always get punished severely for it. I don’t understand why because my father had the same problem until he was 19 or 20 with me already being 1 and a wife. My little brother even had that problem. But nonetheless it runs in my family. It used to be a huge deal. I’m already overweight and wetting the bed did not help. I’d have to shower 2 to 3 times a day. It stopped though when I was 15 or 16 I can’t remember. But I visited this site because recently I wet the bed. But that night like at 3 am I drank like 32 ounces of a milk based drink horchata before I went to bed along with a burrito. I woke up with my bed all wet and soaking. It was embarrassing because I had my cousin and a friend over but thank god they weren’t in my room. I had to wash the sheets, shower and leave somewhere so they wouldn’t see me. I was that embarrassed. But I have been good without wetting the bed over the last few years it has been 1 or 2 times, versus everyday. Trust me all you bed wetters, I feel your struggle. It’s hard. embarrassing, and depraving. You just have to deal with it like I did. Eventually you will grow out of it. The only advice I can give to you to stop this is: Don’t drink water or anything with liquids after 6. Set up you’re alarm to wake up in the middle of night and don’t go to sleep until you go to the restroom. Or last resort, wear diapers which is what I did for a while. Thank you all for making a blog like this :) It helps to see that a lot of other people are going through the same hardships as me and are dealing with it. :) Good luck to you all!

  625. Anonymous November 11, 2009 at 1:23 pm #

    I am 15 years old and I used to wet the bed every night. I used to have to wear Goodnites and other diapers every night. My friend found out when I was about 10 and used to make fun of me at times because of it. But in October 2007, our family’s house burnt down and sort of hit me hard and of course I was sad. But after a few days I realized that I stopped wetting the bed. The house fire destroyed slot of things but it actually stopped my horrible problem. I hope that you guys could somehow just stop all of a sudden like me, without having a disaster happen to you.

  626. Anonymous November 10, 2009 at 2:36 pm #

    They work for me maybe you got another diffrent kind of it theres quite a thew, go doctors and Ask

  627. Anonymous November 10, 2009 at 2:29 pm #

    Hi Im 13, Just stopped peeying the bed.. Go to your doctors/clinin And Ask For Desmo Melts. They Stop you peeying the bed. It sends the messege to the brain not to pee while u sleep like somone who doesnt. Signs of this is you pee is VERY Pail, It should be like apple juice [nearly] if it is ul probs what i have. I Need 2 of these desmo melts a night, u my only need 1.

  628. Anonymous November 10, 2009 at 2:27 pm #

    Hi Im 13, Just stopped peeying the bed.. Go to your doctors/clinin And Ask For Desmo Melts. They Stop you peeying the bed. It sends the messege to the brain not to pee while u sleep like somone who doesnt. Signs of this is you pee is VERY Pail, It should be like apple juice [nearly] if it is ul probs what i have. I Need 2 of these desmo melts a night, u my only need 1.

  629. Anonymous November 6, 2009 at 9:45 am #

    my daughter is thirteen also and a bedwetter.she wears goodnites with a pair of plastic pants over it every nite to bed.it works well and she does not have to change her sheets.i wash the plastic pants as they are reusable and she throws away the wet goodnites.this ia one option you can try.

  630. Anonymous October 28, 2009 at 11:12 pm #

    Hi all, I am glad i have stumbled across this website so i can talk to other people who are in the same boat as mine. So I am a 22 year old female who has been wetting the bed forever. I had surgery when I was 6 to stretch my bladder. Also I have been on every medication you could imagine. I found it really hard for me to attend camp, sleep overs without having an accident. I got made fun of in public school and on into high school. Most days it seems like there is never going to be an end to it. at the age of 16 i wanted to commit suicide because i believed that no guy will ever want to date a girl that wets the bed. Still to this day I think about dying. I really hope i can help others like me out there. I really just want to live my life and not have to worry about the sleeping arrangements. Its sucks. I also have a kidney that doesnt work correctly, it blockes pee from going through my kidney and it causes me pain and discomfort. the doctors wont do anything about it unless i start to have infections. My father wet the bed until he was 12 and then it just stopped. I dont know why mine hasnt stopped. I have had many very uncomfortable proceedures that did wore then good so i know what its like. So here are some suggestions that may or maynot help but you can always try and pass other suggestions around.

    Try:

    No pop or caffinated beverages* if something bothers your bladder and makes you use the bathroom more then you should avoid it to see what happeneds*
    no tea or iced tea
    only have juice or water
    medication for over active bladder before bed.
    If things are bothering you write them down
    Less bedding and more coolness. If you are more award of being cold then you can try to get up and use the bathroom.

    Also:

    Don’t let parents get to you by yelling at you or punishing you for having an accident. Its not your fault and by then not supporting you will only make things worse.
    If you feel uncomfortable wearing something dont. just make sure you empty your bladder right before bed.
    Goodnight work well for overnight stays. they can be embarrassing but they give you the feeling that you didnt wet the bed. but i wouldnt get the in the habbit of wearing them cause your body will get used to them.

    Okay everybody I hoped this helped. Email me if you would like to talk canadiangirl16_2007@hotmail.com

  631. Anonymous October 22, 2009 at 5:38 pm #

    hi im 16 year old male
    i’ve been wetting the bed my whole life
    when i was born i had some wall thing that did not blocked my urine flow
    i had a surgery about like one month or so after i was born, i also have only one kidney working other one does not work, born that way,
    i dont no wat to do really… i’ve had surgeries, taken medicine my whole life and so
    worst part is I LITERALLY AM THE ONLY ONE WITH THIS IN MY WHOLE FAMILY (no matter how far you go back…)
    yea wat i need i dont no, wat to do i dont no, i just felt like expressing my self….
    my parents are great about it and dont ever make me feel bad or anything but i really want it to stop.. so many times i have to say no to anything over night because of this..
    yea i no its not my sister’s fault or anything but it really is hard to have a sister who has no real problems…i really cost my parents a lot of money as a child cause of the surgeries..
    sorry for wasting your time i just wanted to express my self to someone cause in reality i really cant.. thanks for reading

  632. Anonymous October 19, 2009 at 5:11 pm #

    I just turned 17 and I’m still wetting the bed… Everynight… I’m waking up in piss and I HATE IT SO MUCH!!! :'(

    I Used to sleep sitting up in a chair or couch and I Don’t pee in the bed when I Do.. I get up and go when I wake up… But when I’m comfortable in the bed or couch, I pee like a river…

    I need help on this and my mother won’t take me to the doctor… She makes me feel ashamed about it…. Scolds me and says “you’re 17 years old and still wetting the f-img bed!!”

    HELP. PLEASE!!!
    My email is punkrocklibra@yahoo.com if you have any advice.. Please.. I need help on this… :'(

  633. Anonymous October 14, 2009 at 1:28 am #

    reply:
    maybe if you get rid of the shame it will help you stop, i know alot of guys are turned on by peeing girls, perhaps ask your boyfriend if he would like you to pee on him or watch you pee…what do you think?

    RE: i am 17 nearly 18 and i still wet the bed from as far as i can remember i dont know why i do it ive tried desmotabs and desmomelts and sum other thing but they dont work all the time it anoys me i am going to try some sort of anti depressents from the 1950’s that apparantly worked for bed wetting my parents know and family my exes know and my boyfriend and my best friend they have stood by me and tried 2 help me it doesnt happen 7days a week maybe 3,4,5 times i find that sumtimes wen i sleepout i dont as well its frustrating wen i have been told that these are the last tablets i can try i have had ultrasounds and they have all come back fine i dont know what set it off and i dont know why but my doctor said that it could still happen for another 10 years its so embarassing i feel ashamed when i stop out. i got kicked out not so long since and stayed at my best mates house and slept in her and her boyfriends bed with her and i had wet the bed i felt so dirty and ashamed telling her i just wanted to crawl up and die i wish there was sum kind of cure my boyfriend wants me to move in with him when he moves out of his mums but i am scared coz of this problem i find if i stay up till the early hours of the morning i dont i dont know what to do anymore i have to have a plastic sheet on ma matress the ones you get wen u get new ones and everytime i wet the bed i use a clean tea towel and disenfectant and it gets rid of the smell easily if any one has any sugestions please let me no

  634. Anonymous October 7, 2009 at 8:27 pm #

    I was one of the 1 in 50 until I was 15. I was embarrassed about it, which is normal emotion. But you are not alone. Now days there are allot better solutions to cope with it until it is out grown. There is the internet to talk to others about it. There is more people that are knowledgeable about it. You can talk to a doctor and find out what your situation is. There is also better diapers to wear. Unfortunately, and anyone around my age knows, that not that long ago you had to wear the regular baby diapers. I had to wear Pampers. It was just as embarrassing having the big box of Pampers, diaper pail and Butt Balm in my room as it was getting put into a diaper every night. Now they have ones that are almost like underwear. As for what to do when you want or have to spend the night somewhere other then at home, you have to talk to someone about your situation as embarrassing as it might be. Don’t try to see if you can go the one night without wetting. It does not work. I went to camp with a boy that tried that and he wet the first night. I noticed what had happened, and being in that situation before myself, I told him I was going to do my laundry and go use the shower room before it got too busy and asked if he was going to come with. Needless to say he did not hesitate. But I told him he needed to tell a consular for the rest of the stay. He did, got diapers, no one else ever knew, and he had allot better rest of the time. Do what you have to do to keep yourself sane about your situation. Take it from me, there is help, and if you are like me it will be over someday and you will be out of diapers.

  635. Anonymous October 11, 2009 at 7:37 pm #

    i am 16 and learned a valuable lesson.last month i lied to my parents about where i was going and went to a party.i got drunk and passed out.i wet my pants at the party then a friend brought me home and i wet the bed twice.my parents were furious.i came home from school one day the next week and my mom told me they had decided on my punishment.later that night they brought 6 pairs of toddler plastic pants into my room.my mom got them at a thrift store.i was forced to put a pair on in front of them and wear them to bed.i now have to wear them every day after school and to bed.i have one more month left.i hate wearing them.they fit me tight and give me rashes.i have to wear them all the time on the weekends.TEENS,DRINKING AND LYING TO YOUR PARENTS ARE NOT WORTH IT.AS I WRITE THIS THE PLASTIC PANTS ARE HURTING ME AND I LEARNED A LESSON!

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