It turns out that older men chasing younger women contributes to human longevity and the survival of the species, according to new findings by researchers at Stanford and the University of California-Santa Barbara.
Evolutionary theory says that individuals should die of old age when their reproductive lives are complete, generally by age 55 in humans, according to demographer Cedric Puleston, a doctoral candidate in biological sciences at Stanford. But the fatherhood of a small number of older men is enough to postpone the date with death because natural selection fights life-shortening mutations until the species is finished reproducing.
“Rod Stewart and David Letterman having babies in their 50s and 60s provide no benefit for their personal survival, but the pattern [of reproducing at a later age] has an effect on the population as a whole,” Puleston said. “It’s advantageous to the species if these people stick around. By increasing the survival of men you have a spillover effect on women because men pass their genes to children of both sexes.”
“Why Men Matter: Mating Patterns Drive Evolution of Human Lifespan,” was published Aug. 29 in the online journal Public Library of Science ONE. Shripad Tuljapurkar, the Morrison Professor of Population Studies at Stanford; Puleston; and Michael Gurven, an assistant professor of anthropology at UCSB, co-authored the study in an effort to understand why humans don’t die when female reproduction ends.
Human ability to scale the so-called “wall of death”—surviving beyond the reproductive years—has been a center of scientific controversy for more than 50 years, Puleston said. “The central question is: Why should a species that stops reproducing by some age stick around afterward?” he said. “Evolutionary theory predicts that, over time, harmful mutations that decrease survival will arise in the population and will remain invisible to natural selection after reproduction ends.” However, in hunter-gatherer societies, which likely represent early human demographic conditions and mating patterns, one-third of people live beyond 55 years, past the reproductive lifespan for women. Furthermore, life expectancy in today’s industrialized countries is 75 to 85 years, with mortality increasing gradually, not abruptly, following female menopause.
Grandmother hypothesis
In 1966, William Hamilton, a British evolutionary biologist, worked out the mathematics describing the “wall of death.” Since then, the most popular explanation for why humans don’t die by age 55 has been termed the “grandmother hypothesis,” which suggests that women enhance the survival of their children and grandchildren by living long enough to care for them and “increasing the success of their genes,” Puleston said. However, Hamilton’s work has been difficult to express as a mathematical and genetic argument explaining why people live into old age.
Unlike previous research on human reproduction, this study—for the first time—includes data on males, a tweak that allowed the researchers to begin answering the “wall of death” question by matching it to human mortality patterns. According to Puleston, earlier studies looked only at women, because scientists can reproduce good datasets for humans entirely based on information related to female fertility and survival rates.
“Men’s fertility is contingent on women’s fertility—you have to figure out how they match up. We care about reproduction because that is a currency by which force of selection is counted. If we have not accounted for the entire pattern of reproduction, we may be missing something that’s important to evolution.”
Men and longevity
In the paper, the researchers analyzed “a general two-sex model to show that selection favors survival for as long as men reproduce.” The scientists presented a “range of data showing that males much older than 50 years have substantial realized fertility through matings with younger females, a pattern that was likely typical among early humans.” As a result, Puleston said, older male fertility helps to select against damaging cell mutations in humans who have passed the age of female menopause, consequently eliminating the “wall of death.”
“Our analysis shows that old-age male fertility allows evolution to breach Hamilton’s wall of death and predicts a gradual rise in mortality after the age of female menopause without relying on ‘grandmother’ effects or economic optimality,” the researchers say in the paper.
The scientists compiled longevity and fertility data from two hunter-gatherer groups, the Dobe !Kung of the Kalahari and the Ache of Paraguay, one of the most isolated populations in the world. They also looked at the forager-farmer Yanomamo of Brazil and Venezuela, and the Tsimane, an indigenous group in Bolivia. “They’re living a lifestyle that our ancestors lived and their fertility patterns are probably most consistent with our ancestors,” Puleston said about the four groups. The study also looked at several farming villages in Gambia and, for comparison, a group of modern Canadians.
In the less developed, traditional societies, males were as much as 5-to-15 years older than their female partners. In the United States and Europe, the age spread was about two years. “It’s a universal pattern that in typical marriages men are older than women,” Puleston said. “The age gaps vary by culture, but in every group we looked at men start [being reproductive] later. At the end of reproduction, male fertility rates taper off gradually, as opposed to the fairly sharp decline in female fertility by menopause.”
Despite small differences based on marriage traditions, all women and most men in the six groups stopped having children by their 50s, the researchers found. But some men, particularly high-status males, continued to reproduce into their 70s. The paper noted that the age gap is most pronounced in societies that favor polygyny, where a man takes several wives, and in gerontocracies, where older men monopolize access to reproductive women. The authors also cite genetic and anthropological evidence that early humans were probably polygynous as well.
Older male fertility also exists in societies supporting serial monogamy, because men are more likely to remarry than women. “For these reasons, we argue that realized male fertility was substantial at ages well past female menopause for much of human history and the result is reflected in the mortality patterns of modern populations,” the authors say. “We conclude that deleterious mutations acting after the age of female menopause are selected against … solely as a result of the matings between older males and younger females.”
According to Puleston, the “grandmother hypothesis” may be true, but the real pattern of male fertility extends beyond this explanation. “The key question is: Does the population have a greater growth rate if men are reproducing at a later age? The answer is ‘yes.’ The age of last reproduction gets pushed into the 60s and 70s if you add men to the analysis. Hamilton’s approach was right, but in a species where males and females have different reproductive patterns, you need a two-sex model. You can’t correctly estimate the force of selection if you leave men out of the picture. As a man myself, it’s gratifying to know that men do matter.”
Grants from the U.S. National Institute on Aging supported this study.
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Why would an attractive, sexy, beautiful, smart, intellegent, emotional stable girl will want to be with you. What makes you to be better than the other men who wants her make you differnt. you should know you don’t have any chance.
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So just give up there no any reason for her that will make her to have any feeling for you. There is many reasong she doesn’t like about you but she can’t say it to your face so get over it .
going every where where she goes and pretending is not making you any favor. you should know she doesn’t want you because she is not the one following you around. She is not the one calling or texting you. That makes you just damp ass who do not understand about people.
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I am sure there are other girls every where they want a man like you. You can check to where she works or school, you will find there. They are very nice girls there they will be happy to be with you and your money. Just spend time on these ladies, they will be happy to be with you., don’t spend your time and your energy on some one who not interested in you……………………
There is a reason why she is not answering or texting even not even using her phone and having a private phone number and she only used.
by now you should understand. There is no way that attractive women will sleep with you specially if she was with someone attractive handsome man than you. some times you should figure out the girls previous relashionship she had.
SORRY AND have FUN with time you have left and enjoy your life don’t wast it.
I am SURE you will find one that will much with you.
I am sure after you read this you will understand what to do next so you don’t have to follow some one is not interested in you.
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Women 35-year old (+) present increased risk for Downs Syndrome primarily, and men 40-year old (+) present risk for autism in offspring… statistically.
And, as a man, I agree with your comment on empowerment… as when I hit 40, total loss of control happened in the home. If I tried to hold on tight to it, the more I lost it… and then it was too late. I separated from my wife of nearly 20 years last week. Were you to observe, it was clear who was in control, and it is quite uncomfortable to be in that spot… so, when I was asked to leave… I said “OK.”
If you have kids, stop while you are ahead… what if you have some raging autistic child who screams and moans all the time – you would kick yourself for it. Good luck!
Make sure they’re not too young. You’ll have to get married. Oh, and don’t be creeper either
there should be a difference of at least 10 to 15 years between men and women..cause women gets old very fast while men are men..they never get old… so in my opinion = Old men chasing young women: A good thing (yea it is totally)
I thought it was only lower sperm count, not the condition of the cells themselves. It’s not las if older men produce mutants you know. I am 41 and would like to have more children, I am in the financial position to provide for them.
I understand my role in evolution as a protector and provider, and I greatly appreciate womens’ roles as childbearers, mothers, pillars of emotional support for both men and children. I don’t think women should feel like this is demeaning. You should know that being a man isn’t as empowering in someways as you might think. A man’s life can be very demanding, and women in fact have much control over men; more than you probably realize. I have often felt controlled by women and their sexuality, but I am not bitter about it. In the right environment men and women can be mutual benefactors for each other.
Thank you for this very helpful article. I have found it quite useful.
You decided nothing., You were born a lesbian.
Doubt you would call it misandry if the research mentioned in the article ended up with an opposite result.
So, tell me my dear, is biology with all its bio-chemical processes misogynistic?
But, alas the young men want young women as well. So, no harems stocked with young men for older women. um..sorry.
“The thing about society is that it’s perfectly exceptable for rich and famous men to marry teenagers(think Tom Cruise) but if you are just a normal guy with an average job you are considered a creep. But the way it works is that if I win the lottery and have 10 million in the bank it doesn’t matter what I look like, society deems me a winner and fit to date supermodels.”
Excellent point….
Jack, good on you for living the dream.
old men are chasing lesbians. Ah Ah Ah Ah Ah! Hee Hee Hee Hee Hee!
The title of this site makes me sick. I’m so glad I’ve decided to become a lesbian.
Guys over 35 have less perfect sperm and so they can produce less healthy offspring. So it would be a disadvantage for a younger woman to be with an older man.
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As long as you feel young and enthusiastic,age hardly matters.One should persue his passion with full vigour and courage if u mean it.
If I catch you glancing my way, old man, you’ll lose your fuckin’ eyeballs. And if you follow me, I’ll cut off your balls.
Drop the royal ‘we’ and get cracking?” What exactly do you mean by that?
Wouldn’t mind having an explanation that was at least a paragraph long.
By “we” I meant people in general, not a “royal we”.
old pervert! You should be ashamed. Take a look at your ugly face in the mirror before you chase young women. You’re disgusting. You stink! Nobody wants you.
Amusing, but lots of interesting text in the post.
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yes. old men chasing young girls, they are dating..but in reality the young girls are writing the particular and exact “date” to escape with the property and jewels. When the old ones wake up they come to know about the truth, the realisation. They open their eyes really. .She says, “Damn”. ..Want another negative comment, i told you when you were sleeping, now you want another one? Get it, “Close the door”. Old says, “i believed you the chick, …She says, “thats what i wanted”.. am not a green chick.. my huntingcontinues…wait, call for me…yes darling, pass the address..switch off. She says, my bank balance is increasing.
It was an interestingly enough article. I don’t judge a book by its covers and have nothing against older men dating younger women, Nor the other way around. Anyway, i found a web site that has interesting information about male breeding and their preferences.
It’s true that all men like younger women, but not because they breed better, but because they’re beautiful and willing.
My step-father was 42 years older than my mother and fathered my brother at 70 years old. He was a decent man, didn’t drink or smoke and went to church everyday and rarely took time off work, you could set your watch by him.
My mother had me when she was 15 years old so we are more like brothers and sisters in the way we communicate. I asked her why did she marry such an older man and she told me point blank…for security, because at 19 and being a single mother she didn’t have too many 20 something guys looking her way.
Now the opposite of this is that my real father ended up living with a lady 11 years older than him with 6 children(all girls)and has stayed with her for over 40 years.
Both marriages seemed happy. My mom claims my step-dad was a good lover too. However there was a little deception with my dad, he claimed to be 10 years younger and it wasn’t until a year or two into my parents relationship that he told her the truth, but by then age was just a number.
Now I’m 48 and I live in Thailand and the oldest women I dated is 36 with the vast majority in their middle twenties. Most women in the world are disgusted that I don’t date women nearer my age and probably think I’m a perv but I feel it’s the most natural thing in the world for an older experienced man that has already made all the mistakes in life to be with a younger girl. I’m not with them for deep philosophical conversation, I have male friends that provide that. I’m with them because I don’t need viagra to perform in the bedroom. They do it for me, and 50 year old women do not. i don’t care if it’s Madonna.
The thing about society is that it’s perfectly exceptable for rich and famous men to marry teenagers(think Tom Cruise) but if you are just a normal guy with an average job you are considered a creep. But the way it works is that if I win the lottery and have 10 million in the bank it doesn’t matter what I look like, society deems me a winner and fit to date supermodels.
Thank you for your point, Sandra. I’m 25 and my fiance is 52. I chased him 4 years ago and can not bare the thought to be with someone else. Yes, the stares and judgements are annoying. But at least I’m happy with him. I’m not a gold digger and he is not a pedophile like everyone thinks. Tired of the stereotypes. Anyway, good to read your post. You and your husband take care:)
I’m so happy for you, ugly 50 yr old Sandra. Good on you for marrying an old piece of shit.
Zesante contact me via e-mail. All e-mails I receive are.Neither of us were planning to marry someone who was 10+ years age gap but it just happened.
I want everyone to know that being with an older man is not different from a younger man other than he is far more likely to have settled with his life and at the same time willing to stand by you.
I am a woman 50 years old , married with a wonderful 18 year old son and a 76 year old husband.
I have to admit that when we first were together I hid him because of society and what people would think. The only hurdle to cross was my family and they like me accepted slowly, but now could not imagine me with anyone else.
It was I that chased him and I that encouraged him to fall in love with me. I was attracted and went for what I wanted.
To this day I love him more than life. When I was 30 and he was 56 he seemed 56. Now that I am 50 he seems 45. Life is what is in the person and not only the eyes. He has a beautiful heart and mind and is my soul mate. Don’t think it wasn’t hard, but it was worth it.
This video is a good visual of why older men like younger women. http://youtu.be/xAwdyg3I1j8
Yes, and then there’s my great grand ma, married or married off to, we don’t know. She was 13, he was 35. I’m sure she took care of him when he was sickly and died (at about 76) Then she had another 50 years to live. She had a boyfriend who moved in, her ‘cousin’ and she was healthy and spry into her old age. Didn’t make this up.
I don’t know if my granny had birth control, but she lived through those reproducing years, unlike many women who died in childbirth before it was available, many who were treated like baby factories with no respect for their health and needs to recover between kids.
Actually, I heard that husband of hers was a difficult fellow. I guess she lived a long life afterwards in part because he wasn’t around to harrass her and treat her poorly. She got a break.
I understand in some cultures it’s older men for young women and older women for young men. Not everyone young is going to buy that. The hurt seems to be when older men or women are spouses who attain their new arm candy by ditching someone they’ve leftbehind, often out of the blue with little preparation. (not assigning blame here, unless they’ve been reassuring all along).
The take away, don’t ever run yourself into the ground taking care of any partner when he/she is young and able bodied. If you love them enough, stay around when they are old. If they’ve mistreated, that is your call!
If all the women wer impregnated by a smaller number of men, does this mean that there were a large minority, or even a majority of men who did not pass their genes on to the next generation at all? How could a society like that possibly work?
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The researchers seem to be completely ignoring the fact that better nutrition means women are staying fertile longer and having babies at later ages – which is a strong indicator of a civilization living longer as a whole.
If women are having babies in their forties, biology will keep them alive to care for those babies and subsequent grandchildren. The age of menopause will keep on pushing back. Women AND men will live longer.
Sperm from young sperm is of a much higher quality than the sperm of older men. So, older women mating with young men – A good thing for humanity living longer!
Hey, older women can form harems and stock them with young men (all for the good of humanity of course!)
However,you know in hunter-gatherer societies, which likely represent early human demographic conditions and mating patterns, one-third of people live beyond 55 years, past the reproductive lifespan for women.
hi im 20years old and i like chating with old mens
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I hate men especialy old men. Men are bullies.
Very informative article. Thanks for info
I see a claim that most pre-agricutural cultures practiced polygyny:
“early humans were probably polygynous as well.”
If all the women wer impregnated by a smaller number of men, does this mean that there were a large minority, or even a majority of men who did not pass their genes on to the next generation at all? How could a society like that possibly work?
there is only one life stop hurting your feelings if it is such a relationship that gives u the pleasure go for it as long as it is legitimate you all know that what pleases you is what you go for
The real problem is that older women cant accept that men find younger women more attractive they are jealous and bitter. They are sexist against mens nature to desire the more attractive women so they make ageist and sexist remarks against men, because they cant compete. Evolution made us what we are men are supposed to have multiple partners and women are supposed to have children with a successful man- whatever age or race or ethnicity he is. I would tell those bitter women to accept science, and stop making decisions based on your out of control emotions.
You are a model and actor and that is why you are with him. How many men do you sleep with other than him?
Ask this question to yourself….I doubt your intentions….and don’t defend these bloody bastards who eye on the girls their grand daughter’s age.
heh, good points on this debate here. comments seemed to mostly agree. thanks for posting
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Very interesting article, though a bit misogynistic, as others have pointed out! Still, I enjoy reading the Evolutionary Psychology perspective
All up init!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Women are the ones with the power. Men have no power over women.
Get a fuckin’ life old man!
Get a perspective!
I see a claim that most pre-agricutural cultures practiced polygyny:
“early humans were probably polygynous as well.”
If all the women wer impregnated by a smaller number of men, does this mean that there were a large minority, or even a majority of men who did not pass their genes on to the next generation at all? How could a society like that possibly work?
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I am a forty five year old woman who is dating a 75 year old man. This has been the best experience of my life. Sex is great. As a matter of fact, better than any young man I have ever had because an older man is more experienced and knows all the right places to touch. Needless to say, I am a professional and he is a retired professional. He has taught me how to survive in the cutthroat corporate world on a managerial level. We have a meeting of the minds which is why I love him so. I have money and so does he. We just enjoy each others company with no strings attached. So I think that It is all an individual choice. I too made assumptions in the beginning like why would I want to date an old man, but you neve judge a book by its cover. I have been wrong.
So, misogyny is allowed in scientific publications now? And your bloggers are allowed to write like Nuts magazine columnists? Ahem. Content? Style? I thought you had editors for this sort of thing.
I’m not really sure why so many people have a problem with older men dating/marrying younger women. If you don’t like it then don’t do it. But who are you to judge anyone else? I am 27 and my husband is 63. We have two children ages 5 & 2 and we couldn’t be happier. We have been together for 9 years so obviously I’m not using him. He isn’t rich, in fact he doesn’t even work! I make the money in our house. I’m not some trailer trash and he isn’t an old horn dog. We are two normal upper class people. I use to feel insulted when people would talk about us but Now I don’t really care what people say. I make a good living as a model/actress which allows my husband to stay home and also takes away the one thing people automaticly assume about us, that I’m a gold digger!
My point is don’t judge a book by it’s cover. Neither of us were planning to marry someone who was 10+ years age gap but it just happened. You can’t always choose who you fall in love with. Keep yourself open to new possibilities and you will be amazed at what life will present you.
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I m forty and I found that most of the girl in the 20 are fat and their dress like a man.
I happend to stumble on this post by accident. I can see where it would look awkward for an old man, say someone old enough to be someones father or even older to date someone younger. Yea I can go along with that.
Now I do believe it is another thing for someone just being a little older even if its a 10 year gap dating, being thats a common thing in most healthy normal relationships now. like if someone was 22 and they dated someone 32. No big deal on that one.
I do say all of this on a neutral basis being I don’t judge. Also, if everything is really for the right reason being (TRUE LOVE) then there shouldn’t be no trouble, which I can see thats not the case most of the time.
Thanks everyone, I am just being unbiased, and wanted to put some borders up.
You never will… wait till you are a smely old minger and nobody will want you either haha
Let’s face it, some young women are strange and fancy older men, and some young men are strange and fancy older women. No point in fussing about it unless it is one of your children, then go crazy.
And please excuse my spelling. I’m typing on my iPad in my parked car.
I just turned 50. I don’t feel like 50, but it is what it is, I’m not intereated in dating 20 year olds. Just don;t have enough in common, and yeah, 20 year olds woukd be dating me for my money.
But I do like women in their 30s. They’re mature enough to know whats going on, but not bitter at the world, yet.
and thats the problem with women 40 and over. Most are bitter. And most talk like my grandma!
So yeah, part of the attraction for younger women is that of reproduction. But here’s another one: women matures faster than guys. So for me, dating a woman 10-15 years younger is like dating someone closer to my maturity level.
i think it’s only human nature, and it’s not just old men chasing young women it is also old women chasing young mens
You old geezers with saggy balls and greasy gray hair. Chicks that dig you have either:
A) VERY low esteem
B) Need $
C) Don’t care about having good sex
D) Are very good actresses
E) All of the above
The answer is ‘D’. And here’s some advice. Stop having delusions of grandeur and thinking you got some game. Freddy Krueger, Jason Vorhees,Michael Myers, and Chewbaca all have women lined up to sleep with them, too, for money. Women will sleep with anything if they think there’s a dollar bill attached to it. They will even pretend to enjoy the sex even though they probably wanna puke.
I’ve never been with one of you and never will. You’re just too hard to look at, let alone imagine sleeping with. And this article? Keep dreaming, geezers.
Ask the man that committed adultery how much is divorce will cost him as well as he may not find his Trophy.
Lots of men have “Delusions of Granduer” and most middle aged Divorcees many times don’t find the Trophy they want. They go from woman to woman every 2-6 months
As well as Ive learned to keep my options open and entertain those men I have interest in while Im dating someone.
Why?
It donesnt pay to be faithful anymore. Most women lose out.
Sorry, I told me daughter that she is to marry someone close to her own age not an old man who lived his life and has alot of baggage. Even I was smart enough to not take on another man’s (Older Man’s problems).
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great article! is it human nature for old men to chase young women?
i am a beautyful lady of 36. having 3 kids( 9, 7 & 5). my husband is 2 years younger than me. he is a marketing profetional. last 10 years ago i married. because i am a housewife so i spend alone with out my husband.i love sex but my husband spend almost 25 days outside from home. last 2years i listen of my marriage my husband took another wife in another place. so he spend lot of time with my new sister in my absence. i live in a rented house. my family expence
bear by my husband. but it not enough for me and my family. so i finally i want to do myself. my house owener is a man of 65. having 2 wives. one is dead last year another is ill and take bedrest. but that old man of 65 is maintaining himself 45. in my probleme he says i have no child for my family. so he said you have give me a child i will aggry. so from last 2 years i made sexual realation atlist 2 in a day and pragant . last year i born a boy child of that old man. now my last husb and divorce me. now the old man is my new husband. now i feel my new husband(65) more powerful than last one(34). now 36 age i fell i am 55 . but my husband(65) seems 45. now i am praganate of 7 months of my sweet husband(65) and awaiting for another new coming baby. so i fell old man is very romantic in sexplay with experience.
I’m a 29 year old, and love this….bring it on!
It’s obvious, Soccer Tips, that you are NOT a parent – or not a decent one – and are just posting with your selfish dick.
Men should not encourage their daughters to date some delusional old fart that has GROWN OLD and wishes to use some new, fresh person’s body parts!
Listen up, you sick old pervs, we don’t care if you think young girls are attractive – your old rotten parts DON’T MATCH OURS.
Try to get some with people LIKE YOURSELF.
That’s what normal girls do! They look for people fairly close to their age!
The messed up girls, the ones that have been abused and the ones that want to sell their body for money, those girls are will to be a whore with an old guy, and they will approach you!
Leave the NORMAL girls alone, they don’t want you old raisins!
Old dads should give silent treatment to their own daughters for not showing interest in older men, instead of giving silent treatment to other people’s daughters. They should encourage their young daughters to go with older men, especially older men with kids. They should also tell their young daughters that they are silly for showing interest in young men.
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Well I guess the survival of the human race is in our genes.
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i am a 48 year old woman and divc.and i was marryed for years.why would (A) older man bragg,about committing asdultery? some might would wonder if that makes him feel like a really big man.i wonder,but not long.
say that again,what goes on in the bedroom is between THE TWO ADULTS.and yes i do like science,but what does that have to do with it.society,some men date women 48 years and older like myself because,they know there will be NO seeds planted,everything has stopped.NO,MAYBBS! we can’t HAVE ANY! AND,SCIENCE,YES IT VERY VERY TRUE,LOVE MAKING IS BETTER NOW!And being a 48 year old women,WHAT is A OLDER MAN FOR ME?????
This just goes to show you that we’re much more like animals than many people would like to believe. Much of what we do is unconsciously motivated by primal urges and our higher brain functions think of creative ways to act on these urges. I’ll bet some old bankruptcy lawyers in Cleveland Ohio are having some fun with younger ladies too
Amy, you need to stop your lib-lady rantings and get ready for your NOW meeting. This article is not attempting to reach any moral conclusions. Rather, it simply explains new dimensions in the knowlege of human reproduction. I’m sorry that your husband ran off with a younger woman, or your daughter married an older man, but that does not alter the facts related to human reproductive dynamics. They are not moral judgements, simply facts and conclusions based upon sound, logical reasoning – nothing more, nothing less. They are not a primer for survival through male mid-life crisis. Take a deep breath – your fear-based predispositions are showiing.
Wow. obviously if men continue “mating” with younger/fertile women the population will have a “greater growth rate”, becasue they have been mating with more women over a longer period of time. can we say “No S#!t” together? I’m intrigued as to why this article trys to serve as some sort of justification for old men chasing young women. Yes, men with lots of money “high status” have ‘always’ been able to get whatever they want. this dose not need to serve as a guide for the rest of society. This is obviously written by a man. However, if the two are consenting adults, I do believe age shouldn’t matter (That’s “not science/ only oppinon”, BUT I’m NOT trying to justify it with Science).
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Have you seen the research that says that women who reproduce after age 45 will live much longer than those who cannot?
Women who have long telomeres can live a long healthy life – and pass this benefit onto their offspring.
Repoductive years will be lengthened in successive generations.
If women do not mate in their later repoductive years (because the men are mating with young women) this benefit is missed.
Both the eggs of women and the sperm of men deteriorates with age.
It’s true that nature has set us men up to be expendable. Women are kept alive and kicking long after menopause – up to fifty or sixty years.
Women get released from baby-making duties and kept alive (even longer than men.)
The sperm of young men is the most valuable – without as much deterioration as men who are 35 and over. Older men are kept alive in case of catastrophe – where all the young men are away or dead.
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You must be a “creasy” ladies man, Golpoo. I wonder how attractive you’ll be to these women when you start Golpoo’ing your pants. An older man with younger woman, I have no problem with that, but some doof coming in here and bragging about committing adultery with three different women, that’s just “creasy” and sleazy and more lousy than I can “experse”.
None of that research matters or even pertains to the research the author posted. Just because the motility of sperm and testosterone are both decreased, doesn’t mean anything to the article. The research in the article says something very simple (but doesn’t say it well enough): when older men reproduce it adds (overall) to the longevity of the society. Why? Because they lived that long, and that longevity will be passed to their offspring. Motility and sperm count doesn’t matter at all, concerning this.
As far as testosterone being “directly proportional to his testosterone level”, that is pure bunk. Haha. Where do you get this stuff? NO STUDY has even concluded that weight is “directly proportional” to testosterone level. That is a fact. Speaking of facts… the fact is, this isn’t your post. This post was cut and pasted from somewhere else on the ‘Net:
http://www.babycenter.com/0_the-male-biological-clock-its-tick-tick-ticking-too_1490614.bc
Sadly, this isn’t anything new. One person posts bunk and then dozens cut and paste it, pretending they wrote it, in the meantime passing along more erroneous information.
As far as “bad sperm” this is why God (or nature if you prefer) designed the female vagina to be such a hostile place to sperm. Only the best sperm make it to the egg, and only the best of the best make it inside.
Other studies of older men having children with younger women showed no (statistically) higher incidence of defects in offspring than with younger men. The studies show it is the combination of older men with older women that causes the problem. An older woman will have a lower chance of children with defects if she mates with a younger man, but the rates are still astronomical compared to the reverse situation (a young woman with an older man).
It is very easy to sort a man’s sperm for healthy candidates and inseminate, it doesn’t even require removing the egg to fertilize, the sorted sperm can be directly introduced into the vagina with a syringe (or turkey baster)
However, the opposite is VERY expensive and much more involved.
Bottom line, there are very few problems with older men having children with younger women, and those problems can be easily, and (relatively) inexpensively remedied (if one is worried). However, older women having children with younger men (and especially older men) is very, very high risk, and the remedy (if one is available) is incredibly expensive. When you combine that real info with the results from this study, it’s clear that older men having kids with younger women is really a win-win situation for everybody (including the children and society in general).
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It is amazing news and satisfies my mental urge that why I feel to have sex and attracted in my old age towards the younger one. I really felt shamed in this matter. But now excited to know that his is a scientific truth.
i had to laugh when i saw this article! is this really true??
I can’t take you seriously. It’s “crazy’, not “creasy”.
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The writer of that article must have wanted to interpret the ‘facts’ in own way… hahah
As men get older they see a decline in testosterone, a decline in fertility, and a greater chance of fathering children with genetic problems. Men’s testosterone levels ebb after age 25, sperm quality deteriorates with age, and there’s a higher rate of genetic defects than there is with the sperm of younger men. In recent years clinical trials have found links between the father’s age and genetically related conditions such as Down syndrome and schizophrenia.
In a study published in the journal Fertility and Sterility, researchers interviewed nearly 2,000 women about how long it took them to conceive. Among women 35 and older, those whose male partners were 45 and older took five times longer to conceive than those whose partners were 25 or younger. The researchers also looked at what happens when young women (age 25 and under) have children with men 45 and older. Again, the researchers found a substantial, fourfold increase in the time it took couples to conceive – meaning the man’s age was a factor independent of the woman’s age.
Just because he can make sperm doesn’t mean it’s high-quality sperm. As men age, the volume, motility (a.k.a. speed), and quality of their sperm decline. In 2001, the journal Fertility & Sterility published one of the largest reviews of male fertility to date. The authors found that between ages 30 and 50, the average man’s sperm declines by up to 30 percent in volume, swims up to 37 percent slower, and is five times more likely to be misshapen. Shape is important because it correlates with the sperm’s genetic content. A higher number of misshapen sperm equals a greater potential for genetic abnormalities.
Some genetic abnormalities, like dwarfism, have long been associated with fraternal age, but we didn’t give these problems much scientific attention because they’re relatively rare.
On the evidence that sperm from older men is more likely to have genetic abnormalities, some European countries have prohibited men from becoming sperm donors after reaching a certain age.
A man’s waist size is directly proportional to his testosterone level. All fat cells break down testosterone, but belly fat destroys testosterone the fastest, because visceral fat is broken down into estrogen more quickly than other types of fat. Estrogen basically cancels out testosterone in this situation – so the higher a man’s waist measurement, the lower his testosterone level.
“One of the best markers we have of the male biological clock is an increase in DNA-damaged sperm. At age 25, only 5 percent of a man’s sperm has DNA damage; by age 35, that percentage has grown to 20 percent. That’s a fourfold increase in just ten years. As the percentage of damaged sperm increases, the odds of fertilization decrease.” – Narendra Singh, associate professor in the Department of Bioengineering at the University of Washington, Seattle
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In my experience older men are more interested in mutual satisfaction, unlike young men just getting their rocks off.any smart man realizes that to ensure regular sex, all you have to do is please your partner 
Matt, thats crap. I only like brown men. and yes i’m one of those “younger women” talked about in this article. I’m 27 and my husband is 40.
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My experience is so peretty. I got second marry at the age of 42. my second wife is only 24.still we are happy enough in mind and body. When I was 45 then i got more creasy about sex and trying to find a mature lady between 28-32. I got one through cell phone who was so beautiful that i can,t experse at all. I am not at all good looking man. we had relation until she was creasy to marry me and i leave when she disclose it to my daughter. now i am 56. I have now three girl friend all of them are bellow 35 and one is really 23. Still we are enjoying mind and body and i am enjoying with my second wife as well. very interisting thing I become more creasy with my wife after meeting any of my girl friend.
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You need to get over your bigotry about old women. I may be an old woman with an old pussy but I have feelings too. I really do not like old cock. I like young men with young dick.
I agree with your comments, Doug. You’re right, there are a lot of ugly men out there.
When people get old people stop listening to them
And I laugh and laugh and laugh! I can’t stop laughing at this article! So….. funny, hee hee hee hee!
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My third and last wife. She’s 27 and I am 42.. She seeked me and she makes three times my income..She never had a boyfriend or relation or anything,,,How could I be so lucky??? As we walk down the street she turns all heads,,,Wow what a bomb shell she is. Her unwavering loyality is so amazing to me. Maybe it has something to do with her culture (filipino) or maybe cause her parents are thirteen years apart, an it’s normal for her… I really don’t know,, we are just a perfect match in mind and body….That’s my scientific input,,,,,Happy New Year
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The ugliest men would be Asian men because even ugly Asian women are not interested in them. Ugly Asian women go with white men. So what does that say about Asian men?
I am old man that want to have young wife, but i wants to try out woman first to see if she make good sexing. I no want woman who not let husband have sexing. Also cannot be mad if I have sexing with other woman.
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i am 26 years old and my boyfriend is 51 years old now..our age gap is 25 years..i do believe that man at age of 40 and above the habit when it come to sex is like a teenager…..
Who do western women find uglier, Asian men, Indian men or Arab men?
It seems like women find white men the best looking but what type of men do women find the ugliest?
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I hope this research gets more publicity for men in my age bracket this is just the sort of news we want to hear at Christmas! I guess the only drawback is we have to be mindful of the implications and get ready to take a paternity test when asked!
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I agree with that old man seeking for young girls,it represents longitivity of species and it also represnts good health
Even though this research was going on i use to see old women seeking for young guys.
I agree with the Hamilton because every research should have the comparison.i.e, between the men and women
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From a science point of view. Well the vagina starts to get loose and dry as the women ages and is unable to produce offspring after 40yrs. A penis is still the same shape as you age well into your fifties and still can produce offspring for a long time,,,maybe this is why older men are most likely to be with the tight a juicy baby making women!! Just my point of view!!!
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Why do you just assume that old men do not have any confidence in themselves? I am 23 and dating a 60 year old man who takes care of himself inside and out. He exercises daily, eats healthy unprocessed food, very rarely goes out and gets fast food, has never smoked, and drinks occasionally. He is as fit as a 30 year old, NOT WRINKLY at all, and even though he’s retired he owns about five houses and rents them out to people doing his OWN remodeling. He does all the yard work, helps decorate for the holidays, and we both have a lot in common surprisingly. I didn’t just go out and start “looking” for older men. We both just found each other and started out as friends and became lovers. We are both very happy with each other and that’s all that matters.
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Hello I was reading your post and I love it. I am a 27 year old goin on 28 n a month and my fiance is 45 and I wouldn’t have it any other way! He is amazing to me, he is my best friend, my cousin, my homeboy everything…. He always has my back jus as I have his. The sex is wonderful better than I had it with younger guys! He makes sure I’m satisfied before anything! He actually cares about my feelings! I cabt wait ti become his wife next year! He has a vasectomy wit two adult children, and I have a 4 year old son from a previous relationship but he treats my son as if he is his own! I loove this man with everything I have! I jus wanted to comment because your post reminded me of my relationship wit my boo! Thanks… U and urs have a blessed life together
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Each to their own, there is no right and no wrong. I am 23, dating a man 50 years. And I wouldn’t have it any other way.
A few of the ‘younger’ men on here have proven EXACTLY why s woman may go for an older man.
They have been judgmental, immature and most of all presumptuous. They think they know what a woman wants, when in reality… they have not a clue. Older men have experience, knowledge & understanding- which is invaluable. No one has the right to judge a relationship.
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My wife is 27yrs old and I am 42. When we first got to know each other we did not even know what we looked like or what the age we were to each other. We chatted for a long time and fell in love. When she sent me pictures it turned out she was a bomb shell,,,and even more lucky for me she was a virgin at the time. Finally my last (third) wife who truely loves me for dear life.. It’s just about how the women is raised and her culture.. Most women here in the states are all screwd up. If it’s for the money why is her income twice mine? If I am old and dirty and all of the above mentioned,,,why did she seek me? I asked her this in the beginning,,,she said “It’s because the guys my age only want to cheat,,play and make tears…So here I am helping this world again by spreading my great gene’s for one last time,,(two great kids by my first wife,,,and two more with my second) and with my sexy filipina maybe another two or three as “she” wishes…..
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I actually like older man and I don’t give a damn about their money. I have a superior education, I’m an independent person and I don’t want anyone’s money. Youngs guys may have more sexual desire but if don’t know how to satisfy a women and if they’re selfish it’s better to not have sex at all. So I stick with middle age guys…thank you very much!
I don’t like going to the disco and getting drunk so…I’ll stay at home in the arms of my MAN not a BOY. They have more feelings than young guys trust me.
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I have a flatter better body than 80% of the younger at my gym. Who ever you are, I would likely pass on you and you would wonder why I passed on you. Well I passed on you becasue your girl freind found my intellect and look along with my confidence more interesting than being with another young empty minded girl speaking of school, boys and clothes. She seeks a person who can stimulate beyond that below her waiste.
My wife is 28 yrs younger than I. Enough with all this speculation. I live it and love it. I am 49 look 36, when people speak with me they think I am 25. I have the body of a 30yr old, the energy of a 25 yr old and the mind of a 50 yr old.
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no one young women will date older men unless there is some business but it woun’t be for long to be seen with older men. Becausse old men are useless. they don’t have confident on themselves and try to date young women. for what?
YOunget women prefer younger women who can do better sex and having fun out side not just sitting home watching foot ball or base ball with alcohol on their hand. which are with big belly sitting in a sofa for ever.
Money can’t change with the young women feel who she want. Old men are so old old. even if they have money the money will not help them, it maight help them for a while but not for long run.
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so young women prefer younger women because there is many good reasons why they like younger guys. their look perfect their body inside their close perfect sex perfect every thing perfect. but older men they are old on the out side and inside under their cloths are old body. so who want that old body.
there are millons reasons why younger man is better than old with big belly or with wrincle belly.
young women and young men will have a good sex when they are reaaly both in love. but with older men you can’t be in love because there is many reasond why women can’t be in love with old man who doesn’t have confident on himself even if the old men pretend to be have a confident.
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LAST 10 YEARS AGO I TAKE MATURITY. NOW I AM 23 YEARS OLD.
LAST 4 YEARS AGO I MARRIED IN AGE OF 19. WITH A OLD MAN AGE OF 55. THE OLD MAN IS RICH PERSON . MY FATHER IS IS FRIEND OF MY HUSBAND. AND WORK ON HIS MILK FARM. MY FATHER WAS THE SUPERVISER OF THAT COMPANY. LAST 5 YEARS THE OLD MAN CAME TO MY HOUSE FREQUENTLY . HIS FIRST WIFE HAVE NO ISSUE SO HE TALK TO MY FATHER I WANT TO MARRIE TO YOUR DAUGHTER. MY FATHER IS POOR AND I HAVE 5 SISTER AND ONE YOUNG BROTHER. BECAUSE I AM ELDER DOUGHTER OF MY FATHER AND MOTHER THEY WANTS IF I MARRIED TO THE OLD MAN HE HELP TO MY FAMILY FINANCIAL MATTERS. SO MY PARENTS AGGEE AND GET ME MARRIED TO THE OLD PERSON OF 55. NOW I AM THE SECOND WIFE OF MY HUSBAND. NOW 4 YEARS LATTERS I AM MOTHER OF 2 DAUGHTER 3/2 AND NOW I ALSO PRAGANATE OF 6 MONTHS FOR 3 ISSUE. NOW MY HUSBAND MADE MORE THAN TWICE SEX-INTERCOURSE WITH ME FOR AT LEAST 30. WHEN HIS PENNIS ENTER INTO MY VAGINA ITS LIKE A BIG LONG GAZAR INTO MY VAGINA. MY HUSBAND ALSO HELPS FINANCIAL TO MY FAMILY . NOW MY TO SISTER MARRIED FOR MY HUSBAND’S FINANCIAL HELP. NOW I AM MOTHER OF 3 CHILD IN 4 YEARS. SO I THINK MY HUSBAND NOT A MAN OF 59 HE IS JUST 35 AND I FELL BECAUSE I AM NOW MOTHER OF 3 CHILD. NOW I FEEL 32. SO I NEVER FELL OLD MAN IS OLD IN SEXPLAY. JUST YOUNG WIFE CO-OPERATE HIM IN SEXPLAY HE GIVES YOU LOT OF SEX PLEASURE……
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I AM A BEAUTIFUL LADY OF 27 . LAST FIVE YEARS AGO I STAY WITH MY ELDER SISTER WHO IS MARRIED LAST 6 YEARS. MY ELDER SISTER AGE IS 31 AND MY JIJA AGE IS 53 . MY SISTER HAS NO ISSUE FOR GYANIC PROBLAME . HER TUBE IS BLOCKED. MY JIJA ‘S MOTHER AND JIJA WANTS A CHILD . BECAUSE MY JIJA IS THE ONLY SON OF HIS PARENT. MY JIJA’S MOTHER’S WANT FOR ANOTHER MARRIAGE FOR MY JIJA. LAST 2 YEARS AGO ONCE MY SISTER SAID ME YOU GIVE ME A CHILD . I SAY’S HOW. MY SISTER SAID YOU MADE SEXUAL RELATION WITH YOUR JIJA AND GIVE ME CHILD. I WAS YOUNG THAT TIME AND WANT’S FOR TEAST OF SEXUAL PLEASURE. I AM AGGREE WITH MY SISTER PROPOSAL. ON THAT NIGHT MY JIJA BECAME MY FIRST HUSBAND
AND PUTOFF MY DRESS WIH BRA .. FIRST HE PUT MY BREAST IN TO HIS MOUTH AND BUT HIS RIGHT HAND MIDDLE FINGER INTO MY VAGINA AND PUT UPS AND DOWN AFTER SOME I AM ALSO PUT MY JIJA WOW.. WHAT A PLEASURE I NEVER THINK MY JIJA MAN OF 55 GIVES ME SO MUCH SEXPLEASURE .. THERE AFTER I MADE EVERY DAY SEXRELATION WITH MY JIJA NOW I AM A MOTHER OF 1 YEAR DAUGHTER . NOW I AM ALSO PRAGENATE
OF 4 MONTH AND WAITING FOR A ANOTHER CHILD . MY DIDI ALSO MADE SEXUAL RELATION WITH MY JIJA NOW I MARRIED WITH MY JIJA . NOW HE IS MY HUSBAND AND WE BOTH SISTER ARE HIS WIVES. WE LEAVE TOGETHER . MY DIDI ALSO LOVE MY DAUGHTER LIKE HER DAUGHTER. SHE ALWAYS TOLD ME YOU MADE SEXUAL REALATION EVERY DAY WITH YOUR HUSBAND.. I DO THAT NOW I THINK MAN NEVER OLD…
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last 3 years ago i am a woman of 24 years. i belongs to a poor family . my father is a
farmer and my mother is a house wife. i have four sister. i am elder doughter of my family. after my graduation i join a private nursing home . my boss is a surgon and head of that nursing home. his age
is 57 . maximum times i have attened night sift. my boss is sexual person . many times he use nurse for his bed patner. when i join a old nurse staff say that this old man is very sexual . and you just now new
so beware of him but i said he is a old man of 57 what he can do?
just 15 days latter on i a night the old doctor call me to his chamber . i will think something serious so i went to his chamber in night 1 p.m.
when i enter his room he shutdown the door of his chamber and take me to his bed i am very much afraid and said him i am a poor lady
working here for my family poverty. he said i will marrie you and i will
support to your family. on that day he made sexual-relation with me . i dont think that a old man of 57 gives me sexual pleasure. now i am 27 years and a mother of a 1 year son. now the oldman is my husband now his age is 60. but now he also make 1/2 sexual relation with me. now i think my husband is just 16 and i am verymuch sexual satisfied. some days ago our old nurse staff tell me that what happen
the old man is old or young i said stop didi i was not mature at that time the old man make me old woman because now i am a mother of a 1 year son. so i am old woman now he is just father of a 1 year son so he is young man of 16. didi said you also make yourself young for your husband other wise he go for a another lady. i say no he made twice sexual relaton with me. now i feel old man never old he becames more romantic in old age. i am physically satisfied with my husband… so man never old.
i am a lady of 28 years. i am in a job last 2 years ago . i am appoint as a personal secretary of my company boss. he is a old man of 55 years. i am belonges to a poor family and i have 3 sister. parentes are no more last 5 years ago. now i am the only earning person. my boss have a daughter who is married last 3 years ago. now she settle in u.k. with his husband. my boss’s wife is nomore last 8 years ago. because i am his personal sectary he told me his family matters.
i also told him of my family story that i ave 3 sister and i am the earning person. he told me i will make you my wife. i aggred his proposal last year . last year i married a old man of 55 . he is 27 years older than me . but he gives me sexual pleasure 3/4 times like a young boy of 18. now i am a mother of a son 4 months ago. he gives me sexual pleasure and now my husband settled my 3 sister for higher study. now he is feel like a young boy of just 18. now i am sexualy satisfied.. so finally i think age does not come between love and sexual satisfication.
i am now 21 years old woman . i made bad relation with my jija science
2 years . and i became praganate 3 times and aborson them. last year i am married a old man of age 54 last year . he is 35 years older than
me. now i have a doughter 2 months ago. i am satisfied with my husband. he loves me more when i tell him that i have bad relation
with my jija in my early days. but now i only take sexual relation with my husband only. now i made 2/3 times sexual relation with my husband and also satisfied me. he loves me and i love him… so age
does not matter in sexual life.
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I’m with a guy whose 36 & we’re happy despite the fact that he is 14 years older than me doesn’t matter to me. It by nomeans make him younger or makes me feel much older. However if two adults decide that they want to be together let them b… It’s their relationship. If you don’t agree with datin an older man then don’t. You can’t really speak for someone else.
It is frightening how many of these comments are by people who have no idea what the article is saying. Can’t they tell the difference between theoretical research and their own dating preferences?
Good grief, people, all the guy is saying is that, according to “evolutionary theory,” people shouldn’t live much past childbearing age, and here’s a clue to why they do. Not that YOU ought to hook up with somebody’s grandpa.
Unless you want to, of course.
This is nothing new and it will keep going on for the rest of time. As men get older middle age crisis or whatever you want to call it sets in and you get these guys chasing younger women. Does it make you younger? No, but it is a distraction to getting old
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not a a qood thinq AT ALL & im what 16. Yeah get a fucken clue ; they need to go to school & college.Like that saying thats true : qirls go to college to get more nollege & boys go to jupiter to get more stupider Lmfaohh itsz like your dauqhter datinq a WAY older dude i dont think you would like that.
Thatsz in your mind ; youh probably rape liddo kiddsz; sowwwy but thats the truth. a 1 year old should date a 20 year old yuck – jusss not riqht.
Ewww no old man datinq younq qirlsz thatsz like fuqcken rapist dude and why would some qirl wunna date dude like super old; like 20 datinq a 50 – 70 yuckky ! he needsz 2wo qo to jail like real talk
Very nice article. Keep up the good work.
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Not only old men, if you have born as men then most of the person should chase cute and young girls, Why not old men ? They are having good feeling over in that age only.
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Interesting article. Personally I feel sick of the young girls with old men. How can yo kiss old man, it must b really difficult. I am lucky I am a man in my late twenties.
I think usually women and young girls are duffer as compared to men. Men usually exploit young girls. It is not that old men know how to please young girls. It is crap. Young men are the best match for good pleasurable relationship.
I had some bad experiences of young girls. So I stayed away, still in search of a decent one. I think men have more choice, if they are not married. If a man is financially and health wise stable, he can enjoy good relationships for longer period of time.
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You hit the nail right on the head honey…these old men who want to get a hold of some teen or 20 something girl are trying now to use bogus science as a way to justify there perversion.
Get grip boys …you are only deluding yourself…
The big question of this article: why humans live longer than the age of reproduction?
Well, what do you think of it?Human beings,how we got on this plannet is still a mistery. As I read in different sources there were secret people who lived much longer than 400 years, and probably in the future this will be very much possible as well for everybody. Our grand-grand nephews.
Anyway, I know an old high-status male over 70, who is indeed active chasing women, unfortunately he doesn’t treat them right, so no, you don’t necessary find an understanding person in an old man if you are younger, on the contrary, but this was not the point of this article, the idea was if this old man succeds to pass on genes, meaning having babies in older age, yes he does, but these are exceptions, really only 2% of men above 65 make kids with younger partners, they get to be in the news. So their contribution to human kind is insignificant.
But I’m glad this era is over. Now thanks God people are starting to be equals.
your poor “as heck” of an English says a lot more about your situation than you think
I couldn’t agree more. older men certainly earn the right. and I’m 29.
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I am 26 and my husband is 62. We have been together for over 8 years and we have two children together. He isn’t rich! I read these post about younger women only with older men for money. That is crap! We aren’t poor but we sure the heck aren’t rich. I am with my husband because I love him! He is a wonderful man. When i was 18 i didn’t like the men my age. I wanted a MAN not a boy! I wanted to be respected and loved. That is why I married an older man, and I couldn’t be happier! If i was just with him for money I sure as heck would not still be married to him for so long! All you haters need to get a reality check! It isn’t new for older men to be with younger women!
PS: Our sex life is very good! Anyone who thinks having sex with an older man is awful, you haven’t tried it! Older men have been around the block a few times and know how to please a woman!
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Thats not good
old man give good respect and feeling and they know the way .
So what about a man in his late forties who has a preference for girls in the late twenties early thirties age groups?
Hmmmm to the 56 year old guy that just found out he will be father of twins. I can hear you beating on your chest in pride from here LOL! Well write in again AFTER these kids are born and you are running around after 2 year olds with sticky fingers and smelly diapers and you have no freedom or down time anymore!!
I go over and spend the day with my adorable grandchildren (I am 58) and I can tell you from personal experience, I love them all dearly…….but I cannot WAIT to get home to my peaceful life again. My heart goes out to ya!! I think mother nature duped you….she always does!
yeah i’m 28 now, but when I was 18/19 years old, i got into a series of BAD relationships with guys in their late 20s and early 30s. now, all of the guys my age or slightly older who are hunting younger girls now are defective. literally. current/former drug addicts, drunk former frat guys, mental health issues. the only reason they go for the younger ladies is because they think they’re easy. maybe this formula works for slight age gaps or different cultures, but more than 5 years age gap in 21st century USA does NOT work.
If you are an actual scientist or at least an skeptical, you don’t believe anything that is passed as “science”. When it comes to evolutionary psychology, almost anything can be blindly explained by anyone. There are many articles out there than challenge EP’s theories and point out how their assumptions are, in fact, unscientific.
Oh and as a younger women, I feel disgusted when an old man hits on me, give me the younger hot guy any day. I make my own money and I’m secure. I don’t want someone to take care of me, I’d rather have some hot sex instead.
This article is, like everything else in this world, against women, as simple as that. Women live longer than men and this means that they have to live their last 20 30 years of life all alone. Of course guys will love this, because in all reality, they don’t give an eff about their women. Who cares if they live lonely and sad for 30 years? as long as they satisfy me sexually and change my diapers when I’m old.
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Totally agree Bennie, I think you’re on to something! Wonder how we get that started – I’m soooo with you! How can anyone looki at Hugh Hefner and do anything but gag – and how does Catherine Zeta Jones roll over, see Michael Douglas w/ his bad plastic surgery face and not run screaming for the hills???
Disgusting – in 20 years your fiance will be changing your diapers and putting the twins thru college – what a great guy you are
Hey, I figure old men have earned the right to chase young women or old women if they want. It is hard work getting old. And im only 30! Lol.
Interesting article. I’ve never heard such opinion. I agree that people who are lonely in life pass away earlier. But if you have young children you don’t have many choices, of course if you are not an egoist. You have to live and to be in a good form as long as it is possible.
it makes you young!
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what a load of crap… young kids having grand dad as fathers. man are real jokers
Many old men loves young womens because young women looks more sexy than older women. They have got tight figure.
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I’m 56, with two grown children from a previous marriage, and recently discovered my 37 year old fiancee’ is pregnant – with twins. She had been considered “infertile” but we still took precautions – unplanned, shocking…then after thought – delightfully pregnant. Why is it that women seem to want to bash older men for wanting to continue to LIVE – not retire and “smell the roses” and gradually drift into old dried up men? I believe these twins will likely add many years to my life – the human species need a purpose to continue living other than retiring and drifting off into the sunset. I plan to be around when they produce grandchildren. I take care of myself, my parents lived well into their 80s and I regard the twins as a rejuvenation – not a decision made to prove I am still a man – although, I have to admit, I am feeling my oats! Sue me and deal with it!
I Agree this is a load of crap …. i prefer older females ….much more exciting .. not ALL of us are breeders ….
I Agree this is a load of crap ….
i prefer older females ….much more exciting ..
not ALL of us are breeders ….
Excellent post, thank you very much for taking the time to share with those who are starting on the subject. Greetings
Very interesting article. It has long been interested in human evolution, the theory of rank and reproduction. I think that the age of breeding males is strongly dependent on the kind of sex life he led during his life, he was engaged in sports nutrition and have little connection with his ancestors.
The problem with women is you can’t live with them …and you also can’t live without them
William Hamilton stating that women enhance the survival of their children and grandchildren by living long enough to care for them really makes sense because it is instinctual.
This is absolutely true. You can simply relate this to if older people hang around with younger people they start acting and feeling younger.
nice article, thanks for sharing this with us here!!!
Young women just like to garggle them marble. LOL
I think younger women prefer older men because they are more matured and have a sense of security in term of money.
Atman that
Science validates older men nailing younger woman….yes!
What a load of crap. There are already way too many people in the world so we certainly don’t need to “guard our genes.” Maybe now we have the answer-get rid of all those youth chasing old men trying to prove their virility. Gag.
I’ll answer in a full post. Too many ideas, in fact. I was thinking about this very thing yesterday as I walked past the display case at my employer and some of my childhood favorites were on display (the author was a major benefactor to us)–I always ask new employees whether they’ve read her books and sadly, the answer is no.
These are some great ideas. I especially like the idea of adapting Shel Silverstein. I’d like to see Madeleine L’Engle’s A Wrinkle in Time series on the big screen.
I think you’ve made some truly interesting points. Not too many people would actually think about this the way you just did. I am really impressed that there is so much information about this subject that have been uncovered and you did it so well, with so much class. Good one you, man!
if age doesnt matter thats like say paedos can do anything then
there should be some age limit some were to stop older men taking advantage of young girls. would it be okay fo some guy older then 30 to start dating a girl younger then 15? but anyway dont single older women use young guys for sex ??
your sick
I am 28 and my girlfriend is 17 now ….. we are in love from a year … we are planning to get married after 2 years … is this age gap will affect her in any way … like health , sexually, are etc….. Please help me …..
Well from a girl’s perspective, I am 20 years old and my boyfriend just turned 36 today. I am very happy with him. I have never had this strong of a connection with any of my “closer in age” previous boyfriends. We actually plan to get married and have children after I finish college. We currently live together and love each other more than I thought possible. He is the world to me and I don’t care what other people may say about his age it doesn’t matter to me. He has met my family and my dad actually likes him the most out of all my previous boyfriends. So to each his own but a young girl and an older man can be very happy and if you don’t agree just go out and actually see how many couples with this age difference are in love and happy like me and so many others. If you want to let age determine who you can be with, you are most likely missing out on the love of your life. Hope this helps:)
F…, How presumptuous and arrogant can you possibly be?
Ivan said nothing about having left his wife. This article is not about encouraging a man to leave his wife. I only found this article myself, because I got an unusual answer to a question about a woman’s age, “Too young.” Now my mind of course appended an implied “for you”, but I was wondering if it is possible that this was just a playful dig or a serious signal against me asking her out.
As for leaving a wife, I would never do that. I am totally *for* life-long marriage, but in my case my wife died. She was 39 and I am a fit and young 47. What I unfortunately find these days is women who have little respect for the institution of marriage. So, some of the commenters here imply that it is hideous for someone like me to be interested in a single, never married woman? Most women my age are already married. Of course I have to consider women 30 years old or younger. I will never show interest in another man’s wife.
It is perfectly natural for a young woman to marry a healthy older man, established in his life. The modern epidemic of divorce distorts this, flooding the pool of potential mates, women claiming to be single, with middle aged women whose husbands are still alive, and who are unfortunately not endowed with the charms possessed by the younger women who are the natural candidates for marrying available men.
I certainly am not discriminating simply by age. There are women my age who would be wonderful marriage candidates, but they are few and far between, and furthermore, they are most likely to be the faithful wife in an existing marriage.
Age shouldnt matter except to the people actually IN any given relationship. What concerns me far more is the atrocious spelling and grammar in most of these posts – if this is the best the US education system can produce (assuming many of you are in fact American) – then the country is in real trouble. Learn to spell & express yourself people – it’s important!
Someone mentioned earlier that one should not discriminate against another based on age….then what are men who won’t consider ‘going with a woman over 25″ doing?” Disgusting. This suggests that the principal motivation for them in the pursuit of a relationship is not for emotional connection, but for the acquisition of some passive, pretty- looking sex object. If the motivations were honorable, then age would not be a factor. Older men date much younger women….but the reverse is much rarer… it makes me sick, and sometimes when I think of these attitudes, I feel utterly depressed. It’s dehumansing women. Knowing this, I have no idea why women get involved with men. I have not been hurt by any man, but I watched many friends be heartbroken by guys who are only interested in sex. There are men out there who can override this purported ‘isntinct’…and form meaningful, loving relationships with women of their own age and experience. DECENT, evolved men.
I am not a lesbian, or a militant feminist- I am a young woman that many of you guys would consider ‘hot’, …well I’m certainly “young and fertile enough”…evidently that’s all my fellow females and I exist for, and the basis on which our merit as human beings is judged. The things I hear have made me consider NEVER going near a man ever again. I cannot believe that in this day and age, when we think we’ve advanced so far, that we dehumanise fellow human beings to such an extent, and that society is so accepting of this…because society is favorable to men.
very well said, Thank you!
exactly..it’s a shame that they are actually promoting this kind of behavior.
this is why you left your wife…who’s selfish now?
It’s only good when the OLD MAN is not married. But when Infidelity sets in,.and the bastard decided to leave his wife for a younger woman, is it still a good thing?
The younger woman might get bored, might realize that money isn’t going to make her happy. The man might also be bored of having to constantly tend to and look after someone younger.
I think the only way for civilization to evolve is to stop excessive reproduction and to base mate selection on more than physical looks.
Ooo my good..
why not give it a shot, it might woke and to be a man you got to beat the man!!!!!
Moani is 100% correct. She literally stole the words right out of my mouth. As for Martin, I believe you are thinking about teenage girls having intercourse with older men? No, no – this article is referring to 20-30 year old women actually marrying men 40-50 and choosing to have a relationship with them. Not 15 year old girls being forced to married 30+ year old men. That’s insanity.
Yeah horndogs….unite with each other (in bed)! lol.
A-holes like you are why so many women become lesbians or nuns. As for mohammed — he was just another egomaniacal man with a personality disorder. I hope your fiance wakes up to the idiot you really are before she takes the marital plunge with you…..you probably also believe it’s okay to beat your wife to keep her in line, right Ahab? When the women are so much younger than you, it’s easier to control them, isn’t it?! They don’t know any better yet. PS: What a Real Man you must be! You can’t spell and your grammar is even worse. Yes, excellent genes involved here!
Now that is actually a fascinating dynamic.. It actually would work out. See, older more mature and successful men take the young women out of the picture. Consequently young men, at least for a few years, look to older women for companionship. The older women get the benefit of having a young stud, and teach the “boys” a thing or two about love, life, and sex, until the “boys” become real men. Then all parties are better equipped to make relationship choices.
Speaking as someone who just a couple years ago left the ‘young man’ phase, this would have been a far better way to spend my late-teens, early-20s, rather than being pissed off and bitter at all the lovely girls around my age who were dating guys in their 30s, 40s, and beyond.
This is a very interesting theory. Maybe we will see the results of this in the near future. It’s now becoming acceptable in society for older women to have relationships with younger men without repurcussion. Hopefully it is not just a “fad”. I don’t think so. I’ve always wondered why women, the caregivers of our young, evolved in such a way that we lost our reproductive ability at middle age, whereas men never really do at all. My husband left me in our middle age for a woman in her 20′s, had 2 children with her. How I wish I could have had the same choices, the option. Yes, there is in-vitro available, but it is a scientific reproduction, not the natural ability that older men have.
My friend does not like this crap
Moan You can not be serious 20′s not even talking about the age of 15 when 24 will do
To Evans: do her parents know about you???
Seriously Carmen, you need to get a clue. First, there is no law anywhere about what age you can have a girlfriend. Second of all, if he is 38 years old and having sex with his 17 y/o girlfriend then guess what? That is legal in most places! *most* states in USA have 16, not 18 as the age of consent for sex. In Canada, the age of consent for sex was 14 for a very long time, and was only raised to 16 recently, with much controversy.
I suggest you quit discriminating against people based on their age.
I am dating some one who is 20 years old and I am 48 . I am very happy with things the way they are with her . We met at school, and thru the course of a semester we found we had so many things in common and we fell in love. Its now been over 6 months we have been living together. We both really care for each other and find our relationship very rewarding. I found with older women a lot of resentment and anger issues that come from having children and being married and only take care of there kids and not there spouses needs. Older women expect so much and give so little to there spouse that they let themselves go and become bitter toward there spouse when they do some attention. I believe that they become so used to pushing there spouse off to the side for so long they become acustom to expecting someone to drop to there feet forever. So many are on the boarder of being narsasistic. I myself am really turned off by these behaviors and look for someone who wants to be cared for and at the same time care for me and not just a one way street. I am not sure if the relationship will last but I know she cares for me as much as I care for her. As I read through these posts I see a lot of jelosy and resentment. Get over the age thing and quit judgeing others for there relationships and get your own and if you give the attention to your spouse he will be there forever and quit pushing him off to the side for everyone else.
Well to be honest, I want to mention my opinion:
1- Girls become mature sooner than boys.
2- psychologically girls reach their relationship desires sooner than boys.
3- there is a large difference between a man and a woman which some how arises from their age.
So we can conclude that for marriage or any relationship positive age gap in a standard value will satisfy both man and woman.
As I have consulted some psychologists, the best age gap is between 4-7 years when the man is older than the woman.
Many people observe less or more, although it cannot be a rule. But it is the best recommended age gap which can bring satisfaction. For further notice you can investigate this issue psychologically.
When there is a logical age gap both people rely on each other, both morally and personally. Girls become mature sooner than boys, and they suffer menopause at age of 50, so what should a 50 year old man do with rest of his life if he married a woman with no age gap? But if at that time his wife is already 40 years old then it makes sense, they won’t have problems, and of course you should not only consider the age gap but also the personality of two people should be in balance.
There is a simple formula: the age of the woman to the age of man should be 3 to 4. It means if you have the age of a girl multiply by 4/3 and if you have the age of a boy multiply by 3/4 to get the partners’ age: for example a 21 year old girl is better to marry a 28 year old man… a 26 year old girl should marry a 34 year old man… Of course that’s not the exact age gap! But in common it manifests to be the best age gap.
That is illegal!!!! Shame on you!
Very useful analyze, I’ve made some bets on them this season!
Thats a great story Jack – I am pleased for you both!
The data is interpreted as showing women having a particular reproductive span–upon which human lifespan is dependent–and men having a longer reproductive span that allows humans to live somewhat longer if older men reproduce with younger women. But you could also see it as men perhaps actually decreasing human lifespan by selecting for shorter reproductive span of women, so selection doesn’t weed out the genes in women that cause harmful effects past women’s major reproductive years. Perhaps if men would select older women, women’s reproductive span might end a bit later with each generation of people and gradually increase human longevity. If both sexes were reproducing at later ages, the increased longevity genes (or the lack of life-shortening genes) would be coming from both sexes rather then just men.
well, when i was young, the age different was very emportant…today i am 60 …when in peru , on the amazon river in( iquitos )i meet a very nice young women…we say each other every day, and became very close..she was very easy to fall in love with. every time i would get close to her,my heart would skip a beat….i always let her have her own space, but she was always on my mind,,,one day she came to me and ask why i never tryed to make a move on her,,,i smiled and told her i was to (old) for her!!!! she lafted and said ( i my country old means good strong life..)… her family loves me, i felt like i was reborn!!!wow i beleave i truly was.!!..we are now married and have a one and a half year old boy….he and she are the only thing i think off, she filled a hole that was so emty for so long..i can only beleave, that GOD kissed me. oh one thing more…….my wife is 30 and shes always has good things to say………….jack
Well it depends Tammy – if you are 12 then NO it is not OK – if you are over 21 then it is fine. I am 38 and would never go with a woman over 25 – and I get plenty of sex and I have never had a problem with the age gap.
Moani – you can’t be serious – that is not an age gap! We are talking about 15 – 20 year age gaps not 8 and 9! As you are 23, would you date a man of 45?
Well – I am 38 years old and my girlfriend is …. (wait for it)….. 17! So there!
this article very informative. thanks
There’s no doubt that this topic is controversial. Just look at all the comments it has generated. This page alone has jumped to a page rank of six. The studies cited are interesting and the topics covered are wide ranging.
Amazing post! Thanks for sharing
@Gary: Cool down! Though I very much agree with you, I guess everyone has their right to have their own views…
@Carl: You are really, really right! primal instincts runs in all of us!
Hope this article doesn’t offends anyone… I find it great!
y does that piss you off charles? are you jealous? does it bother you that love actually exist? my wife is 26 years my jr! she came on too me! and there has never been any chasing young women with me! i actually take care of my self and work out every day of my life as far back as i can remember, wich is a very long time! age doesnt matter with mature people! jealousy resides in insecure people! i bet your right hand gets a work out!!! get out sometimes and get a life and be yourself and maybe you will find that special one! being pissed and sarcastic will do nothing except gives you caluses!!!
Is that a new excuse to leave your wife? The next time someone cheat on their wife, they can say it’s for good of mankind and direct their wife to this article.
nice one.
You always give us some very interesting things. Thanks!
“Why are people so caught up with age differences in the relationships of other people?” It’s a huge question for me, as I have always been attracted to older men. Since a young age I have gravitated to much older men, naturally, and have been in some very beautiful relationships with men nearly twice my age. I am 25 yrs old- and more important to me than age is the ability to communicate and emotional availability and maturity which I find more frequently with people of experience. Beyond the physical attraction, there is a spiritual attraction as well. (not sure if you science-minded people can relate to that, hopefully so) I am intrigued by these findings. To all who are opposed to such age differences- maybe we should start worrying about something more serious like the divorce rates of younger married couples and their impacts on society.
u think any of Mohammeds wives were his age? i bet all were way younger! my fiance is 31 years younger than me. we’ve known each other 20 years, been engaged for 1 1/2. my x was 24 years younger than me and it lasted 8 fun hot years. HornDogs Unite! viva las chicas extranheras!
Evolutionary theory says that individuals should die of old age when their reproductive lives are complete, generally by age 55 in humans, according to demographer Cedric Puleston, a doctoral candidate in biological sciences at Stanford. But the fatherhood of a small number of older men is enough to postpone the date with death because natural selection fights life-shortening mutations until the species is finished reproducing.
“Rod Stewart and David Letterman having babies in their 50s and 60s provide no benefit for their personal survival, but the pattern [of reproducing at a later age] has an effect on the population as a whole,” Puleston said. “It’s advantageous to the species if these people stick around. By increasing the survival of men you have a spillover effect on women because men pass their genes to children of both sexes.”
“Why Men Matter: Mating Patterns Drive Evolution of Human Lifespan,” was published Aug. 29 in the online journal Public Library of Science ONE. Shripad Tuljapurkar, the Morrison Professor of Population Studies at Stanford; Puleston; and Michael Gurven, an assistant professor of anthropology at UCSB, co-authored the study in an effort to understand why humans don’t die when female reproduction ends.
I think the article is interesting. It’s a fact of our evolutionary programming that men (old and young) like younger women (because they are healthy enough to survive child birth). Women (young and old) like men that can provided safety and provide for her and a baby. If a man lives to be older, that in some way shows the female he has the ability to survive. He must know something that younger men may not know, that knowledge will help her and her baby also survive. We can not, even in our modern civilized world, go against our evolutionary programming. In todays world the values we inherit from our culture tell us older men and younger women mating is bad or immoral. Modern culture has only been around a few thousand years. Mankind has been surviving and evolving for hundreds of thousands of years.
Nena – you are absolutly wrong !! People are driven by their primal instincts. We have no choice.
Why are women attracted to confident men? Primal instincts for better survival.
Why are women attracted to men who are rock stars and athletes? Primal instincts for better genes. If other women want him he must have good genes.
Why are women attracted to men you have a life, have a plan, and are in control? Primal Instincts.
Why when women start dating man they like do they snoop through his house, cell phone, and car looking for clues about him and his relation with other women? Primal instinct drives her to do this to determine if he will be there for her in the future (like after they have a baby).
Disguisting when old pigs chase the young women if you ask me. seeing some 40 year old go hand in hand with a 18 year old girl just pisses me of.
Thanks for sharing this good information with us.
So, we will change the old saying that ” Old cows eat young grass” to ” Young vines climb old trees”. Interesting topic indeed.
I think it’s an unfortunate choice of words to write that a man is “chasing” a younger woman as if they were two squirrels. In the discussion of evolutionary theory, it is important to be sensitive to stereotypes that portray inaccurate analyses of otherwise excellent research subjects who would be happy and willing to contribute to this meaningful work and show just how healthy they are, in fact, to the world!
It’s a very surprising theory, Now I can understand why whith my 80 years old I loves young women
Dating a guy 21 years older than I ok??
“Many rich men aren’t that smart, just motivated and egotistical. ”
It’s that motivated “I can do it better than anyone else” ego that got us beyond the cave and into the Industrial Revolution and all that came after it, without which none of us would be commenting on this blog, and the drugs which I need every day wouldn’t have been invented.
Looking at things from a global, scientific standpoint can give theory and meaning to what’s going on. It’s important to understand why things are happening so that we can work with the natural ways of the world, and not break ourselves trying to work against them. I’ve found, though, that on a more individual level, there is actual chemistry between two people who choose to have an intimate relationship.
This issue recently came up on my blog too, some useful feedback too. The consensus was that it makes them feel young.
This article is good evidence for why so many rich men have stupid children. Many rich men aren’t that smart, just motivated and egotistical. Egotistical and Narsisitic personality traits are symptoms of mental health flaws that should not be passed on to future generations. The only way for civilization to evolve is to stop excessive reproduction and to base mate selection on more than physical looks.
Well it is if we catch them….hope!
I think people are taking this scientific research hugely out of context. First of all, most people are not just driven by their primal instincts – we all live in a modern world and city life, etc get in the way of being “primal”. Secondly, many of the so-called “older men” out there are just gross – who cares if they have money? They’re still mostly gross. There are some older men that look after themselves and actually look good, but being in a long-term, happy and satisfying relationship has nothing to do with how old a guy is or how young a woman is – it has to do with how compatible and committed you are to one another.
At a first glance, it may seem to be a good symbiosis: financially stable older man with young & attractive woman who “needs” someone to look after her. But things can change… the younger woman might get bored, might realize that money isn’t going to make her happy. The man might also be bored of having to constantly tend to and look after someone younger. Fast forward to 10 years after the relationship ensued and the picture may be significantly different.
Myself, I refuse to date anyone who falls into any of the above. Just looking for a nice guy who doesn’t fall into the trappings of materialism – not to say that he doesn’t have a professional and decent career, but just that it’s not something that makes him arrogant or a player. A good heart is where it’s at!
Peace
hello am a single woman that am in luv with you and i wath a man that can talk care of me. that we geif me a trun love
“Old men chasing young women: A good thing”
Well it is if we catch them…
(Otherwise it’s just embarrasing).
Moani is 100% correct. She literally stole the words right out of my mouth. As for Martin, I believe you are thinking about teenage girls having intercourse with older men? No, no – this article is referring to 20-30 year old women actually marrying men 40-50 and choosing to have a relationship with them. Not 15 year old girls being forced to married 30+ year old men. That’s insanity.
I think older men should get over their bigotry about older women.
Away with the old law. The Government is expected to announce plans to criminalise old men who have sexual intercourse with young women.
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Hey, if you take care of yourself and you are lucky, you can get another young one when this present wife reaches menopause. By then you will be only 70.
This article and all the comments are proof that romantic love is a joke. We need to admit that we are only animals with the desire to reproduce no different than the common rat or roach. The only way to evolve as humans, we need to stop excessive reproduction and base it on more than physical looks. I used to wonder why so many rich men had stupid children.
It’s becoming more of a trend now! If thing continue going this way, what will be left for young boys, all the women are going to go to old ones! Perhaps, young boy will forcefully have to go after the old ladies!
I absolutely agree with this blog. I am a 23 year old woman and I love dating older men. My boyfriend is 8 years older than me and my ex-husband was 9 years older than me. I don’t know how this happened. I think I had gotten tired of hearing the age-ol’ line, “I’m too young for a committment,” from the younger bunch. And I found that older men have come to the realization that they are, well, getting old. When a pretty, young woman comes into the picture, they’re dedicated and loving. Rather a young man will have the idea that there is no rush to settle; there are much more fishies to fish for.
I only date older men when I want to go shopping. They are at least good for that. Honestly, I’m not really interested in marrying them or even being seen with them in public. I want a hot young guy my own age, who wouldn’t? It’s just a fact. Older men are nice & can usually afford to take me to nice places and treat me to special gifts and things that I want.
I think they are aware of this trade off. They get to spend time with someone half there age and they enjoy this more than anything. It gives them some kind of ego boost. The sad thing is, it is a false boost, they should chase women there own age or closer to it if they want a serious partner.
I find it kind of weird, anything over twenty years difference. It just does not work, you are different people at different points in your lives!
I personally prefer older men myself too, I am 31yr old female and have dated 40 year old and 52 year old, and sex has never been as good, i mean older men have more experience, are more mature, and are more secure in life. I am definitely not a gold digger, but I like to be taken care of. as a matter of fact im single right now so if any older men wanna chat email me santabarbaragirl4god@gmail.com
I personally prefer older men myself too, I am 31yr old female and have dated 40 year old and 52 year old, and sex has never been as good, i mean older men have more experience, are more mature, and are more secure in life. I am definitely not a gold digger, but I like to be taken care of. as a matter of fact im single right now so if any older men wanna chat email me santabarbaragirl4god@gmail.com
Not that I’m totally impressed, but this is a lot more than I expected for when I stumbled upon a link on Stumble Upon telling that the info is quite decent. Thanks.
Well, l’m 35 single. And l do like old men, especially if they are in their 40′s. Some are very interesting, some are patiens, good listeners, loving, caring, gentle, sweet, tender and have a interesting topics to talk., because of their experience. I never get bored with an old men, l really prefer old men
any old cute men here? 
How do you know he’s not just exploiting you? I am attracted to older men, but I’ve found that, sadly, most older men are more interested in just using younger women. A man needs to respect a woman as an equal to really love her, and if the age difference is too great, they will always have that to hold over you.
I’m getting divorced from a man 12 years my senior right now; I wish I had been a little more realistic.
Yea we all like them younger, i was 25 yrs old once myself and yes it depends on the age yes it is definetely gold digging. If you are that age now of course you will not say it is, been there did that. Now could someone tell me when is the age for women to not want want sex. Lets get the women some younger too. Sounds good to all of us. lets just get along. Have a good day all lol
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i want to be in this situation when I will have 60-70 years. Important is to have some money… the girl will come naturally prediction market
You’re only getting older…and there is nothing sadder than a saggy middle aged woman not yet able to deal with her youth gone. She was nothing but a pretty face…and capitalized on it…..but now has nothing.
Your time is coming. Enjoy it while you can. Age is patient, and it will not waiver as it washes over you.
hi, I am a 29 year old male. I am very handsome and good looking, with slimathletic body and log staright hair. I must agree I had not made a proper relationship sex with a woman yet. Bcz I was very shy in my teens and very reserved in my twenties. I only had a brief one week affair with a lady who was 47 years old when I was in Bradford, u.k. That was my only sexual experience of life. I left her after I realized that she was exploiting me.
Is it normal, I do not know what to say but my sexual life is so empty I can not explain. Now working as a Mechanical engineer, I still am very shay and reserved. Can any lady or person help me getting out of my shyness please.
u can contact me at
vickheart@gmail.com
vick.
Seems like a good idea! ;o)
To : Haley
About your post:
“June 4, 2010 at 2:03 am
I am 25/F and would love to meet an older man. So many of my friends place harsh judgments and so many misunderstand that for gold-digging. ”
There you go. You are admitting that your friends are against it. LOTS of us girls are against it! It’s gross, the dirty old men are gross. SO – you are into old guys, you are not the majority – you are either a gold-digger or have a dad issue – whatever – YOU should keep those old guys busy then, because the rest of us girls do NOT want them!
At 40 I started going out with a 23 year old woman. She made it clear to me my age was no problem to her. I had to pinch myself that it was really happening. The thing was – yes I found her extremely attractive – but it was her that did the choosing. It has been amazing in every sense!
Honestly, and I’ve been wanting to say this since I was a teen. You old geezers are just plain ugly to look at. A few professional accomplishments (which most anyone can accomplish) does NOT make you cute, and does “not” compensate for looks.Stop allowing your looks to go downhill just because you’ve earned a couple of bucks. And stop blowing yourselves up as “good in bed” to younger girls when you are just average at best ( young girls don’t have enough sexual experience to be able to compare you or know if it’s good or not).
just do like some think about it
i am 21yrs old whos having sex with an older man whos 36 yr old…its amazing…he makes me feel like a woman. Ive always been attracted to older men so i agree=)
If this is true then why as a younger woman have I never been attracted to older men? Articles like this, reaffirm in my mind that many evolutionary scientists disregard female physical attraction as something irrelevant. People like who they like whatever the age, but my instinct tells me to go for guys my own age or younger. Apparently as women, were are attracted to power, wealth and security, so does that mean as a woman there is something wrong with me for being attracted to men with handsome faces and six packs? It is perhaps the ‘sexy son’ theory which makes more sense, where women who choose physically attractive mates are more likely to give birth to attractive children who will have a higher possibility of attracting mates, thereby continuing her genes. The human instinct has been around a lot longer than wealthy men and their millions. Physically fit men over time have been substituted for the size of a wallet and nice cars, but these things mean nothing when it comes to the gene pool. Humans are animals, and the female of the species is attracted to physically strong males. Whatever the theory, I personally find power and wealth a turn off. For me security comes from knowing you got the one that you wanted, to want you back. I want to fancy the man I end up with. If women throughout history have typically gone for older males that can look after them, it’s because they did not have much choice. Now many women don’t need to be looked after, therefore they are more choosy about the youth and physical attributes of their mates. However, it is still the easier option for women to choose to be looked after in society, a notion that had been ingrained in the minds of people for a long time. The idea of picking a man simply to look after me is really depressing. Also, just because a man is older does not make him wiser, just means he’s been around longer. This is not to say a young woman should not go out with an older man, but more that a woman should not assume that he’ll be nice because of this. Just as an older woman going out with a younger man should not assume he’s just out for fun. Also, when a man divorces his wife of many years, and usually remarries a younger woman, I would hate to be that younger woman, knowing I was part of his predictable and cliched mid- life crisis. People should be together because they are in love and equally fancy each other, whatever their age.
FINALLY A GOOD ARTICLE! I am 25/F and would love to meet an older man. So many of my friends place harsh judgments and so many misunderstand that for gold-digging. Older men are sexier, wiser, and I wouldn’t have it any other way. I just wish they would actually hit on younger women. Don’t be afraid there are attractive young females who wish to be with an older man. I’m 25, and the last man I dated was 44! It was the hottest I have ever had.
Men of higher status usually has the financial means to get a younger women and therefore proof of reproductive capability at an older age. This does not mean other men do not have the capability, they just have less of a chance to proof in statistic.
Do some men look older than before when they lost too much weight.for some men loosing weight make them look younger for some men make them older. why is the result not the same?loosing some weight is good for health but the out come is not the same to every one.
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why men keep try try try…………..many different techinque and I dea to get the women can’t have. can’t they give up?They can lie to get a kiss but to get SEX is not so easy to fool a women with their lie and different attitude that they show. Sometimes they act like a nice men and sometimes they act like jerk. Most time they thought like they owe the girl and want to have control over the woman.what do you do with these kinds of men? YOU CAN’T FORCE SOME ONE TO LOVE YOU.The heart can tell who to love or not so forcing is not going to work. You can love someone but if they don’t love you back it is not their probem to fix or to change their heart. It is their heart and mind that can tell them who to love, not B/E someone want or tell who to love.when you love someone you don’t care about any thing which is religion, money, ethinc even age or family. If you don’tmatch thse things, doesn’t stop you from loving some one and in the other hand because you are ALIKE these things doesn’t mean you will love someone.
In love theres no age requirement as long as they love each other.
young girl is better.
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Why is a middle aged women that dates young men called a cougar, but a man a dirty old man?
Why is this? They call older women who screw young guys fancy names like milf and cougar, yet older guys with younger women women perverted old men.
Do some men look older than before when they lost too much whight.
for some men loosing weight make them look younger for some men make them older. why is the result not the same?
loosing some weight is good for health but the out come is not the same to every one.
do women lie to a girl firend to get an opnion about a man?
a women can tell to a girl friend how she feels about a man which is expressing how she feels about that particular man even though she wasn’t really feel anything other than may be friendship,
She can tell to her friend about the man how she wants him to come to her house, love him, and waiting for him for long years just for him. This might not be true but if she can’t tell this kinds of feeling to her friend about a man, her friend may not be serious to answer her question.
but the reason she asks may be she wants to know if age will matter if you love someone who is way older than the women. may be she wants to find out for the future if she love someone with a man way older than her if it will be ok, how will be peoples’ opnion and at what age gap range differences will be ok.
But when you get an opnions from different people the same thing that makes you wonder may be they are right.
some women are having hard time to fall in love with men even though men are falling in love with them. In this kinds of situation women are having hard time what to do with those men which is make them ask many questions and ask for opnions from friends.
for some men, if women not answering their phone they get angry but it is better for the women but at the same time they make them think what they will do to their car when they don’t answer their phone. when they call with different numbers the women ignore that too.
Do men do stupid things when they get angry?
Men don’t understand why women couldn’t love them back they just keep try. Why?
How do you make them understand? They don’t understand what the woman want. They just want the women to be with them with out knowing what she want. You can’t possess and force some one to love you.
An older, white haired man walked into a jewelry store one Friday evening with a beautiful young gal at his side. He told the jeweler he was looking for a special ring for his girlfriend.
The jeweler looked through his stock and brought out a $5,000 ring and showed it to him. The old man said, “I don’t think you understand, I want something very special.”
At that statement, the jeweler went to his special stock and brought another ring over. “Here’s a stunning ring at only $40,000,” the jeweler said. The young lady’s eyes sparkled and her whole body trembled with excitement. The old man seeing this said, “We’ll take it.”
The jeweler asked how payment would be made and the old man stated, by check. ” I know you need to make sure my check is good, so I’ll write it now and you can call the bank Monday to verify the funds and I’ll pick the ring up Monday afternoon,” he said.
Monday morning, a very teed-off jeweler phoned the old man. “There’s no money in that account.”
“I know”, said the old man, “but can you imagine the weekend I had?” It is the motto of an website design.
a young women can get more satisfaction with old man… by sex.. money and real love… but it depends on both if they really need it i mean old man needs love with sex.. and young women needs money with love. …. subbi jadhav india
WHAT DO YOU MEAN U DNT SEE ANYFING WRONG MANN DEAS ALOT OF PEDIFILES OUT DEA LOOKING FOR ALOT OF ACTION WIT YOUNG GIRLS WAT IF U WERE ONE OF DEM YOUNG GIRLS!!!?
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K, womEn means more than one so “a women” makes no sense.
Good for you! I am glad to hear of someone with a similar experience to my own. I am marrying my fiance in August, and we have a 26 year age gap (20 and 46). We have been dating for 2 years, and, SURPRISE to some of you people, we are waiting to have sex until we are married. Now what 46 year old man would wait around to have sex when he could easily find some skank bag his age to get an easy lay? I am also a pharmacy student, thank you very much, and I don’t need anyone to support me. I’ll be making my own money and he can keep his. Well how do you explain this relationship?? Maybe it really is love? Too many bitter old women on this forum. They assume we haven’t thought about the consequences of our choice to be with an older man. Yea he will get old. Yea I will have to take care of him…GLADLY. Yes he will die and leave me far sooner than I would ever want; however, none of us know when death will come, and many young couples are torn apart too soon because of cancer or a car accident. Something could even happen to me and I would die first. My fiance is my best friend, and I would rather have this short amount of time here on earth with him than none at all. Also just because a man is older doesn’t mean he has kids!
Don’t let your family get you down! The people in my family who know my fiance and me very well couldn’t imagine us any other way but together. Those who don’t want to take the time to know us disapprove. It really just shows you what sort of people you should have in your life and what sort you shouldn’t.
Before you leap consider this….
Find out how his last relationship went/do a background and consider all the people you may be hurting. A guy of 49 will tell you that his wife is a bitch and everything is her fault. You like the attention and are so “understanding”…sarcasim. Love is something that takes years to develop. You are a prize, a trophy wife/barbie. What is going to happen when you lose your looks and start wanting something in your life other than him? What is going to happen when he gets comfortable and bored with you and starts ignoring you….you can say good-bye to all that attention you crave. You are going to feel like a doll. You have a chance. Let me tell you about someone I know. She married a man who left his wife and 5 children. Everything was the wife’s fault of course. He married my young neighbor and she took care of all his children every other weekend. They had a baby, and then when she became 30, he fooled around….she got angry fooled around too….then he shacked up with the new female and she was left with two children….his and her lover’s baby. What a mess! Just think, if she had married someone without baggage, she would have been with someone she could have started a life fresh with who could give her a house, their own children and normal problems. Now let me tell you about another story. A man leaves his wife and son and moves in with his girlfriend and the girlfriend’s parents. Well I don’t have to tell you that after 7 years that the parents are sick of the two of them. The old mother cooked and cleaned for the two of them. Now Miss Somebody has to cook/clean. I bet the marriage want last a year. Men who marry young women want to become young again. They do not want responsibility. Are you prepared to give up owning your own home or having children? Do you want to become his nurse? You are 21. Do you realize that you have your whole life to live and if you marry this old man that you will find yourself acting his age…..and it sounds like in the process you are going to lose your family and friends. Cut him loose and tell him to go back to his wife and kids….or at least ask yourself, why would a mature man want to be in the company of someone so young? Maybe it is because it is easier to control a child than an equal. Listen to your head not the attention that won’t last.
So tell me Mr. Intelligent, who is more mature your girlfriend or your daughter?…..I find it very amusing that your 20 year old baby there is going to live most of her life without you in her 40s. I bet you two are never going to have any children, because it interferes with your selfishness. And what are you going to do with Miss Someone there when she has baby cravings in her late 20s and 30s and is hot as a pistol in her late 30s and 40s and you are a dried up old man? Have fun being alone for 20 years in your 40s Miss Nobody….no one will want you then. And Mr. Limp Dick, have fun being a daddy and a grandfather at the same time.
You both look ridiculous!
You are 56….date someone who you can talk to your own age….the bedroom only goes so far….and changing diapers and playing daddy will get old. Good Luck.
Notice how the old men always want the young females, but do not want children, so your reproductive study is blown out the window.
I know several old men with young women….they all end up divorced, because the female really gets nothing out of the relationship, but an old man. Sex usually sucks, because the old fart only moved on to the young thing, because he could not keep up with his middle aged wife. Young women get your own thing going and stop falling for limp dicks who have nothing after children and divorce. Why settle…you can get all the young men you want….who have NO BAGGAGE!
no haten here man. im in the fucking stupid boat. i have a 23 or 24 year old model in live with me but to oafraid to leave here 40 year old man. I;ve beeen working on it for months, have here umber, we talk back in forth but just dont know how to get to fie burnt out off her mans ass. ass far as i thin its nasty.
bitch is 23 with a 40 year old and im like wtf. Its not like he is super rich and can take care of her, neither am i. although i am 26 own a business and trying to make a start outof myslef. why dont these young girsl see id he is 400 with no career or $$$ he is othing and should find a man that is at least her age and can grow a life with her…
IM BAFFLED
it just doesnt make sense honey. not to judge you but obvioulsy you have some type of male enfluence in your life, ” maybey your father wasnt around” and you need some type of male guidance. But think about it. what is the perfect dream in your life? most girls want to marry the man they love, have children. a white picket fence and be happy. maybe thats not what you think you can ever have so you settle for less. but a guy wit kids, already divorced… BAD NEWS. i dont know you but come here time to time to give honest advice trying to help. listen to the ones who love you, thesy obviously care about your well being. dony get caught up in the LOVE game because you watchd fairytails early in life. be samrt get away. take care of your own kids, when you have them with a good man. dont be with someone who had kids and got a divorce for god knows what.
if a man loves his children he will do whatever it takes to raise them with they’re mother. do nt allow him to say ” oh it was her fault because it never is” take this from a man who will always be annonomous and have faith that you can do better.
I WISH YOU THE BEST.
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unless you meet some random whore who wants to F on the first date fine…. If your looking for a partner i personally would rather be freinds with that person for maybey a few weeks, or possibly months. Have you ever met someone you thought was hot and you knew they felt the same way but took the time to actually know them as a person, or as a freind for several months then after realizing you loved aspects about him/her you wanted more and told that person?? if not i recommend you do. being a guy, most of us want a one night stand which if happens rarely ends up something else , but being inside someones head and visa versa, “IE Friendship” then making love. all i can say is WOW!!! thats how a relationship should develop. not off physical attraction but emotional attachment. Try it!
And also if a man keep persuing a women day after day or week after week she wont have any attraction towards him whatsoever
if you cant get it then you cant get it, leave it at that. no need to hate playa, or playnot!!!
im telling you , you hav emore power than you think. i though being in the gym 4 days a week would make women flock to me. its obviously an advantage but if i dont go to them and say something original to make them laugh. all i can say is strike 3.
but then again i think of a future generation not just what is happening in a mans sexual fantasty world. im mean come on, hes old, shes new and good for him. it takes him back 30 years. women now a days want $$$ and young men dont have that. its almost prostetution if you look at it properly. As far as childbirh with that partner i say NO WAY! the chance of birth defects is alomost ineviatable and who wants that. i say cut the tubes and if you can pull a beautifeul young women go for it. you know the only girls against this are the ones seeing the older man with the younger women in a ferrari wishing you were her. Trade shoes, even if they dont fit i bet you make them.
also blow the flute punk
i’m 26 and he 53 is it so far of the age??
I falling with him and go out with him two years ago!!
An old man of 70 married a young girl of 18. When they got into bed the night after the wedding, he held up three fingers. “Oh honey”, said the young nymph, “Does that mean we’re going to do it three times?” “No”, said the old man, “It means you can take your pick.”
fitflops
I can’t believe some of the things said here. I could care less if an old man wants to date a younger woman or vice versa. It’s none of mine nor anyone elses business to judge what’s right or wrong UNLESS paedophilia is involved. If both a man and woman love eachother and are happy then good for them! A true relationship survives ALL hardship. It’s too bad that in this day and age that most people are too selfish and shallow to realize this.
I dont see anything wrong with older men dating 30 yr old women as long as its for love and not money. older men in their 40s and 50s know what they want in life unlike these young boys these days.
To be old corresponds to be death! there’s nothing in life for old men to do, they should only tackle those girls who are already interested in’em
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yo man all u old fucks out dea trying to perv on little girls mann fuck yous abt rep bitch sik-b in da house all bloods together bitch! holla holla holla!
Old men think it’s their right to impose their sexual needs onto younger women. Most younger women are disgusted and disturbed by this behavior. Even if they are not bold enough to say it to your face.
Disgusting old men should date women their own age but old men with wrinkles don’t like old women with wrinkles.
I’m disappointed that the U.S. National Grant (Tax money?) Institute on Ageing is funding this sort of nonsense research.
The flip side of this topic might be on the social devaluing of older women.
Old men are not sexy to me. Old men have gray hair, are flabby, boring, gross, can’t hear. Often old men are self important also, their stupid stories go on and on as if they know what they are talking about and have more authority on life just because they are male and old.
Old men are Yucky. Yucky. Yuck.
Go Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher!!!
and a young guy doesnt look at his girl with lust !! practically all the younger guys are after lust. there are exceptions but not many !!
where do some of the thinking of these posts come from MARS !! ??
younger guys are far less likely to be real and truly passionate that an older man.
good point , many who scoff at big age differences have hardly found true love within the ” correctness ” of their own age. maybe they should open up and not be so correct to society who could care less about their happiness !!
good for you , sounds beautiful and I bet you will be loved far more than most women your age. you have a true man that knows how to love and be loved.
growing old together ?? how many same age marriages make it past a few years these days ??
what are you thinking. there are only a few that can say they grow old together. if a man is much older than his woman at least she will be loved for the time he has left instead of just a run of the mill boring same age relationship that most of the time doesnt last but few years.
if it is soooooo natural for couples to be the same age then why is the failure rate soooo high ??
I bet no one can back that one !! because it is way too high of failure to make any tangible cases for it to be the norm.
you think you will have nothing but success with a guy your age. did you know that failure rate for same age relationships is two thirds or higher.
good luvk with the guy your age that will do the snooping, an older more mature guy will be there for his lady when the young guy your age wants something esle later on. you cannot be this naive !!
only a few guys under 40 are loyal and real , but yet almost every young lady thinks she will find one !!
its ridiculous
a 20 year old guy is not very old. most guys dont mature till about 38 give or take. this 20 year would have broken a girls heart his own age. he is still a kid himself barely out of school
come on now you should realize that
what ever who you are you are right every thing you said on the post.
I wish I can find a women who loves me for who I am before I turn 56 in 10 days and time is runing for me and 4 years left to be 60.
Am I too old to date younger women at 56 or am I a moron?
please give me your response.
…another moron….
I bet you have a lower IQ. I would say lower than the standard scale for the population. By what you have written, I see no measure of intelligence or social maturity. You have a weak thought process and very foolish. I would guess you have an IQ of 82 which makes you a moron…sorry…you are what you are!
A women can show any thing but it doesn’t mean any thing to her but to the man it may make him feel that she likes him. She can email, call, or talk to you or you can see something she does that will make you wonder she might like you but any thing she does is nothing what you thought and it doesn’t mean she will sleep with you too.
specially if a man is too old she might like him before as a friend but she might not like him as more than a friend.
The number one thing that i can’t stand is someone putting me in a group without my consent. What do i mean by that? I mean that what i do has no reflection on you and vice versa. A man is not necessarily a loser because he dates a young woman. There is a difference in falling for a young woman , and specifically hunting for a young woman. As far as prince charming, ask yourself is there truly a prince charming on this earth anyway. And just because you would never does not mean i should never. Lastly, and i truly don’t mean to offend you, but your respect is not necessary. I don’t give a damn what you think, and i probably wouldn’t even if i knew you, unless your opinion negatively impacted my chances for the afterlife, promotion, life and longevity of my children, or etc. People and their beliefs about their own self importance is astounding and pathetic!!!
lol….some ppl sound so ignorant,almost to the point of absurdity ….if an older man wants to mate or date a younger woman it their business.. its been proven to the point of conclusiveness..MEN DON’T GO THROUGH MENOPAUSE.. WOMEN DO,…IS THAT SIMPLE ENOUGH FOR YOU???..(SORRY BOUT THE BIG WORDS..)ALL 15 OF EM..LOL
After 40 the chances of a man’s sperm being of poor quality and causing birth defects goes up. Is it really the right of younger women to put those types of medical issues on their offspring. For older men do you really want your children to have an old father or health issues.
Thanks that should really help…
Dirty old men will always come up with a reason why it’s a good thing.
I wish i can be with a man who really loves me and cares me forever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
really like this guy who is 37 and i’m 22… yeah its not THAT big difference (as i’ve heard of 20 year old girls with 60 year old men) …. but anyway… its the age which stops me beginning a relationship with him. …. yeah he’s lovely/kind/fun/caring/handsome etc. and i know he really likes me too…. but there are a few issues i have with it. even though he’s still got his looks and health, these things are probably about to decrease within the next few decades. and i want to find someone i could possibly have children with. so unless i have children with him now… i’d feel he’d be too old after a few years; To me, i think women should be between 18 and 35 to have children and men between 26 and 40. if you have a child in your 40′s for example… when the child is 10 you are already beyond 50. its not so nice for the child either.
I think stupid, annoying, empty-headed little cunts like you should shut up. It’s not older women who are having children just to get a penis in their lives, toots.
See, stupid twit, women who have babies in their 40′s are 4 times more likely to live to be 100 than dumb little nobodies like you.
See, they are established, mature and intelligent. They don’t have babies because they were too drunk to use birth control, or to snag some loser boyfriend, toots. It’s not nice for society either when twats like you decide to breed.
Now shut up and grow a brain. And oh, PLEASE, for society’s sake, get yourself fixed.
Stupid twat.
I like you Alabama…i like your thinking…
Wow! So much hostility and NONE of it even TOUCHES what he was actually saying or writing about. Also, if you can’t write English well enough to sound to sound like you are older than 14, my advice is, DON’T. Everyone above sounded so young, uneducated and uncultured. I am 44. My 20 year old wife and I find all of this quite amusing.
This guy is not writing an article on dating younger women. He is writing about the findings of a scientific study that indicates certain POTENTIAL BENEFITS of a society that has older men reproducing with younger women. (Basically, if I understand it right, certain defects in the genes creep into a population after so many generations. These will shorten the lives of some people. If a man is still alive and able to procreate at the age of 60-70, he is likely free of certain mutations or he would already be dead. As a direct result, that man won’t have those mutations to pass on to the children.
How can you comment on an article you clearly did not understand? Listen stop worrying so much about someone sharing RESEARCH FINDINGS and go back to school until you can UNDERSTAND it. (Or at LEAST until you can sound like you are old enough to have graduated when you DO write something.)
The way I see it, there are two types of people that get angry about this. Firstly, men who are sure they can’t manage it for themselves. Probably because they don’t get many dates their own age. Secondly, Jaded women that had bad relationships and likely were left for another woman (whether or not she was younger) because one of their biggest fears is having their man stolen by a younger lady.
Oddly enough, in my experience, most age difference relationships begin on their own without cheating or leaving a spouse involved. (though that does happen too.)
If you want to spew your misgivings at someone who didn’t ask for or deserve it, first get your facts straight then make sure you are on the same page and KNOW WHAT THE HELL YOU ARE COMMENTING ON!
You like statistics? Is that what brought you to this page? Well here’s one for you. The average human being is a basic dolt! Only 4% of humanity (both sexes) has any intellect at all. Only half of THAT is high enough to be worthy of much mention. All the above comments certainly prove that out. (Although this was conclusively proven to me years ago.)
Please don’t feel I am looking down on you. (I’d need a Hubble Telescope for that.)
– Pantha
You are a dumb ass. Your comments portray the typical stereotype of our modern day culture, the same one that frowns silently upon interracial relationships. It’s your personal prejudice that makes you think the way you do. A 40 something year old guy has nothing to offer a girl in her 20′s? Really? So your da’s probably a piece of shit, and so are all your uncles!I guess the hormone driven 20 something boys who are still caught up in themselves are much better, huh. No wonder so many girls have heartaches when these fuckers cheat on them. Pick your choice. I am 41 years old, haven’t been sick in 22 years, yes, 22 years! ex-military, take damned good care of myself, solid job, get so many compliments from girls in their twenties/thirties who think I’m their age. Don’t stereotype me with the rest of society. I’m not your average guy. If a girl falls in love with a guy who’s going to treat her like a lady, and show her the utmost respect etc, what is it to you. Did you ever wonder why God made men to still be fertile at a way older age when women their age are menopausing and hotflashing? Think about that…have a good day you idiot!
Well, is this what you really want, or is there something better? Do you love him in a selfless way, likewise him to you, or is the relationship mostly physical. What about your indifferences. Do you handle the downside of your relationship well? Long terma goals…are they in sync? Your love finds you…up to a certain point, you live for otheres…above that, it is your happiness that you need to be concerned with, and I don’t say that for you to be selfish. I mean your parents can’t select your mate. They can choose a guy THEY like, but will you love him? Get a piece of paper and divide it inot two halves, on one side write the positive about your relationship/desire, and on the other side write donw the negatives, as you write and re-read it, it gives you a more eyeopening perspective of how you really feel…good luck and best wishes
Hey, before you post something like this, why don’t you learn some English? As for the context of your response, how much do you know? You are the stereotype of society who in their arrogance frowns upon age gap relationships, just like how some people frown upon interracial relationships, just your sheer envy and insecurity.
Specially for men over 50, you better be a man and live your own life and act like your age and be mature than doing something or trying to date a women half your age. Get your own life and it is non your business what other people doing or dating. You are too old and do your own job and get a life and get a women your age but may be you have something wrong.
Who want stupid old man doesn’t much with anything a women does.
a women can date any man she wants but she has to choose who she will have sex with. That means she can date you but she will not sleep with you, not money, dimonds or any thing will change to make her sleep with you so don’t have hope because it will never happen.
old men don’t forget you are too old for any thing, so you know she doesn’t want you and non your business who she date and how many men she date. You just wait for your retirement to arrive that is what left for you. No matter how you change from out side with make up or with anything, but inside of is still too old and you can’t change that.
why men think if a women is going out with them might love them. Men are so fool. Any women can go out with any man if they keep begging her to go out with them but men have to think she might never be interested in them for sex other than going out like a friend.
IF there is no sexual attraction at first there will be never. No matter how men try to make the women like them, nothing will change her mind when it comes in sexual attraction.
Sexual attraction happen at first day and with in a minute meeting a person, so if there is no sexual attraction at first there will never be. You can try and try and make her to talk to you or email you but there will never be any.
Specially for men over 50, you better be a man and live your own life and act like your age and be mature than doing something or trying to date a women half your age. Get your own life and it is non your business what other people doing or dating. You are too old and do your own job and get a life and get a women your age but may be you have something wrong.
Who want stupid old man doesn’t much with anything a women does.
a women can date any man she wants but she has to choose who she will have sex with. That means she can date you but she will not sleep with you, not money, dimonds or any thing will change to make her sleep with you so don’t have hope because it will never happen.
You’ve gotta be ugly. Only the ugly OLD women get pissed about this…. Hummmmm
You’ve gotta be ugly. Only the ugly OLD women get pissed about this…. Hummmmm
Guys over 50 keep reproducing! We need to improve the population and breed the bad genes out. What a great way to make the world a better place.
Follow your Heart Love. You sound Happy with your words of sharing.
You really touched my heart when you said you’d even grow older just to catch up with him…………….arrow straight to my heart.
I’m happy for yall. Maybe those who don’t support your happiness have never found true happiness in their own lives. Or thought they had, and are now just trying to protect you from the pain they once felt or are still feeling. A form of love, but based on fear and hurt.
I wish ya well.
Sorry it is not passion and love he is looking at you with but pure lust! A man of his age is probably going through male menopause and is reliving his youth through you. Think about it!
I appreciate you’re sharing on this blog.
I’m a little confused though about your dilemma. I would have thought that upon dating this 41 year old guy, that you both would have entered into some discussion around having children…. especially since you are younger.
Although I’m in the early 40ish mode and have dated men who also have had children from previous relationships, we still have discussed whether or not we’d want to try for a child of our own, stick with his kids (my being a step mother) or even possibly adopt. I guess, I’m just confused that your husband didn’t realize how important it’d be for you to have children.
Perhaps you can share with him what it would mean to you to have children together with him and the joys of motherhood (seeing the “little people” grow and develop from infancy to teens to adulthood, etc). I pray that your husband might be open to engaging in such a discussion with you. (I wouldn’t advocate for simply doing nothing and hoping you’ll get over it).
ME = 16 years old
but very happy 
BOYFRIEND = 53 years old
ANNOUNCEMENT:
GIRLS YOU ARE GIVING OLD PREDATORS AN EXCUSE TO KEEP THINKING AND ACTING LIKE THAT…IF HE WON’T DATE A WOMAN HIS OWN AGE WHO WANTS TO FOOL WITH A MAN LIKE THAT!?
THE MAJORITY OF US YOUNGER LADIES THINK THAT IS WRONG AND YOU MEN ARE GROSS! GROSS! GROSS!
PS. FIND A LIFE PARTNER.
Find a life and date a beautiful, loving woman your own age. Just because a younger women is more fertile doesn’t mean she’s better or wants to date you and if she does she has other issues going on (psychological in nature)…that is not love it’s sex and you know it. Let her grow old with a man around her own age. There are plenty of older beautiful women that can make you much happier. I am in my mid twenties and trust me I would never imagine how half of these young women/older men on here think that these relationships will ever last. I would never date a man my father’s age, much less grandpa’s age. I don’t care what people believe about all this article has tried to prove, but seriously, There is something so beautiful and respecful about an older man being with an older woman. It’s the way it’s supposed to be so knock it off all you old men who try to chase younger women…please!
Iam 54 in very good health divorced and if i had the chance to have a young wife and she wanted to have a baby with me oh wow i would just love that.
Looking back on my life all i did was work and try to make as much money as i could and provide for my wife.
However we never had any childern and i now wish so very much that we had.
So i think the man who dont want to make babys with you is missing something so wonderful its a shame.
I would love to be him and would love you to get in touch with me if you want to make a change in your life.
Alabama
find a woman your own age grandpa!
First of all, me and my girlfriends have been reading this article and reading the posts…We have to say that as younger women we think it’s a big joke. It seems like half of the people who have posted on this are from down south (deep down south) and the other half are from foreign countries where they think it’s okay for grandpa’s friend or dad’s friend to marry them. Oh yeah, let’s not forget those old guys that are basically bound to wind up in jail for being sooooo incredibly creepy. To all you old geezers who can’t check out women who are in your own stage of life…can’t appreciate a women who actually is mature and smart and has had experience, please, give me a break. To all of our beautiful mothers and grandmothers who have to deal with you or come across men like you we say “you are way too good for this low calibur of men.” Hey, I am not saying don’t live your life in a happy way, but by happy I don’t mean preying on younger women and being gross old delirious a-holes. Hey…this goes for the older women younger men thing too. All of it is distasteful and all those who have posted on this site saying otherwise, we would really hope that you would open your eyes to the reality of these men and these situations. Love is growing old together and you can’t do that with a man who is into much younger women…I am sorry to say girls. And men…you seriously need to wake up and see the value and beauty in women your own age. Sad.
You who have commented on this article saying that it’s a good thing are all mentally ill. These old men aren’t men they are little boys and they are seriously pathetic. Not only that, but who can have respect for a man like that! I am a young women in her 20s and I would NEVER date a man more than ten years older than I am. I have read many (contradictory) articles upon age difference and have actually found that age difference over a ten year gap actually increases the risk of seperation. I don’t know what all you women are doing, you are making us look bad. Just don’t be suprised when you hit your late thirties and early forties he starts snooping around for even younger women. These types of men aren’t the geriatric prince charmings of your dreams. They are losers and you should let them know that. If they can’t date women their own age or can’t stand the thought then leave them where they should be, old, alone and miserable. Just think about it for a second…please.
none of you gyes on here no the other, situations can differ. if you really love an older gye its fine. one of my best mates is 16 and has been dating a 21 year old for 2 years.
the main thing u should be thinking abou though, is why would a 19- 20 year old want to date a 16 year old? it may be that he really loves her but if not you should take care. if you are an older gye considering on dating a younger girl, u really need to think about it b4 u do anything. if your only with her for your own sake, then that is wroung, very wrong. teens and younger women are very inpressionable, and a bad exsperisoce can really mess with there heads. im a 15 year old girl from england, and iv kinda had an on and of relationship with a 19 nearly 20 year old gye for a year. it ended with him crushing my heart, so girrlz dont make the same mistacks as me
p.s im from England so legal age for sex is 16 so i understand what the laws are like in America etc and that what i have said can be seen in a different light but here its fine and if anything the majority of people i know have older boyfriends, girls mature much quicker than lads so we look for old maturer men.
Im 16 and have been with my boyfriend of 20 for a year and a half, obviously people of the older generations do look down on the age gap sometimes but when they see its a love like any other and that we are very happy they identify there isnt a difference, your love finds you no matter what, you cant help what your drawn to.
Hi ‘emismartng@yahoo.com’.love this. i’m in love with a 60 yr old man.cant sleep or think rightly without him.i’m just 24 nd dnt knw what my parents would say wen i present him as my husband.pls can u advise me?cos he wants to marry me.thanks.
THIS GETS ON MY NERVES OKAY ALL YOU OLD PEOPLE ARE TALKING STUPID SHIT, TALKING ABOUT ALL YOUR 20 OR MORE AGE DIFFERENCES BUT IM 15 OKAY AND I CANT BE WITH THE LOVE OF MY LIFE THE ONLY ONE I WANNA BE WITH THAT IS 19 FUCK ALL YOU PEOPLE I THINK IF YOU BOTH ACUTUALLY AND TRULY LOVE EACH OTHER YOU SHOULD BE ABLE TO BE TOGETHER ITS BULLSHIT. IT SHOULD BE A FUCKING CRIME FOR ALL YOU NASTY BITCHES TO(:
I’m about to marry my soul mate on July 4th 2010. Half of my family won’t talk to me, or are trying to stop the wedding. The other half are excited and can see how happy I am with him. The truth is, I love him, he loves me, and we want to spend the rest of our lives together. For all of the other couples who are in the same type of relationship, just follow your heart! I would do ANYTHING to close the 28 year gap between us. I would even grow older just to catch up with him. All I CAN do is cherish the rest of our lives together as husband and wife, soul mates, lovers, and friends.
I don’t know how old you are and I really don’t care. But I will say this. You don’t know anyone personally on this site, so you have no right to judge anyone or their actions. You haven’t lived inside anyone elses shoes and don’t know what other people have been through. Maybe it would help if you grew up and stopped being so narrowminded. Often when people do things there is a reason why behind it. And maybe in some people,s cases they date older men, for a better reason than jjust simply wanting to play “grownup”. Maybe they have deeper reasons. But of course you wouldn’t think of that because your perfect, and have never made a mistake, or a choice that others have considered wrong.
So your telling me that an 18 year old, who has sex with a 17 year old is committing a crime? Give me a break! That is a one year age difference. Its no big deal. In high school I dated someone a year older than me, and there is no way it could have been a crime,considering we were in the same grade.
I’m 18, my boyfriend is 40 and my parents know. It really isn’t as bad as you think they’ll react. As long as they know he loves you it will go pretty well. Don’t be surprised if they make certain comments sometimes that might upset you. Just keep your ground on you not being happier with anyone else
good luck! 
I think you’ve waited too long and are really too old to have kids. I’m 18 and been with a 40 year old for half a year. We’re madly in love too and planning on having kids when I’m 27. The best eggs get produced earlier..and are pretty much only good enough before you’re 35. I understand he doesn’t want more kids as 3 is more than enough for most. Either find someone else or accept and love him and let him fill your life, not the kids
I have always been invovled with the younger men, older men are not attracted to me.
your right at 42 if a man wont work, pay his child support, continually oogles other women,has nothing to show but sex addict traits, Run, and save your best years of your life.
You see a man this age will not change and loses interest easily. He has nothing to offer a young or older women. Most women are established at any age and dont need a man to pay for everything and loose their self esteem, and young looks.
Men this age just need to go watch porn and masterbate, they can bring nothing to the life of a younger woman but baggage,
the good men in this age bracket for women that look 35 now and are 50 the older men were killed by the vietnam war. Psychopaths are everywhere these days, if a man’s life looks like a train wreck, even if he has the physical looks thats all they have to offer, be smart this fades fast. In fact his looks are about gone,
Look at Brad Pit one of the most handsome men in the world, and i believe one of the sweetest solid human being in regards to men this age. He has lost most of his looks, and George Clooney, I dont think so. Now lets look at Gerard Butler or Tom Hardy, on my goodness, he enough to make you quake. But as an older woman, women know its just ridiculous to chase a 30 something man.
a 42 year old man will just steal the best years of a young womans life, and then be old, he has PEAKED, young ladies, even if he does come home and stay on the porch. In about 5 years you will be dragging your granddad around with you. He already has kids, ex-s_ control issues, and many other relationship problems. Take a long hard look at his wallet, this is how most men identify who they are, if hes smart he is not going to let you touch it, too many women have already tried. He will normally treat you like a toddler and buy you a play pen where he controls the enviroment.
Young girls go make your own money and love the boys your age. Enjoy your beauty and youth and do not let men take that freedom from you. So if these are the things that people feel make a relationship, lets just call it physical assets (money, looks, mental heatlh) it just a waste of a young womans beauty and best years of her life.
A 42 yr old man really has nothing to offer a woman in their 20′s. Be smart young women and work on your career and watch the boys your age. Your just getting better. The old dogs that cant be taught new tricks are the ones the 40 – 50 yr old men would not allow to learn new tricks, because they feel threatened by a woman more intelligent or can have better sex than them. Women have it going on these days, so take your time girls and enjoy the scenery. But dont waste your beauty on your men that can be your dad, I am not saying someone 7-10 yrs older. much older than that and your just robbing your self of the best years of your life. Go SEE the WORLD. Dont be his step mother for a 16-20 yr old that wont respect you, and will cause nothing but drama in relationship. its just no fun.
older women usually are responsible, accomplished and have great sex lives because younger men seek them out. anyway thats this old dog advice. beware of what older men tell you. if you think the young ones lie darlings, just think how good the older ones are at baiting you.
Be SMART, BEAUTIFUL, FREE, TALENTED, AND SUCESSFUL. I guess just make their mouth water, but go for those TOM HARDY look alikes. yeah man those British, Irish men are sexy.
haha your an idiot!
You spell dumb like this “Dumb” not “Dumg” Someday when you are all growed up you will think about sex, sex, sex. It comes at different stages of your life. I’m guessing you’re a young woman so when you get to be about 35 or 40 you too will be thinking about sex much more than you do now. And anyone who says that sex has some kind of religious reprucussions is dumg, I mean dumb. See, now you’ve got me spelling it wrong.
I would Of NEVER in a million years think that I would ever talk to a guy that was 32yrs gap. I am madly head over hills for him and I cant seem to get enough time with him. We recently have been getting physical and I cant stop.. His kisses so passionate and for being his age he sure does know what he is doing! Our conversations last for hours to where we loose track of time. I love hanging with him. Is this normal? Is this wrong? I dont know! He looks at me with such passion and love. I love it! As for me Im not your average 24 year old. Im very mature for my age and set high standards for myself. What do I do with this situation. My parents would NEVER approve of this relationship!
Guys my age just look like babies. Its been too long and im waiting for my 18th so I can have them all. Im just waiting for my first and hes waiting for me. 2 more years ^__^
why men think, the women will be with the person doesn’t want to be with?
why men has to beleve the women will love them when she said she doesn’t love them?
Why women want to be with the man don’t love.
Why oldet men beleve the women will love them when they have very big age gap. Do they think the women will still love them for the next five years or after two years.
There is no why they can hide their age because it shows on their face how old they are and to go out with a younger, they will not even feel comfortable because they still worry how old they are instead of having fun for that day with the younger women they like.
Some men may try and lie to make a women to sleep with them but if she is brave noting will fool her, but any thing it just make them less than a man.
We have the same problem im 32 and my husband is 62 he had 3 kids and he dont want to have our own and im really disappointed i dont know what to do..
I think all men are crazy. They just want the one they can’t have and never have. Why do they have to keep try when they knew she doesn’t want them. She can go out with them and have fun, she can talk to them on the phone every day because they are the one always calling her and asking her out even most time she always excuse with something when she doesn’t go out with them, but they never give up, then she can go out with them, but she will never sleep with them. They just keep hoping for one day to happen which it will never happen.
Crazy men just go sleep with others wether your girl friend or your wife or your friend. Don’t bother for the one you can’t have get a life for your own and your future wife or something.
It is not just what men want, it is what she want and who she want and she knew from the first day the person she saw that she decide what she want from that person if just friendship or more than that. It only takes her 5 minute to decide for what she want from that person she saw in 5 minute. That the day she found out if she want that person to be more than a friend.
After that there is nothing will change her mind.
ok wow im 13 and am dating a thirteen year old just date people around ur age u sickos!!!!!!!!!!!!! but then again age is but a number and i love older guys =*
Yes,exactly!His ego-that is what it is,poor young girl.In this cases she have to be stupid and everything could work somehow.Very true.
What the world needs is more lovely young ladies like you! Older men love younger women, we know how to please and we have far more money and plenty of time to spend with you.
And like the article says, loving an older man is good for humankind. What better reason for younger gals than to find an ole fart right now and let the cards fall where they may. We older guys are more loveable and loyal than a puppy dog. Ruf ruf!!!
hi my name is V-an 23 years old….
do not think of what people say about u and ur boyfriend,the point is what u think and feel abt him,u better look it up into ur deepest heart, what u want and what u need, u r the only one who going through it. so if u happy alone with him and he loves you, u better take the challenge..
learn to spell love and people may be than able to understand what u just said.
So..what? I’m 24yr old and I have a fantasy of being made love to by an older man. Can anyone rock my world? Get in contact: sweetgirly7@gmail.com
Hi “sofia111_2009@yahoo.com”. Or should I call you Boris?
Yes doooo let me send you my photo too so that you can fall in love with my big wobbly man boobs!!! Or on second thoughts why not just cut to the chase and I wire you that $1000 for you to not fly over from scambekistan and then never hear from you again.
Yours
Assad Fatijot
Hello Sofia
Are you looking for some relationship with an older Man?
if so please send me an email to romantic_adventurer2003@yahoo.com
thanking you sincerely.
Carlos
I am yet to tell my parents about my 46 year old boyfriend. My girlfriends think something is wrong with me… especially because he has two kids by his ex and 20 years older than me. He is definitely great and I love him but I am currently in a state of confusion. Please advice…what challenges would I face? Are they manageable? Thanks!
Well,i’m 36 and madly in love with a 27 year old Irannian man, i see nothing is wrong with that. Dating someone under 18 is a problem and a crime.
statutory rape is when you are a minor which is 17 and younger is confronted by an adult who is 18 years older they engage in sex with you that is not suppose to happen. Its basically sex in a wrong way and its illegal. 18 years olds + who have sex with minors are committing a crime .
i really like this guy who is 37 and i’m 22… yeah its not THAT big difference (as i’ve heard of 20 year old girls with 60 year old men) …. but anyway… its the age which stops me beginning a relationship with him. …. yeah he’s lovely/kind/fun/caring/handsome etc. and i know he really likes me too…. but there are a few issues i have with it. even though he’s still got his looks and health, these things are probably about to decrease within the next few decades. and i want to find someone i could possibly have children with. so unless i have children with him now… i’d feel he’d be too old after a few years; To me, i think women should be between 18 and 35 to have children and men between 26 and 40. if you have a child in your 40′s for example… when the child is 10 you are already beyond 50. its not so nice for the child either.
also, with regards to older men… although i’m sure some do actually love a younger girl, wouldn’t it often be just an ego boost for them, knowing they have a girl half their age which they can flaunt and show off to their friends. and like one woman said earlyer, if you met an older man who already has kids and doesn’t want more, as he’s done all that and feels too old to do it all again. be prepared to never have your own children if you stay with him.
for me, the ideal age difference is 3 to 10 years, no more. same applies with older women and younger men.
but, do whatever you want…. its only you who will have to live with the issue. i don’t see how it should effect anyone else. (as long as its within legal age and your parents are no longer responsible for your decisions in life)
and i think people who go abroad to have sex with minors are sick…even if the girls want it… its WRONG. they are too young… they probably don’t even really know what they want. there is a reason age limit laws are in place. young people think they know what they want, make stupid decisions on impulse and have to live with the consequences the rest of their lives. at 18 you have lived a little and have probably made a few stupid mistakes and have learnt to think a bit before doing things. the fact so many girls think they are ready to have children and feel like adults at 15 causes SO many problems for them throughout their lives. they are practically children themselves. imagine having to look after your children all through your late teens and 20′s…. thats the time you are supposed to be having fun, experiencing life and learning about who you really are and what you want to do, before ACTUALLY doing it.
I am a 42 yr.old man and I seek young girls 20-25. I have dated women my age and an older 51yr.old woman, and they have so much baggage and set in their ways. You can’t teach an old dog new tricks. I think being with a younger woman keeps me young and vigorous, I can’t fight these feelings that I have for young women, they are so soft and have nice tender skin.
Why do you people always want sex sex sex…? Have you ever thought about having someone till the rest of your life, no you people always want sex sex sex. Time MY FRIENDS HAVE COME TO AN END YOU WILL DIE
I don’t know who stamped ages on people but imagine if it never happened. I’m in love with someone younger with me…26 years to be exact, and the chemicals just work. its just meant to be. Its a built in mechanism (human instinct)…the heart wants what the heart wants! I’m a college grad in premed, i own my own house and my own business. I’m as responsible as they come. i didn’t plan it, its just like our souls met and cant separate. Were waiting for her to be old enough to live together. But with all the pedo labeling and people stamping other people as creepers- who the hell made you god! O yea by the way Mary was pregnant when she was 12 you religious retards. Im not looking for your approval, im just ashamed at today’s society for even judging anyone weather their older or younger. I know i can find someone my age with a her same body and maturity level…but there just not her. i know some people my age that are less mature and that have younger looking bodies than she does. So that’s not it! DO WHAT WORKS. Create a world without age, cause your screwing everything up.
enjoy the sex in life of adults
i was sex w him last april 3th,, he on speed sperm in me but i was wonder i was on period on april 9th huh short time i supposed on period on april 12 or 13th 2010 so well
i still get preg??? pls help share w me
I’m 69 (look much younger), and I couldn’t agree with you more! Age is not an issue with me. What I like about younger women is the enthusiasm, interest, and energy that they bring to a relationship–something that I have not found with women of my age. The negative stereotype of the sex-starved man is a reflection of female-dominated bias. Time to grow up America and shed our puritanical roots! An older man brings wisdom, maturity, independence, freedom, and joy to a relationship. Unfortunately, few, not all, older women can match this
Wow i hope that is me soon…. congratlations on the new baby. Do you know if its a boy or girl yet….. i bet you cant wait, i am 16 and my man is 53 and i can not wait to get pregnant with his baby… i am moving in with him soon as well after i finish school i cant wait!!!! I know what you mean when you say how happy you both are… we are so happy together he is miles better then any boy my own age
Good luck with everything and i wish you both the best of happiness
Im 19 years old, my man is 52 & will be 53 next month. I met him a week before I turned 18. We started dating a week after i turned 18. At first everything was peaches & cream. We would hold long conversations over the phone until one of us would fall asleep with the phone to our ear. Yea that good. after a year of dating, I decided to move in with him. We were sooo enfactuated with each other. Everyday he would tell me how beautiful I was, & i would tell him how handsome he was. What i didnt know was, his ego was so huge because he was insecure of himself & insecure over me. For all y’all youngins who cant translate, It means: He wasn’t satified with nothing about himself or his life, but was very satisfied with me. i mean, we couldn’t go out in public without him thinking that I wanted to be with another man. Younger or older than him! Before he let the light shine on his true colon, (personality) I wanted a life with him. I wanted to have a family by him. well, Its going on three years, & I’m having a baby by him… Not with him. You get the msg
Hi sofia can you sexual relationship for me give me your milk for u i can suck your milk
Please help me………
What does ‘statutory rape’ mean?? Does any body know??
I am 16…..
to the person that said when a woman marries a man 20 years older than her she doesn’t get divorce. think about it for a second, when she’s 41 or 51 that man’s gonna be 71 or 81 and she has to take care of him,cuz he doesn’t have anybody else to take care of him. and when he dies, she stuck possibly living the next 30 or 40 years her life alone, cuz its gonna be hard finding another partner cuz she won’t be as young anymore. so in the longrun both women end up possibly spending the rest of their life alone. why, cuz old ass men ain’t happy with what they got. to me all this evolution bullshit is stupid, cuz we don’t live in a prehistoric society any more. and i don’t think god intended it to be this way, relationships were meant to be about more than mating , their supposed to be about love and caring about someone else. the only two people stay togeather at any age is through love,loyalty, and committment. i don’t really think god cares about evolution, survival of the species,or science . when am an brakes the commitment to his wife ,cuz she’s not young anymore. and how is a man that could possibly carry mutated genes as he gets older benefit society by having childern and creating children that pass on those mutated genes when they have children, eventhough they came out healthy. and another thing we arenot animals i wish they would stop comparing us to one.
i am 24 and my husband is 41 we been together 6 yrs and been married almost a year we started dating when i was 18 i have never been happier, and everyone said i was only after him for money well its not always true alot of younger girls date older guys because they treat you good chances are they wont cheat on you everything you done they have done it to and understand, my family loves him and accept the 17 yr old age differance as well as him family accept me age is just a number. the only problem im having now is he has a 16yr old son and 18 yr old daughter and i am very close to them i love them like they are my own and since im not that much older than them and i can relate to everything they are going through in school. well im wanting to have kids now i want one for the longest time i didnt and latly that all i think about is how i want my own family and he always comes up with im sorry i already have kids and im to old to have more its to the point all i do is want to cry everytime i see a happy couple with a tiny baby it makes me think but i guess there isnt anything i can do about it just get over it
Well buddy be ready to be slapped in handcuffs the second you return, because it is against the law to travel outside of the states in order to have sex with a minor (under 16) which is exactly what you have done. You will be arrested and charged as a pedophile which you are. So hurry home we have a cell waiting and ready for you.
your a sick creature coz you aint seen the other side of things
did you guys know that when a 21 year woman marries a guy her own age she dovorces ten times as much as a lady who marries a man 20 years older than her ??
gee I wonder why . maybe because the older man is real and actually has some maturity and real care and adore the woman instead if just thinking for the moment like the yonger guys do.
If same age marriages are so natural why do they have the highest failure rates.
something most of society has to yet address because they are too busy being correct instead of real
that is the truesiest statement i have ever heard
Don’t be sick,And don’t be stupid! Even careing what people Think,even though you would probably never meet them in person, is totaly dumb! As a older man, I used to think that catching a younger “GIRL” was a good thing! a”turn on”. But as I sit back and assess the reality of the situation,I had to face my own concience, and in my soul Knowing that it is what it is!! “BABY RAPE!” Put your self in the shoes of the parents of the younger girls! I find the whole issue a sad and tragic indicater of how far our national morals,have slipped! The law would be the least of you problems,if it was my child you were talking about!! Having said that! let’s hope I never have to jepordize my freedom to protect my children against sick bastards that actually stoop that low!!
Don’t be sick,And don’t be stupid! Even careing what people Think,even though you would probably never meet them in person, is totaly dumb! As a older man, I used to think that catching a younger “GIRL” was a good thing! a”turn on”. But as I sit back and assess the reality of the situation,I had to face my own concience, and in my soul Knowing that it is what it is!! “BABY RAPE!” Put your self in the shoes of the parents of the younger girls! I find the whole issue a sad and tragic indicater of how far our national morals,have slipped! The law would be the least of you problems,if it was my child you were talking about!! Having said that! let’s hope I never have to jepordize my freedom to protect my children against sick bastards that actually stoop that low!!
my dearest
my name is sofia,a lovely girl, am average in height and fair in complexion,am a loving, romantic and caring angel. I saw your mail today and i deciede to contact you. i really want to have a good relationship with you. Beside i have a special something i want to discusse with you Hope to hear from you soon. i will send my beautiful pictures to you and also tell you more about my self. I know age will not be a bearier to our relationship, what i need is just your love and caring. I will give you my best, bye for now.
Yours New Friend
SOFIA
email….sofia111_2009@yahoo.com
CLAP CLAP CLAP – SOME COMMON SENSE FINALLY!
Well said, not to mention what happens to older women? (who are supposed to live longer!!!)
For optimus reproductive results: young-young
It’s hard for an old man to get a woman pregnant, and more chances of illness for the babies. But hey maybe this is a good choice (as well as young boy older lady) in our overpopulated world.
People, do whatever you want to do, just dont justify it in the name of science or in the name of love.
Besides, the older the guy is, the more their sperm presents broken DNA. So yes they may be able to have kids but greater chance of sick babies.
What does ‘statutory rape’ mean?? I am 16….
i love evrey thing you said
i wouldnt mind having sex with an older man. It feels like they know what they are doing at the right time, and they have plenty more experience…
hi yes i am sixteen but know one like me i am a good girl not a bad girl that the tuet and i can dow what you siad .
Inspirational i must say
You’re just upset because you know I’m correct in what I say. It’s not my fault that today’s generation lacks common sense, values, and self-sufficiency.
You don’t sound very grown up yet either. You sound extremely immature. Maybe you should grow up before posting online.
For the “youngsters” trying to act like adults and dating people 20, 30, 40 years older than themselves. GROW UP FIRST MORONS! Half of you babies pretending to be adults haven’t even completed your schooling, still live with mommy and daddy, and don’t have a clue what living an adult life even is yet. Once you are of LEGAL age, have lived in YOUR OWN place for a while, and had a taste of what life actually is…THEN see where love takes you…NOT BEFORE! Finish your classes, pay your own bills, live a REAL life instead of finding some daddy/mommy figure to baby you. Most of you brats end up having babies and can’t figure out how to take care of them and live off of welfare so everyone else can pay for you so you don’t have to lift a finger and be a REAL adult. For those of you so called 18 year olds, I can bet you didn’t WAIT till your 18 to find someone, you dated them as a minor which is illegal and if you were my kid, you would have been placed under house arrest and had them arrested for statutory rape of a minor. If you didn’t meet up with a person and dated them until after 18 then the last section doesn’t apply to you. Don’t start whining that I have no idea what I’m talking about, I AM dating someone older than myself but I made sure I could handle adult life on my own FIRST!
well guys I’m 28 years old and my husband is 57 we have 2 girls age 7 and 5. People don’t understand that when you truly love someone age does not matter.
I just have to say be happy with who you love.
The reason people think you should ‘slow down’ is because the things you want at 19 are rarely the same as what you want at age 29. It’s good for girls to take time to get an education, travel, and learn more about themselves before committing to raising a family. How can you give your children advice when you have no life experience?
Also young mothers usually rely completely on their husband to provide the family income and take no time to develop job skills or get job training. I see very often these same men trade their aging wife for a younger model later on and then the young wife has no way to support herself and then has to rely on government money to survive. You should think about how you are going to provide for your kids, can you afford to send them all to college or are you going to rely on government money for that too?
If an older woman chasing a younger man is called a “cougar” and a young girl chasing an older guy is a “hampster”. What are the male equivalent to these names?
From Asian playboy
Gracias por tus palabras, me hacen ser motivados. Voy a encontrar pronto esta maravillosa mujer joven cariñosa estoy buscando. Mi e.mail es: manuelescobarrojas@yahoo.com.mx
Me encanta hablar con las jóvenes aman a los hombres de edad.
Manuel
Ciudad de México
¡Sea Manuel elegante! Es grande tener una esposa joven. Usted está mirando las edades correctas. Le deseo toda la suerte. Tome el cuidado y tenga una relación maravillosa. Soy la misma edad que usted y convengo con usted no la atención de la paga 100%.Do a los que intenten hacerle un gran pecado. No hay PECADO EN AMOR.
Hola! Mi nombre es Manuel soy de la ciudad de México. Iam hombre de 57 años, estoy soltero y me gustan las chicas tan jóvenes, especialmente entre los 23 y los 28 años. Realmente valorar un blog así, los comentarios y opiniones y puntos de vista diferentes oe. Es una gran sorpresa para mí que las niñas Youg igual que los hombres de edad. es maravilloso. Ahora espero poder encontrar a una muchacha hermosa joven para mí. Gracias.
First, read what I wrote.Then find a part about communication and read it again.I write , how I write, but don’t offend people, because you have your own opinions and like geriatric departments in nursing homes.Then look at your notes and grammar , before you correct anyone. Learn to read what’s written , not what’s in your old poor mind.
I am a female who is happily married to a man exactly my own age (37)… Look, sweetie, we’re not upset… Make no mistake, we do not envy your creepy old man… You have only three possible fates: especially if you live in a highly patriarchal society, you’ll end up being his servant, even his nurse, do you think you won’t end up changing his diaper??? He’ll tire of you eventually, he doesn’t love you for what you truly are, he’s only in it because of his ego…Since their bodies are failing them, ironically their ego gets HUGE!!! The third possibility, or rather, a certainty, is young widowhood, which will give you money, which is the only the only thing a female gets out of a relationship….but you knew it, didn’t you????
I am a woman that at thirteen had a affair with a married man….. Look, they ONLY USE YOU TO FEED THEIR EGOS, IT’S GROSS!!!!! Then they tire of you and discard you…. There was no money involved only because I was really stupid… You may say that this is a special case because he was cheating on his wife….But no, I have a twenty-year old friend who is married to a 62 year-old and it’s not just gross, but pathetic as well: she is just a glorified servant, she has no self-respect, she changes his diaper (no joke, folks), cooks and sews and cleans and they have 2 kids as well!!! If that is what a “happy, stable, traditional” marriage is about, the woman always ends up as no more than a glorified servant… Even if she is not hugely driven by money, how do you support all that when she stops working (they’re always the kind of people who do that)…. So I don’t buy the “romantic” argument, because ironically, most of these women coldly assessed the male’s cash status before they got involved. I would prefer a male my age any day!!!
Iam a 52 year old maried man,my wife is 5 years younger than me,but she doesn’t like sex,so I have my affairs outside,with young girls,20s,25s,they are not hookers,they just like mature men,I have very good erections,Iam very good at sex,almost a pervert,Iam happy with my life…..
I’m 74 years young and my wife of six months is a very mature 15. She’s an amazing creature. It was destiny for us when I relocated to thailand. I met the woman of my dreams and nothing anyone can say can change how we feel for each other. People tell me all the time that i look younger than i am and she’s an old soul. We’re thinking of coming back to the states, but for now i’m in paradise! I think younger women espcailly Asian women understand what true love is. White women have too much attitude!
I like my posts like i like my women…short and sweet!
You think teenage girls communicate better than women in their 50′s? That’s ridiculous. You’re really 57? You write with the intelligence of a teenager, so might as well stick to your own. Stop advising people what to watch and leave leave the best mature women for me.
I only have twice a month, if I were to use Viagra, it would be great. Due to heart problems that is not going to work for me. I am getting older and my sex drive is low.
You are 12 years in marriage and you have GREAT sex several times every week and it is better every time?Woooooow, that sound almost incredible.I think that you belong to group that counts for less than 1% of all married couples in the world,unless your hubby pops some viagra here and there
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I love my husband. Its so funny for me to read these comments where people are saying, I wouldnt and I couldnt….and guess what at one time I was that person…then I stumbled upon this amazing man who is a great conversationalist, outgoing and very attractive. To me, love is love, if you truly love someone you understand that one day you may have to take care of them…even if we didnt have our age gap …. I would understand that…I love him and I dont really have any excuses for it…for example he is stable and blah blah blah…I love him because I love him …isnt that what love is…a chemistry between two people that hold common interests…I understand some people can’t even see themselves dating someone older or younger…but not everyone makes the same lifestyle decisions and how boring would this world really be if we all went by societies rules?
First off – there you go having to make her sound just that one more year older >>>” she’s GOING TO BE 26″ <<>>”Who knows if this can work? I know all the dangers..But I like to think I am not young for my age but most people are old for theirs. I blast loud music, drive fast cars, love the good life and have my head on straight”<<< ….you do sound young for your age, loud music, fast cars, and a lover of good life! You also sound like a right idiot. Perhaps the young girl was looking for a mature man ….mentally!!! There's nothing worse than a wrinkly boy-racer!
ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!!!!!
i can’t agree with you more. I am 18 and married to a 48 year old, to some people that’s gross, but we love eachother and have worked hard to finally be together and married. Age is just a number, nothing more.
YOUR HIGHNESS!,YOUR MAJESTY, YOUR HONOUR
THIS IS MISS RAJINI RAO TUPPALWAR OR TUPAKULA AGAIN SENDING PETITION FOR 1ST OR 2ND WORLD COUNTRY REFUGE AS IIIRD WORLD COUNTRY PARLIAMENT ABANDONS LIFE FOR RAPE AND MURDER ALONG WITH M.P. GANGS AND BBC.CO.UK IN MORE THAN 47 LANGUAGES ALL OVER THE WORLD AND EVEN CRIENG.COM.CN FROM LAST 20 YRS. PL. HELP AND COLDWAR OF CUTDRAWERS CHASE MURDERS AND FORCED SUICIDES FOR SEX THROUGH INTERNATIONAL WOMEN’S ISSUES OF EARLY MARRIAGE AND DELIVERY ISSUES AND WANTED SHAME SEX ENTERTAINMENT BY INDIAN PARLIAMENT VOTES DONE FROM LAST 10 YRS AND NOT AMENDING THE LAW THROUGH COURT OR POLICE. AND BOMB BLASTS WITH ALKAIDA AS JIHADI AS IF REALLY DEAD AS MILITARY WITH BLOOD SHED IN DIFFERENT PARTS OF INDIA AND WORLD AND AGAIN TAKING BIRTH FROM BOMB BLASTS AND GUN SHOT DEATHS AND REBORN AS HUMAN BEINGS AS POWER OF BLOOD FOR REBIRTH AND SACKING THE WORLD LIKE RAVANA AND MAHISHASURAS DEMONIAC COLD WAR GAME FOR SEX HUNGER SATISFACTION THAN FOOD ETC.AND BITE AND CUT AND PINCH NIPPLES FROM DRESS ITSELF WHILE ON INTERVIEW FOR JOB OR FRIENDSHIP.
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On Mon, 2/8/10, Rajini Tuppalwar wrote:
From: Rajini Tuppalwar
Subject: Fw: TAHSILDAAR PETITION
To: Gms@Ap.Gov.in, webmanager@un.org, president@whitehouse.gov, worldservice@bbc.co.uk, outlook@bbc.co.uk, jc_wgl@ap.gov.in, collector_wgl@ap.gov.in, janathussain@ap.gov.in, cpro_cm@ap.gov.in, president@nyt.com, governor@ap.nic.in, prlsecy_cm@ap.gov.in, webmaster@parliament.uk, webmaster@parliament.in
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Date: Monday, February 8, 2010, 10:37 AM
— On Thu, 2/4/10, Rajini Tuppalwar wrote:
> From: Rajini Tuppalwar
> Subject: TAHSILDAAR PETITION
> To: president@whitehouse.gov, worldservice@bbc.co.uk, webmanager@un.org
> Date: Thursday, February 4, 2010, 2:26 PM
> From:
>
> To
> Miss Rajini Rao Tupakula or Tuppalwar,
> The Tahsildar,
> H.No: 1-7-296( Golden Koundinya
> Collectorate
> Office,
> White House), Revenue Colony,
>
> Subedari, Hanamkonda
> Subedari, Hanamkonda,
>
> Warangal,Andhra Pradesh.
>
> Warangal,Andhra Pradesh.
> jesusdisciplerajini@yahoo.com
> Ph.No: 9290975010.
>
> Sub: Criminal Sexual Outrageous Of Erotica Murder
> –Marriage –Pregnancy-Delivery
> Fathers Attempts And Criminal Trespass –Reg.
>
> This Is Miss Rajini Rao Tuppalwar, Mba Is Sending My Police
> File Report Of India To The World Leading Newspapers And
> T.V. Channels To Publish And Read To The Public In T.V. For
> An Unusual Men Hannabalism Of Slow Posining And Killing And
> Forcing For Homicide And Suicide And Fool Press , Public,
> Law, Police With Money Etc. For Forcible Surrendering Sex
> – Erotica Murder Right From The Age Of School Going Of 4
> Yrs To Till Date 30 Yrs. I.E. From 1990-2009. For Public
> Notice Forever; Shouting At Marriage Bureaus That The Girl
> Is Ours And We Are The First And Last Night Men And Pregnant
> Fathers As Rapists And Murderers Or So What From Kanyakumari
> To Kashmir And Rann Of Kutch To Dibrugarh And America To
> Australia And Vice Versa Etc.
> Pl.Issue Public Notice , Read In Tv.S To All The Population
> In The World For Atrocities For Surrendering Sex On A
> Teenage Virgin Girl By Indian Politics Etc And Already We
> Buyed Plots In 1975- 1980 Itself By My Great Grand
> Fathers Registered For Real Estate Companies Etc.And People
> And Due To Greediness And Jealousy Like This As I Am A
> Selfless Person Want To Become Like Swami Vivekananda,
> Mother Teresa Type Etc. I Didn’t Care Much And Papers Etc. .
> -Reg.
>
> The Culprits Or Criminals Are As Follows:
> 1. Mallaiah Goud And His Wife Sujatha – Agricultural
> Officer Sold The Plot Of Cpm Party Venkatayya In 1991. H.No:
> 1-7-294., Revenue Colony, Subedari.
> 2. Cpm Party Secretary- Venkatayya And His Dumb Son- Sold
> The Plot In 1990 Of 117 Sq. Yds Half Of Their House And Half
> Of The Land In The Compound. And Now Sold To Muslims And
> Left To Their Village Etc.
> H.No: 1-7-295.
> 3. Then Retired Papa Rao Now Retired Rural School
> Govt. Teacher.H.No: 1-7-298 And His Guys Gand All Over India
> And World And Warangal And Hyderabad Haunting For Blue Film
> , Sex Surrenders Forcibly Not Sparing Even A Child Like
> Michael Jackson Sexual Abuse Etc. To Old Age Women And Men
> Etc. Haunting From 1990-To Till Date.
> H.No.:1-7-298.
> 4. Advocate Janardhan Reddy Of Advocates Colony,
> Balasamudram And Prof. Burra Ramulu – Economist Of Kakatiya
> University And Karthiyan Ma’m, Rani Ma’m Of Human Rights
> Know Whole Story Of Papa Rao Murderer ‘S Case And Remarriage
> And Inspector Vijayalakshmi And M.P. Sircilla Rajaiah As
> Unlike Bill Clinton -Monica Lewinsky Case ,But Here Murder
> For Rape And Surrender Of Monica Lewinsky Case Etc.
>
> 5. Inspector Vijaylakshmi. H.No: 1-7-299 Told To Press
> Andhra Jyothji President Mr. Sudhakar All This Story.
>
> 6. M.P. Sircilla Rajaiah Under Acb And -9490340099
> And His Secretary Surrender Even Trapped Mahila Mandal
> Chairman Of Warangal District Parveen Khan – 9849173897
> Trying Every Day From 8.00 To 8.30 A.M. While Going To
> School For Kidnapping For Sex And Blue Film Or B.F. Etc.
> Along With The Above Gang. And Others.
> 7. Satyanarayana Murthy- Warangal District Court Steno
> Grapher Stays On Rent Nearby.
>
> 8. Bank Manager And Staff Of Indian Bank, Hanamkonda And
> Warangal And Pune Branch As A Tenant : H.No: 1.7-230- Samma
> Reddy. And His Wife.
>
> 9. Indian Overseas Bank Manager- Satyanarayana Reddy -
> H.No: 1-7-299.
> His Wife And His Son And His Local And Other Colleagues
> Gambling Etc.
> From 1989 To Till Date All Of The Above.
> Plea To Take Stringent Action Immediately-Inaction By
> Warangal, Subedari Ps Personnel- Regd. Reg: -, Survey No: 1
> To 260 On 3rd June 2008, Without Any Right Title Or Interest
> In The Above Referred Decreed Property (Vide O.S.No.317 Of
> 2001 On The File Of Hon’ble Principal Jr. Civil Judge,
> Hyderabad, East & Northwarangal District) Has Indulged
> In Criminal Trespass And Has Erected Temporary Sheds And A
> Bathroom In The Said Plot. Post June 2000 To Tilll
> Date I Have Lodged Numerous Complaints And Have
> Knocked The Doors Of Every Top Ranking Official /Department
> Pleading Before Them To Intervene. Thanks! To The Apathy
> Displayed By Officials Whom I Have Met None Of Them Have
> Responded Positively And Taken Action Against Criminal
> Trespass Indulged By Above List People. Hence This Last
> Attempt To Bring This Matter To Your Attention And My
> Fervent Appeal To Respond To The Lists Of Complaints That I
> Have Lodged Listed Below: 1. Personally Met All Ex-Si Mr.
> Kiran
> Kumar, Sateesh Babu, Sp Sajjanar, Sp Shahnawaz, Collector
> Satyanarayana, Sridhar, Home Minister Jana Reddy On 5th And
> 6th June 2007-10 Placed Before Him All The Matters Relating
> To The Property & Sexual Dispute. Unfortunately, He
> Failed To Recognize The Crime Of Criminal Trespass Committed
> By All And Termed The Property Dispute Purely Civil In
> Nature And Passed On The Buck To Courts 2. Addressed A
> Petition Through Registered Post To Inspector Of Police,
> P.S. Warangal #4290/13/06/08 Acknowledgment Received Dated:
> 16/06/08 3. Rnr: 2008570519 With Gms@Ap.Gov.In Dated
> 25th July 2008 Addressed.
> –
> – The
> Thing Is That Already I Have Applied To Long Back In 2000
> But My Application Was Cancelled And Publicised And Gave
> Public Advt. To People For No Reason And Exploited Me By
> Ramdas – Ipo.Of Warangal For Their Fellow Friends Of Retd.
> Govt. And Govt. Employees Of Revenue Colony, Subedari,
> Warangal,Hanamkonda And Even Looted My Scholarship From
> Collectorate Office And My Atm Pin No. Was Also Advertised
> By The State Bank Of India And Icic Bank – M.D Made For
> Public Issue My Bank Account From 1999 From Saudi – Arabia
> Of Riyadh Branch Where My Dad Was There And Upto 2009 Till
> Date As If My Free Lancer Money Ngo Etc.And Helped And Still
> Helping Revenue Colony People Of Govt. And Non- Govt. Sector
> From 1989 To 2010 Till Date.
>
> These People Are Worst Than Any Guffoons,Osama, Silent
> Hamas, Silent Moosad Etc. In The Name Of Govt. Employees Or
> White Collared Jobs Etc. Here Even M.P. I.E. Member Of
> Parliament Is Charged With Acb I.E. Anti- Corruption Bureau
> In The Name Of Funds – Their Earlier History As Zp Or Zilla
> Parishad Chairman And Ceo’s Or Chief Executive Officers Are
> Charged With Acb’s I.E. Anti – Corruption Bureau As They Beg
> Money From Business Tycoons Of Hyderabad, Warangal Etc.,
> Apart From 40% Increase In Their Salaries So That Telangana
> Will Be There And Roshiah Or Andhra Chief Minister Will Be
> There Etc.As If Lottery Ticket Etc.
>
> These Revenue Colony
> People Of Govt. And Non-Govt.Sector Along With Their
> Children And Tenants As If Owners Pride Etc. From 1989-To
> Till Date Are Making Strike All Over India And The World
> Where We Go Or I Go For School, College, Company, Office,
> For Job Or For Study Or For Business Or For Hostel Either
> Govt. Or Private In Hyderabad, Delhi, Mumbai,Chandrapur,
> Ballarpur, Amarkantak In The Name Saint Sadhu Kalyanji Cbse
> Residential School Of Kalyani Ketan Etc. For Blue Film
> Consultant Naveen With Some Ordinary Home Tutor Faculties
> With Rs.50,000 Free Concession And Residence In Kalyani
> Ashram With Food For School Recruitment By Christian
> Teachers As Single Young Girl -Unmarried And Can’t Give
> Dowry Along With Andhra And Telangana Teacher By Eduteach
> Consultancy In New Nallakunta, Hyderabad And Collected Money
> That The Girl Has Come Give Me Some Lakhs At Anuppur Dist.
> Shahdol Earlier At Ashram As Line Mar , Chir Fad Even In
> Train By Following
> Whole
> Amarkantak And Left Me Alone And Whole Amarkantak People
> Shouting As Single South Indian Girl For Teacher Interview
> For Middle School Atleast Etc,, Bilaspur Jodhpur Of
> Mines Leadership Allotment Etc., Aurangabad Of Chota Rajan
> Bhai And Janata Dal Leader, Snatch My Salary From That
> Respective Companies M.D. And Staff And Govt.Offices
> And Banks Account, Scholarship By Giving Advt. In Public
> Either In Newspapers, Phones Or Emails Or Through
> Telepathy Etc. Or The Person Following Up And Locating The
> Locations Like Any Filmy Shootings Bookings Etc. And Even
> Torture By Companies And Collectorate Offices Dept. Staff
> And Chairman As Non – Payment Of Salary And Sexual
> Harrassment As Submit Yourself To The Andhra Pradesh Govt
> Sr.. Employees And Staff For Blue Film As Laanje And Andhra
> Pradesh Govt. Employees Of Revenue Colony And Julaiwada,
> Waddepally Etc.As They Are All Asking You For Blue Film And
> For Meat Hannabalism To Eat Ur Flesh In The Name Of
> Marriage
> And Conscience – As If Electric Detonator Of Arnold
> Schwarzneggar Game Though They Are Married And Settled With
> Homes With Wives And Grandchildren Etc. And Vice- Versa From
> High School Kid To Till Date Etc. The Matrimonials Matches
> Brought By Some Neighbours From Uk-Usa Photos And Local
> Marriage Bureaus Of Hyd- Kazipet- Warangal-Khammam-
> Mahboobabad- Mahbubnagr Etc.Shouting That Why We North
> Indians- Central Indians Etc, . Punjabi, Hindi, Bengali,
> Andhra, Marathi , Tamil, Kannada Assamese , Oriya Should
> Marry Her . How Come Even A Foreigner Marry Her Etc. Only
> Telangana Goud And Not Even Any Reddy, Kamma , Kapu, Vysas
> Or Velmas , Shala Etc. Should Marry Her And Striking It In
> Every Office, Ever Deccan Chronicle.Com , Hindu.Com ,
> Eenadu.Com, Andhra Jyoti.Com Interviews And Googlejobs.Com
> Interviews Etc. And In The Offices People Shout That Now U
> Are Around Middle Or Peak Age Of Marriage And We Will Not
> Employ U As U Will Leave After Marriage And What
> Will Happen Of Our Office- Work Etc. And Advt. Cost
> Etc.The Revenue Colony Govt. And Retd. Govt. And Non-Govt.
> Employees Of Retd. Govt Telugu Medium School Males Teachers,
> Eenanadu Chairman , Agricultural Director And Officers, Bank
> Managers And Employees, Etv Males , Retd. And
> Govt.Irrigation And Electricity Etc.Dept.Males
> Gathered Those Marriage Bureau People And Marriage Referees
> Or Uncles, Aunties As A Neighbour Teller Or Known People And
> Shouting And Gambled Walk From Different Areas Of Subedari
> Like Waddepally, Julaiwada, Adalat , Kazipet Etc.
> Etc.And Shouting That That Uk-Usa- Software Engineer Grooms
> Are Ours- Mine And That Girl Is Mine Forever Even After Our
> Death Though We Have Families And Grandchildren Etc. And
> Made Strike And Notice And Even Marriage Bureaus Union All
> Over India Advt. All The Details Grandly From 1999 To Till
> Date And Her Bed And First Night And Dna For Child Is Our As
> Gang Rape Of Andhra Pradese Revenue Colony Union
> Govt. Retd And Non Retd. Employees Etc. How Can She Marry
> And How Can Her Parents See Her Match And How Can Any
> Revenue Colony Person Help Her For Job And Marriage Etc. Her
> Flesh Is Ours Etc. Forever. Let Me See Who Will Come To Save
> Her And Family For Rape And Murder In The Name Of
> Marriage, Molestation Etc. We Killed Our Children And Wives
> And Others As Naxals Govt. Employees Worst Than Aus Terror.
> What Is This Girl And Family To Us Etc?
>
> These Revenue Colony Govt.
> Employees And Non Govt. Employees Both Male And Female Shout
> That These People Have Roamed Whole India And Came. Now Let
> Them Run Where They Want To Run And How Far Etc. Most Of Our
> Children Are In Uk- Usa – Aus Etc. But No Complains So Far
> Etc. And All Over India Etc. But For This Family And Girl We
> Don’t Want To Leave Them At All Even After Osama Bin Laden’s
> Dominance Of 1000 Yrs. Reign And Uk-Usa-India Etc.
> Parliament Rule Of Every 5 Yrs. – One Show -One Good Show
> And One Bad Show Of Osama Only 8 Times Rule In Next 40
> Yrs. And That Too Many Bye Elections And Osama Don’t
> Interfere And No One Should Be Blamed As Osama ‘S Khal And
> Govt. M.P Post Or Tactics Etc. And Tell That We Already Have
> Spread Petrol Or Blood Gene All Over Routes Map Of
> Hyderabad, Warangal, India, Mumbai, Delhi Etc. Worst Than Or
> Not Even That Bloody Fool Osama Bin Laden As If Spread
> Nuclear Powder All Over Nations And Waiting For Even A
> After
> Death Deal
> Of Skeleton And Spirit Rule On People Has That Idea And Run
> How Far U Want To Run By Selling Plot Or House Or Change
> House As A Tenant And Go And That Too From Bank Manager’s
> House.Now To Lit As A Cigar Blow For Blue Film , Match
> Stick, Cooking Cylinder Or Etc. As Kitchen And Vegetable
> Market, Bakery Is Ours Etc. And Cooking Food For Us And Ours
> Etc., From Hyderabad To Warangal High Way Upto Warangal -
> Labour Colony Is No Second Or Minute To Us Etc.
>
> Pl. See That All This Should
> Not Happen Again In The Name Of Naicker Or Nikker Community
> Typing Mistake In 2002 For Blue Film Naked Running By All
> These Andhra Pradesh Govt. Employees On Roads In Nights
> Mostly At Hyderabad Highway Etc. Due To Typewriter Keys Hard
> And No Time And Power Cut Chase As Petrol Or Nuclear Powder
> Chase Or Gelatin Chase . Told The World But Outraging For
> Everytime And Ruining My Business, Moneyand Life And
> Marriage And All Colony People Shout To Throw Me On The
> Roads And Have Fun By Indian Govt. Employers And Govt. To
> Throw On Road.
>
> Thanking You Sir / Ma’m,
>
>
>
>
> Yours faithfully,
>
>
>
> Miss RajiniT.
>
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> world terrorists like osama bin laden, maoists,hamas of india and the west asia
etc.
>
>
Please Pray for me and my family:
DEAR SIR /MA’M,
Sub:would like to live in synthesis of lordjesus,lordallah,lordkrishnasuper consciousness and requesting as UN spiritual and political leader-socio leader consciousness-economic consciousness leader-religious consciousness leader-educationalconscioussness leader-home-family –job-office-business leader etc. biography in the world to beat other biographies in the world.etc.
I WOULD LIKE TO RECEIVE THE JOURNAL OR SUBSCRIPTION ON THE ABOVE SUBJECT AND TRAINING. AS SINUS -SUPERCONSCIOUS WAR CONTRACT BY THE INDIAN GOVT.AND POLITICAL PARTIES SPEECHES GOVT.AND UN, USA-UK-BBC.CO.UK UPTO MORE 100 YRS.
HARE KRISHNA,Mukunda.Madhava.BSDS@pamho.net,
HARE KRISHNA,Mukunda.Madhava.BSDS@pamho.net PRABHUJI,
This is Miss Rajini Rao Tupakula or Tuppalwar given by Nagpur University surname due to migration from hyderabad, andhra pradesh to maharashtra.in 1996-98 for B.Sc Microbiology graduation and boycotted as ambedkar and ekalavya student etc. without informing to women’ commission nor student federation of india etc. and did their own manmanis or rajya or tendencies etc.
I am basically a Hindu and our country doesn’t give caste certificate for Hindus to prove their religion and caste as for christians and muslims priests they give nor even you give any certificate of ISKON or hindu god or Sanskrit language preacher of god nor any healing prayers every week and mid weeks and onlive tv shows you broadcasted or you will broadcast in future as saints healing services by hundreds and thousands of hindu saints world wide etc.
I belong to BC-B community of Andhra Pradesh, Warangal, caste Goud. And birth place Warangal- 160 kms. From Hyderabad.
I don’t think so any wrong thing I have done by putting the Christian God’s name which is freely services and books available and more easy to understand English language as it made the priority of life and job and means of living, spirit and everything etc.
I didn’t convert into any religion and even if so, u can convert them into Hindu if any procedure is there like minorities govt. system etc.
I am believer of God. All gods are one. All religions of different gods sentiments and rules are same i.e truth and honesty and justifiable life like United Nations HQ Human Rights Policies and different religions are like different constitutions of the world inheriting from the UN policies etc.
I have read Bible, I have read Quran, I have done meditation from 1985 to 1989-90 and yoga and aerobics but didn’t get any result. I have read and watched tv serials Mahabharata, Ramayana as even school subjects and comics, lord Krishna –radha etc.and sundarakanda, aratis, lord shiva –parvathi-son lord ganapathi or ganesha etc, lord hanuman ji’s chalisa – taking 11 to some 208 rounds for marriage, strength and power of lord ram etc., and some mantras, gayatri mantra, savitri devi, santoshi mata ji, kali devi, durga devi books and prayers etc., lakshmi devi, etc. many gods and goddesses etc.
But still it’s hard to understand god and spirit and consciousness and living in and with god and serving god and humanity than a mba or ph.d from any university etc. That’s why I visit to temples, churches, mosques or darga and meet priests and babas etc. to make to understand the things and get peace of mind-body-heart- family,home, job, govts. Etc.
To understand my self the sense of self realization status from 2007 to till date how much god % I have received and will be able to reach god or not or what is soul or what is heart etc. where and how etc. but I didn’t find answer from anybody.
So, I requested prabhuji at Warangal ISKON for gurudeeksha and here at Juhu ISKON-Haradas Prabhu ji to understand the soul-sinus-census –krisha’s world etc. either metaphysical living or what kind of senses etc. and purchased chant and be happy book, beginners guide , bhagvadgita in English, self realization, Synthesis of Conscioussness, Sinus, Science , Religion,Spirituality,Samya etc.
I have registered is Iskcon website as srikrishnadisciplerajini@iskcon.com after getting some belief and route or way of God.
In all those years simply roaming as a piligrimist or a tourist of god temples of hindus, churches, dargas, babas, kalidevi etc. didn’t achieve anything or don’t understand anything.
I have started chanting from mid of January’2010 Hare Krishna’s name .I am pure vegetarian and my family takes egg or non 2or 6 times in a year or 56 years etc. I don’t even take tea from childhood.Everyday we meet all kinds of religions people, and stay as even neighbourhoods also so what’s wrong in using other religions name of god as it is a sovereign-secular –egalitarian state of the govt. and why are u so peculiar and obnoxious and whimsical to it.
I have given the petition that we wanted one grievance committee to report the things and for changes as if u taste bitter , then u say it is bitter, if u taste sweet, u say it is sweet etc.i.e. one hand is osama bin laden and one hand is George bush or rest of the world govts. Etc. without sweet we don’t know bitter, without bitter we don’t know sweet etc.
From where should I bring Hindu Certificate? Indian govt. and UN doesn’t give Hindu certificate anywhere govts. In the world? No other religion will go for arrange marriage for a Hindu, some exceptional etc.
I started chanting “Hare Krishna, Hare Krishna, Krishna, Krishna, Hare, Hare, Hare Rama, Hare Rama,Rama, Rama, Hare Hare.” from 108 times to 16 times in the morning, 16 rounds in the afternoon, 16 rounds in the evening within 3-4 hrs. etc.and feel nice and better now. And keep chandan ki tika and wore tusi mala around neck 3 rounds and maintain the ISKON formalities etc.as told by GourDas Prabhuji of ISKCON Warangal, and Hara Das Prabhuji of Congregation Committee and other prabhujis etc.
And don’t eat onions, garlic nor drink tea and don’t have the habit of smoking and don’t bear even passive smoking of the public in busstops , restaurants etc. nor drinking habits.and not non-veg.etc.
I have requested Haradas Prabhuji for a Marriage Bureau to open, so that we will not be disturbed by the dirty outside world activities as u all know and without any family disturbances from any part of the ISKCON COMMUNITY OF THE WORLD and the new generation will also be more and will be a better one and don’t need to struggle hardly for peace, for spirit of God etc.like that of Srila Prabhupada’s generation’s time of the world population and like us so that enough co-operation will developed with the same motives in the world etc. I have worked in Delhi,Mumbai, Hyderabad, Warangal as Hr admin, recruiter, mktg. exec, school teacher, lecturer in college , computer lab instructor etc. some paid me some didn’t pay me and most of the salary non-payment and sinus census ragging of Conscioussness Life Contract Sinus WarContact job as IIIrd world war or sinus synthesis nuclear spiritual war of world govts._world bbc.co.uk and local press etc., residence, colony, home, hostel of govts, and private hostel was made to sign in each and every dept. and even I will sign for ISKCON also because God is there for everything in the world as everyonesays etc.of every school,college,company, call centres, MNC’s are with Labour Commissioner of Hyderabad, DEO-Warangal,Mumbai,Delhi etc. and send them to Home Minister to S.I. or Sub-Inspector of Police of respective Localities in the cities etc. and to speakers of all legislative assemblies of the India govt. speaker of Lok Sabha, rajya sabha etc. of UK-USA_EU etc.president ,prime-ministers’s cabinets of the world govts. Etc.
I will send u my matrimonial data also. If I wanted I can make another ID with a Hindu name , but name is a name either common man’s name or and god’s religion name, I don’t mind and no one raised any eyebrows for just nth. Etc.
Fine I will try to keep a hindu god’s as a disciple name if u feel very hard to communicate to me with this name. I have opened this email id longback so just simply I have continued with it.
Somehow I am sorry for troubling it.
Somehow George Harrisson Prabhuji of beatles came forward to preach SriKrishna and listened to Srila Prabhupada. USA_UK_EU-china is Christianity world. When East to West and South some parts of the world came forward to accept Hinduism without any certificate of religion to prove themselves for god or gurudeeksha then why are u suspecting me so much from being an Indian hindu for and hindu.If business magnets of east and west wouldn’t have come forward with material support as bhiksha or ngo support for god or donations etc. we wouldn’t have known Hinduism and only Christians and muslims would have ruled and they both would have fought for their powers etc. and one cannot sit under earthquakes, floods, rains, winds, loo or sun strokes heat sun , cool winters, rooms without a.c., electronic media like t.v., radio, photographs, tables, desks drainage system of west etc. do meditation and can concentrate on god and achieve the soul of god as moksha or liberation from the world etc. u know all these very well. Why did u outrage me like this? Everyone even a nursery class or primary class students of east and west and some south know very well and we need to learn from them about world political leaders, religious leaders of the world etc.as broadcasted in t.v. , radio world wide etc.
Pl. give me ur mobile no. so that I will take ur appointment and will meet u.
DEAR SIR /MA’M,
sub: would like to live in synthesis of lordjesus,lordallah,lordkrishnasuper conscioussness journal,newsletter,live tv and radio news – reg.
I WOULD LIKE TO RECEIVE THE JOURNAL OR SUBSCRIPTION ON THE ABOVE SUBJECT AND TRAINING. AS SINUS -SUPERCONSCIOUS WAR CONTRACT BY THE INDIAN GOVT.AND POLITICAL PARTIES SPEECHES GOVT.AND UN, USA-UK-BBC.CO.UK UPTO MORE 100 YRS.was forcely signed and made to live as forced sinus superconscious torture booked by the indian govt. and looking for sinus superconscious refugee in any part of the world govts. petitioned to the united nations through uk-usa govt. cabinets and world bbc press but no response and result and still waiting for torturous reply from the world govts. and world press worst than jihad of osama bin laden’s synthesis of murder sinus census of the world superconscioussness 24 hrs. live contract life living as abugraib prison torturous suffering living and murder of synthesis of science – conscioussness and spirituality III world War signed contract by the indian cabinet ministeries for more upto 100 yrs life time worst than non-proliferation treaty or nuclear missile -on live murders of blood races of sinus of andhra pradesh govt.employees retired and non-retired bills and treaty passed by united nations too and by all etc.
LOOKING FOR ANY 1ST AND 2ND MARRIAGE PEOPLE WHO ARE WELL
> SETTLED. PEOPLE WHO ARE DIVORCED LEGALLY AND WITHOUT
> CHILDREN OR EXCEPTIONALLY MAY BE WITHOUT MY BURDEN.
> LOOKING FOR ANY HYDERABAD, BANGALORE, US-UK AND NOT
> AUSTRALIA PR OR PERMANENT RESIDENT WHO IS WELL SETTLED AND
> WILL NOT BE DEPENDENT ON MY JOB AS MY JOBS ARE IN TURMOIL
> ALWAYS AND SALARY ALSO AS GOVT. DEMANDS ETC.,AND NOT TOO
> DARK LIKE AN AFRICAN BLACK IF YOU ALL DON’T MIND SO. BECAUSE
> PEOPLE ARE AND HAVE REJECTED ME THOUGH I AM NOT AFRICAN
> BLACK AND IF MY CHILDREN WILL BORN BLACK, WHO WILL MARRY
> THEM? WHO WILL ADMIT THEM IN SCHOOL, COLLEGE OR DO
> FRIENDSHIP OR GIVE JOBS OR MAKE TO STAY BESIDE THEIR FLATS
> OR HOMES ETC? and DOING RACIAL DISCRIMINATION AS BLACK AND WHITE AND AS BEING BLACK SO SHOWING ONLY BLACK AFRICAN MATCHES FOR AS IF AFRICAN BLACK GIRL ETC. I BUY GUY , WHEN I OR U BUY THINGS WE CHOICE FOR OURSELVES AND NOT OTHERS AS WE ARE OWNERS OF OUR MONEY ETC. SO WHAT THE THING IS HAPPENING IS HYDERABAD-WARANGAL-MUMBAI-DELHI-INTERNET-MARRIAGE BUREAUS THAT THEY ARE MAKING PROPAGANDA OF SCR I.E. SOUTH CENTRAL RAILWAY’S FOREMAN WORKER HAS GIVEN HER BROTHER RS. 10 LAKHS AS IF 10 CRORES AND WE HAVE ALREADY TAKEN COMMISSION FOR 10 LAKHS ENGG. GUYS COST ETC. AS HER FATHER IS REJECTING TO PAY RS.10LAKHS, OR 5 LAKHS OR EVEN 1-2 LAKHS AND MARRIAGE BUREAU CONSULTANT CHARGES ETC. BUT PAID AROUND RS.2-5 THOUSAND FOR 2-5 MARRIAGE BUREAUS BUT DOING GAMBLING BY MARRIAGE BUREAU UNIONS OF ALL STATES GOVT.S OF INDIA AS HINDI SPEAKING GIRL BUT TELUGU SO HIKE MORE MONEY FOR HINDI ETC.THAT AND SHOW THAT GIRL LABOURERS-LIKE CARPENTERS, ELECTRICIANS, MASONS ETC. UNEDUCATED PEOPLE OR CANDIDATES FOR RS.1-RS.5 LAKHS. AND FOR RS. 10 LAKHS SHOW MCA, DOCTOR-ENGR -BUT BLACK PEOPLE OR BLACK CANDIDATES ETC. AND NOT NRI’S. AND ALREADY FIT THAT DOCTOR NEVER MARRIES OTHER PROFESSIONS EXCEPT VERY RARE ETC.ENGR. FOR ENGR. LET HER STARVE TO DEATH ETC. FIRST TAKE DOWRY OF RS.1-5 LAKHS AND THEN HARRASS THE GIRL AND TAKE RS.10-20 LAKHS AND AS AN MBA SHE WILL EARN FOR U ETC. AND RAPE AND KILL AND DO PROSITUTION ETC. AND BLAME HER AS NON PAYMENT OF MARRIAGE BUREAUS INCENTIVES ETC. BY THE CANDIDATES ALL OVER INDIA AND FAMILY AND WHEREEVER I HAVE BEEN AND ALREADY LISTED THEIR NAMES ALSO ETC.AND MUCH MORE EXPERIMENTS ARE ALSO THERE ETC.
> NOW SIR, WHENEVER YOU WILL COME TO WARANGAL, PL. DO CALL
> US. WE WILL INVITE YOU. SO FAR MANY MATCHES, MANY HYDERABAD
> MATRIMONIALS HAVE SEEN MATCH BUT GOT REJECTED DUE TO MANY
> REASONS AND HENCE MY PARENTS ARE GETTING ANGRY AND NOT
> BELIEVING EVEN PUJARIS OR PANDITS AND FORCING ME TO STAY
> ALONE IN LIFE ETC. BUT I REQUEST U EARNESTLY KINDLY SEE THE
> MATCH FOR ME AND AFTER SETTLING I WILL SURELY PAY YOUR
> CONSULTANCY CHARGES RS.1000 OR RS.500/- AND WHOLE % OF AMT.
> AFTER FIXING DOWRY ETC.
From: Mukunda Madhava (das) BSDS (Juhu, Mumbai – IN)
Subject: Hare Krishna!
To: jesusdisciplerajini@yahoo.com
Date: Sunday, February 21, 2010, 2:55 PM
To
Rajini Rao Tuppalwar
Hare Krishna!
I just noticed in your email id “Jesus Disciple”. Our matrimonial is meant
for practicing devotees of ISKCON. Kindly clarify your spiritual practice.
Yours in the service of Lord Shri Krishna,
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Dude, he said 26yr old and 53 year old. You still might consider that sick, but as long as they’re going in with their eyes open, there is nothing wrong with it in my opinion.
Can’t believe I am posting here but thought it would be fun to search on this topic.
I look much younger than my age, maybe it’s cause I am very free and happy in my life with endless interests and passions. I’m very secure financially and don’t work much for money at least. I am starting over in my work as a photographer and doing amazing work.
I had hoped she was older…she thought I was much younger…Finally when she kept guessing my age wrong, I grimaced and handed her my driver’s license…it was a painful moment…ouch…her parents are 44 and 46!
But she didn’t have a problem with it and we are starting a realtionship. I have two kids one graduating college and the other starting..so plenty of time and space for a new partner.
Who knows if this can work? I know all the dangers..But I like to think I am not young for my age but most people are old for theirs. I blast loud music, drive fast cars, love the good life and have my head on straight.
I’m in for a ride, that’s for sure…
But ready…
How can we be so critical for people who love one another? Why are we such hypocrites? It is OK to watch “girl next door” when barely alive, looking like a corpse 85 year old Hugh Hefner sleeps with 20-year-old “models”, but it’s sooooooo wrong when 16 year old falls in love with a nice 56-year-old men. Do not try to explain. What’s sauce for the goose is a sauce for the gender. We live in a confused society that changes laws as it wishes. Legal age of marriage is 16? Where did you get that? We have at least 5 states when 14 year old can marry and one state where nobody will ask!!!I am 57 and never in my life would I be interested in a woman my age.NEVER. They are simply unable to comunicate with men.Oprah and others did their job.Did you check any ststistics lately? About women in their 30-40 being ALONE? Millions of them.I wonder why?Do you? Just get any classified sections and read.These cougars want prince charming with tons of money and 12″ p____s.Simply ridiculaous.Do young girls want that? No! They look for real romantic love and a man that they can rely on. GUys in their age are mostly masturbating morons who can only think of grabbing, not love. Who has ever come up with those rules that if 57 year old lives and marries 18 he is a sicko and should be sentenced to death and so on… No, I am not married to a teen, but I have a wonderful friendship with one. JUST FRIENDSHIP. She has put more love, care and smile into my life in a few years, than my two exs did for years. She is smart, witty, funny has a wonderful sense of humor and she CARES!!!!! Here is a code word! I would marry her in a second if she ever wanted…. and YES I would give her a life of love and adore her – always. Why 50-year-old cougars on TV can sleep with 18-year-old boys, but 50-year-old men are just old people? I was told many times that man of this age look elegant and act nice. Let’s just get real. Love – THE REAL LOVE should have no limits…. so all of you hypocrites stop watching these “cougar” shows and be true to what you write here.
From my personal experience golddiggers are a character trait that is not related to age. I am now soon 56 and have never been with women my age the last 20 years.
The reason being those my own age are after status and social standing which interprets to money.
It is refreshing to be with a woman because of your person and not your wallet so my rule of life is to stay clear of goddiggers no matter age.
The strongest instrument in deciding is to listen carefully to which of my two heads she flirts with.
Honestly,
You do not need approval from anonymous people on the internet. YOU KNOW YOURSELF, YOUR PARTNER, YOUR RELATIONSHIP. In other words, in your gut, beneath all the bullshit and beneath any of the “surface” feelings, you KNOW if your relationship is genuine and real. You don’t need to defend yourself to these people (most of which obviously don’t understand how beautiful a genuine relationship can be). The people that come on here putting down everyone elses’ choices are obviously insecure or unhappy for some reason. Just because one persons’ “Age-gap” relationship failed does not mean all are doomed. There are so many factors that play into each person’s life and each couple has their own unique relationships.
As far as anyone is concerned, this article should not have anything to do with these comments because what is really upsetting here is what it shows about the human condition and the way people treat each other. We’re the same species, therefore we should be supporting each other. If we have genuine real advice to give, it should be delivered in a rational and sincere way- not in a way that is just flat out insulting.
People don’t realize that one stupid thoughtless comment can make another person label and question their entire relationship. If any of you want relationship advice or need someone to talk to, talk to a close friend or family member or even a therapist- whatever you prefer. But the LAST THING you should do is take anything any of these people say seriously.
Age gaps have their obvious consequences and also their benefits. It is the responsibility for each person and each couple to think and discuss these issues. There is no one “Standard” age-gap relationship set of rules just like there is not one set of rules for same-age couples.
To the people that are in a beautiful relationship and want to take a stand against the ignorance on this page- STOP. stop trying to prove any point and stop battling the ignorance- because you won’t win. The reason you won’t win is because these people have nothing to lose and nothing to be afraid of- they are an invisible face behind the words they type and therefore they will never feel the need to stop.
More power to the beautiful people and the everlasting and beautiful relationships out there. And for those of you who re-evaluate yourself and your relationship and decide it isn’t for you- more power to you as well. Everything in life is a growing experience and enriches us in some way.
-R
AMEN! that MAN is SICK & needs to be LOCKED UP!
Ok, I’m 18 and I’ve been in a relationship with a 54 year old gentleman for the past year now. He’s not rich and he doesn’t have a bunch of cars. But he’s down to earth, he’s got a wonderful mind, and he’s the sweetest person I have ever met. I mean think about it, why wouldn’t a young girl want an older man? Have you met 18 year old boys? (No offense to the younger men, but MOST, not all, aren’t what one would call the brightest bulb in the bunch.) For me its not the hope of being taken care of, as I support myself and I pay for my own college, but its about coming home to someone who you can talk to on an equal level with out dumbing yourself down.
Plus I think grey hair is a turn on.
Btw once your over 16 in most of the world its not an issue of legality. And if you’ve got a problem with it morally, look the other way. I’ll be strolling down the streets with my mans hand held in mine, and no one can change the way I feel about him.
Hello! fgedkcb interesting fgedkcb site!
I’m 23 and my husband is 32. In my family it’s fairly common that older men marry younger women, with the exception of my parents where my mother is 4 years older then my dad (there was money involved).
I had respect for men growing up so I waited until I was 18 to date older men. The oldest guy I dated was 35 when I just turned 19. Then I dated a guy my age and met my husband right after I turned 20, we got married when I was 21 and we had our first child on Jan 1st of 2009. (We moved up the wedding date because we found out I was pregnant while the wedding was months away.) We’re currently TTC baby number 2.
Dating men my age or within a couple years older then me was very different from dating the older men. I was more attracted to the older men I dated, the older men were more ready for a serious relationship then the younger ones were. Of course I am more traditional, at 19/20 I wanted to settled down, when I met my husband he was just ready to settle down at 29/30. My “fun” single days were short but I just wasn’t the type who enjoyed partying much.
My husband and I are both Heathens, our faith does have a effect on how we live and grow our family. We practice tribalism and this means that we prefer to live close or with others like us and we all pitch in to help each other, especially with raising our children. I and another girl both have children, both of us are young and our men are at least 6 plus years older.
It’s always interesting when we all go out on family dates, We live in south FL so we have a fairly large senior and middle aged population since many people here don’t have more then 2 children we get some strange looks when we all go out. The other day when me and my friend went out with our children we were told that we “needed to slow down (having kids) by someone working at the store we were shopping at.
It’s so weird how people used to have a lot of kids 2 or more generations ago and now it’s some kind of taboo for young women to be in stable marriages with children and a desire to have a large family. My husband has been accused of “brainwashing me” because people cannot understand why someone my age would rather have a family then staying single. It’s kind of sad this is the norm of society.
I think older men with younger women is natural and it’s about not only security but stability. Women crave those things instinctualy and lots of younger men today are at a disadvantage for younger women because women usually don’t see them as stable or secure emotionally or financially in general, there’s always exceptions, my mom married my younger father because he was a good provider.
Though younger men are being sought after by older women today but that isn’t very good for society reproductively speaking since those women are nearing or past their fertile age but sometimes have already had children. My aunt is 50 and after her divorce she started dating a 30 something yr old guy, she can no longer have any children and supposedly he’s ok with that and doesn’t want to have any kids himself.
Now I’m just ranting. Anyway that’s all I have to say about that.
Do we have any younger men in the vicinity?
It would be fun to see their perspective on the issues raised!
Hotblooded again!
Do we have any younger men in the vicinity?
It would be fun to see their perspective on the issues raised!
Hotblooded again!
YOU ARE SOOO RIGHT!! I AM 28 YEARS OLD WITH A 51 ONE YEAR OLD MAN AND HE KNOWS HOW TO TREAT ME! IT’S NOT A MONEY ISSUE BECAUSE HE IS JUST TRYING TO GET ON HIS FEET. I LOVE HIM TO DEATH AND THE PART ABOUT YOUNGER MEN HAVE NO IDEA IS HITTING THE NAIL RITE ON THE HEAD. THEY DON’T KNOW AND IT’S A SHAME! I WAS BROUGHT UP OLD SCHOOL AND MOST OF THE MEN OUT HERE JUST WANNA CLUB AND DRINK. A WOMAN WANT MORE THAN THAT IN LIFE.
I disagree with what you are saying here…
So,if an age gap is greater than 15years you will presume the female is after your money?….Oh, and not forgetting the 5 minute wonder!
Do correct me if I am wrong or please be a little more clearer with your writing.
If I’m not wrong, then read on.
If I may…
* Do you think that is a rather arrogant outlook on life you
have there?
* Have you ever heard of falling in love?
* By any chance are you a single man?
Who is to say that an older man is not looking for a maid/care assistant for him in his greater years? For example – someone more able to change his adult diaper!
Personally speaking I prefer the older man. I have found them extremely charming and courteous.
Hot Blooded Woman
that if the age gap is under 15 years. Then it’s okay. Because if the gap is in it’s 20′s or 30′s then we know it’s for money, and just for someone to take care of you. I’m in my 50′s and sex is only 5 minutes at a time. Just tell the truth you want us for our money not the sex. We’d be okay with that.
Yes!
Yes!
Yes!
Don’t stop, we love you to bits,lol!
If there’s any older men who fancy chasing a hot blooded 40 year old, give me a shout!
“cheers to all those old guys who can still make younger ladies like me fall head over heels”
I’ll drink to that, cheers, hic
Good Luck in life
You gotta hand it to these older men, they know how to charm the women and treat them right. The younger men just have no idea. They think the G Spot is something of a car accessory!!!!
Yes, the older men can be more mature. My husband was 7.5yrs older than me. The father of my children is 8yrs older than i am. They are the two best relationships any person could ask for in a lifetime! I want somene my age, w/in 3-5 yrs either direction, now. I am a beautiful,fit,single, mother, of 2 beautiful girls (3 &5)as of March, 2010. I really want to grow old with a person who is as young and athletic as i am. if i find this person before i am 38, I would love considering the idea of one more baby. I feel it completes a connection. I love being pregnant and experiencing the miracle of life!
i can see most of the comments here are very one sided..
before u comment on anything please put urself first in other’s shoe and walk a mile..i am 24 and he is 56 and i dont feel embarass goin out with him, he treats me like a princess and loves me more than my young stupid ex’s. he thinks more mature and has a greater perspective in life. it isnt all about the money guys or the limp pen*s that u talk about. people grow up! life isnt all about that..u can fall inlove with anyone u want to and age or looks wont matter. catherine zeta jones married michael douglas and how about jack nicholson who are dating younger models?
cheers to all those old guys who can still make younger ladies like me fall head over heels!
treating people as if they were a pack of animals.. i guess this is the flaw of seeing human society from purely anthropological point of view.
the main question is ‘why don’t women die when they have menopause?’ are you even serious??? i can’t believe you guys got a grant from US government to conduct this research… what a waste of time.
go met religious people helps you a lot.miracles comes lighten your way child.i pray to you.
Well said
I am so happy again… me and him are back together (me the 16 year old girl and him the 53 year old man) I am back to being happy again, my life is perfect and as that person said,the sex is BRILLIANT and he is fitter then me too!!! He does a lot more then me, he is always on the go and never stops!!!!!! i love him so much and we are already decorating the living room ready for me to move in!!! …. just have to tell my Mum first, which will be tricky :-/….
Any one got any ideas or experience on how to tell my Mum??????
((( i have no dad so he doesn’t matter )))
AMEN!!! To that… I completely agree with you. I guess these people that are replying to the 16 yr girl with a 51 yr old man must be 15 or 16 themselves. And obviously have never been with an older man. I am 15 years younger than my husband of 12 years. He is 52 years young. And let me tell those people that says a man after 50 has a limp p___s is sooooo wrong. My husband gives me the best sex, he is in tune with my body, he knows exactly where and when to touch my body in just the right spots. Even after 12 years of marriage we still have GREAT sex several times a week and each time is better and better. It seems the older he gets the better he gets. He is also a very active man. I sometimes have a hard time keeping up with him. So to all those negative people out there that has nooo idea what they are talking about. Until you have been there you need to do some research before you give advice on something you know nothing about…And also, just remember, you will NOT always be young. One day you will be 50, 51, 52 and then what? Your going to think back on what you said. Your going to look around at all the pretty young girls and boys and wonder if they are looking at you as a OLD Shriveled up lifeless PE__IS….
Why wouldn’t it be a good thing
The fact is that research now shows that just as women’s eggs age, so does a man’s sperm and he contributes to birth defects as he ages. This hypothetical conclusion is extremely flawed. Males have dominated society for thousands of years and in so doing have had their leisure at sexual adventure outside functional boundaries. If the gender roles were reversed, women would find some way to justify their unhealthy “dirty old women” sexual appetites by sleeping with those who could be their children. Females are turned off by those too immature and those who are old and wrinkly for good reason. Their genes want to be placed with those equal to them in age.
Do you really think he is not bobbing another gal during those months when you don’t see each other.
Some females are born with the natural desire for an older man….sucks to be you.
You may be wise to keep this relationship free from sensual desire for a while.
If the girl still likes you and enjoy your company she will still be there!
I would also make this clear to her so you both understand the situation.
Good Luck
When money become so important in society that true love exist no more!!! Sad. Rich men use their money for lust while young girls use their looks for greed. What’s next?
its also the other way around. The old men use the young women to really enjoy the time they have left, if you know what I mean. Seriously, if you’re old and rich, making savvy financial decisions is the last thing on your mind. And for good reason: you can’t take it with you.
kinda nasty, old men with old women.
if you love her grow old together
hi,,,,,,,,,,,
” i cant under stand that i 49 years young. my girl friend trout i was in my 30s when we met. i can see us getting marred with in the next year we have been talking about it.”
Ok, there’s the money right there – you get married, she gets half of the money. So she’s putting up with your 49 years so that she can have a better life. She’s not attracted to you in a real way. It’s just a smart business decision. Better than working a hard job, or being a prostitute with many men.
Just one old guy instead.
You old perverts say that you didn’t give the girl any money.
Yep, you did. Even if it wasn’t cash handed over, you paid for the house, the car, the dinner, and gifts. You talk of marriage, maybe you will die and she will get everything that you have.
Just because you haven’t paid her today, doesn’t mean that she isn’t putting up with you for the potential money.
Some females don’t want to have to work, so they use their good looks to try to set up their life. Sometimes it takes a while.
It works, because the old guys are too blind to see it! They are easily fooled, ? Why? They see their body in the mirror. They see the tired eyes and wrinkles and gray hair. Why don’t they understand that they are being used?
It’s not rocket science. You old perverts are not attracted to people your age, so why are you so foolish to believe that a young person would be? You don’t like old, and neither do young people!
You are just buying a prostitute and will never get to be actually loved!
You sound upset. But why are you upset? He should be the one he will be upset because he is the one he needs a woman but he can’t find any woman so that way he has to sleep with you. Because these old men are not worth. But you should n’t upset because he the one need a women right now because he is runing out of time. soon he will ne retired from his job with out a women in his life.
Then it will be soon to go to nursing home because single men are more depressed and comfused. so he might have dementia by now since he is been single for years. If he was living with you that wasn’t real because you guys don’t much to be together. It was look like like a father and doughter.
At what age were you when he took your virginity? Because you are still too young to sleep with a man who has ugly and limp p—s. Which is hard to break the virginity with out strong and firm p—s the young guys have.
If you were going to be with him, you were the one going to take care of him but he knew you will never take care of him that way he has to leave you, if he left you. Other wise who is better. You are better with look, your body, your energy, your sound and so on with every thing you are better than him. That way he was runing and went back with his exwife to have sex with. The ex wife is old like him so she doesn’t have to complain about the sex. Because she might not have any one. Because she might be ugly and that why she has to keep sleep with him. If she was prettey she would n’t sleep with him when she knew she has a 16 years old girl.
SO DON’T GET UP SET HE HAS TO GET UP SET.
OLD MAN IS ALWAYS OLD MAN DON’T FORGET THAT FOR THE FUTURE.
I hope this help.
A man after 50 years old is keep changing his look fast. Their eye become smaller they need eye glass, their lips become thinner and thinner. whichi is their P—- becacme smaller as well. what kind of sex is going to have with a man above 50 and a girl is 16 years old.
These old man they don’t have a life, they are lonely. The women their age don’t want to them that is why they have to go for younger girl because they know young girl doesn’t have money so they may be go for money other wise why do old men has to sleep with younger women specially who is 16. Because these old men they don’t have any one who will be with them except if they have money.
When the girl becaome older a year like if she was 16 then become 17, by the time she become a little mature each year she will be mature. That is the time when she will know the man was too old for her even though she didn’t relize at first when she start sleeping with him. That is the time when she will look for some one younger than him wich is much younger than the old man. Then it will be time to leave the old man.
It shows if the man is too old for her even from his attitude, and his nurvousness and his fear. his word they way he talk.
well you must be a dumb ass not all younger woman are out for a older mans money. i know i been seeing a younger woman for a year now she 25 im 49 she never ask me for money. if you think all men are limp i think my girl friend wold have something to say about that we have great sex. not all older men are ugly. age don’t matter some think it dose. its funny how some people think. if age were such a factor then my mother wold not marred a man 20 years younger than her she was 45 he was 25 were together close to 30 years before he died yes he died first she is still alive. i guess if you think your old you will be old sooner . people in there 40 and 50 tell me there so old i cant under stand that i 49 years young. my girl friend trout i was in my 30s when we met. i can see us getting marred with in the next year we have been talking about it.
well you must be a dumb ass not all younger woman are out for a older mans money. i know i been seeing a younger woman for a year now she 25 im 49 she never ask me for money. if you think all men are limp i think my girl friend wold have something to say about that we have great sex. not all older men are ugly. age don’t matter some think it dose. its funny how some people think. if age were such a factor then my mother wold not marred a man 20 years younger than her she was 45 he was 25 were together close to 30 years before he died yes he died first she is still alive. i guess if you think your old you will be old sooner . people in there 40 and 50 tell me there so old i cant under stand that i 49 years young. my girl friend trout i was in my 30s when we met. i can see us getting marred with in the next year we have been talking about it.
ear young girl:
Please report this old pervert man. You were not old enough to consent to the sex, so he actually raped you.
That’s right, legally he could not have sex with you, even if you said OK at the time.
Please call the police, child protection services, ask your guardian to press charges against him.
Hopefully you know his full name/address. You need to report him to stop him from doing the same thing to other girls!
See, these guys that go much younger? They never, ever, care about the person, no matter WHAT they say. And, after they use you up and spit you out,, they will go looking for another body that is the age you once were.
Get it? Guys that like young keep going back for NEW young people. SO, even if he claims to love you, it’s a lie. He will only love you until you age a few years – then you will be too old for him to enjoy USING you any more.
Do you want to be used? Ok, so you were abused as a child, break the cycle, you deserve an HONEST LOVE RELATIONSHIP, not some guy that will use you as spare body parts to screw!!!!
Dear young girl:
Please report this old pervert man. You were not old enough to consent to the sex, so he actually raped you.
That’s right, legally he could not have sex with you, even if you said OK at the time.
Please call the police, child protection services, ask your guardian to press charges against him.
Hopefully you know his full name/address. You need to report him to stop him from doing the same thing to other girls!
See, these guys that go much younger? They never, ever, care about the person, no matter WHAT they say. And, after they use you up and spit you out,, they will go looking for another body that is the age you once were.
Get it? Guys that like young keep going back for NEW young people. SO, even if he claims to love you, it’s a lie. He will only love you until you age a few years – then you will be too old for him to enjoy USING you any more.
Do you want to be used? Ok, so you were abused as a child, break the cycle, you deserve an HONEST LOVE RELATIONSHIP, not some guy that will use you as spare body parts to screw!!!!
Dear young girl:
Please report this old pervert man. You were not old enough to consent to the sex, so he actually raped you.
That’s right, legally he could not have sex with you, even if you said OK at the time.
Please call the police, child protection services, ask your guardian to press charges against him.
Hopefully you know his full name/address. You need to report him to stop him from doing the same thing to other girls!
See, these guys that go much younger? They never, ever, care about the person, no matter WHAT they say. And, after they use you up and spit you out,, they will go looking for another body that is the age you once were.
Get it? Guys that like young keep going back for NEW young people. SO, even if he claims to love you, it’s a lie. He will only love you until you age a few years – then you will be too old for him to enjoy USING you any more.
Do you want to be used? Ok, so you were abused as a child, break the cycle, you deserve an HONEST LOVE RELATIONSHIP, not some guy that will use you as spare body parts to screw!!!!
The old guy has to have money. These old guys with their stories about how they can get any young women they want is true only if they have money. All of the women I know who go afetr old guys do it for the money. The guy is so greatdul that he will give his last penny to keep things going. The women say that they cheat because the old guy can’t function in bed. The women can sleep with as many men as she did before the old guy. He will put up with just about anything. There is really no downside to chasing old guys – you get money and get to have fun with other men too. Well the only downside is that they are ugly and limp but it pays well and it’s not forever.
as spoken from a 60yr old man wanting a 15yr old girl…lol
First of all you shouldn’t sleep with a man who is 50+. Do you think you love him when you start sleeping with him. How doesn’t it feel to sleep with a man who can be your grandpa or your father. Specially being 16 and to sleep with old man. That is so sick of him even to try to go out with or sleep with you. He must be sick man. You will get a man your age or closer not that old man.
Now what you have to do is Don’t sleep with man who is 40+ since you are 16.
what were you guys talk when you were together? Do you have any thing to talk about? Do you feel proud when you go out with him or you feel embarrased to go out with him because he is like a father/ grandfather to you. That is not fun at all to feel embarrased around people who look at you to be with an old man enough to be your father/grandfather.
So you don’t have to feel guilty about any thing happen to him because he is old enough to take care himself. Because he knew what he was doing. any thing happen to him is not your fault.
So just start your own life with out him. and forget him and do good job at your school and work because you have many years to do what you can do. Just forget about him like never happen. Eventually you will never ever remember him. If you just stop thinking about him what happen any thing because it doesnt make sense. Because of the big age difference. It doesn’t make you guys look good when you guys together out in public.
You should start dating some one your age or closer than a an old man who is in his 50. He must be sick man to sleep with you. Don’t ever see him again. Just change your email address, phone, or your home if he knew where you live.
HE IS NOT WORTH TOO since he is too old. No matter how much money he will have.
This is my advice to you.
Well hello again
I must wrote of about five times at least on this website about me being 16 and the boyfriend being 51….
Well…. let me tell you this, he lied to me, he is infact 53 and he has also cheated on me over 20 times with his ex wife after he had took my viginity when i was very young!! I am very upset!! hes broke my heart and left me even though he is the one that cheated and lied about his age and lied about loads loads more things too!! I thought he loved me… but i dont understand why he had to lie and cheat. I was also abused by my dad and had an abusive boyfriend before him and he knew that, he made me feel special for once and loved….but he has just gone and made my life even worse by taking my virginty very young just a child and then broke my heart . . . and the worst thing is i am the one feeling guilty not him because he blames me for everything.
So it wasn’t the happy fairy tale i thought it would be
Why men don’t understand when a women said do not love them?
She is not attracted to them. The problem is men never understood what that mean.
How many times ignoring you when she saw you in different places.
How many times ignoring you your phone call.
How many times ignoring you your email.
No matter how much men try to look good to change their look so she can like them. It dosn’t work. It doesn’t matter whether the age difference or not, IF there is no attraction, there is n’t.
Specially she is not attracted to guys who has very small/thin lips.
Specially if the man is way older, He has to find a women his age. It doesn’t work for him to be with that woman. There are many women they will be with him but not her.
She doesn’t love a man she is not attracted to.
She may said before she loves that man but it doesn’t mean she loves him. IF she can’t say to his face she loves him, If she can’t stop her car to talk to him or if she cann’t come out of her car to talk to him. She just watch him and ignoring him like she doesn’t know him. This means she doesn’t love him.
If she loves him she was going to get out of her car to talk to him or she was going to stop her car in order to talk to him. There fore because she is not interested she didn’t do any of this.
There is many reasons why she was ignoring you. I know #1 she is not attracted to you now matter you wear a suit or jeans or nice jucket. It doesn’t matter to her. 2nd you might be too old, 3rd she might think you are not a man for her it doesn’t matter how old you are. 4th she might not like your thin lips. So there is many reasons she will not be attracted to you.
Once she said on email she loves you it doesn’t mean she loves you. Because it was n’t real. She didn’t say it on your face to make you belive that she loves you.
She maight already knew you like her or you love her because she knew from how you talk or action but if she doesn’t love you or like you like you do, There is nothing she can do to change her mind.
SO GET A LIFE FOR YOURSELF. BECAUSE YOU ALREADY KNEW SHE DOESN’T WANT YOU.
Question: how bout if a 57 year old man is in love with a 16 year old? what does she do?? she doesnt think he wil rape her.. but he is capable of it…wat does she do? u think hes gonna rape her?
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Answer: Don’t go near him, because shes only 16, he is too old for her no matter what this shows.
By older men chasing younger woman, they mean in there 30′s or older, not teens!!
I think she should tell someone.
Well I guess we all knew that long before the study has been published. Old men chase young women because men is capable to produce until he is 80 – 90 something which the women can’t. Mikrowelle Edelstahl
i am 16 though, i am not underage therefore it does not make my 51 year old boyfriend a pedofile….right?
Never trust a scientific study that promotes older men dating young women if the article is posted with a bunch of ads for dating single young women. This is just a blog, not an academic journal, so don’t trust this crap. Not everything on the internet is true. I hope people aren’t dumb enough to believe this without question.
I have read scientific studies that suggested that children who were fathered by older men are more likely to suffer from health and developmental conditions, which would make ‘old men chasing young women’ a bad thing. So this study seems in condradiction with other studies I have read on the topic of later life reproduction and quality of life.
It may do some good for an older man to go through the act of reproduction, but it I highly doubt it is beneficial to anyone else involved: the young mother or the child. I say this because she the liklihood of being widowed younger is much higher than it would be if she had been mated with a man as young as she, such stresses on women tend to lower longevity. And the conflicting studies I mentioned earlier.
I think that people, not just men, are living longer due to medical advancements and improved living conditions, not because they are creating children later on in life.
to helpp me:
is this a serious comment? This isn’t the kind of comment that even belongs on this page. If you think he’s going to maybe rape you, then stay away from him. or get help.
how bout if a 57 year old man is in love with a 16 year old? what does she do?? she doesnt think he wil rape her.. but he is capable of it…wat does she do? u think hes gonna rape her?
anyone coming on here and ranting and raving about how gross age differences are- grow up. I don’t know if you’re bitter or just stupid but if you haven’t been in this kind of relationship, you sure as heck don’t have any RIGHT to say anything. Let people learn for themselves about their relationships. Love doesn’t always happen the way society believes it should or the way people might have thought it would. True love happens often when we don’t expect it. Genuine love makes a person accept their partner’s flaws and it makes something like an age gap seem so infignificant.
To the people coming on here because they want support- you don’t need to find it here. The only support you really need is yourself and your partner’s. Always trust your instincts- if you truly believe that your relationship is genuine, your instincts will tell you. Sometimes it’s hard to deal with the looks people may give or the whispering you might feel between strangers but they have NO idea what your relationship is like and how beautiful it must be to conquer the “taboo age gap”
People in this country judge and judge until it consumes them. Age is not a big deal in many other parts of the world. The people coming on here and writing ignorant little comments should be using the time they’re wasting on here to actually HELP a good cause or be more concerned about a REAL PROBLEM in relationships like domestic abuse.
An age gap is NOT A REAL relationship problem. There are consequences to having an age gap but I can tell you that from reading about many of your relationships that your relationships are probably more strong and more beautiful than your “standard relationship”.
DON”T LISTEN to these people discrediting your relationships. You find out what’s best for you. These people don’t know you, your partner, or your relationship.
Take Care.
Ok so the thing is only you know your relationship and only you know in your gut about if this guy is genuine and if your relationship is genuine.
The problem is the fact that you’re 2 years from being “legal”. You also have to ask yourself a series of questions about what you want out of a future mate/spouse. Do you see yourself as someone who eventually wants kids?
The best advice I ever took was that if something is meant to be, it will be. Maybe you should take some time to live the rest of your teens/young adulthood life and see what else is out there for you. You don’t want to miss out on this time in your life. I am only 21 but when I look back on myself at 16 and myself now- it’s a huge difference!! When you’re 16 you think you know EVERYTHING about life and love and nobody can tell you that you’re wrong (that’s how I was and how about every single other 16 year old I’ve ever known.) I have a psychology foundation to play on as well and I can tell you that you have so much more growth to do physically and emotionally.
There are so many stupid comments on here and ignorant and bitter people but I honestly feel for you and want to lend my best “anonymous” advice to you. Live a little and if you and this guy are truly destined to be together, you will be. Of course there are also fears about him deteriorating much faster than you but most of the time quality is far better than quantity (time being the quantity in this case).
Do some soul searching and really try to take a step back and figure out if what you have with this man is true love. If it isn’t, don’t settle. You’re WAY too young. And believe me you will understand the older you get how young 16 is. I’m realizing how young 21 is and I feel decades older than when I was 16.
Hope this helps a little
Good luck girl, I’m feeling for you as a fellow member of an “age-gap” couple.
I have always been attracted to older men, they have character, they are laid back, responsible and caring and the sex isn’t 5 minutes, it can be hours, if your me. My lover is 35 years older than me, and I really couldn’t care what others think, life is short, I’m getting my degree at University and I see him once every few months. It’s really hard though feelings so strongly about someone and them being so far away. For all you girls or ladies out there who have older guys, its because they are more appealling, and its natural! They know what they are doing in the bedroom!! If you are in love, and you know that you will never want to be with anyone else, take the chance, not many people can find true love, and who cares about the age, I mean, were all people.
Good Luck in love!!!
Ok… here is my email… julie.saar@hotmail.com
I have the exact same situation, don’t worry.. please email me.. Because I completely understand.. I started my relationship when I was 16 and he was 51, Now I’m 18, and he is 53, and eventually we won’t to have a baby together.. Don’t worry, your baby won’t have a defect, but please can we talk.
Thank you
Whoever you are I really need to talk to you, because I have the exact same situation, same age difference, we need to talk, I need someone who understands!!!
I suggest you grow up and keep your thoughts to yourself.. Obviously you have never been in love before, so you don’t know what it’s like. Personally these people have a right to be in love with whoever they wish. Rape is when it is against a persons will to have sex. If two people are in love let them. Don’t make such a big deal!
You’re the gross one. You are the one that cannot find real love because you are putting conditions. you should shut up and let other live happy.
What ever idiot who wrote about yucky old men with young bimbos has never found love. it’s obvious that that person is the insecure one because he/she is afraid to find real love. Real love has nothing to do with the age. if other people have found their love of their lives with a huge age gap, it’s clear that they are letting their heart try to find their true love. I hope that everyone will live a beautiful and happy life with whatever person they choose, no matter the age difference!!!
I also want to thank you very much for what you have said. Age has nothing to do with love and I definitely agree that those idiots that come and say stupid things should grow up. My love and i have a 32 age difference and he is the best person ever in my life. He is the world to me and he makes me feel very loved. Thank YOu very much for this hope!!
it was well said. Life is too short, and besides, you want to spend the rest of your life with someone that makes you feel comfortable, loved, and beautiful. I am 20 years old and the love of my life is 48 years old. I do NOT at all care of what others think. He is the man of my life and I have decided to stay with him. We have a beautiful relationship. I make him feel young and handsome, and he makes me feel beautiful and he loves me sooooo much!! Best Wishes for you!
16 year old girls- YOU ARE STUPID!!!!
1. You are not 18, your are 16… YOU ARE NOT LEGAL.
2. Until you are 18, an age difference of 3 years + is considered statutory rape.
3. Once again, you are stupid. Find a boy your own age, because you are still a child.
I am very happy that you have met this wonderful person. I can relate to you because I am also into a girl that is about 25 years younger than me. I will have to tell you that as long as there is love between you both, you should still consider staying with her. She does seem like a very responsible, mature, young woman. The people out there are not the ones that are going to live your life. It’s your life and it definitely does NOT matter what any person in the world says or thinks. The important thing is that you both are comfortable with each other and that you are both happy. Age does not matter, It’s love that counts. I wish you both the best!!
Is your family aware of this situation. If not tell someone right away. Something terrible wrong with a man that can not communicate with someone his own age. You are talking about a forty plus age different. Are you sure he not on sex offender register list? Please tell someone you trust. Take your time and wait until you are mature to have anyone baby.
is that possible to marry an old man with 39 years of age gap?
with a 22 year old girl who has never been married yet for the rest of her life????
61 year old man loves the 22 year old so much!!!
ready to give everything to the 22 year old girl
he has 4 kids and all his kids are older than the 22 year old girl,divorced with his wife… mets a 22 year old girl
and convincing the girl to marry him…
if your the 22 year old girl would you marry the 61 year old man???
You wrote a paragraph with ‘statistics’ and ‘facts’ and a very strong opinion that older men being with younger women is a very bad idea and in fact likely to be harmful to any children born from such a union, and followed it up with a sentence that basically said ‘Unless he has money.’ Seriously? Unreal.
you don’t need a bunch of anonymous people to back you up. Go with your gut instinct about your relationship and do it or don’t do it. Whatever you do, do what makes you happy. Life is short.
stop !!!!!!!!!!!
I’m 25 years old.
I just met a 16 year old girl…we’ve been talking innocently, getting to know each other, etc (via text, facebook, hanging out once).
How should I handle this situation? I’m not trying to get her in bed – I just want to get to know her (and wouldn’t mind taking her out).
But – the whole under 18 thing is such taboo that I’m worried about what it will do to my reputation. Do I keep it secret? Do I drop it? Do we sneak around? Do we just come out and say it?
Some serious, constructive advice would be appreciated…thank you.
Hi, I am a 28 year-old woman married to a 51 year-old man. We are both divorced, and have children from our previous marriage. The first time we met, I was 16 and he was 38. Our relationship lasted for about 4 years, but he was married at the time, and I decided that was not I wanted for my life. So, we broke up and went separate ways. I met someone else, got married and had 2 kids. I was married for about 6 years. He on the other hand, met other women, but was never happy, he eventually got a divorce from first wife. After 7 years living in a different country, me in the US and him in Brazil. We have decided that is time for us to live this love, and live life to the fullest together. He is the love of my life, and I know that he loves me, too. I make him feel younger and he makes me feel secure and loved. We have a lot in common and have a great sex life. I don’t care of what others will think about us. It is all about being happy.
Me and my boyfriend are trying for a baby so does that mean my baby could have a birth defect if i am just 16 years old and he is 51 years old?
that’s really worried me now. I want babies with him and i want to live with him when i leave school i love him so much 
Please help
Superbe article, vraiment simple et utile. Bravo pour sa mise en ligne. C’est ce genre d’information que le public (et moi en particulier) recherche
Social stigma might be the least of your concerns. My intention is not to make any judgments regarding your age difference, but you would be wise to keep your relationship completely platonic for purely legal reasons, at least until you educate yourself about the laws in your respective state(s). In many states, sexual contact(NOT JUST INTERCOURSE) between someone your age and someone her age is illegal. If you live in different states and have to cross state lines to be together, you could be commiting a serious federal felony offense. Even if a romantic/sexual relationship between the two of you is legal in your respective states, be very careful about the types of things you send each other over the internet. For example, if your relationship did become sexual in nature and she sent you any pictures of herself of a sexual nature, this could be a federal offense punishable by a potential mandatory five year sentence. I base this advice on several years experience as a criminal defense attorney at the local and federal level.
I personally think the “SCIENTIFIC THEORY” here is just one view, and prob. an only view of its kind, that make older men who chase younger women jump on it as argument for defense. Meanwhile there are scientific facts that older sperm contains more mutations, may have problem with insemination process, produces children with higher percentage of birth defects, and the children are also scientifically proven to die younger. How is that supposed to be great for the evolution of the species? It’s true that BOTH MALE AND FEMALE’s reproductive capabilities decline somewhere around the age of 40. Of course older men want to chase younger women, cuz they can even out their reproductive defects with her young healthy egg to her disadvantage.
I personally think age gap more than 10 yrs is unfair to the woman, unless u’re a man of great resources. But then again who cares about fairness to women, it’s a men’s world after all.
Well hello there
I am infact 16 my self and my boyfriend is 51 years old!!! We have a 35 year age gap which is a big problem and I am having a hard time with his ex wife but I will go through anything to be with him, between you and her it is only a 9 year age gap and it doesn’t matter that she is only 16 if she really likes you I say go for it lol that age gap is not that bad.
a lot of girls like older men because they know how to treat a girl properly and are sweet and caring 
Don’t care what other people think if you like her go for it!! You both should give it ago
It is not illegal to be with her so go for it lol, she is not under age, she is a young adult now and her parents would have to accept that she loved you and they would soon get use to it. Just think what my mum is going to say when I tell her my boyfriend is older then her, she is going to go mad at me. I plan to tell her when I leave school. But if you like her alot don’t hesitate…
Anyway I know I am only 16 but i really hope I helped
Hi, I am a 28 year-old woman married to a 51 year-old man. We are both divorced, and have children from our previous marriage. The first time we met, I was 16 and he was 38. Our relationship lasted for about 4 years, but he was married at the time, and I decided that was not I wanted for my life. So, we broke up and went separate ways. I met someone else, got married and had 2 kids. I was married for about 6 years. He on the other hand, met other women, but was never happy, he eventually got a divorce from first wife. After 7 years living in a different country, me in the US and him in Brazil. We have decided that is time for us to live this love, and live life to the fullest together. He is the love of my life, and I know that he loves me, too. I make him feel younger and he makes me feel secure and loved. We have a lot in common and have a great sex life. I don’t care of what others will think about us. It is all about being happy.
Hi, I am a 37 year old man who has been through two relationships with significantly younger women; both of these didn’t last very long (under one year each). The first was 12 years younger, and the last (my last ex) was 13 years younger; most other people had no problem with these age differences. The funny thing is that it wasn’t the age that caused a problem, but the fact that both of them had hardly anything in common with me, so this caused great strain on our relationship. These are differences that would have clashed no matter what the age. I left the first one for this reason, and the second one I called off because I could tell she wasn’t into me anymore and we had different views on some important moral issues within a relationship (eg, she was bi-sexual and promiscuous by nature, while I’m into monogamy, but I don’t care if someone is gay or not).
The reason why I’m writing here is that I’ve met someone that I’m now “dating” who is 19 years old. I have always sworn to never go near someone younger than 21 let alone a woman who is at the end of her teenage years. I met this women through a family that is friends with my mother. I’m also a guy who doesn’t have any trouble finding a lady for a relationship if I want one, whether they are my age, younger or older, so this isn’t the issue. I’ve also never been successful with “set-ups”, but this time has worked which is another oddity to add to it. The issue is that a couple of my friends, including my ex (though I don’t have any contact with her anymore, but I think this may be due to jealousy rather than a moral stance) have a massive problem with it. These are two of my best friends, although my actual best friend’s opinion is that it shouldn’t matter what other people think if we like each other.
As I said, I normally wouldn’t date someone so young, but the circumstances of us meeting and deciding to date are rather strange, so it feels like an exception to the rule (if there is one).
I met this lady at one of their family gatherings and thought nothing of it. The next time I saw my mother, she suggested that N and I would be a good couple together. I was shocked and appalled that my own mother would think such a thing. I told her that it was a “hair brained idea”, & then half jokingly said she should ask N’s mother what she thought of this stupid idea, then “wait for the slap in the face you’re going to get as an answer.” So she did ask her mother, to my disbelief N’s mother thought it was a good idea as well (they both decided to let N & I see if we’d hit it off, so it was more of a nudge than a full on set up). Anyway, the whole of N’s family is cool with it as well; I actually felt a bit pressured but soon discovered that N and I have a hell of a lot in common; same taste in music, both movie buffs (and have the same taste in these), both are a “little old fashioned” when it comes to relationships, see eye to eye on a lot of issues, etc. We are both sick of partners who want to jump headlong into things (like sex; we haven’t done this part yet; she and I are finding this refreshing because we’re both used to impulsiveness in the opposite sex, and to have no pressure for it is making things more comfortable). I have honestly never met a woman who I have so much in common with where it counts before.
So everything is perfect really except there is the age difference. We’ve discussed it a couple of times, the first time when we had our first date, and the the last time we caught up when N said, “I can’t understand these people that have a problem with age.” This really put my mind at ease.
We are both cool with it, but what worries me is the stigma attached to it and the effects it will have on a relationship if it goes that far; I’ve already been called up on it by a couple of friends, and I suspect maybe some others may be thinking the same thing. As for myself, this is an exception to my strict rule, because she is very mature for her age as well as having a lot in common, partly because she acts like the mother in her family (3 other younger siblings); the real mother is hardly around. On the plus side, I look a lot younger than my age (sometimes people think I am in my early to mid twenties), but she also looks younger than her age, so I know we are going to get funny looks. Normally this would matter, but I really like her and we’ve both said, “We don’t care what anyone else thinks”.
Any comments would be much appreciated.
of course!!!!! evolutionary processes are always obvious common sense stuff. young a-holes reproduce right before they die in a dare involving fire and a bottle of 151 passing on idiot genes. older men who avoid destroying themselves in teenage years are more likely to have genes that lead to longevity.
unfortunately the dumber and poorer you are the more likely you are to reproduce in the first place. that’s a common factor in nature as well, as a dying population will reproduce in greater numbers in the hopes of creating viable offspring.
I’m 55, and I prefer dating women my own age, because I’m actually able to have a meaningful conversation with them.
The only reason that I’d like to date younger women is a matter of size: I’m rather well-endowed and younger women tend to be more elastig where it counts. The last 2 parnters I had the last 7 years really had problems with it.
Another minor advantage younger women seem to have is that they’re not so set in their ways. I am really a very flexible guy (I find it easy to adapt to almost any circumstance), and women my age tend to know what the want and don’t want, even if it costs them their love.
However, lately I have been rejected a lot of times by women my own age, and I really miss a mate in my life.
And there was this stunningly beautiful 20-ish young artist and we were talking about spiritiality, tantra and sexuality. And as a kind of joke I said that it would be easier to demonstrate tantric principles with her rather than talk about is, and she answered: “fine” I was taken awestruck, and couldn’t think anything but: “You ‘re WAY too young for me” and I hoped that she was just trying to tease me, have me eat my words. But during the rest of the evening she made it quite clear that she wasn’t kidding.
But when the evening ended, I let her go home alone, thinking: “you’re an absolute stunner, and I’d love to love you, but for now I’ll restrain myself”
I have her phone-number, but haven’t called her because I’m too undecided about dating such a young person.
I tried talking to my friend (he is her sculpture-teacher) that threw the party where I met her, and he answered: I ‘ll invite her for dinner and you come too. That was not the response I was looking for.
And there is another thing that bothers me, in the last 17 years I have tried to get two women that I had a relation with (not at the same time) to get them pregnant, and although we went through the whole IVF procedure, we were unsuccesful.
Somehow I feel that it isn’t fair to the young woman in question to burden her with someone who can’t produce children. Even if she’s not interested in children now, this may change over time.
On the other hand, she is young enough, so she has a lot of time to have children.
Reading the responses on this site, it has given me hope, somehow, that it could be possible to have a loving relation with her.
I’m more interested into love than sex, I’m dreaming that she could be my muse (I’m a photographer/graphic designer) and I’m scared erm… fartless to approach her.
I have been a therapist for several years, and I do know all the pitfalls about dating younger women, and yet still……..
Heck, I wish things were a lot easier in life
I started seeing a wonderful 20 yr old woman when I was 50. She sought me out and I even tried to discourage her. But she was absolutely beautiful, thin, attractive, and surprisingly, we were able to get along just wonderfully, often talking for hours. It quickly blossomed into both an emotional and physical relationship and the sex was unbelievably good. I was certain that she would not be satisfied or would eventually lose her attraction for me, but this did not happen. She had plenty of other men after her that she could easily be with, but even though we were separated by 300 miles, we still kept the relationship going strong. She eventually cheated, but remained very strong in the relationship and continued having a physical relationship with me. She was honest about seeing another guy more her age, but wanted very much for us to continue seeing each other when we could.
The age difference caused some problems, but not like you’d normally suspect. It wasn’t a communication issue (though she was used to short messages on text and IM and I preferred longer messages) it was more the fact that she was so young and attractive and yes, very sexual that was the main difference. And I accepted this. I could not expect her to be true to a guy my age especially when we only got to see each other every month or so. I knew she had a dating and sex life that she was going to pursue, and I really in good conscience couldn’t forbid it, though I was greatly hurt by her cheating.
But as long as we are still able to see each other I find that I can handle it. We use phones to stay in touch primarily, and send a lot of pictures and videos and keep things pretty hot and heavy.
I know it’s not ideal, but the fact remains that this has been one of the best relationships of my life. While I wish she was faithful, she is also very honest and open and I love so much about her and her personality. She’s caring and thoughtful and intelligent and she truly cares about me.
What’s not to love? As to the article, I don’t know, but I can testify that this relationship has put a new bounce in my step and I feel half my age and it just brings a joy and excitement into my life.
Is it allowed for a 16 year old girl to date and sleep with a 51 year old man? Is it allowed because the legal age is 16 or would he still get into trouble? I am confused…please help
good for you!! I’m 19 and completly adore a guy thats 10 years older than me! I just havn’t found the courage to tell him yet and not because of the age, firstly just because i was nervous.. but now i have a feeling he may think i’m too young.. which to me is ridiculous!!
If the person is old man, any women shouldn’t stay or sleep with an older man specially if he is twice your age. Because in 10 years he is going to change completely to an old old man. So even if the old man loves a younger woman he will never ever get to sleep with her. He can be as friend may be but she will never ever have a normal conversation with an older men. Because there is a difference with age gap that will make it harder to understand. He can chase her or follow her but he will never ever will sleep with her.
Because there is nothng she will do with him. That is why she always ignore him when she always sees him because there is no attraction for an older men even a younger men specially for her is nothing wheather you have a monery or change your look or go to the gim or look younger. there is nothing will change her maind.
There are lots of women who want a man an older with money or younger with money or someone who goes to the gim to fit himself, some who change or some one who give gifts or taking out to eat or have a good converstaion with then they sleep right away with these kinds of guys wich is good for them but not for her. They can do any thing or every thing but she will never change her mind.
So specially older guys who are older than her twice or more than twice, you will never going to sleep with her. When she always ignore you, what do you think guys because she is not attracted to you. That is the reason other wise she already knew how much you like her but if she doesn’t feel the same the way you feel about her there is nothing she will do other than ignoring you.
There are lots women who wants a men like you and they are waiting for you but not her. She doesn’t need you, doesn’t want to you get a life.
I am dating an older guy. He is 53 and I am 25. Im not desperate, I have men coming after me all the time and at 1st he started off just like them…. LAME amd chasing tail, but he showed me something different. I make him feel young, he makes me feel beautiful. Life is too short and if this man makes me feel happy for another week, month, year, or years I will take it.
I love my boyfriend so much. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me. People who come on here just to say nasty things such as (Yucky old men with yucky young bimbos = EWWWW!!!) should just grow up a bit just mind your own business. I am very young and even i know that is very childish.
Loving my boyfriend no matter what
only ugly, stupid, messed up, or insecure women would be desperate enough to sleep with a perverted geezer with a combover. if you are one of these old leches, you should remember that quality women of ANY age would not touch you with a ten foot pole. if you’re okay with dating the dregs of the young women pool, then go for it. you deserve each other.
…Science is not a religion. Scientists publish studies which are then open to review by the outside world. Just because a study is done under the guise of science doesn’t make it good science, and it doesn’t make its conclusions true or meaningful for humankind (which is the whole point). Even scientists know this. SCIENTIFIC does not equal true or proven. It just means that it is a part of a process that aspires to approximate truth as closely as possible. Sometimes science fails tragically. I hate to sound pedantic, but you are clearly undereducated in this area. I suggest enrolling in a Philosophy of Science 101 course at your nearest community college.
If everything is so great, why aren’t you married? You’ve been together 3 years? Your engaged? Have a 1 yrs old child? Whats the hold up?
Thank you so much for these wonderful words. I’m 20 dating a 48 year old and I love him to death. We get along so well, and like you and your man, it just happened. I never thought I’d date an older man, but I’m glad I took a chance on him. Its been worth it.
You know why people say sh*t about such huge age gaps?
Because it is fucking gross.
I read perhaps half of these comments before I said “enough, I have found the common denominator.” The majority of you are applying social, personal criteria to what is a SCIENTIFIC study. Your personal lives and opinions are immaterial to the scientific, evolutionary point being made. The authors of the study have made a real contribution in the field, and I applaud them for it. A man capable of attracting and impregnating a much younger woman would seem to have superior genes, which he is passing on into the gene pool. THAT is the point being made. Who cares if one particular 20 year-old girl or another is personally disgusted? Don’t date/mate older men, terrific, you are just not part of this scenario. I also applaud those of you for whom English is obviously a second language, and despite this, you contributed and made your points. Charles P, New Jersey, USA.
I just think that this is a little strange and I don’t see how reproducing with a old man helps. How is he supposed to help out with his kids when dementia hits and he’s sitting, bed ridden in a retirement home gumming a fruit cup while watching Lawerence Welk? Or is this just an excuse for pervy old goats to continue chasing after young girls, even when their junk is quickly rotting away? (Which, as I write for all us 20-something girls out there, is super creepy. We like older men, not older men that we’ll have to check into the nursing home along with our grandfather. Please, stop leering at us and find someone your OWN age)
Now, it may be true that some may/december romances work out, but they are very, *very* rare. For the most part older men that go for girls 15+ their junior have major issues and can’t handle being with someone their own age and it mainly becomes about control. It’s so creeper.
Most of the time this results in bad relationships and at times bad parenting, mainly because the delusional old goat probably thinks he’s hot shit and just wants to tag a 20-something and later control the 20-something, which has nothing to do with love and when there is no love, the centre cannot hold when it comes to relationships, child rearing, or otherwise.
But that’s just my two cents….
I have read what alot of poeple have said here…some say its good some say its bad, i think its not really to do with age anymore, i think it has to do with the person you are with.
if he is youngh and caring and loving great, if he is older and loving and caring-great, but i mean come on older and younger men can be assholes aswell never mind what age they are!!!
If someone only wants you for one thing or he treats you bad or speaks to you in a rude manner or what ever the case may be, its the person them selves, not his age!!!
i must admit i do prefer older men myself, but a few weeks ago i met the sweetest guy who is closer to my age than what i normally go for…
hope someone sees the sense….
A lot of the criticisms here apply to age-matched relationships too.
Yeah dating an older man is not for me. Sex is terrible. He sleeps half the time…etc. I don’t want to be seen in public with him half the time. Don’t date older men, it’s not worth it.